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Patience
Like rockandfire said, it takes patience and persistence. I guess in my mind you guys are afraid to send a G rated picture someone could get off your FB page to a CL ad but you'll text and show up at a hotel to see a BP gal who may be nothing like she has portrayed herself or worse, call one to come to where you are!
I guess we all have our own ways of hobbying. I'm an old man, been on the road and in the hobby for decades and just know what works for me and what I think is safe.
One better way to success on CL is to look at massage ads (or casual encounter ads that mention massages), show up and eventually ask for extras (no bumb-arses don't let that be the 1st thing out of your mouth), and work into a more intimate arrangement over time. Worst case is you have an ugly gal give you a tug and certainly for way less than $. Best case is you negotiate for some ad ons and end up with a new FWB long term (for whatever that means in this hobby, a month or years).
I posted an ad looking for a certain type of woman last week and got dozens of spam ads and one legit response that I am working on.
How to spot spammers:
Poor grammar; the foreign spammers use language translation programs that usually make nonsensical statements or broken English. If you get that delete it.
For whatever the reason these spammers will say "email me at xxxxxx. Gmail". If it has a ". " right before the amber sign then its spam. Just learned by experience. Looks like they'd learn.
If you get a response that does not specifically address what you advertised for its spam, ex) I advertised for mature black women and they respond with a generic "Hi babes, sounds good, I'm horny and want to met right now email me at sugarwalls. Gmail" then its spam.
They are way too anxious; I post an ad on Tuesday saying I will be available on Thursday and I get a response in 20 minutes saying "Oh babes can you come over right now, I'm fingering my wet pussy and can't wait!
DON'T send your phone in the 1st email or the 2nd, and maybe not the 3rd. Otherwise you'll get robo texts or robo calls. (hopefully all of you are beyond the point that you need to be told to go to WalMart and get a burner phone.).
Legit gals want legit guys and they have their way to vet you out and get comfortable, you just have to work the deal.
And NO, none of the Sr members are going to go met someone, be sure the coast is clear, its safe, she doesn't have an std, then invite you to come over and get off. This hobby doesn't work that way. You don't get to show up and pop after someone else has done all the sweat equity.
None of this is foolproof or means you won't get taken advantage of (see my recent post in 'ripoffs') but the goal is to minimize risks and maximize your pleasure opportunities.
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Casual encounters
Has anyone ever tried the lady that has daily advertisements using phone# 919-xxx-8395? I don't want to go in blindly if you guys can help. Craigslist can be scary!
Safe hunting.
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Alexa
She posts on CL have not pulled the trigger wanted to know if anyone has had experience with her.
Alexa, does sensual body massage at home in Matthews. Pic attached!128077;Monroe road near 51. Massage table, clean linens, oils, candles, music, etc. Backside massage. Then front. Happy included✋65039;129306;129307;129308;9994;65039;128075;129308; Shower available.
Due to high number of fakes. 4 EMAIL Limit! 😀.
$50 for 60 minutes. EXTRAS available.
$35 for 30 minutes.
Also $80 for 4 hand massage by female and male. Extras avail.
Matthews.
Monroe road near 51.
WEEKDAYS after 2 pm until 10 pm.
Weekend. Typically 9 am to 9 pm with notice.
If you are Respectful and polite please reply. 😀.
Rude and aggressive, no. 😡.
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[QUOTE=Jrzyboy;3602277]She posts on CL have not pulled the trigger wanted to know if anyone has had experience with her.
Alexa, does sensual body massage at home in Matthews. Pic attached!128077;Monroe road near 51. Massage table, clean linens, oils, candles, music, etc. Backside massage. Then front. Happy included✋65039;129306;129307;129308;9994;65039;128075;129308; Shower available.
Due to high number of fakes. 4 EMAIL Limit! 😀.
$50 for 60 minutes. EXTRAS available.
$35 for 30 minutes.
Also $80 for 4 hand massage by female and male. Extras avail.
Matthews.
Monroe road near 51.
WEEKDAYS after 2 pm until 10 pm.
Weekend. Typically 9 am to 9 pm with notice.
If you are Respectful and polite please reply. 😀.
Rude and aggressive, no. 😡.[/QUOTE]Posts under what on CL?
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[QUOTE=Jrzyboy;3602277]She posts on CL have not pulled the trigger wanted to know if anyone has had experience with her.
Alexa, does sensual body massage at home in Matthews. Pic attached!128077;Monroe road near 51. Massage table, clean linens, oils, candles, music, etc. Backside massage. Then front. Happy included✋65039;129306;129307;129308;9994;65039;128075;129308; Shower available.
Due to high number of fakes. 4 EMAIL Limit! 😀.
$50 for 60 minutes. EXTRAS available.
$35 for 30 minutes..[/QUOTE]I have seen her. The picture is deceiving / She is heaver then the picture appears. Nice woman. Good massage. HE at the end. Her husband was in the other room and approached me and asked me how I liked it. Kind of odd. He texted me later and told me more options was available if I wanted. I never did return. Just not my type.
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Need Massage
[QUOTE=Jdog1;3602662]Posts under what on CL?[/QUOTE]When posting they are in casual encounters that might say "Need Massage" (Mathews) I think all communication / scheduling is done thru him.
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[QUOTE=HDLover;3602721]When posting they are in casual encounters that might say "Need Massage" (Mathews) I think all communication / scheduling is done thru him.[/QUOTE]I had looked through there but did not see an ad posted like what was copied. Seems like attaching the link would be alot easier.
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[QUOTE=Jdog1;3602722]I had looked through there but did not see an ad posted like what was copied. Seems like attaching the link would be alot easier.[/QUOTE]You reply thru Craigslist and they send that info back thru Craigslist email. The ad will only say Need Massage and there are a few of them from all over.
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[QUOTE=HDLover;3602727]You reply thru Craigslist and they send that info back thru Craigslist email. The ad will only say Need Massage and there are a few of them from all over.[/QUOTE]I gotcha. Thanks.
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Both
[QUOTE=MikeAustin;3598334]Just out of curiosity but did you guys post in the casual encounters or the platonic ones.[/QUOTE]I've posted in casual and Long Term. WAY more spam from casual. However 2 of the ladies I've seen both came from there. The others have come from either me replying to their ad or the Long term section. If you have a specific taste in skin, body, hair, etc. Make that your subject. Helps the real ladies identify themselves as special. All the ladies I've talked to have expressed their displeasure and humer over all the dick pics. Don't fucking do it. No serious woman wants a pic of your nasty dick. If they liked that shit we would all be walking around with our cocks out advertising all the time.
Set up a meeting for lunch or drinks before fucking. They want to know you are both serious and real. Just like we do. Spring for the meal even if she's a hag and no connection. Walk out if it's not the girl in the pic. She will donthem same to you.
Seriously CL sucks and is a lot of work, but there are diamonds in the ruff. Since Feb I've met with 6 ladies in person. Could have scored with all but only 2 fit my taste. Not bad for nothing but time and maybe 200 bucks in lunches lost. The one I was weekly with and sometimes more for 5 months. Closet freak professional. Best partnership I've ever had. That are out there. Just don't be a douche.
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[QUOTE=RockAndFire23;3603452]I've posted in casual and Long Term. WAY more spam from casual. However 2 of the ladies I've seen both came from there. The others have come from either me replying to their ad or the Long term section. If you have a specific taste in skin, body, hair, etc. Make that your subject. Helps the real ladies identify themselves as special. All the ladies I've talked to have expressed their displeasure and humer over all the dick pics. Don't fucking do it. No serious woman wants a pic of your nasty dick. If they liked that shit we would all be walking around with our cocks out advertising all the time.
Set up a meeting for lunch or drinks before fucking. They want to know you are both serious and real. Just like we do. Spring for the meal even if she's a hag and no connection. Walk out if it's not the girl in the pic. She will donthem same to you.
Seriously CL sucks and is a lot of work, but there are diamonds in the ruff. Since Feb I've met with 6 ladies in person. Could have scored with all but only 2 fit my taste. Not bad for nothing but time and maybe 200 bucks in lunches lost. The one I was weekly with and sometimes more for 5 months. Closet freak professional. Best partnership I've ever had. That are out there. Just don't be a douche.[/QUOTE]Thanks for all the advise and I tried in both sections but got nothing but spam. I might try one last time before my patience runs out.
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Asian off Monroe rd
She's fairly attractive and friendly. Not worth the price though. 1. 4. You'll leave happy. That's the only highlight. Stay's fully clothed. No teasing, but flip and right to it. Paid for an hour and was back in my car after 40 min.
[URL]https://charlotte.craigslist.org/thp/d/attractive-asian-female/6373345008.html[/URL]
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[QUOTE=LkDude33;3613323]She's fairly attractive and friendly. Not worth the price though. 1. 4. You'll leave happy. That's the only highlight. Stay's fully clothed. No teasing, but flip and right to it. Paid for an hour and was back in my car after 40 min.
[URL]https://charlotte.craigslist.org/thp/d/attractive-asian-female/6373345008.html[/URL][/QUOTE]$140 was that the price or price plus tip?
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[QUOTE=Jdog1;3613912]$140 was that the price or price plus tip?[/QUOTE]The price.
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[QUOTE=LkDude33;3615905]The price.[/QUOTE]Way overpriced and 40 minutes to boot. Guess as long as they get it they will keep doing it.