General replies to several posts
I have had two profiles, but one got banned a while back for 'pictures not of the person'. They would reactivate if I took a selfie w / my California DL and sent it. No thanks. So I am down to 1. They weren't all that different. I use only fake pics (of 1 guy) on my profiles, I used different ones on the different profiles. Some of the phraseology was different, but I definitely didn't have one that was sweet and one that was bad ass.
The kinky profiles you guys mentioned seem to me to really skirt the boundaries of the TOS and their current concern with removing all sorts of pseudo-soliciting stuff from the site. Thyere is an attempt for re-branding the site, to more of a dating site than a sex site. Better publicity, less risk of FOSTA.
I think there are too many profiles for them to have human moderators look at all of them. They might have bots scan profiles for red flags, but what gets the mods to personally look at your profile is any changes. I think that is what caught one OP. It wasn't the stuff that was added, it is just that they had never really looked at the other stuff on the profile. Once a change was made they had to approve, they looked at the whole thing and realized it wasn't OK w / the new boss.
I will take girls of a lot of types, so I don't want to scare off the sweet GNDs with my bad-ass profile. However, I am amazed how I have messaged a girl 2-3 times and never gotten a response, but I can get her to pay attention no matter how innocent her profile looks. Perhaps she looked at my profile, but that's it. I have a standard message I send, it isn't a TOS violation, but it is fairly kinky, about her seeking a dominant man without even realizing that was why they came to the site. I am amazed how often that gets a response.