Being Rinsed aka Ripped off by a SB
I felt a need to do a little write up as there seems to be an increase in the amount of girls trying to "Rinse" or promise arrangements to guys with no intentions of any real intimacy. Of course, we all think "it would not be me" but the reality is most of us have been taken advantage of at some point or another if you have been in this game long enough. They will try real hard to convince you. Some are better actresses than others but I encounter some version almost weekly as I browse SA. As time goes on, I find that I am sticking to my "rules" more often, asking more questions and just saying no. First thing I have noticed is most of these girls are on the younger side, say under 24 years of age as they know they are more desirable and guys will try harder. If it seems too good to be true, it likely IS! Sure, I might miss out on that unicorn once in a while, but I sleep better having known that I was not taken advantage of.
1. Some will push in the beginning with promises to meet up but they discover that they just need a little money for gas to get to you, a tire as they just blew a tire on the way, or Uber / Lyft but they want to pay for their own and have you send them the cash in advance. Maybe they need to pay for a sitter / caregiver. I NEVER send money in advance of meeting someone under ANY circumstances ever. Made that mistake a couple times early on and it was consistently a waste although I am sure someone has an exception to this rule that happened at some time. Just DON'T do it!
2. Some will ask for M&G fees to have you prove that you are serious. Or they will ask you to take them shopping during the date before intimacy. As a rule, if they ask, or suggest that they need to go shopping, that is their problem in my opinion. Now I realize that many of us have mixed views on this and I HAVE heard of some examples of this where the girl asked for zero but guys gave her $100 at the end of the date. I actually have someone that I doing that with as well atm, but we are having actual dates, she is spending the night and it is more like vanilla dating. She is not a virgin but taking it slow. She has NEVER asked for a dime but on the nights she sleeps over and we do a little breakfast the following morning, I have given her $100 for groceries. It's a small amount and I Do appreciate the overnights even if we are not actually having sex. That being said, I feel as she has been overnight three times now in the last two weeks plus two other dates that there might be something real happening. If I am wrong, I actually really appreciate the overnights almost more than the intimacy. She text messages often, we have already made plans for Valentine's day and we have each other's REAL phone numbers. Plus she is actually completely off of SA. The first two dates, she asked for nothing and I gave her nothing. Now we are overnight every time.
3. The next group are the bigger pro's at this. They will meet you. Have dinner / drinks / whatever. They will seem affectionate. You might even get them to your place or a hotel but they will let you touch them, they will show you their tits and let you motorboat, whatever. Just no sex. Likely it is their period and they do not want to do that the first time while they bleed. Maybe they will talk a big game about shopping, restaurants. They know all the high end places and follow them on their Instagram. The girl seems classy. Or maybe they want to do BB with you and want both of you tested beforehand. They will ask you to send them the money so they can get tested. A few days later, maybe just a little as they have to get some necessities from Target or something. Maybe money for a dress for an upcoming dinner you invited them to. They want to look nice for you. They will send you pics of what they bought, and / or receipts. The best pro at this that I met even teased me with BBFSCIP if I would simply send her money for an IUD from the clinic hear her home / school.
4. Often there is a pressing need why they need a large amount of money now as classes are about to be cancelled due to nonpayment of tuition, they wrote a check they were not supposed to for something and a parent monitors their account and it's going to be a big problem if the money is not put right back into the account. It needs to happen right NOW. They are excited about the prospect of being intimate but if you can just give them the money first to deposit and they will stay with you for the rest of the evening. As men, we love to come to the rescue of a girl, especially one we think is going to give it up that night or the next day or two. And if you already gave her a little, what's just a little more. DON'T DO IT!
5. The last group are the worst. They might have seen you even before and were intimate but then had a change of heart. They will make a grab for the money when you are not looking. Maybe you went to the washroom at their request after getting undressed and they ran. Maybe they went to the bathroom and were prepared when they came out. Always keep your money in a separate place that is harder for them to find until you have built significant trust.
Be careful out there.
This is UnsureDarwin's Ariana / Jesse
[QUOTE=StanCopier;6775547]After a year away I got back on SA, here is who I found and who found me:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/542c34c5-4b80-45d5-b564-c4b3412987f9[/URL]
This hottie wants 800, won't budge though she needs money.
[/QUOTE]See what I mean about these girls talk to a lot of guys. She saw UnsureDarwin for 700.
Watch out with madison girl
I matched with her on a dating app a year ago. Pics are old, she's bigger but had insanely large firm breasts that I guess she's had surgery to reduce since we met. Sex was great but she was ready to move in with me after one date. Literally. Not even exaggerating. Something seriously wrong with her. I had to block her and she would continue texting me from random texting app numbers.
[QUOTE=StanKost;6771620][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eaa0239b-6778-4c51-9057-f26def89f43c[/URL]
This one is kind of pushing for straight ppm but given she is older and not that attractive I'm trying to get M&G first. Any intel on allowance, performance, etc.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ba015bb6-18f6-4048-b7a6-802732cad5ff[/URL]
This one lives in Madison and asked to take her to a spa which is a but unorthodox but then said let's just get dinner. Haven't responded after I said I'm OK with dinner but not sure driving all the way there is worthed for an older woman.
Texted the bodybuilder MILF that has been discussed before but hasn't responded but she is sketchy with her texts. May answer in 2 - 3 days when I'll be buried in work.[/QUOTE]
London777 is a working girl
London777.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/50611170-ec09-4a63-aae5-91aeb1715e11[/URL]
When I IM'd her on SA she responded immediately, "did I want to meet today" - Hmm.
Got her number and googled it and sure enough got several hits for escort sites with her picture.
Texted her and her 2nd question was "are you looking to hookup".
Asked for a picture and she sent one and said she had "just taken it". Very average looking. Shame I've met some really hot Russian girls and they love to f*ck!
Quoted me 150 qv, 240 hh, 400 hr. 50 extra for BBFS and anal.
Outcall was 20 deposit or an Uber.
Russian pro. Not my type. Have at it guys!
