Sarah is legit. And very fun
[QUOTE=RaulJulia;5949666]Hey guys,
I'm wondering if anyone has ever tried this place. I suspect it's just a legit massage and nothing else. But the fact that she'll come to your home / hotel room and that she's wearing a short skirt and showing some nice legs in her photo makes me wonder. I bet she gets asked a lot, even if the answer is always "no." Anybody ever tried it? Thanks.
[URL]https://massagebysarah.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]This reminded me to submit a review of Sarah from Tryst. As she says in her ad, she provides massage services. I visited her about a month ago for an early morning 1-hour session. When I first arrived, she greeted me and finished corresponding with someone on her phone. She's quite tall and is more attractive than her pics indicate. Her curvy body is also better in person. She gave me a cute smile and went back to texting. I was concerned that she'd be distracted the whole time.
She led me to the room and allowed me to prepare for my session. When it was time for the session to start, I had her undivided attention. Her massage skills are excellent, she asked my preferences and delivered them perfectly. She got comfortable right away. A lot of teasing, and her technique is very sexy. She used all of her considerable assets to make sure I enjoyed the session. I really did enjoy it!
I was never rushed, and we used the entire time. She never tried to up sell, she delivered the services in her ad. And I paid the prices listed in her ad. I will enthusiastically repeat. She is fantastic.
More explicit information on Sarah's services
[QUOTE=EdBlanston;5949966]This reminded me to submit a review of Sarah from Tryst. As she says in her ad, she provides massage services. I visited her about a month ago for an early morning 1-hour session. When I first arrived, she greeted me and finished corresponding with someone on her phone. She's quite tall and is more attractive than her pics indicate. Her curvy body is also better in person. She gave me a cute smile and went back to texting. I was concerned that she'd be distracted the whole time.
She led me to the room and allowed me to prepare for my session. When it was time for the session to start, I had her undivided attention. Her massage skills are excellent, she asked my preferences and delivered them perfectly. She got comfortable right away. A lot of teasing, and her technique is very sexy. She used all of her considerable assets to make sure I enjoyed the session. I really did enjoy it!
I was never rushed, and we used the entire time. She never tried to up sell, she delivered the services in her ad. And I paid the prices listed in her ad. I will enthusiastically repeat. She is fantastic.[/QUOTE]If you don't want to be more specific on the Board, could you PM me? Reconnaissance information is always helpful what deciding which provider to see.
Care to share any negotiation tips
[QUOTE=Star1967;5958380]I ended up paying $200 total ($60 door fee, $140 tip), but I'm an expert negotiator. I. e. YMMV.[/QUOTE]I have to appreciate your posts with good details that outline what you paid compared to what was first offered. It is likely true you are an expert negotiator. I, on the other hand, am a terrible negotiator. Perhaps what drives my woeful success rate is a fear of killing the mood or vibe to save $60. So I just usually agree and pay. How do you counter with a lower rate without dimming the mood? Asking for a friend. A really good friend. Me. Thanks for any advice.
G2.
Lauren available this evening.
For all the Lauren fans out there, she told me she will be available this evening 5:30-9:00 pm and tomorrow 9:00 am to 3:00 pm.
As always with Lauren, her busy life can change quickly. But she is always worth waiting for.
[URL]https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.com/massage/exotic/lauren/156169333809[/URL]
G2.
Thanks for the primer course.
[QUOTE=Tommey;5959630]Thanks to Benz for the reminder about the newbie guide. Lots of good info there. Yet, I did a quick scan and didn't see much on negotiating. This post was the only one directly on point: [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?31718-New-Member-Guide&p=4532668&viewfull=1#post4532668[/URL].
I suppose there may be more buried in some of the other content there.
For Gene and others' benefit, it may help if members share some more thoughts about getting started with negotiations.
First off, the best advice I have is, just do it. What works for some won't work for everyone, and you simply need to start doing it. After some practice, you will find an approach that works for your voice and conversational style. So start pushing back on price.
It will not ruin the mood, negotiating. The women doing this work are quite accustomed to it. And you can learn a lot about a provider based on how she handles talk of money.
And, of course, always be prepared to walk away. When the money requests get crazy, there is a time to just bag it, and walk away.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the pointers. It would appear I have a lot to learn in this aspect and have been approaching this from the wrong vantage point and my methods have been fundamentally flawed. I await further nuances from those of you who are skilled in negotiating, not just cost, but also level of services or extras provided. I need to become an ardent student of the game.
Thank you all in advance for your continued assistance in the ongoing education of this dude.
G2.
Understanding my limitations.
[QUOTE=Benz1;5960139]Tommey is right, always be willing to walk away, I've done it many times.
Remember the person in charge is the one with the money. Give her the money and you've lost all control of the date.
If I see an escort that tells me there will be cim and she hands me a cover, I head for the door. Most of the time she'll change her mind before I put my hand on the door knob. If she already had the money I would be getting ripped off.
Negotiations are easy at the salon too.
If they know you're worried about mood kill, they will upcharge and rip you off.
The easiest way to negotiate is by only bringing in what you plan to spend. Let them see it but don't give the money until you're satisfied with service.
When they upsell, tell them I only have X.
Be willing to accept whatever they have to offer for your X. If you don't like their offer for X, counter offer and let them know you can do it yourself and save the whole tip. Once you start jerking off in front of them, they usually see their tip disappearing and they join in.[/QUOTE]Normally I consider myself an educated and fairly intelligent man. However, at this time, my woeful lack of skill and basic understanding of the art of this game is painfully evident. While this is a bit embarrassing, I stand ready to learn and realign my expectations and approaches. It appears I need to take a much "longer range" viewpoint to the activities I desire. I need to learn that amount paid or tipped doesn't necessarily translate to better service or extra activities being made available.
I find solace that perhaps numerous other dudes here are in my shoes. And while they may remain silent, they too can learn from this sharing of information and methodologies.
Thank you.
G2.
