Action speaks louder than words.
[QUOTE=GMan25;5835539]Safe money is on they are looking for sugar daddy to exploit, marriage for permanent residency and financial security, and someone to help send money back home. Don't be foolish, they are hustlers.
We have all experienced the provider at a parlor that gets really flirty when you are getting dressed and hints that with repeat visits more might be available (which it isn't). Yes, sometimes that is true, but. I am not going to fall for the scam and being a sucker. That doesn't mean it is impossible, but it is far from likely you won't be strung along to provide them $$/ security etc.[/QUOTE]Yep, we've all been there before. "Next Time" never seems to come. Then suddenly the next visit rolls around and "I'm on period". Or "can't do, boss here today" etc.
I don't fall for that anymore when I say "next time" I just laugh. Another thing I've learned, full service girls reveal themselves usually in the first visit. For them "next time" may not be an option to make FS money.
I found that you know exactly what they're all about by the second visit. Third Time Lucky is usually just a fantasy.
Once a spa girl always a spa girl.
[QUOTE=DPMonger;5834552]You fellas who are in love with Cici or Leah at 558, and are regulars, have you had any in personal conversations that would lead you to believe that they wanted more of a relationship outside the business? I wonder if these girls often want to lure in a specific regular monger or two and make promises or hint at a relationship such as marriage. Is it a ploy for money or residency or do you think they can be genuine? I wonder how one would court such a gal if she hinted, when they work every awaking hour rubbing horns! It would be a tough gig I think and likely a hard endeavor to pull off of trying to get them to lay down for some outside play time in the bed.[/QUOTE]It won't work. I had written something up with more details but then I realize there's some white knights who had revealed my writings to this AMP girl I recently had a relationship with.
Let me generalize. They all live a secret life. Many of them are still married back in China. Some of the older ones are established in Chinatown in Chicago with husbands and children. They can't tell you that because it would ruin the illusion that they are all single and looking for a man. BTW, the younger ones prefer a Chinese boyfriend. The older ones will settle for a fat older American man.
The husbands may or may not be aware of their job and what it entails but they don't argue because they bring the money home and stash some for themselves. Hidden bank accounts. At least two sometimes three WeChat accounts. They can manage all this because there's a lot of downtime at the AMP. They rarely slip up but I've seen it. Sometimes the other girls will tell you secrets.
You will learn that you can't trust them because they are masters of deception and manipulation. There is one possibility though if you are rich enough oh, you can take them away from this business. None of them really like it anyways. Every once in a while you can see it in their face. So yeah, paying them to sit around eating bonbons while you make your millions on the stock market would be optimum for them. Especially in a place like Hawaii or Florida. But you know you could never trust them.
Just like they know they could never trust you. None of them trust mongers. In fact I just had that conversation yesterday. "You see too many girl!" "You the big playboy!