Nothing is as worthless as a general maxim
[QUOTE=Best Swimmer; 1428424]Well a good provider will act the same with every guy she is with.[/QUOTE]1) a good provider knows more about men than you will ever know about women.
2) a good provider provides. A good barber cuts hair. They do so regardless of what they think of you.
3) That barber doesn't give everybody the same haircut. The provider sees men for all different reasons. And the good ones are nursemaids, confidants, psychologists, sounding boards, lovers, and mothers. As needed.
4) By definition, a woman who hates and hoodwinks every client is not a "good" provider.
[QUOTE]Don't forget they are there with you for the $ Call one of your ATF and tell them that you don't have any money but would like a session. Let us know, how that works out[/QUOTE]It's interesting how often this sage advice is offered by someone who talks about how "all" providers are just in it for the money. Maybe the experiment could include you thinking of women as people, not reverse ATM machines, or distinct from women in general or the rest of humanity, and see if you don't get something more in return.
Because in my experience, the sort of hobbyist who might get treated as though his money was no good in that establishment, occasionally, or permanently, is the sort who is always generous, considerate, and treats people like people, not as a (lower) class. And no, I'm not suggesting you try this on every 19-year-old BP bunny you shack up with for 30 minutes, nor that every delusional fool who thinks it's True Love is rational. I'm suggesting that maybe you're less than aware of the whole range of experience out there.
Don't read what's not there
[QUOTE=B Beall; 1429963]1) a good provider knows more about men than you will ever know about women.
By definition, a woman who hates and hoodwinks every client is not a "good" provider.
It's interesting how often this sage advice is offered by someone who talks about how "all" providers are just in it for the money. Maybe the experiment could include you thinking of women as people, not reverse ATM machines, or distinct from women in general or the rest of humanity, and see if you don't get something more in return.
Because in my experience, the sort of hobbyist who might get treated as though his money was no good in that establishment, occasionally, or permanently, is the sort who is always generous, considerate, and treats people like people, not as a (lower) class. And no, I'm not suggesting you try this on every 19-year-old BP bunny you shack up with for 30 minutes, nor that every delusional fool who thinks it's True Love is rational. I'm suggesting that maybe you're less than aware of the whole range of experience out there.[/QUOTE]Not here to argue with you. This will be my last on this subject.
1. A good provider will NOT tell you what they think of you. Do you really think a good provider likes everyone that they see? No but they are good and won't let you know it. That's why they are good!
They also have bad days just like us. But a good provider won't let you know, you're there to enjoy your hour.
2. I never said JUST FOR THE MONEY. They like sex also but Yes, it a business and they are with you for the $ I hope in your "experience" You have seen some very Hottt providers that if you met at a bar and they weren't providers. Do you REALLY think they would FUCK you? They wouldn't!
A provider will because you pay.
3. I NEVER SAID they are lower class. If you reread my post it said that I'm good friends with several and that means off WORKING hours. That means I know them in their personal lives. And I know several providers that also work reg "good" jobs and do this on the side. To enjoy sex and for extra money. If you saw them at a store you would never know that they did this but you sure as hell would be checking them out.
You may have more experience in the Indy market but that's because I just moved up here. More experience? I doubt that.
I see in your other post, that you're putting up names of who you've seen. Want me to put up name from Tampa? It's a hell of a lot bigger market than Indy.
4. I don't see any 19 Y / O LOL I try not to go under 30Y / O but up here there's not a big supply of those. Yes, I know there are some.
Everyone has their own opinion just don't read shit that's not there. Mine it's a business. And yes I'm very nice to all of the PROVIDERS that I see and I appreciate them for seeing me. Yours? They see you because your a sweetheart.
5. Never knew saying this was a business, would start so much shit. I know a hot blond in Tampa that did massage ending with BBBJCIM but then went to GFE. A reg of hers called and was pissed that she did this. Saying I thought we had a something special.
She did this because she likes sex and wanted to make more money. A BUSINESS, she could fuck any guy she wanted any place. She's that hottttr
The Russians are coming the Russians are coming
Well at least one of us was, if I were Russian the title would have had to read; the Russian is coming, the Russian is coming again, damn the fricking Russian is coming one more time, and finally, ok now the Russian won't be coming again anytime real soon. Erika the Great vanquished me with little trouble, she is a tough one. Actually she is an absolutely delightful and fun filled little thing. When she comes back to town I at least know what bars I am going to be lounging in, seems the girl loves a good party. She is very tight and toned, and proud of it, think she was doing some iso excercises while we played, and she bemoaned not being able to work out and lift while out on the road as much as she would like, so I guess she decided to make up for it by tossing an old fat guy all around the room a few times. She is non stop action from first minute to last, no way I had a fourth bullet in the chamber in that short a time but she was teasing and I think if I could have she would have. Very sexy in an understated kind of way, I was going to add something here but maybe best I don't, but on the street you would notice but not stare, at first, I didn't, very pretty, body fat probably not over 5% and she believes that pinching an inch on her is about two centimeters too much, and of course the accent alone is worth arousal all on its own, although for the life of her she can't figure out why so many in town found it so strange when she would ask for help on the street and elsewhere. Maybe, just maybe, it wasn't her accent at all that tounge tied them. Anyway, as always, great to work with and as always dropped an absolute bomb on me, a Russian made one at that.