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[QUOTE=Shyzai;5109022]I already did, but she knows where I live. I will never make that mistake again. She also knows my real identity.

Yes, I paid her that way and she does know who I am and where I live.[/QUOTE]You are just going to have to wait it out. After some length of time it will fade away as most of these things tend to do. It's easy for me to say, but having been in similar threatening situations with SB's and GF's in the past, it's just normally what happens. I am sure every one on this thread is thinking, "There but for the grace of God go I" And good luck.

Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.

[QUOTE=SushiLover69;5111640]Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.[/QUOTE]I won't even do an M&G without a firm yes to my offer beforehand. As I prefer to do my sweet talking via messaging. I like to get the financials out of the way upfront so the only thing left to think about is the fun. And I am a low baller so even in a not so great outcome I am still gonna cum for a fair price. And many times I will be paying 50%-67% off of prevailing rates for a hottie. The down side is I will get a lot of turn downs. But I would rather get turned down via txt than face to face.

Many others wait till the M&G (as they may offer more or less depending on the perceived value). And some leave it a mystery until after the deed is done.

Try out a few different scenarios and see which one best suites your needs.

What kind of of girls take lowball offers?

AA girls are more likely to. But so will latinas and white girls.

Girls that can see something more in you than the $.

Girls in an immediate financial bind.

Girls that usually get far more but are just bored and with nothing to do for the moment.

Girls staying in motels. Girls that need a room.

Maybe you are adding a nice dinner to the date or an attractive location.

New girls that don't know any better.

Girls with low self esteem that are grateful that you even made an offer.

Girls you connect with on a kink level.

Girls that may not fit the prevailing standard of beauty.

Older girls that just got out of a relationship, want revenge, are bored, or just horny.

Just my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=SushiLover69;5111640]Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.[/QUOTE]Here's the thing. I've tried to HG price point, and it can work but you could potentially be waiting around for months with nothing to show for it, just to save a couple $$. Keep in mind it sounds like he mostly goes for black girls and in my experience they will consistently take low balls. Other girls not so much. I make the offer before meeting in most cases, they usually won't even agree to meet until they get an idea of what you're offering. You can deviate from that and get some results, but imo its a waste of time to try to save a bit of money. The best strategy to try to save money is to give your best offers up front, do a couple of meetups, maybe a month or so, then after she gets to know you and trust you, try to lower the allowance.

Is there a lot of fake ads?! As I am seeing a lot of that like most dating apps and website as those numbers are higher and other social media etc!

I have tried different approaches over time. The most important thing for me is to make sure they are DTF in some form while chatting on SA. (I never discuss money on SA.) Then I move them to texting. While texting, I share a range. The range varies depending on how hot they look, their distance from me, my relative level of recent success and a few other factors. When we meet, I offer a specific amount. I have a list of excuses I can offer for any adjustments. I will low ball anyone I don't really want to see again. I might overpay for someone really hot. I do them once and then do not reschedule. If they ask me why, I say: "It wasn't really all that good was it?" I have been doing this almost seven years. I have learned a lot from people like Hollywood Guy. It is a numbers game and by now my wrinkled, old ass is impervious to any attitude the POT's might throw at me. Every day there are new ones eager to see me. When I make my offer, I am at my indifference point: if they say yes, I am glad. If they say No, I don't care; I move on.

With regard to Paypal, for several years I had a fully functioning sugar Paypal tied to my sugar gmail. I started it using a prepaid credit card. I was able to use it to send money direct or for gifts from Amazon to SB's. A few years ago, they started demanding a regular credit / debit card or a bank account. It no longer works for me and I have a few hundred stranded there. If anyone knows how to get it out, please DM me.

Bam.

[QUOTE=SushiLover69;5111640]Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.[/QUOTE]

I've mostly been mongering on HX / PD / Backpage when it was around, and am looking to try something new. Ik most of these girls aren't supposed to be pros but is it similar to talking to pros? Also when I mongered I prefered to go to an incall is that something the girls on SA usually have or is it a outcall only thing? Thanks for the help.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5112133]What kind of of girls take lowball offers?

AA girls are more likely to. But so will latinas and white girls.

Girls that can see something more in you than the $.

Girls in an immediate financial bind.

Girls that usually get far more but are just bored and with nothing to do for the moment.

Girls staying in motels. Girls that need a room.

Maybe you are adding a nice dinner to the date or an attractive location.

New girls that don't know any better.

Girls with low self esteem that are grateful that you even made an offer.

Girls you connect with on a kink level.

Girls that may not fit the prevailing standard of beauty.

Older girls that just got out of a relationship, want revenge, are bored, or just horny.

Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]I don't want to generalize, but why do you say AA chicks are more open to lower amounts?

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5112133]What kind of of girls take lowball offers?

AA girls are more likely to. But so will latinas and white girls.

Girls that can see something more in you than the $.

Girls in an immediate financial bind.

Girls that usually get far more but are just bored and with nothing to do for the moment.

Girls staying in motels. Girls that need a room.

Maybe you are adding a nice dinner to the date or an attractive location.

New girls that don't know any better.

Girls with low self esteem that are grateful that you even made an offer.

Girls you connect with on a kink level.

Girls that may not fit the prevailing standard of beauty.

Older girls that just got out of a relationship, want revenge, are bored, or just horny.

Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]Completely sage advice by HG but this also works well for Midballing which is where I'm at since I simply don't have the time and energy to lowball. I focus on girls who are new, young, and insecure about their looks who want to get away from home every once in a while or older hotties who happen to have short term debt that they need to take care of. The common denominator is that they are all new to SA and are apprehensive about being an SB in general and so far, I have gotten good results without much effort. Stay away from young Asian American and Middle Eastern girls and girls who have a large social media following since they all develop serious GPS. The main thing is to work with whatever budget you have and go from there.

How many times have you guys gotten a "meet" without any damage at all? Any tips?

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;5113433]How many times have you guys gotten a "meet" without any damage at all? Any tips?[/QUOTE]Whoa, deja vu, man. Same thread as on Orange county. .

[QUOTE=RogerOver;5113114]I don't want to generalize, but why do you say AA chicks are more open to lower amounts?[/QUOTE]Just my experience from hitting up thousands of girls over the last 15 years.

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;5113433]How many times have you guys gotten a "meet" without any damage at all? Any tips?[/QUOTE]It's rare but it happens. For me maybe 1 out of 50 times. But I did have one girl I saw at least 6 times for 2 hour sessions with no allowance. She said it would ruin the mood.

[QUOTE=BamBam;5112930]With regard to Paypal, for several years I had a fully functioning sugar Paypal tied to my sugar gmail. I started it using a prepaid credit card. I was able to use it to send money direct or for gifts from Amazon to SB's. A few years ago, they started demanding a regular credit / debit card or a bank account. It no longer works for me and I have a few hundred stranded there. If anyone knows how to get it out, please DM me[/QUOTE]Got a friend? Send the balance of your account to that person, then have that person hand you cash. They shouldn't be holding a balance hostage. Been working with Paypal for over 20 years.