This is usually a great time of year to be sugaring. Girls need money for Christmas and with these new lockdowns jobs are tighter than ever. Look for even bigger lockdowns after Jan 20th. You got like 2 weeks till girls get busy with family.
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This is usually a great time of year to be sugaring. Girls need money for Christmas and with these new lockdowns jobs are tighter than ever. Look for even bigger lockdowns after Jan 20th. You got like 2 weeks till girls get busy with family.
Help is on the way. I have been super careful since the pandemic began, I have only been to the FC w / one girl I can recall. These vaccines are going to really reduce the risk (down to the usual worries for STDs and getting caught by the SO), I'll be back on SA as soon as I get the 2nd shot. I am lucky to be in group 1 B for California, I should not have to wait forever. I understand there will be 2 million doses available this month in California.
Does anyone have a prepaid card brand they know works with SA? I used to use the one vanilla ones, but those don't seem to be working anymore. I tried 2 different cards and neither worked.
[QUOTE=Clns2101;5105279]Does anyone have a prepaid card brand they know works with SA? I used to use the one vanilla ones, but those don't seem to be working anymore. I tried 2 different cards and neither worked.[/QUOTE]Make a one time use Virtual Charge Card if you have cards with Capital One, CitiBank or Bank of America.
[QUOTE=Clns2101;5105279]Does anyone have a prepaid card brand they know works with SA? I used to use the one vanilla ones, but those don't seem to be working anymore. I tried 2 different cards and neither worked[/QUOTE]There is dated information that if you load the app onto your Android phone, you can use Google Play cards (bought for cash) to pay for SA membership. Please check for us currently and report back.
[QUOTE=Clns2101;5105279]Does anyone have a prepaid card brand they know works with SA? I used to use the one vanilla ones, but those don't seem to be working anymore. I tried 2 different cards and neither worked.[/QUOTE]Please excuse my ignorance, I've never used a prepaid card online. On the SA site it asks for "name as it is on card". If you use prepaid, what do you put as name? Also, if I use a card not previously used but the name is the same, my name, I assume it won't be accepted because the name associated with the card was banned, correct? BTW. I was banned from WYP site but it automatically banned me from SA as well.
So I received a request for $700 on Venmo with a simple message: Abortion! My mind raced, and I panicked. Whom did I impregnate and when? I looked into our history and realised that I had paid her $200 in February. We only rendezvoused once and she never intimated to me that she was pregnant all these months. I am assuming that she already had the procedure done, if she was ever really pregnant. I don't want to contact her at all. What am I supposed to do? Does she have any legal standing?
[QUOTE=Uncountable;5108592]So I received a request for $700 on Venmo with a simple message: Abortion! My mind raced, and I panicked. Whom did I impregnate and when? I looked into our history and realised that I had paid her $200 in February. We only rendezvoused once and she never intimated to me that she was pregnant all these months. I am assuming that she already had the procedure done, if she was ever really pregnant. I don't want to contact her at all. What am I supposed to do? Does she have any legal standing?[/QUOTE]Block her number.
[QUOTE=Uncountable;5108592]So I received a request for $700 on Venmo with a simple message: Abortion! My mind raced, and I panicked. Whom did I impregnate and when? I looked into our history and realised that I had paid her $200 in February. We only rendezvoused once and she never intimated to me that she was pregnant all these months. I am assuming that she already had the procedure done, if she was ever really pregnant. I don't want to contact her at all. What am I supposed to do? Does she have any legal standing?[/QUOTE]Based on those timelines, you're supposed to toss your burner phone and forget about it. If she had an abortion, there's no DNA to match at this point, and if she's pregnant in a time window that would be eligible for an early term abortion, it's not yours.
Do nothing, or ask her who the father is and why he isn't hitting her with $700.
I assume if she has your venmo, that you paid her that way and she in fact knows who you are?
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5108927]Block her number.[/QUOTE]I already did, but she knows where I live. I will never make that mistake again. She also knows my real identity.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5108948]Based on those timelines, you're supposed to toss your burner phone and forget about it. If she had an abortion, there's no DNA to match at this point, and if she's pregnant in a time window that would be eligible for an early term abortion, it's not yours.
Do nothing, or ask her who the father is and why he isn't hitting her with $700.
I assume if she has your venmo, that you paid her that way and she in fact knows who you are?[/QUOTE]Yes, I paid her that way and she does know who I am and where I live.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5108948]Based on those timelines, you're supposed to toss your burner phone and forget about it. If she had an abortion, there's no DNA to match at this point, and if she's pregnant in a time window that would be eligible for an early term abortion, it's not yours.
Do nothing, or ask her who the father is and why he isn't hitting her with $700.
I assume if she has your venmo, that you paid her that way and she in fact knows who you are?[/QUOTE]IDK anything about Venmo specifically, but essentially everything these days for financial transactions requires real personal info, precluding anonymity, and I presume Venmo is the same. So, in retrospect, that wasn't such a good idea to do, was it? Keeping my operational security (married and a professional rep to defend) is paramount. I don't believe anyone has discovered the real me in my 3+ years in the bowl.
Assuming that you had done that, the point about DNA is a decent one. Even if you aren't yourself in any DNA databases, if a close relative is, you could be implicated in something (by someone like LE who has the resources and authority to dig into databases). BTW, the most common retort to a girl saying preggo is 'who's the father? Not me, I've had a vasectomy'. If you'd been with her a bunch, she might know that not to be true, but for a 1-night stand, I can't imagine her info is that good.
You don't have to lose your burner if you've been using Google Voice, you just get a new number if you don't want to be pestered by this chick.
I recently thought I had a good way to get $ transferred that failed. I am lucky enough to have a PayPal with my sugar identity. They haven't require verification for it. I thought I would send $ from several of my old prepaid cards (with odd small $ on them, from paying for SA) through my real PayPal to my sugar me. That part worked OK, but over on my sugar PayPal, to 'save' that $ in my account (to aggregate it), I did have to have my account verified. Dang.
[QUOTE=Shyzai;5109022]I already did, but she knows where I live. I will never make that mistake again. She also knows my real identity.
Yes, I paid her that way and she does know who I am and where I live.[/QUOTE]Well, no matter what the consequences, I wouldn't pay her. She'll always come back to that well if you do. You have to make sure she knows you're a waste of time to hit up for cash. If she threatens you with exposure, that's a crime. Might not be too helpful, but that's all I can really think of unless you're willing to make some threats of your own, which have the possibility of turning up the tension.
Hope it all works out. I'm assuming you're married or otherwise hooked up with a SO, or you could just follow Hollywood's advice: Block and forget.
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I recently thought I had a good way to get $ transferred that failed. I am lucky enough to have a PayPal with my sugar identity. They haven't require verification for it. I thought I would send $ from several of my old prepaid cards (with odd small $ on them, from paying for SA) through my real PayPal to my sugar me. That part worked OK, but over on my sugar PayPal, to 'save' that $ in my account (to aggregate it), I did have to have my account verified. Dang.[/QUOTE]Nothing connected to a financial institution is truly anonymous. A Paypal account in another name is still funded by a transactional instrument such as a bank / card, etc.
Cash is king. Even in restaurants. I was plopped at a bar with a SB a few years ago, and when he brought back my AMEX, you know what he said. "Thank you Mr. RogerOver".
She looked at me and said, I'm going home and google "RogerOver" LOL. Had my speaking presentations and all next time I saw her. She was a good kid, so it was a laugh off. But you never know when good times become bad.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5109602]Nothing connected to a financial institution is truly anonymous. A Paypal account in another name is still funded by a transactional instrument such as a bank / card, etc.
Cash is king. Even in restaurants. I was plopped at a bar with a SB a few years ago, and when he brought back my AMEX, you know what he said. "Thank you Mr. RogerOver".
She looked at me and said, I'm going home and google "RogerOver" LOL. Had my speaking presentations and all next time I saw her. She was a good kid, so it was a laugh off. But you never know when good times become bad.[/QUOTE]This has changed over time. A year + ago, I was able to buy prepaid cards and send $ to a SB by my sugar PayPal (to pay for the room she was getting for us). Like lots of these young ones, she didn't have a credit card, she needed $ on her debit card to get the transaction to process. But as I said myself, I don't think this will work currently. So, your first statement may or may not be true. Yes, I am very dedicated to cash whenever. I would never use my personal credit card around a SB. I also know all the security issues w / getting a hotel, that's why I like to have my SB get a room.
[QUOTE=Uncountable;5108592]So I received a request for $700 on Venmo with a simple message: Abortion! My mind raced, and I panicked. Whom did I impregnate and when? I looked into our history and realised that I had paid her $200 in February. We only rendezvoused once and she never intimated to me that she was pregnant all these months. I am assuming that she already had the procedure done, if she was ever really pregnant. I don't want to contact her at all. What am I supposed to do? Does she have any legal standing?[/QUOTE]Hmm that was 11 months ago thinking maybe a scam she probably did a text blast to all her numbers. That said if she could actually prove it is your child yes you're on the hook. You should block her number and cease all contact since nothing good can come of it and she tried to scam you.