[QUOTE=Hockey;4615449]Anyone know the result of the case? Will they be closing?[/QUOTE]It's still pending but I was just there and they won't do any extras. Sux.
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[QUOTE=Hockey;4615449]Anyone know the result of the case? Will they be closing?[/QUOTE]It's still pending but I was just there and they won't do any extras. Sux.
[QUOTE=Slingo007;4630850]Hey everyone, just got back from a complete wasted trip at wz, I have been going since it was cheaters. At this point 01-23-2020 these girls won't do a damn thing. No extras, back room shut down completely. No girl would even do an exit and I had plenty of money to spend. Not sure who we have to thank for this bullshit situation but I'm pissed. Hope these girls have fun going broke.[/QUOTE]You have to blame the club owners who allow pimps inside their clubs. When you lost Rhode Island lost the loophole it was a pimp bringing an underage girls into a club. And the owner didn't do their due diligence. It happened many times in clubs in Florida to California. Some idiot manager and owner is making side money and decides not to check the info or to be unscrupulous which puts the dancers at risk and the customers.
I had a pocket full of cash and some time so I went decided to visit Desire. Single most boring trip to a strip club ever. It was a Thursday night. Not as packed as I have seen it the two times I have gone, but still pretty busy. Lots of girls, regular mix of talent. I'm a normal average 40-something; probably a 7. I was there for a couple hours and only 1 girl spoke to me. Trying to make eye contact was nearly impossible. I had a pocket full of cash I wanted to part with, but apparently business was good because they didn't need it. I tried to get the attention of a couple girls I was interested in, but they just weren't into. The one girl who did come up to me at the bar was beautiful, but I had just gotten there so I was ready to commit yet. 3 Whiskey's, a few stage dollars, and several hours later I was out the door at closing with a pocket full of cash. It was better than sitting at home drinking whiskey, but probably the most boring time I have ever had at a strip club.
[QUOTE=JusAGudTime;4637212]I had a pocket full of cash and some time so I went decided to visit Desire. Single most boring trip to a strip club ever...[/QUOTE]I wonder if there's a big difference there between day and night shift. I've only been during the day and it's usually pretty good. Some dancers do have a tendency to not approach you or stay with their regulars though. Still my favorite club in Providence currently. There's a super hot dancer named Peyton that I always look for, haven't seen her the last few trips though.
And that's a good thing.
If you want to talk to a girl, you go talk to them. In fact, if they're walking around, and you just stare at them and smile, most will come up to you. If they are on stage, tip them and ask them to come see you, and they usually will, and definitely will if you say you want a private dance. That's how they make their money.
If you told that beautiful girl that you just got there, but you'd probably want a private dance in an hour or two, I guarantee she'd come back.
Sometimes, the girls are just looking for regulars or guys that they know that spend money, and they will spend time with those guys. I talked to one girl who was a the bar for an hour with a guy, and she says the guy pays her $400 just to sit at the bar with him for the hour and give him undivided attention. Lots of the girls have guys that give them money to spend time with them, not just to strip.
Also, days are usually better than nights, and the crossover time from 6:30-8:30 is usually slow.
[QUOTE=JusAGudTime;4637212]I had a pocket full of cash and some time so I went decided to visit Desire. Single most boring trip to a strip club ever. It was a Thursday night. Not as packed as I have seen it the two times I have gone, but still pretty busy. Lots of girls, regular mix of talent. I'm a normal average 40-something; probably a 7. I was there for a couple hours and only 1 girl spoke to me. Trying to make eye contact was nearly impossible. I had a pocket full of cash I wanted to part with, but apparently business was good because they didn't need it. I tried to get the attention of a couple girls I was interested in, but they just weren't into. The one girl who did come up to me at the bar was beautiful, but I had just gotten there so I was ready to commit yet. 3 Whiskey's, a few stage dollars, and several hours later I was out the door at closing with a pocket full of cash. It was better than sitting at home drinking whiskey, but probably the most boring time I have ever had at a strip club.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JusAGudTime;4637212]I had a pocket full of cash and some time so I went decided to visit Desire. Single most boring trip to a strip club ever. It was a Thursday night. Not as packed as I have seen it the two times I have gone, but still pretty busy. Lots of girls, regular mix of talent. I'm a normal average 40-something; probably a 7. I was there for a couple hours and only 1 girl spoke to me. Trying to make eye contact was nearly impossible. I had a pocket full of cash I wanted to part with, but apparently business was good because they didn't need it. I tried to get the attention of a couple girls I was interested in, but they just weren't into. The one girl who did come up to me at the bar was beautiful, but I had just gotten there so I was ready to commit yet. 3 Whiskey's, a few stage dollars, and several hours later I was out the door at closing with a pocket full of cash. It was better than sitting at home drinking whiskey, but probably the most boring time I have ever had at a strip club.[/QUOTE]I've been going to Desire for more than a decade and it's a great club. But it's different than most. You need to approach the girls, not because they're aloof, it's just the culture there. I HATE clubs where I get hassled every 2 minutes by girls that are aren't my type, so I like it better. But some guys don't want to have to approach the girls. I get it.
Evenings are hit or miss, especially this time of year. During the spring and summer the place is wall to wall girls. Lots of "regulars" go during the days and the girls are sometimes better looking and more available. Of course, if you have a job it's not as easy hit a club during the day. All I can say is that there's a lot of fun to be had under the right circumstances.
[QUOTE=CoolKid96;4637554]And that's a good thing.
If you want to talk to a girl, you go talk to them. In fact, if they're walking around, and you just stare at them and smile, most will come up to you. If they are on stage, tip them and ask them to come see you, and they usually will, and definitely will if you say you want a private dance. That's how they make their money.
If you told that beautiful girl that you just got there, but you'd probably want a private dance in an hour or two, I guarantee she'd come back.
Sometimes, the girls are just looking for regulars or guys that they know that spend money, and they will spend time with those guys. I talked to one girl who was a the bar for an hour with a guy, and she says the guy pays her $400 just to sit at the bar with him for the hour and give him undivided attention. Lots of the girls have guys that give them money to spend time with them, not just to strip.
Also, days are usually better than nights, and the crossover time from 6:30-8:30 is usually slow.[/QUOTE]$400 an hour just to talk! I have to think the girl was bullshitting you. I spend a lot of time in this club and see the coming and goings and realize girls have appointments with customers and all, but I just can't believe that. It is not Vegas! $400 gets me three trips in the CR and some very good service!
[QUOTE=WillyO;4638218]$400 an hour just to talk! I have to think the girl was bullshitting you. I spend a lot of time in this club and see the coming and goings and realize girls have appointments with customers and all, but I just can't believe that. It is not Vegas! $400 gets me three trips in the CR and some very good service![/QUOTE]Well for every 15 minutes they are not in a room that's $100 they didn't make. So $400 for an hour isn't unreasonable. I'd like to think you get something more than stimulating conversation LOL. One of my regulars at CD gets $1600 to spend half her Friday night shift with some old guy. She's shown me the money, it does happen.
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4638608]Well for every 15 minutes they are not in a room that's $100 they didn't make. So $400 for an hour isn't unreasonable. I'd like to think you get something more than stimulating conversation LOL. One of my regulars at CD gets $1600 to spend half her Friday night shift with some old guy. She's shown me the money, it does happen.[/QUOTE]Those types of arrangements definitely happen. I've heard similar stories with similar numbers and we've all seen the girls sitting with some old dude for the entire afternoon or evening. If the girl isn't getting paid to sit there, they are not going pass up other opportunities to make money just to sit there.
I once asked a dancer for a lap dance and she said she was busy for the next two hours. Seems weird to me but who am I to tell other guys how to spend their money?
Even prices in the VIP room can be all over the map. I had one dancer quote me three times what a couple other dancers have charged me for similar experiences.
First stop was Desire. Club was somewhat full, menu was a mixed bag. A few good looking, some in between and a few that would fit in better at Zebra or Lamplighter. The most appealing for me was a Dominican with breast and butt implants. But she asked was ambiguous about what would happen in the room and only said would have a good time. My monger instinct told me to not to do it.
Next I checked out Wild Zebra. Pretty slow. Only one girl who was my type and she was locked dowm with another dude. I noticed a skinnu black girl on the stage with great energy. She showed good appreciation for tips and is probably a good time in the VIP.
Last was Wonderland. I haven't been here in years, but as I recall they were delusionally trying to make it an ultra high end ballers club, flying girls in from Miami, etc. I think they've backed off that, but they still had the best selection. Many very beautiful women. Now I never had any dances here and decided I'd give it a shot. I found a sexy barbie blonde and took her to the back.
You can get 4 songs for 80 topless oe for 120 nude. Not sure what the difference really is since no one cared or chwcked on us. These dances take place in little rooms with curtains. It was awfully private and I asked my dancer if she wanted a tip for a HJ and she obliged.
Now I had previously thought this place was low contact with no services allowed. If they've loosened up that's good news. The four song price is cpmpetitive with CD. There were a bunch of other dancers I'd be interested in if extra services are available.
It's possible but I'm skeptical. I've gotten to know several attractive dancers at good clubs well enough to know what they make. These girls make about 25% more than what they would make waitressing at a mid-level restaurant. So why do they do it? Well, it is more pay than waitressing. It's easier than waitressing, it's more glamorous-seeming and most of these girls have a personality where they like the attention / validation / environment. None of these girls is pulling in six figures or really anywhere close, although they're not paying taxes either so their lifestyle is a bit inflated beyond their earnings. (When I say none makes anywhere near six figures take home, I'm sure there are some in fancy clubs in Manhattan or Miami or somewhere, but it's not the norm even there). For a lot of the lesser-earning girls, they'd be better off waitressing. Girls lie about what they make because they almost all, to some degree or other, feel a stigma about their work. When they lie and give some ridiculous inflated figure about what they make, it diminishes the sense that they're just being slutty because it essentially challenges people, "You'd have to be an idiot not to do it for this money, amirite?
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4638608]Well for every 15 minutes they are not in a room that's $100 they didn't make. So $400 for an hour isn't unreasonable. I'd like to think you get something more than stimulating conversation LOL. One of my regulars at CD gets $1600 to spend half her Friday night shift with some old guy. She's shown me the money, it does happen.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ExJock99;4640686]It's possible but I'm skeptical. I've gotten to know several attractive dancers at good clubs well enough to know what they make. These girls make about 25% more than what they would make waitressing at a mid-level restaurant. So why do they do it? Well, it is more pay than waitressing. It's easier than waitressing, it's more glamorous-seeming and most of these girls have a personality where they like the attention / validation / environment. None of these girls is pulling in six figures or really anywhere close, although they're not paying taxes either so their lifestyle is a bit inflated beyond their earnings. (When I say none makes anywhere near six figures take home, I'm sure there are some in fancy clubs in Manhattan or Miami or somewhere, but it's not the norm even there). For a lot of the lesser-earning girls, they'd be better off waitressing. Girls lie about what they make because they almost all, to some degree or other, feel a stigma about their work. When they lie and give some ridiculous inflated figure about what they make, it diminishes the sense that they're just being slutty because it essentially challenges people, "You'd have to be an idiot not to do it for this money, amirite?[/QUOTE]You're right about most dancers not making more than waitresses. There are at least two dancers at at a RI club that I know personally (outside of the club, too) that pull down six figures. I only know because I've given each financial advice and have seen bank balances, deposits, etc. Both are very attractive (IMHO), work hard, and have regulars.
That's interesting. I think for them to make that much they have to cultivate regulars. Bet they're a little older too. The other thing that gives a misleading impression about how much dancers make is that, for the most part, they're girls in their twenties who are financially irresponsible and spend every cent they make.
[QUOTE=suaimmagine;4642975]You're right about most dancers not making more than waitresses. There are at least two dancers at at a RI club that I know personally (outside of the club, too) that pull down six figures. I only know because I've given each financial advice and have seen bank balances, deposits, etc. Both are very attractive (IMHO), work hard, and have regulars.[/QUOTE]
You didn't mention that 99.9% of them are lesbians and like being around the other strippers.
[QUOTE=ExJock99;4640686]It's possible but I'm skeptical. I've gotten to know several attractive dancers at good clubs well enough to know what they make. These girls make about 25% more than what they would make waitressing at a mid-level restaurant. So why do they do it? Well, it is more pay than waitressing. It's easier than waitressing, it's more glamorous-seeming and most of these girls have a personality where they like the attention / validation / environment. None of these girls is pulling in six figures or really anywhere close, although they're not paying taxes either so their lifestyle is a bit inflated beyond their earnings. (When I say none makes anywhere near six figures take home, I'm sure there are some in fancy clubs in Manhattan or Miami or somewhere, but it's not the norm even there). For a lot of the lesser-earning girls, they'd be better off waitressing. Girls lie about what they make because they almost all, to some degree or other, feel a stigma about their work. When they lie and give some ridiculous inflated figure about what they make, it diminishes the sense that they're just being slutty because it essentially challenges people, "You'd have to be an idiot not to do it for this money, amirite?[/QUOTE]