Reminder. I offer the following advice
I have been out of the game for sometime and have been disappointed on several occasions. However, in the past, I realize that I have broken several of my own rules, resulting in disappointment. For you new folks, I advise the following, if you choose to embark on these journeys to find solid providers and have a great experience:
1) Do your research.
2) Only see providers with a website and reviews. Otherwise you are risking your freedom, wasting money, getting mugged or murdered, and minimizing your chances for having a good time.
3) Private residence is preferred over hotels / motels. Much smaller chance for Law Enforcement involvement, and the provider is more likely to be a professional who cares about her clients.
4) The old saying 'You get what you pay for' applies. - But, follow the rules above to not get ripped off. I have been ripped off by not following the rules above.
5) Do not pay deposits. It is likely a scam. I have never, and will never pay a deposit.
6) Before you decide to host at your residence, do your homework. Follow the guidance above. I have had no problems hosting solid providers (with reviews and website (s)) to my residence.
7) Read this board. Contact senior members with questions or concerns.
8) My best, and safest experiences, have been with Under The Radar (UTR) chicks at their private residences. If you find them, keep them.
9) Avoid providers located at low-end hotels / motels in the area. You will be utterly disappointed, Every time.
10) Do not engage in unprotected sex with providers who offer this.