[QUOTE=DrWho;6092529]Saw a few posts about ladies taking a long time to reply or not at all.
Although I am just returning to the game after a long hiatus I have been playing for many decades in the past.
I have found that there are many reasons why a lady does not reply or takes a long time and few have been GPS. I will give you the latest example and hopefully some can benefit.
Recently I saw Lemon Pie and had a great time. I first texted her introducing myself with a brief description and info to break the ice asking about rates and location. I did not hear back for 2 days so I sent her a second text stating that I understood that she may have been busy and not seen my previously text but if she did and decided not to reply it was OK, I understood and would not contact her again. This was the truth since more often than not in the past with others that was the case and if she did not like my first text and did not want to see me she was not for me. She replied in about an hour with a nice text apologizing that she had been very busy and thanked me for following up. We exchanged info and I saw her that night and had a wonderful time.
Now I only try twice and then move on but most of the time I did not need to move on, the reminder was met with appreciation and resulted in a good time for both. I guess what I am trying to say is that a little patience and understanding can gain a real payoff, especially with women and those in this biz. It doesn't cost anything to be kind. Remember the old adage, you can get more with honey than vinegar. And the best to remember, there are always more fish in the sea. Just a little from my experience.[/QUOTE]
Yeah maybe you are right I should have been more patient and understanding and went ahead and booked a body shaming session with her. Where she could continue to berate me. lol Or maybe some of us are trying to book same day appointments and only have a certain window of opportunity to hobby. And don't have days to wait for someone to respond back. In fact I have a process that I go thru part of which I text to confirm appointment etc. So when it comes down to crunch time and if they are not responding back. I will assume she is going to ghost me or be a no call no show. I go by the old adage "I don't chase I replace. Aside from that her attitude and demeanor was a red flag and was a no go for me regardless of the reason why she did not respond back.
