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[QUOTE=VerySlowly]A couple of threads are going off topic, the escort classifieds has a NO REVIEW NO COMMENTS line in its subject line and a monger who should know better posted a comment.

In the new thread for guys posting for girls to contact them (Companionship wanted) there are comments about Dixie in Daytona and Sindie in Orlando. This thread is not for posting your ATF etc.

Somehow this is not making sense.----VS[/QUOTE]I agree that the escort classifieds are not for guys to comment. They can do that in a couple of other threads.

However, I feel the companion thread should not be as cut and dried. The other posts were just guys trying to be helpful to the guys that were looking. To me, the whole point of the forum is to help each other identify decent providers. I saw that Warp agreed with Mr. VS on this, so I could be wrong, but I call 'em as I see 'em.

Not sure about TV, but hey guys keep posting there is Pussy for everyone out there, seems when the single ones and many married ones we are discovering turn 40 or so they turn into 14 yo's again.

I've been using the casuals on and off for at last three years and have had three or four short term regulars in that time, but I always end up deciding to stop because I have a fear of them getting attached or causing complications for me, because most have not developed the ability disassociate the enjoyment of the act from emotional attachment that develops in relationships. I've never had an issue yet, but when I find a new gal, it is ueually about 3 or 4 fun meetings and then I move on, so that it doesn't ever get to that relationship phase in their mind.

I always pay them something for their time even if I sense we could move into some freebies, to make sure they understand that this is strictly paying for a service. When I see stuff like the ESPN guy whose girl friend on the side caused all kinds of public grief in his private life, I want to make doubly sure that it never moves into any kind of attachment. The longer it goes the more difficult it is to stay annonymous and the greater the danger of attachment and messy break up. It is a reason why going with a pro is sometimes a better choice. The problem with pro's though is that it is really hard to find that true GFE at a reasonable price. GFE for me means not only BBBJ and kissing, but that the woman I am with gets at least as much pleasure from the experience as I do. With a lot of time and effort I can usually find that on the casuals for about $ only proceed if they are happy with that amount.

I know this is off-topic, but I still wanted to remind everybody.

This Sat night is the free downtown concert at City Hall. The headliner is Collective Soul. I've seen this band three times and they're fantastic! They will deliver solid hits from start to finish that you will easily recognize. You should have a great time if you go. Collective Soul should go onstage around 8 PM or so.

These free downtown concerts are a great place to meet regular women. There will be hundreds of ladies just wanting to meet men and have fun. You also should go immediately to the after-party that is held at Latitudes rooftop bar. Again, loads of approachable women just looking to meet a guy.

If you're looking for something to do Sat night that kicks-ass, go downtown. You'll be glad you did.

Hello Everyone,

I am moving out west this weekend and it is time for me to say goodbye. I am starting a relationship and leaving the hobby (and hobby boards) behind. I've had the time of my life since Fall 2007 and want to thank the ladies that gave me great one on one time, and the guys here that shared their experiences.
I've had the pleasure of meeting some of you in person and made new friends.
I can't say it will be forever, but if everything works out, I won't be posting or playing after this weekend.
Senior members, please welcome the new guys so there will be plenty of eyes and ears here.

Peace

W69

Have a safe and wonderful journey.

[QUOTE=Vino 7373]I know this is off-topic, but I still wanted to remind everybody.

This Sat night is the free downtown concert at City Hall. The headliner is Collective Soul. I've seen this band three times and they're fantastic! They will deliver solid hits from start to finish that you will easily recognize. You should have a great time if you go. Collective Soul should go onstage around 8 PM or so.

These free downtown concerts are a great place to meet regular women. There will be hundreds of ladies just wanting to meet men and have fun. You also should go immediately to the after-party that is held at Latitudes rooftop bar. Again, loads of approachable women just looking to meet a guy.

If you're looking for something to do Sat night that kicks-ass, go downtown. You'll be glad you did.[/QUOTE]Vino,

As usual, great posts. You make reading this forum worthwhile.

Thanks

[QUOTE=Warpfactor69]Hello Everyone,

I am moving out west this weekend and it is time for me to say goodbye. I am starting a relationship and leaving the hobby (and hobby boards) behind. I've had the time of my life since Fall 2007 and want to thank the ladies that gave me great one on one time, and the guys here that shared their experiences.

I've had the pleasure of meeting some of you in person and made new friends.
I can't say it will be forever, but if everything works out, I won't be posting or playing after this weekend.

Senior members, please welcome the new guys so there will be plenty of eyes and ears here.

Peace

W69[/QUOTE]Good Luck Buddy

Hope all goes well for you out west.

Thanks for helping us newbies here on the forum.

Safe journeys

MM

[QUOTE=Warpfactor69]Hello Everyone,

I am moving out west this weekend and it is time for me to say goodbye. I am starting a relationship and leaving the hobby (and hobby boards) behind. I've had the time of my life since Fall 2007 and want to thank the ladies that gave me great one on one time, and the guys here that shared their experiences.

I've had the pleasure of meeting some of you in person and made new friends.
I can't say it will be forever, but if everything works out, I won't be posting or playing after this weekend.

Senior members, please welcome the new guys so there will be plenty of eyes and ears here.

Peace

W69[/QUOTE]

Hello Warp,

One more time, I wanted to bid you farewell and wish you nothing but the best of luck out West.

You have been a good friend to me over the last six months. I only wish I had known you longer. I will miss you. I think I speak for almost everyone on this forum.

I thank you for your friendship.

One thing I have noticed: The first time you pick up a SW, they will only be willing for a BJ. Forget about taking the SW back to your hotel room. She does not know you, she will not be willing to go to your hotel room.

BP and CL girls are 90 % scams. Also, their rates start at $. Its my principle not to pay more than a $ for any activities. I have had FS with 2 nuts for $0.50 with a very GFE experience.

Normally, I visit a town for a couple of nights. Days are busy. I have very limited time to monger. And if that mongering backfires, no one is happy.

With MCO I found, lots of scams abound. Some of the referrals I got for escorts: The escort websites are asking for verification. The verification sites ask for a lot of personal information. They are like a madams black book.

Look at history, Most of the madams who are arrested voluntarily disclose their black book: Their list of clients. Sooner or later, these verification sites will have to co-operate with LE. And this evidence will be used aganist mongers.

My #1 requirement is discretion. Satisfy me, take the money. But do not expect me to call and ask how your day went. Also, if a provider asks to look at my ID or wants to take a copy, I am out of there.

That said, Orlando has some of the best eye candy I have ever seen. I did not take part in any mongering while in town. But the Short-Shorts can easily double as underwear.

Stay Safe out there.

[QUOTE=Vino 7373]Hello Warp,

One more time, I wanted to bid you farewell and wish you nothing but the best of luck out West.

You have been a good friend to me over the last six months. I only wish I had known you longer. I will miss you. I think I speak for almost everyone on this forum.

I thank you for your friendship.[/QUOTE]I concure with vino and wish you the best.

EE

A while back, I talked about a whitelist for people. Recently I've thought again about it and here's why....

Has anyone noticed a rash of new members, asking for specific details (look in massage parlor reports) and then never reporting anything specific or adding good information to the board? Also I posted about Alyssa in SW threads and got 15 PM's about her #, from people with 1-3 posts. I sent fairly not nice PM's back and got no response. (I'd offer to fight if I got one like that, lol....not normal).

If you look at some posts in the reviews, there are 3-4 guys with three to four posts each all saying how a new girl on BP with no reviews, is really great. Then you go to TER and the girl has 1 review and none elsewhere.

I'm friendly to new people who contribute, and yes I'm a little paranoid, lol as I know many LEO's and know how they think. It just feels like there are too many of these instances lately, and something smells fishy...

Again, I think a whitelist from trusted providers on us is a good idea. It doesn't have to have a phone number, maybe our name here on the board, and a neutral way to describe us. Call me paranoid again, lol, but does anyone think it smells like donuts lately, lol.

[QUOTE=Haldol05]A while back, I talked about a whitelist for people. Recently I've thought again about it and here's why....

Has anyone noticed a rash of new members, asking for specific details (look in massage parlor reports) and then never reporting anything specific or adding good information to the board? Also I posted about Alyssa in SW threads and got 15 PM's about her #, from people with 1-3 posts. I sent fairly not nice PM's back and got no response. (I'd offer to fight if I got one like that, lol....not normal).

If you look at some posts in the reviews, there are 3-4 guys with three to four posts each all saying how a new girl on BP with no reviews, is really great. Then you go to TER and the girl has 1 review and none elsewhere.

I'm friendly to new people who contribute, and yes I'm a little paranoid, lol as I know many LEO's and know how they think. It just feels like there are too many of these instances lately, and something smells fishy...

Again, I think a whitelist from trusted providers on us is a good idea. It doesn't have to have a phone number, maybe our name here on the board, and a neutral way to describe us. Call me paranoid again, lol, but does anyone think it smells like donuts lately, lol.[/QUOTE]Haldo is very right! lately there have been several new members that have 0 reports etc.

Funny i just got a PM from somebody asking about a girl tottaly off this board and details from another site. just as i or anybody here can access so he can! sound very fishi all this! we need to look out for each other here!

[QUOTE=Haldol05]A while back, I talked about a whitelist for people. Recently I've thought again about it and here's why....

Has anyone noticed a rash of new members, asking for specific details (look in massage parlor reports) and then never reporting anything specific or adding good information to the board? Also I posted about Alyssa in SW threads and got 15 PM's about her #, from people with 1-3 posts. I sent fairly not nice PM's back and got no response. (I'd offer to fight if I got one like that, lol....not normal).

If you look at some posts in the reviews, there are 3-4 guys with three to four posts each all saying how a new girl on BP with no reviews, is really great. Then you go to TER and the girl has 1 review and none elsewhere.

I'm friendly to new people who contribute, and yes I'm a little paranoid, lol as I know many LEO's and know how they think. It just feels like there are too many of these instances lately, and something smells fishy...

Again, I think a whitelist from trusted providers on us is a good idea. It doesn't have to have a phone number, maybe our name here on the board, and a neutral way to describe us. Call me paranoid again, lol, but does anyone think it smells like donuts lately, lol.[/QUOTE]Always trust your instincts. Only share info with posters that you have some degree of trust with. That is why many say "only seniors" contact me for info. Contributions from new posters is great, but they need to earn trust over a period of time.

BTW - I am not a fan of a whitelist, or any other kind of list.

I would have to be an idiot to think that this place is not frequented by and utilized by our "Homeland Security Budget Spending Donut Eating Buddies"!

I mean they have to justify their existance somehow. So spending our hard earned tax dollars Policing us and our activities must be more important than actually having to seek and find actual terrorism (oh. They are using us for practice. That must be it. To keep their skills fresh) wether foriegn or domestic.

These guys have way to much time on their hands, and with the bubba with a badge attitude that has always existed in Florida (I mean dumping people out of wheel chairs. Or tasing just because they can) what can a citizen do?

Ask them. They will tell you "Comply" or else. They might arrest you for resisting! We obviosly have not had enough yet!

We should all invite a jack booted thug to dinner and thank them for instilling fear into us. The public, that they are hired to serve!

Thanks Mr. Jack Booted Thug Guys, and Girls! Thanks for looking out!

[QUOTE=Haldol05]A while back, I talked about a whitelist for people. Recently I've thought again about it and here's why....

Has anyone noticed a rash of new members, asking for specific details (look in massage parlor reports) and then never reporting anything specific or adding good information to the board? Also I posted about Alyssa in SW threads and got 15 PM's about her #, from people with 1-3 posts. I sent fairly not nice PM's back and got no response. (I'd offer to fight if I got one like that, lol....not normal).

If you look at some posts in the reviews, there are 3-4 guys with three to four posts each all saying how a new girl on BP with no reviews, is really great. Then you go to TER and the girl has 1 review and none elsewhere.

I'm friendly to new people who contribute, and yes I'm a little paranoid, lol as I know many LEO's and know how they think. It just feels like there are too many of these instances lately, and something smells fishy...

Again, I think a whitelist from trusted providers on us is a good idea. It doesn't have to have a phone number, maybe our name here on the board, and a neutral way to describe us. Call me paranoid again, lol, but does anyone think it smells like donuts lately, lol.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Haldol05]A while back, I talked about a whitelist for people. Recently I've thought again about it and here's why.

Has anyone noticed a rash of new members, asking for specific details (look in massage parlor reports) and then never reporting anything specific or adding good information to the board? Also I posted about Alyssa in SW threads and got 15 PM's about her #, from people with 1-3 posts. I sent fairly not nice PM's back and got no response. (I'd offer to fight if I got one like that, LOL. Not normal).

If you look at some posts in the reviews, there are 3-4 guys with three to four posts each all saying how a new girl on BP with no reviews, is really great. Then you go to another site and the girl has 1 review and none elsewhere.

I'm friendly to new people who contribute, and yes I'm a little paranoid, LOL as I know many LEO's and know how they think. It just feels like there are too many of these instances lately, and something smells fishy.

Again, I think a whitelist from trusted providers on us is a good idea. It doesn't have to have a phone number, maybe our name here on the board, and a neutral way to describe us. Call me paranoid again, LOL, but does anyone think it smells like donuts lately, LOL.[/QUOTE]Dunkin must have installed WIFI. Some of the post are questionable. They stand out among the rest. But, I've seen some new one that seems pretty legit.

As I recall the review on another site for the girl mentioned wasn't very good. I also searched elsewhere and found none.

Funny you should mention this, Haldol. I too, have had quite a few PM's from members I've never even heard of asking for favors, details, or whatever. After you look over their posts you say, WTF? 80+ posts and not one single, solitary, legit review? This ain't right.

Then you have newbies come and speak very loudly for 3-5 posts, only to never be heard from again.

I am for the whitelist.

Make no mistake, this board is monitored heavily by LE. I have mentioned this on a number of occasions, previously. A while back, a MSNBC report on prostitution showed the blue homepage to viewers.

I have also noticed that some senior members seem very fishy. In one case, I noticed a senior member copy and paste parts of my report in his: I have a very powerful sniffing nose.

The efficiency of a whitelist can be argued. But till a whitelist is developed, follow these few simple rules:
1. If a member has less than 10 reviews, delete their PM's.
2. If a senior member PM's you with a specific request, Left click on the members name --> Select Find more reports by member. If the members reviews are one liners, or seem empty and fake. Delete the PM.

Silence is the best policy. Sure, you could blast curses and send impolite emails. But, IMHO it takes a big person to remain silent.

My regular providers have mentioned that some of my senior referrals acted very strange and made them feel very unsafe.

Lets watch our backs.

From the number of posts detailing your visits, some of you are spending a reasonable amount each month on companionship. If anyone is interested in learning more about international opportunities including destinations, related sites and costs, please feel free to PM me. For starters the owner of this site has a related international site -- [url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum[/url]

Yes, again this is a little off-topic but worth noting.

The Winter Park Art Festival on Park Avenue happens this Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. It is completely free except for parking. In addition to seeing some beautiful artwork and sculptures, you will see more hot women in one place than any other time in Cent FL. There will be a plethora of fine, unattached, classy women that are there for the picking. They are there with their girlfriends, so a wing-man is a big help. It's so easy to talk to them under these circumstances. There's no loud music or distractions to deal with. It's just fine women standing right there waiting for you to make a comment on whatever painting they're looking at.

I had my best day ever two years ago. I got seven phone numbers from various women on a Sunday afternoon. I didn't even spend the whole day there! Two of the numbers worked out OK for me. Last year, I didn't have the volume. However, I did meet and hang out with one woman. I ended up dating her for awhile.

You guys with SO's can go do some window-shopping if you can't get away on your own. Mention to the missus that'd you'd love to go there to look at the beautiful "art."

This is worth checking out guys. I think you'll be happy you went and got some culture!

They have live concerts on the stage as well. Another avenue to pursue beautiful women and have some fun. Here's the link:

[url]http://www.wpsaf.org/CMS/[/url]

You guys are getting pretty creative with those posts. Keep 'em coming, they give me a good chuckle.

I posted not expecting a reply. The amount of girls posting under excort adds isn't very much so I would have to think the odds of a pm would be slim to none. Although there are some very nice and well like girls who advertise I am still in hopes we increase our female numbers.

I was checking out the Miami section since I am going to be down in the area soon and come across some awesome posts.

One of the guys is taking action photos and capturing the money shot. How bold this guy is to convince the girls to let him do this. I obviously don't want to see a guy naked but getting actual photos of SW's and girls whos advertised pics are hard to see how good looking they are.

Food for thought gents.

I personally don't venture out for SW's but, for the girls who advertise with so so pics this would be helpful to each other.

When my companionship funds replinish I hope to give it a try. Be Safe

Comala

Take a look at this conversation and what this prick newbue wrote because I tried to help him. This is why seniors hate newbies that come on here seeking info but never contribute.

Private Message: Re: Info on Lucia?
03-21-10 at 19:55 *
Originalgamer
Regular Member
Reports: 2
Re: Info on Lucia?
Actually, plenty of girls will give you that information in an e-mail. Why do you think Backpage has a reply button? I usually like to touch base with providers by e-mail first, then call when I'm ready to set up the actual appointment.

The ad I'm talking about is sketchy because that information isn't already there. That's basic stuff that 99% of ads already have. How does "yeah go see her" make you trustworthy? Since you can't provide a single detail, you sound like a cop trying to set me up. But I'm sorry I didn't know this board has a magical trustworthy meter based on number of posts, as if that proves something.


Quote:
Originally Posted by Magic74
Quote:
Originally Posted by Originalgamer
Any chance you expand on her?

[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleE...ble-now/2712904[/url]

I tried e-mailing her just to get some basic information, like her rates, if she's GFE, and where in east orlando she's located, and got nothing back.

Thanks for any help


nope sorry but u haven't contributed enough for me to trust you with details. What I said should be enough.
No girl will give u that detail in an email.

Wow, you are so childish, posting this. Not to mention I admitted my mistake and posted 3 reviews, which is just slightly less than you, a "senior member" who from looking at his posts requests a lot more than he gives. So excuse me when I get a sketchy reply from an already sketchy ad cause it lacks any kind of information.

[QUOTE=Magic74]Take a look at this conversation and what this prick newbue wrote because I tried to help him. This is why seniors hate newbies that come on here seeking info but never contribute.

Private Message: Re: Info on Lucia?
03-21-10 at 19:55 *
Originalgamer
Regular Member
Reports: 2
Re: Info on Lucia?
Actually, plenty of girls will give you that information in an e-mail. Why do you think Backpage has a reply button? I usually like to touch base with providers by e-mail first, then call when I'm ready to set up the actual appointment.

The ad I'm talking about is sketchy because that information isn't already there. That's basic stuff that 99% of ads already have. How does "yeah go see her" make you trustworthy? Since you can't provide a single detail, you sound like a cop trying to set me up. But I'm sorry I didn't know this board has a magical trustworthy meter based on number of posts, as if that proves something.


Quote:
Originally Posted by Magic74
Quote:
Originally Posted by Originalgamer
Any chance you expand on her?

[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleE...ble-now/2712904[/url]

I tried e-mailing her just to get some basic information, like her rates, if she's GFE, and where in east orlando she's located, and got nothing back.

Thanks for any help

nope sorry but u haven't contributed enough for me to trust you with details. What I said should be enough.

No girl will give u that detail in an email.[/QUOTE]

As we all know this is a private hobby. We all want to keep our identities safe from wives or leo. Yes you did reply with a review imediatly after learning the forum give then take unwriten policy. However I can vouch for Magic since he has personally set me up with one of the hottest providers I've been with. I know its like walking on egg shells but its not a good idea to bash a senior member. Jackson will delete your profile and ban you from the forum if it persits. Just trying to be helpfull since we all can learn from each other on great new finds.
My .02
Comala

We do all need to get along. We need to help each other stay safe at the same time we are sharing information which hopefully will be useful. It is a challenge.

Originalgamer came out of the blue asking for information even though he had not provided any. This forum is successful because we have so many guys who are willing to spend some of their own money and take a chance now and then. There is no badge of honor associated with being a senior member. It just means someone has posted a certain number of times.

Let's all get along, but I for one am never going to pander to noncontributors. Sure they COULD be LE, but definitely they are leeches just looking for someone else to do their research for them. That, no contributing member should tolerate.

[QUOTE=Originalgamer]Wow, you are so childish, posting this. Not to mention I admitted my mistake and posted 3 reviews, which is just slightly less than you, a "senior member" who from looking at his posts requests a lot more than he gives. So excuse me when I get a sketchy reply from an already sketchy ad cause it lacks any kind of information.[/QUOTE]


Here's the deal. You come on here asking about a girl. With no history on here..I was nice and told you she's cool and go for it. You ask me for more detail and I told you I don't know you so I can't give you detail but that she's cool safe and a good time. I'm not going to tell you what position and price and were she lives. If she wants you to know that she can tell you herself. I'm not her agent.

Instead of thanking me for my advice that I gave you for FREE, you bark back at me for not giving you more detail and accuse me of being a cop. Maybe I am a cop. You will never know. You don't have to take my advice. You are the one that asked for me. I didn't force my advice onto you. So when people try to help you out..thank them for how much they help you...not bark at them for not helping you enough.

If you follow my post, you will know that I'm the first one to defend a new member on here when a senior member attacks them. But you attacking me for helping you out...that's just not cool.

[QUOTE=Originalgamer]Wow, you are so childish, posting this. Not to mention I admitted my mistake and posted 3 reviews, which is just slightly less than you, a "senior member" who from looking at his posts requests a lot more than he gives. So excuse me when I get a sketchy reply from an already sketchy ad cause it lacks any kind of information.[/QUOTE]

Since when is it Magic's obligation to provide more information from someone else's ad?

He gave you at least some information, which is more than you had when you started. Your response is to bash him for this? You should be thanking him instead of berating him.

I've got an option for you. Why don't you just disappear and we'll pretend none of this ever happened. We've gotten along very well without you before, and we'll certainly do fine after you leave.

When I searched for posts with Kissimmee, I got Orlando stuff, so I assume it's sort of a suburb or something (I don't live around there) ... SO, I'm posting this link here in hopes it will be useful info. I read the Atlanta Journal online thing and this was posted today.

[url]http://www.ajc.com/sports/atlanta-braves/gwinnett-brave-suspended-after-405125.html[/url]

Another CL sting in Kissimmee (thanks Twisted for the info from Atlanta). If you are from out of town, Kissimmee is the area south of Orlando, in the US 192 area.

Here is the link from the Orlando Sentinel today:

[url]http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/local/breakingnews/os-kissimmee-prostitution-sting-20100326,0,5068081.story[/url]

Play safe out there.

MM

For the ratio of busts compared to good reviews and real deals, we should all forget about Kissimmee.. Except for the few AMPs :)

[QUOTE=TwistedBrother]When I searched for posts with Kissimmee, I got Orlando stuff, so I assume it's sort of a suburb or something (I don't live around there) ... SO, I'm posting this link here in hopes it will be useful info. I read the Atlanta Journal online thing and this was posted today.

[url]http://www.ajc.com/sports/atlanta-braves/gwinnett-brave-suspended-after-405125.html[/url][/QUOTE]

I had only good luck in Kissimmee and Osceola. LE down here needs to focus more attention on keeping the prisoners in the jail rather than create new prisoners. While they talk about cutbacks in spending in all departments in Osceola county they seem to have plenty of resources to instigate crimes that otherwise go unoticed by anyone. I can understand them being concerned with keeping the tourists street areas clean of obvious prostitution, but puting energy and resources into the BP and CL stuff does not do anyone any good and is a waste of property / sales tax dollars.

Hi fellow mongers,

I'll be visiting Orlando late next week and looking for a good time. Hope someone can provide a recommendation. Looking for a reliable outcall to my hotel near international drive, DATY, BBBJ, cim, not a clock watcher for a full hour. Please PM with any leads.

Much appreciated!

I am visiting Orlando for one night today from Tampa area and staying around Florida Mall area, can somebody provie me good contact around that area for who can provie good service at resonable price.

Thanks all you Orlando brothers for help.

So I was thinking about the bussiness like relationship between the preferred provider and the frequent client. Should I feel bad or look for a new frequent provider if I have seen a lady several time and never offered any additional time to spend with them after the agreed upon time.

I have spent between maybe 2-3k over the past 6 months. I am aware she provides extra time to talk with some clients but never such a thing has been offered to me. I am not looking for a long term relationship of any kind but sometimes an offer to just hang out for 30 minutes wouldn't be out of the questions would it?

I was torn to write about this because I enjoy my time with her and don't wish to hurt this agreement should she find out who I am. So please any other providers or clients tell me how you think of this? Is this a true GFE experience if the extra time offer is never provided or am I just simply thinking to much?

If you don't want to responde here send me a personal message I am curious if others have the same thoughts on this.

You seem like me and enjoy at least some connection with a lady other than just sex.
Perhaps posting in Companionship with your particular need will help.

Don't rule out the casuals in c/l. It takes work but has been fuitfull for me

[QUOTE=Mikaeles]So I was thinking about the bussiness like relationship between the preferred provider and the frequent client. Should I feel bad or look for a new frequent provider if I have seen a lady several time and never offered any additional time to spend with them after the agreed upon time.

I have spent between maybe 2-3k over the past 6 months. I am aware she provides extra time to talk with some clients but never such a thing has been offered to me. I am not looking for a long term relationship of any kind but sometimes an offer to just hang out for 30 minutes wouldn't be out of the questions would it?

I was torn to write about this because I enjoy my time with her and don't wish to hurt this agreement should she find out who I am. So please any other providers or clients tell me how you think of this? Is this a true GFE experience if the extra time offer is never provided or am I just simply thinking to much?

If you don't want to responde here send me a personal message I am curious if others have the same thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]Personally I monger because I don't want to hang and talk. I just want to have fun and go, but sometimes I have to force my way out with an excuse to stop the jibber jabber. My suggestion though if you want to "Hang and talk" is to find out what her interest and aspirations are outside of the hobby and be able to discuss those items. Don't talk about yourself or your interests, just ask what is going on in her life. What ever it is, be very interested, don't suggest how to fix her problems, just listen and empathise. People like to talk about themselves and everyone has a story to tell. IMHO

[QUOTE=Mikaeles]So I was thinking about the bussiness like relationship between the preferred provider and the frequent client. Should I feel bad or look for a new frequent provider if I have seen a lady several time and never offered any additional time to spend with them after the agreed upon time.

I have spent between maybe 2-3k over the past 6 months. I am aware she provides extra time to talk with some clients but never such a thing has been offered to me. I am not looking for a long term relationship of any kind but sometimes an offer to just hang out for 30 minutes wouldn't be out of the questions would it?

I was torn to write about this because I enjoy my time with her and don't wish to hurt this agreement should she find out who I am. So please any other providers or clients tell me how you think of this? Is this a true GFE experience if the extra time offer is never provided or am I just simply thinking to much?

If you don't want to responde here send me a personal message I am curious if others have the same thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]

No one can tell you how to feel, if you feel bad (sounds like it) then you feel bad.

In my opinion a GFE experience is when you get the emotional and physical experience that you desire. It's all about your total time together and how you feel at the end, it can be 20 min. or 2 hrs, it's about the flo and the response, it has to do with looks, smell, touch and technique and that indefinable quality that gives us that warm feeling at the end. Always remember that it is a business relationship, the owner of a restaurant does not love you he just wants you to be happy with the food and return for more and make the cash register ring. However if your a drunk or abuse his people he never wants you back no matter how much you spend. That might be a cold analogy but it is true.

Providers do not offer additional hang out time it just happens in the moment when are talking and the time just flows. Most know how to signal that it's time to go, if you don't get the signal then they will get more specific. Just take the time it is not going to be offered.

It sounds like your getting a little hooked by her. Have a long talk with yourself and talk yourself out of it, trust me there is no where to go in these type of "relationships". You wind up in "Save a Ho" mode and it ain't gonna happen. "Pretty Woman" was a fantasy movie.----VS