You are talking about a different situation
My comments were towards the ladies that demand money to do meet and greet, or demand money to just talk to you to try to work out arrangement details, during messages exchange. What you are saying is on a situation where the lady did not demand money to meet and greet and you volunteer to give her a gift.
I have never said to don't give them gifts or don't take them shopping, etc.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4308604]I usually give $60-$100 for a meet & greet. Usually dinner or meeting up for drinks. I don't tell them they are getting the money, I usually hand them an envelope during or after (and adjust the amount based on how we click). It's almost worth it to see the surprise on their face.
When I was in Miami, I met someone for a M&G, we met at some bar in the afternoon. She said she only had "a few minutes" to meet. We talked about 5 minutes and I gave her the envelope. She was stunned. She said she had to go to the restroom, came back five minutes later and ordered another drink and told me that she cancelled her appointment. We drank together for about an hour and she said she had to leave. An hour later, I had a text saying that she was free and asked what hotel I was staying at. She showed back up later that evening, dressed to kill and we spent quite a bit of time in the hotel room. Before she left, I left $300 (might have been $250) under her cell phone and went to the bathroom. I came back and she handed me the money and told me that I left my money out on the night stand. I told her it was for her and the look I got was priceless.
I think it's best to remember that for the most part, people on SA aren't escorts (or they are only wannabe escorts) and in my opinion, you really shouldn't treat them like they are. They are NOT coming to a meet and greet because you are sexy and they want you, they are showing up because they are hoping to meet someone that will give them money and buy them things. As a Daddy, that's your job. Don't be cheap.[/QUOTE]
SmileBlondie AKA blndinheels
[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;4309025]Why does this one ring a bell. Cannot make the connection where I have seen her before. I know she has been on SA for a bit. Does anyone have any intel on her? Her profile screams BB friendly and maybe even a PRO. But nothing concrete. If anyone has any first hand intel please do let me know.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ccce325a-cb72-57c5-e7b3-04110058d2cb[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BuckNaked123;4309297]I fucked her a few years ago. She was cute, a little bit spacey. I did suspect drugs. BBFSCIP.
My review of her here. She used to have the name blndinheels.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?22090-Bareback-Providers&p=3614475#post3614475[/URL]
FYI: Some links in above reviews are no longer valid as this is an old post.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing, incredible intel here. She is very far away. Lets see how the communication goes and if it works out for me to go see her.
What do you like to see when emailing an SB for PPM?
I have a friend who is just starting out as an sb. Mostly Vancouver BC with some trips to Seattle. She's hot and has a filthy mind and she's open to PPM BBFS on the first date if the chemistry is there (300 for multiple hours, I think) but she says the guys are all too timid in their asks. She ends up going on coffee dates that are like OKC dates but they mostly lack follow-through and then just want to text chat forever afterwards. Or they just want to endlessly beg for pics up front after she's already sent enough. If you're messaging the perfect girl, what do you like to see in the first messages to get past the first awkwardness and quickly close the deal? And do you expect the girl to always be able to play at her place, or are you typically ok with getting a hotel? She's obviously not going to say outright sex for money in email but there are ways to talk about it with class and discretion, eh?
Biglifedreamer. Provider Vibe?
[QUOTE=Twister100;4319921]Anyone have any experience with Biglifedreamer? Contacted me and I feel like I have seen her pictures before. Gives off a provider vibe.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fb7704a4-1350-4801-8ab5-95a3c8b5ca11[/URL][/QUOTE]Haha. No kidding. Her goal in life is a nose job, a boob job and lazer hair removal everywhere. .