Sexual Addiction Reports

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3213404]I am 59 and I have a S / O at home who doesn't show interest in our sex life I have to initiate everything she is still attractive but the menopause thing has been a problem for her and our relationship. But I wasn't and haven't been a faithful guy in our entire relationship I've cheated from day 1 and I really love her if I wasn't with her I'm sure I would never commit to anyone else. But I can't stop seeing women I don't want a relationship or an affair, I just want to see and feel different pussies tits ass faces. I can't go a week it's been 5 days and I'm raring to go, Thursday is the day I've been searching backpage escort Babylon and USASG to find the one I want even thinking about old favorites and I won't be satisfied till the deed is done. I guess I am addicted to sex. HL29.[/QUOTE]Sex addiction is probably far more rare than is diagnosed. Think Tiger Woods was really a sex addict? Dude slept with like 120 chicks over 6 years. Most mongerS would hit that mark on 3 months!

Some people can't control their behavior (I. E. Look at porn 20 hours a day) but most of us just love pussies. And yeah it's entirely possible to love your SO and supplement with other women.

I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.

Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.

[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3230911]I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.

Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.[/QUOTE]I know providers in every state, but don't have any friends to speak of anywhere.

[QUOTE=LustyGuy;3210546]I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.[/QUOTE]I am wondering if this is the way I will continue to be into my 70's? I did the novia thing in Dominica last year and it was great. We actually told each other we loved each other after the 2 weeks. Me and the other 10 guys she sees a year.

I am at a point where I have to take viagra and chase it with cialis, and I use an otc like stiff nights or black panther. Sucks getting old, but my prostate still works like a champ!

[QUOTE=TooBe101;3193706]I know its kinda old to report on this but what to do when things happen without making any effort. This happens with me a lot. I'm good with my spending. Always two weeks or more when I visit someone. But during that time I keep meditating on how to do the girl. The excitement gets real high and the money stays in the pocket but I would be rather happy to spend it like what happened in your case. LOL.

But thanks for great support of working on this addiction. It will need to slow down / stop one day.[/QUOTE]I can't stop, slow down, step away from this"game"! When I'm on a Buss. Trip I can run 3,4 AMPs in a row, something about the "rush" that I'm feeling, the high, to see a girl walk into the room, and the touch. (Asian) Hard to figure out. I'm" OLD, (not 70) LOL but have more of a sex appt. ,now, then when I was 16. The more I get, the more I want, money is not a problem for me, so AMPs, BP, strip clubs girls, have no limits for me. I have a great wife at home, not interested in sex anymore, so I feel what I do on my" Buss. Trips" is ok! I'm not hurting anyone, am I? So am I a bad person, Am I a sex addt. ? You tell me! Drk.

[QUOTE=DarkSideOfMe;3231116]I can't stop, slow down, step away from this"game"! When I'm on a Buss. Trip I can run 3,4 AMPs in a row, something about the "rush" that I'm feeling, the high, to see a girl walk into the room, and the touch. (Asian) Hard to figure out. I'm" OLD, (not 70) LOL but have more of a sex appt. ,now, then when I was 16. The more I get, the more I want, money is not a problem for me, so AMPs, BP, strip clubs girls, have no limits for me. I have a great wife at home, not interested in sex anymore, so I feel what I do on my" Buss. Trips" is ok! I'm not hurting anyone, am I? So am I a bad person, Am I a sex addt. ? You tell me! Drk.[/QUOTE]I don't know if you're a bad person because I don't know you. But just because you / we may have an issue with sex addiction wouldn't make you (or any of us) a bad person. I'm sure 99% of us in here are good to excellent people. We just have justified this lifestyle we choose to lead (usually on the down low) over choosing to be in a more acceptable (and out in the open) relationship.

Or maybe we're just bored with our partner and want to add some spice to our life / sex life. Who really knows. I'm sure there's many explanations why we do this.

Are you / we sex addicts? Probably. But that has to answered individually and the easiest / quickest / cheapest way to answer that question is to try and leave. That'll tell real you fast.

As for me, the longest I've made it in the past 25+ yrs is 23 days. I was really proud of myself but in the real world that's pathetic. As I type this post I'm at 18 days since my last encounter (not counting self service).

It sounds like you've had some success in other areas of your life. If this is a concern of yours and you're looking for answers to some of your questions, as we all here are, see if you can stay away. That'll be a good starting point.

If not, have fun doing what you're doing. I'm sure it's hell being in a sexless marriage.

[QUOTE=Miketastic69;3230913]I know providers in every state, but don't have any friends to speak of anywhere.[/QUOTE]A HUGE helping of self realization right there.

Not too far behind you on that, my friend.

[QUOTE=DarkSideOfMe;3231116]I can't stop, slow down, step away from this"game"! When I'm on a Buss. Trip I can run 3,4 AMPs in a row, something about the "rush" that I'm feeling, the high, to see a girl walk into the room, and the touch. (Asian) Hard to figure out. I'm" OLD, (not 70) LOL but have more of a sex appt. ,now, then when I was 16. The more I get, the more I want, money is not a problem for me, so AMPs, BP, strip clubs girls, have no limits for me. I have a great wife at home, not interested in sex anymore, so I feel what I do on my" Buss. Trips" is ok! I'm not hurting anyone, am I? So am I a bad person, Am I a sex addt. ? You tell me! Drk.[/QUOTE]In life these are just adjectives. Good and bad are moving targets. Is it bad to see a provider who uses her skills in bed because she may have tried the job market and failed, but still can make money to feed herself and her family?

What is the definition of a Sl*t? An addict?

How many days one had sex in a month qualifies?

How many different partners fits those definitions?

Is binge fucking a symptom? Numerous girls in one day?

Is it possible I am one?

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3255054]What is the definition of a Sl*t? An addict?

How many days one had sex in a month qualifies?

How many different partners fits those definitions?

Is binge fucking a symptom? Numerous girls in one day?

Is it possible I am one?[/QUOTE]In the road of sex life.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3255054]What is the definition of a Sl*t? An addict?

How many days one had sex in a month qualifies?

How many different partners fits those definitions?

Is binge fucking a symptom? Numerous girls in one day?

Is it possible I am one?[/QUOTE]I think it depends more on how preoccupied you are with it than how often you actually get it. Most guys think about sex a fair amount, but only some guys (myself included) think about it to where it starts to affect other things. I probably think about it more than what is good for a guy.

Also depends on what you're risking. I use a cover for everything, but I'm still risking disease. I'm also risking things like getting beaten or robbed by a pimp, getting on a 5 o'clock news or having, say, a car wreck in a part of town where I have no legit reason for being. I see providers about 1-2 times a month. Which isn't much compared to a lot of guys here, but I'm risking a lot to do even that much.

So with my definition, yes, I am a sex addict.

Well I'm here again, looking for the answer that we can't seem to find for ourselves, I have made it past a few winter months, my travel for Buss. Is going to start back up next week! What better place to go looking for pussy, but "Motown, week after LV. There is no hope for me now, my heart has been racing for weeks in anticipation. My old fingers can't (Tap fast enough USA, Ter, Back page, Craigslist) you name it, I've been there. Taking notes, reading post, texting, writing down numbers, making calls. I think Ill say it now and get it out of the way: I'm a sex addict, so fuck it, I'm going to fuck as many as I can, and roll the dice, before my time has expired! I just can't stop this "high" I'm on now, no matter what I try! See you on the other side, stay safe my friends! Drk.

I began seeing providers when I was in the military three decades ago, stopped for several years when I left the service, saw a couple SWs in the '90's. I stopped picking up SWs because LE in my city began cracking down and because of the overall risks. However, I did a lot of window shopping for many years after that. I guess cruising around and just looking was kind of a substitute for porn. Even without partaking, it was a huge turn on just knowing there were chicks out there who would drop their panties if the price was right.

Then life and high speed internet happened. In the late 2000's, my marriage was rocky, I checked out online porn one day, and it was like a hit of crack. I watched and whacked off nearly every day for a couple years. But eventually that wasn't enough and I wanted to tap the real thing. Resumed seeing providers in the early 2010's. I didn't do FS with them at first due to fear of disease and figuring I wasn't really cheating if I didn't screw them. But of course I soon crossed that line and it's been game on for most of the last 5 years or so.

I used to be able to go a few months without seeing a chick. Now, going 2-3 weeks is torture. I go through a lot of burner phones because I "quit" only to get back in the game at some point. I only get action 1, maybe 2 times a month, which isn't much compared to a lot of guys on USA. But I come to this or related sites almost every day, I still watch porn 2-4 times a week, and I spend a lot of time planning, researching etc who would be the best or most convenient chick to get with. Oh yeah, and the other thing that happened in the last several years was yoga pants and leggings. Man, those reveal far more than the tightest pair of jeans back in the day. Makes it so much harder to stay away from the game. After seeing a bunch of hot 20-something bodies bouncing around at the gym, I start to think, why am I fantasizing, I can just get my burner phone and get with a hot 20-something right now.

It's been 23 days for me since I saw a chick. I occasionally have days where I never visit a site I shouldn't, but it's rare.

[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;3261941]I used to be able to go a few months without seeing a chick. Now, going 2-3 weeks is torture. I go through a lot of burner phones because I "quit" only to get back in the game at some point. I only get action 1, maybe 2 times a month, which isn't much compared to a lot of guys on USA. But I come to this or related sites almost every day, I still watch porn 2-4 times a week, and I spend a lot of time planning, researching etc who would be the best or most convenient chick to get with. Oh yeah, and the other thing that happened in the last several years was yoga pants and leggings. Man, those reveal far more than the tightest pair of jeans back in the day. Makes it so much harder to stay away from the game. After seeing a bunch of hot 20-something bodies bouncing around at the gym, I start to think, why am I fantasizing, I can just get my burner phone and get with a hot 20-something right now.

It's been 23 days for me since I saw a chick.[/QUOTE]Er, not mocking or bragging, but thanks for that as if that is where a line can be drawn I am miles beyond that and thus in VERY deep! I mean if 2-3 weeks is torture, then what does that say for 2-3 days? Sigh.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3261995]Er, not mocking or bragging, but thanks for that as if that is where a line can be drawn I am miles beyond that and thus in VERY deep! I mean if 2-3 weeks is torture, then what does that say for 2-3 days? Sigh.[/QUOTE]There have been lots of times when I've seen a chick, I swear I won't do it again, and I'm plotting my next action a few days later. 2-3 weeks is about how long it takes to where I'm climbing the walls and am about to lose my mind.