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[QUOTE=Bran001;5392829]This is a huge part of it. Communicating with an escort, well, it's easy. Communicating with a 20-something college or grad student on SA, who may or may not have done this before, is entirely different. Men get it wrong all the time. It's a fun discussion I often have at a first coffee date. The girl I met earlier this week is still pretty new to SA but she was laughing about it. That was a good sign; many of the girls get totally disgusted and delete the profile after a few days of it.
Even men who THINK they know what these girls want to hear get it entirely wrong.[/QUOTE]For ever flake, GSP, and time wasting female we encounter on SA, these girls get 10 X that from the lonely basement trolls. I had the very unfortunate opportunity to see the messages of a girl I meet on the site. All I can say is there's a ton a F'and freaks out there!! The stuff some of these idiots send on first contact even gave me the creeps. Most if not all of them have zero intention of ever meeting or entering into any kind of arrangement with these girls, but if you are new on the site, and that's your first impression, I can understand why they give up so quickly. I'm as respectful as possible with what I say I'm looking for, what I write in my messages, and how I treat them, but you can tell by their tone sometimes that they are sick of the BS and very skeptical of everyone no matter how honest and respectful you try to be.
Shame. I bet a lot of great gals get scared off early.
[QUOTE=Spill;5393359]How you communicate with them is the KEY. And yes, many give up after a few days.[/QUOTE]Of all of the messages I sent, none of them read it nor have logged in recently. This tells me that they don't get notifications via email because they probably get 50+ messages a day, they check it weekly for the same reason or they can't check it because of they have no membership. Either way, I tried it and don't like it. Glad it works for some one you though.
[QUOTE=NHughty;5394753]For ever flake, GSP, and time wasting female we encounter on SA, these girls get 10 X that from the lonely basement trolls. I had the very unfortunate opportunity to see the messages of a girl I meet on the site. All I can say is there's a ton a F'and freaks out there!! The stuff some of these idiots send on first contact even gave me the creeps. Most if not all of them have zero intention of ever meeting or entering into any kind of arrangement with these girls, but if you are new on the site, and that's your first impression, I can understand why they give up so quickly. I'm as respectful as possible with what I say I'm looking for, what I write in my messages, and how I treat them, but you can tell by their tone sometimes that they are sick of the BS and very skeptical of everyone no matter how honest and respectful you try to be.
Shame. I bet a lot of great gals get scared off early.[/QUOTE]I know what you're saying. I don't write a story. But, I write at least 2-3 sentences just to make the initial contact in a friendly and professional way. I've posted in CL and DL in the past and yes, I've gotten messages from guys, who write the most nastiest one liners I've ever seen. Anywhere from "hey, let's fuck". Or, "my dick is ready to pop inside you. " So, yes, I can imagine what these women get and it is unfortunate for most of us, who do take the time to write a thoughtful message, to get ignored or even deleted without reading.
I am planning to meet her tomorrow. Anyone seen her before?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8f56f50e-f4dd-4455-9272-983dcfc6fc35https://www.seeking.com/member/8f56f50e-f4dd-4455-9272-983dcfc6fc35[/URL]
[QUOTE=Mattis1775;5394811]Of all of the messages I sent, none of them read it nor have logged in recently. [/QUOTE]I'm not sure how you have your filters set up, but from your description it sounds like you are messaging girls who haven't been active recently. My suggestion is to filter them as "last active" and only message girls who have been on in the last 2 days. Many will give up and not delete the profile, or have success and not delete the profile. And yes I would imagine due to the sheer volume of messages most have their notifications turned off. I take it even farther and favorite the ones I like but only message them when they are online so I at least have the chance to be near the top of the list. I would say I end up with responses from about 50% of my messages. Of those maybe 50% last for more than 3-4 messages. And of those maybe 25% end up off the site messaging and many of them turn into some type of arrangement.
I currently have 2 (21 and 26) that I see regularly or semi regularly. I intersperse those with the occasional one-off. Had a one off this past Monday, Bunny_Lemon, who was 4 bills, came to me driving an hour, stayed for 3-4 hours, MSG, BBBJ, bbfscip, light bdsm. The 400 was supposed to be an overnight but I decided against it. Seemed like there was the possibility of her being a user and at the very least a semi pro, just from some of her comments. Still had great sex, nice conversation, and a good dinner. I would repeat but not on a regular basis. No link b / c I delete them once I have them.
I've had a bunch of girls say they would like to meet, but want to meet at Encore. I've always declined because it seems like it might be some kind of scam or they hope when we get there and I'll just give them chips to play with and they can disappear. After I decline, they go silent. Anybody ever meet a girl at a casino. How did it go?
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5395797]I've had a bunch of girls say they would like to meet, but want to meet at Encore. I've always declined because it seems like it might be some kind of scam or they hope when we get there and I'll just give them chips to play with and they can disappear. After I decline, they go silent. Anybody ever meet a girl at a casino. How did it go?[/QUOTE]I always get the feeling I'm being set-up as an ATM for them if they are looking for a shopping trip or gambling spree for the first meet. I'd have no problem with either one later on, as long as I have established some level of comfort with them.
First meets for me are always a quiet low volume restaurant. I don't want a lot of distractions when I'm there to try and get to know someone for the first time. If they're not interested in having a semi intelligent conversation I figure they are a pro or semi-pro. If they happen to be super hot and willing I'll go for it, but it will probably be a one and done for me.
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5395797]I've had a bunch of girls say they would like to meet, but want to meet at Encore. I've always declined because it seems like it might be some kind of scam or they hope when we get there and I'll just give them chips to play with and they can disappear. After I decline, they go silent. Anybody ever meet a girl at a casino. How did it go?[/QUOTE]I always meet chicks at encore. I get free rooms so it saves me money on that aspect. But its a way to meet a woman and not get scammed or set up. Security is top notch, cameras everywhere so these girls can't try there bullshit if they have a game plan to scam you but on the flip side. Nothing more impressive to these young woman looking for a sugar daddy and a payday when you give them a nice dinner at fratelli, gamble a bit while they drink and then hit the suite. In there mind they think your high rolling but because of my casino status all that shit is free through comps and stuff. I have repeats of woman who want to meet there again for the night, costs me nothing, they just wanted the night at encore and again dinner, drinks etc all free. I mean its a better hotel experience to take a very attractive woman than having them go to the red roof inn or the avalon or any other shithold motel around revere / everett. If your not a gambler and have no comps there then its not worth it because rooms can costs up to 200 and a dinner at fratelli or the steakouse for 2 can costs again 200 but if you have perks at encore then its a very nice way to treat these woman and let them think there in luxury when really its all comped for free.
Has anyone met up with this one? Any insight or info?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7ca68553-d395-4928-bcb9-d9822870bd2e[/URL]
Anyone meet this one?
[QUOTE=ClPost045;5397653]Has anyone met up with this one? Any insight or info?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7ca68553-d395-4928-bcb9-d9822870bd2e[/URL][/QUOTE]I have text messages going back over a month as well as talking on the phone. She's says she wants to get together but will never firm anything up. I sense some sort of baggage. I got the sense she was looking for a relationship but I also sensed there's some emotional baggage. Give her shot and let know!
[QUOTE=CookieLover;5398771]I have text messages going back over a month as well as talking on the phone. She's says she wants to get together but will never firm anything up. I sense some sort of baggage. I got the sense she was looking for a relationship but I also sensed there's some emotional baggage. Give her shot and let know![/QUOTE]Texted for months. Never met up. Sent some pics. Said she had all these fetishes. Doesn't seem serious I wouldn't waste your time.
[QUOTE=CookieLover;5398771]I have text messages going back over a month as well as talking on the phone. She's says she wants to get together but will never firm anything up. I sense some sort of baggage. I got the sense she was looking for a relationship but I also sensed there's some emotional baggage. Give her shot and let know![/QUOTE]Am I doing something wrong here? Every link I click it never works and I have a subscription. I get this message:
"Profile Not Available. This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you. ".
I just started this SA thing and I'm sure that no one has blocked me yet.
[QUOTE=Mattis1775;5400057]Am I doing something wrong here? Every link I click it never works and I have a subscription. I get this message:
"Profile Not Available. This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you. ".
I just started this SA thing and I'm sure that no one has blocked me yet.[/QUOTE]Somehow you blocked her or she blocked you her profile still works for me:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7ca68553-d395-4928-bcb9-d9822870bd2e[/URL]
Note that sometimes girls deactivate or disable their account when they need a pause, they get overwhelmed with messages or just need to take a break. That message you got will say that when they disable for a period of time. Good luck!