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[QUOTE=JkNova9;5159239][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/acee5e5f-b6b5-4988-950e-23fe41c61b78[/URL][/QUOTE]That link is for your message.
[QUOTE=Jost815;5157515]I got the same vibe from her. She wanted 400 and wanted to come to my place. She also said condoms are a must. Haven't pulled the trigger yet.[/QUOTE]There's a sugar lifestyle discussion on Reddit and she is on there giving advice and talking about her experiences. Same username. She seems VERY experienced.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4729ca30-4404-4195-9cce-298107a9c513[/URL]
This is yet another total smoke show (based on the one pic) that likely has more messages than she knows what to do with. I've messaged her twice over the past few months and neither has been read. Any one even talking to her?
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[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fc0150cb-4d3e-479a-95ac-b7c868626cd9[/URL]
So. Yeah, LOL.
Tl; dr: you can lead a horse to water, but sometimes she's just a massive bee itch.
When I decide to get back on SA, I generalize my search in 3 categories: the tens, the realistics, and then what I like to call "charity work". So I spied this one:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd71974-fc42-48c0-b2c0-b48ea7020a92[/URL]
I like redheads, so lets see where it takes us. I reach out, suggest maybe we can help each other out, she sends her number so we start texting.
I ask her what her primary motivation is, because I like to know. Money, dick, or just to have a fella around? Money, she's in a bad place with debt on some medical bills. She's divorced, kid is with her ex because COVID. Okaaay. I ask her what her source of income is, she's a Lyft driver. Physically taxing, unfulfilling work, I get it. She's studying to be a paralegal, probably another year or two. Interesting, but ok. I'm just trying to get a picture of what's going on, you know, that "mentorship" these babies always say they want. No, that's right, they don't want advice, they want stock tips or some other. I press on more, and I find out she used to be an LMT! Had a license, let it expire or moved out of the state. Are you guys thinking what I'm thinking?
I ask her if she'd ever thought about getting back into massage. How would she feel about happy endings? You know, since she's already putting it out there that she'd do "something" for money. She already has the skill, investing in a $2 bottle of oil, can you make a fist for 2 min? I know some guys who would probably be happy to help you, you wouldn't even have to advertise. Hell, 100/ hr, in a week you'll be back in business. "I wouldn't want to do massage without a license". Well sweetie, I don't think there's a license to give a handy after a massage, I think you'd be fine. "No, that's not how I want to make money". Ok, you're on a sugar babies website, well what the heck do you want? "I want a no strings attached, mutually beneficial relationship". I ask her to kindly cut the shit and tell me exactly what she wants. She'd rather meet up and discuss in person. I counter with I'd rather talk now than have you waste my time meeting you.
Finally I get it out of her. She wants an allowance, amount unspecified and I sure as hell wasn't going to ask. I tell her that the nature of my sugar stash doesn't allow for an allowance, sorry, I have to do PPM. She replies "PPM is for escorts". I ask her to explain to me what's the difference between doing something for an "allowance" vs PPM. She makes some disparaging remarks about "those men" who solicit a word that rhymes with "frostitute". The hipocrisy is amazing. I tell her I'm no longer interested, and she says good luck in my search for a ppm, as if it's some kind of insult. Yeah, good luck. As an overweight single mom in debt with a crappy attitude, I'm sure she'll do fine.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e34d-a24f-49b4-bdaa-1d213e7c089f[/URL]
[QUOTE=Jsidd;5164456][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e34d-a24f-49b4-bdaa-1d213e7c089f[/URL][/QUOTE]Got her to text several months ago and then came the "need the deposit" to prove I am real.
Anyone have info on this one? We are currently messaging on the site but she is a little slow to respond. Seems dtf but haven't discussed any figures or dos / donts.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8a6681ff-1f1a-4ea7-b773-68691dcc15b5[/URL]
[QUOTE=JamesBlond007;5163967]Tl; dr: you can lead a horse to water, but sometimes she's just a massive bee itch.
When I decide to get back on SA, I generalize my search in 3 categories: the tens, the realistics, and then what I like to call "charity work". So I spied this one:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd71974-fc42-48c0-b2c0-b48ea7020a92[/URL]
I like redheads, so lets see where it takes us. I reach out, suggest maybe we can help each other out, she sends her number so we start texting.
I ask her what her primary motivation is, because I like to know. Money, dick, or just to have a fella around? Money, she's in a bad place with debt on some medical bills. She's divorced, kid is with her ex because COVID. Okaaay. I ask her what her source of income is, she's a Lyft driver. Physically taxing, unfulfilling work, I get it. She's studying to be a paralegal, probably another year or two. Interesting, but ok. I'm just trying to get a picture of what's going on, you know, that "mentorship" these babies always say they want. No, that's right, they don't want advice, they want stock tips or some other. I press on more, and I find out she used to be an LMT! Had a license, let it expire or moved out of the state. Are you guys thinking what I'm thinking?
I ask her if she'd ever thought about getting back into massage. How would she feel about happy endings? You know, since she's already putting it out there that she'd do "something" for money. She already has the skill, investing in a $2 bottle of oil, can you make a fist for 2 min? I know some guys who would probably be happy to help you, you wouldn't even have to advertise. Hell, 100/ hr, in a week you'll be back in business. "I wouldn't want to do massage without a license". Well sweetie, I don't think there's a license to give a handy after a massage, I think you'd be fine. "No, that's not how I want to make money". Ok, you're on a sugar babies website, well what the heck do you want? "I want a no strings attached, mutually beneficial relationship". I ask her to kindly cut the shit and tell me exactly what she wants. She'd rather meet up and discuss in person. I counter with I'd rather talk now than have you waste my time meeting you.
Finally I get it out of her. She wants an allowance, amount unspecified and I sure as hell wasn't going to ask. I tell her that the nature of my sugar stash doesn't allow for an allowance, sorry, I have to do PPM. She replies "PPM is for escorts". I ask her to explain to me what's the difference between doing something for an "allowance" vs PPM. She makes some disparaging remarks about "those men" who solicit a word that rhymes with "frostitute". The hipocrisy is amazing. I tell her I'm no longer interested, and she says good luck in my search for a ppm, as if it's some kind of insult. Yeah, good luck. As an overweight single mom in debt with a crappy attitude, I'm sure she'll do fine.[/QUOTE]That's all I run into here in DC metro area. Unrealistic SBs working as cashier or some other work and they want a monthly allowance that's more than their annual salary.
Been back on the site now for like two weeks after a break and wow there is slim pickings you would think with the economic problems it would be easier its almost the opposite. Talked to two girls who seemed dtf and still got ghosted.
First one [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be63731c-afbe-4685-a484-19761b124b6b[/URL].
Talked on the site her profile seems like she doesn't like to waste time. From her photos she was pretty hot so we moved straight to text. Some small talk we set an amount easily a good deal. So I was lets meet tomorrow at a public place lets see if we click ie lets see if you look as good as your pictures before we get a hotel, or if youll let me do you in a car. She said ok to the location see you tomorrow the day of crickets.
Second one [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73cd0081-3657-4dce-adc5-c031e78a1a6c[/URL].
Very similar to the first one till we get to arranging a meet up she's like am two hours from you one of those girls who has the multiple location. So then I asked when will you be at the location near me. She said when someone makes it worth my while. I tuned off at that point.
Man its rough anyone got any links or recommendations for dtf girls.
[QUOTE=David032;5165092]Been back on the site now for like two weeks after a break and wow there is slim pickings you would think with the economic problems it would be easier its almost the opposite. Talked to two girls who seemed dtf and still got ghosted.
First one [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be63731c-afbe-4685-a484-19761b124b6b[/URL].
Talked on the site her profile seems like she doesn't like to waste time. From her photos she was pretty hot so we moved straight to text. Some small talk we set an amount easily a good deal. So I was lets meet tomorrow at a public place lets see if we click ie lets see if you look as good as your pictures before we get a hotel, or if youll let me do you in a car. She said ok to the location see you tomorrow the day of crickets.[/QUOTE]We all get ghosted on occasion, it happens and is the nature of the beast. Without trying to sound like a jerk, no chick that looks halfway decent or doesn't have a monkey on her back wants to "let you do them" in a car. You might reconsider your approach. The majority of the women on SA want to think they aren't hookers, asking to do them in the car pretty much tells them they're trash. Just my two cents bud, hope it helps.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2160c697-c3cd-4bd3-afa8-2fa0decc5809[/URL]
She's been around for awhile, has anyone spoken to her or seen her face?