Start gradually if you need to
[QUOTE=HobbyHobo;2550968]Dude, you had with everything until the no stimulation part. Changing eating and exercise habits would be a little tough, but no porn and no masturbation could throw me over the edge. Didn't you go through withdrawals? What if my dick is so mad at me after a month it won't respond to a human touch. Did you do this? Did it work? There is already sweat on my forehead just thinking about this.[/QUOTE]By the way if A2 would prefer to throw this in the Octagon go right ahead; it might not be appropriate for "General Reports" but I don't know where the grey area meets a cut-off point given this topic.
So if you have ED and it is a concern for you, yes you'll need some discipline to see this through. It ain't easy. But I don't need to think about those months anymore now because the hard work is done. You're going to suffer a little bit in the present so that your future present will be better. That's your motivation. It's supposed to be a permanent fix.
You could start with less time. I was reading into PTman's situation and think he might warrant a long induction period. Try a week. The hardest part actually is stopping masturbation for the first 72 hours. If you were like me I never went more than a day without popping one off, so you'll have to keep that in perspective. The longer you go, though, the better the results can be AND it gets easier. If anything you'll have a bit more time in the day for other things!
There is a growing body of scientific evidence out there supporting an abstinence method for curing ED. There's a probable brain-chemistry thing happening. Just google masturbation, porn, and ED and lots of stuff will come up. Keep in mind that the Viagra (among other ED-related drugs) craze heated up just after the internet exploded with free porn. Think there might be a connection?
It worked for me and the other benefit was my confidence got a boost. Don't know exactly why, but it might be something about the ability to achieve some self-control. My induction period with no stimulation at all was 3 weeks; after that I allowed myself a release every week. Some of those releases were with an assortment of our lovely USA ladies. After three months I was back to the kind of erection I got in my 20's. You might need less or more time. Just tailor it to your needs and be realistic.
If you're still not motivated, just think how great it would be to simply get aroused, strap on a rubber and slip your rocky balboa easily into a woman's vagina. When everything works the sex is off the hook. None of that fucking around trying to get hard for 5-10 minutes before intercourse with a limp dick inside a rubber. Boy that looks like the last chicken in the shop for sure.
Side Effects to testosterone therapy
[QUOTE=Garyhb;2548898]Did your Doctor check your Testosterone level. Sometimes a low t level can lead to E.D.[/QUOTE]You might want to talk to doc about side effects of testosterone therapy too. My understanding is that it isn't always the best route to take.
She makes my list for reliability
Because never once has she blown me off or no-showed on me, and I've seen her many times (although not in the last month or so). All of the low volume providers will blow anyone off if they have a steady deal coming in that they know will fill the quota for the day.
They probably don't worry that the guys won't show up again. I've joked with Natalie about how her phone blows up, and she laughed and told me her process every morning for deciding who to see from all the text messages.
Personally, and this is just me, when I find once I like I pay full rate for multiple hours so I know they'll be there when my schedule opens. I know that's not for everyone, but I never get stood up and my mileage rarely varies.
[QUOTE=Ashoka;2550845]She is, if not the best provider in the area, then at least top 5. But I've had her blow me off like this at least 3 x. Sounds like you dodged some drama though, judging from the posts about her dad. I'd love to see her again but she's just not dependable. It's funny she's makes other guys' lists for reliability. She's anything but. But my experiences were so intensely GFE-like with her I've been tempted yet again to make another exception (she's already burned through a couple exceptions with my normally strict one strike rule for chicks who no call-no show me). Her old man storming the premises does make it tougher to justify, though.
P.S. : from what I can tell, she does only one date a day. You have to get a hold of her, confirm it and get the hell over there before someone else calls. Once she gets her daily dollars she's done. No return calls or texts. I think maybe some regulars just get priority if they happen to call or something. I've found calling any earlier than the day of with her is a fail. Calling too early the same day is a fail. Calling too late is a fail. Basically, she's the Ticketmaster of escorts.[/QUOTE]
Reverse image search on iPad
Does anyone have a suggestion on how to do a reverse image search on an iPad to check out a pic sent via email?
Sharonville / backpage caution
Thought I would relay a story of something interesting that happened today. May be nothing- decide for yourselves.
Around 11 am I starting getting the itch and starting sending iuiries to known people, but received not one response.
So around 2 ish, I took a look on backpage and saw a very attractive AA woman whom I did not recognize. She had multiple locations of West Chester, Mason, Sharonville and one other place listed. Her ad said she was running specials but did not mention prices.
So I shot her a text and asked where she was located and received an immediate response "Sharonville. " Being not new to the hobby, I sent her a text back telling her that I would not go to sharonville and suggesting she change locations.
She immediately sent a return text asking why not Sharonville? So trying to be helpful and believing she had a legitimate concern, I sent her a long list of Sharonville problems and emphasized the problems with certain motels there.
She then says a text saying she is not in a motel. This got my attention, so I sent her a text saying how is it that a brand new girl to the area is not working out of a motel / hotel situation? I asked her to send me the address and received no further response. I went back to the ad intending to attach the link to a report, but it was already gone. Unfortunately, I had already deleted the number but it was a 513 area code.
Could have been a sting- I just don't know.
Be safe.
