Opted in - Dj Hunter - Opt out
Anything weak people can't control they call a disease.
It's a croc...a cop out.
It's a weakness. It's also a choice we made.
You're free to choose; you're not free to choose the consequences of your choice.
Mongering isn't a disease; it's a psychological problem.
It can be [b]"fixed"[/b], but it requires a willingness to want to fix it.
Mongering goes deep; a person must first [b]"fix"[/b] these root causes before they will ever have the willpower to "just say no".
DJ, we all have some unresolved issues that are contributes to our mongering....but until you find the courage to manage your problems, you'll continue to go down.
You stepped into the dark side, and literally become lost and confused;
realized that you were going down the wrong path and hit rock bottom.
If you wanna kick, then kick. It's as simple as that. [size=-2][b](on your time scale.)[/size][/b]
But if you keep it up, you're gonna lose yourself and everything else.
No one, and I mean no one can get you to stop unless you wanna to stop!!!
Us fellow mongers can give advice till we're blue in the face,
but again unless you want to stop its not going to happen.
[b]Most of us have incorporated this in our lives; we manage and live with it.[/b][QUOTE=Rapid]I prefer non-lovers to lovers: more choice, control, objectivity, less guilt, fewer complications, clearer expectations. But sex is addictive, expensive and dangerous - lover or non-lover - and you always pay. Hope you are able to get things under control, whatever you decide to do.
Rapid[/QUOTE][b] I beg to differ; I think he has a chance.
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For you DJ.....it just seems different. You seem like a young, smart, rational and intelligent person;
It all depends on how you play the game; find a good civillian hoe(s). :)
Mix it up a little bit, but lean heavy on the civillian side.
Slowly.....ween yourself from the darkside.
Turn that into a habit.
If you want to ignore that, then .......
I'm new and need some advice from you vets
Is it safer to pick up a SW round Baltimore st or ww. It looks like the le around Baltimore st just be riding around not looking for anything while around ww I kept seeing le lurking everywhere. I been around both areas two day's straight to try to scope the scene out and look for some prospects. And how should I approach the SW to let them know I'm serious. I have a young face and a couple SW didn't think that I was serious.