Girls be like that sometimes
[QUOTE=RJD123;4893602]So if you'll all allow and indulge me for a moment I would like to vent. What the hell is wrong with these women? They are SO flaky. I follow their instructions, send them a PM on HX, then text, I am polite, friendly and courteous in my PM and text messages. I do everything correctly. They respond for a second and then often mid-texting conversation they disappear for an hour or stop all together. I communicate distinctly and often offer them more than they quote just so MAYBE they'll pay attention and respond. Trying to connect with these women is unbelievably frustrating. I'll be texting them or PM and they forget who they're talking to and start a conversation all over again in the middle of an existing conversation. As I said I am polite and friendly. I jump through all the right hoops and do everything the right way but many times I can't get anywhere. I am a middle aged white male white collar professional and I let them know that. I thought the whole point of what they're doing is to make money. So fucking flaky and spaced out. I mean I understand some have drug issues and other problems but it seems lately nearly every single one I contact seems to end up being a bunch of wasted time. FLAKY, FLAKY, FLAKY! Never had so much trouble trying to give people money in my life. Do these woman want to work or not? It's like they're going out of their way to make it hard on us. Thoughts? Comments? Any of you feel similar? Am I doing something wrong?[/QUOTE]I almost wrote a similar post the other night so I very much feel you on this but I do think you have it twisted. So yeah it's a business but their product is their actual selves so their risk is super high. Since you seemed to vibe a certain way here, it's possible you vibe that way in texts and keep getting ghosted because of it. Personally, I keep asking myself why I vibe po po but that's my cross to bear. Try not to ask too many questions and if they aren't responding the way you like, on to the next. Unless you're into some really niche shit, there are tons of providers that will do the thing you want to do. I'm sure you at least got a mental list of who you might want to see so just cross one name off and try another. It's Los Angeles. The pond is constantly replenished.
For the record, I have been ghosted 3 times over the past month and haven't had a date since the end of June. One said come thru and then went silent when I asked for the addy, next one said they wanted a date asap and then I said cool I can leave in 20 and never heard back until 7 a the next day and then the one from the other night that got me most heated was a girl who said she could meet right then but when I was 5 minutes from her place she texted and said she had someone coming by and could I wait an hour? I was bummed but I was already there, she had been squirrelly plus I had already taken my vitamin before I left the crib so I did the dumbfuck thing and waited for an hour and forty only to wind up ghosted. My takeaway is that I only see pros that do appointments. I am sure I will break this new rule many times and feel all types of ways about it.
These videos make me feel like I have a huge dick!
These videos don't do anything for me, except feel like me dick is not as small as I thought it was!
Maybe being amateurs recording they don't know how to hold the camera, but it makes feel feel like I have a Super Dick!