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Anyone have any suggestions (or warnings) on how best to share sexually explicit videos? Text and email limit quality and / or size, and I'd like to share large decent quality videos, and restrict access to who can see it. At least not something that a search engine might find. I thought about just using google drive but wasn't sure. Thanks in advance.
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[QUOTE=PrivateParts;6450075]Anyone have any suggestions (or warnings) on how best to share sexually explicit videos? Text and email limit quality and / or size, and I'd like to share large decent quality videos, and restrict access to who can see it. At least not something that a search engine might find. I thought about just using google drive but wasn't sure. Thanks in advance.
P. P.[/QUOTE]Google Drive can be a good way to share and control access to media, because you can add people individually (and remove them as necessary). I use it for this, to share regular movies with friends.
One big, big caveat: you'll want to make sure to loosely compress each file, as a. Zip or. Rar. Because the company (Google) has bots to scan folders for audio / video files, to ensure copyright compliance. If you loosely zip your movies, they'll be excluded from these scans, because they're not media (they're zip files, containing media, which Google doesn't scan.).
There's a compression app (free) called 7 zip that works great, and it lets you compress things as "storage only" so it doesn't take long on the compression or extraction end of things.
[QUOTE=Shawtren;6449456]I tend to enjoy car dates for my part of this hobby life. My favorite place to go for them used to be the Meijer parking lot. I would park toward the last few spots where there were other cars waiting overnight for service at a closed tire shop. If I parked just right then I could stand outside the van with my provider sitting on the floor and go to pound town and not worry.
Then Meijer got the idea of installing those mobile camera pods on the trailers with the crank up tower and the blue flashing lights. Shit!
I have a friend that is a security consultant, and he has installed all sorts of cameras in places you would not think. Places like self-serve car washes, cemeteries, construction sites, and city parks. The technology is incredible, and the cost is lower than ever. Absolutely tiny, with ion batteries and motion activation that let them last for two years in place.
So now I am looking for better go to spots that are easily accessible for me to try. Anyone got good ideas?[/QUOTE]One time I went to family fare to get some groceries. I park next to guy who was sitting in his van with his vehicle on. Some homeless lady walk by in parking lot. Went home didn't think anything about it. Then cops knocked on my door asked if I saw this homeless lady in the family fare parking lot. I said I did see her when I was leaving Family Fare. Well I guess she stole items from store and gave it to the get away Van that I parked next to. Then when I was leaving the Van left at the exact same time. Once I showed them my Family Fare receipt they knew I wasn't part of this criminal group. But it was interested they got my plate from the parking lot cameras. And also got a close up pic of the homeless lady in the parking lot zoom in. Be careful any place that has cameras since these new surveillance cameras can zoom in right into your vehicle.
[QUOTE=TypicalDude;6450185]Google Drive can be a good way to share and control access to media, because you can add people individually (and remove them as necessary). I use it for this, to share regular movies with friends.
One big, big caveat: you'll want to make sure to loosely compress each file, as a. Zip or. Rar. Because the company (Google) has bots to scan folders for audio / video files, to ensure copyright compliance. If you loosely zip your movies, they'll be excluded from these scans, because they're not media (they're zip files, containing media, which Google doesn't scan.).
There's a compression app (free) called 7 zip that works great, and it lets you compress things as "storage only" so it doesn't take long on the compression or extraction end of things.[/QUOTE]To build on this, it may be obvious but I'll say it anyway, you should start a new google account or make sure you're hiding your name, etc. I've had good drives shared with me and then you go in and look at the sharing permissions and can clearly see the full name of the person that shared out the info. Double check your settings and if possible, send yourself a link from an outside account so that you can see how it looks to external users and make sure you're not sharing your personal info.
[QUOTE=CandidGuy35;6450372]One time I went to family fare to get some groceries. I park next to guy who was sitting in his van with his vehicle on. Some homeless lady walk by in parking lot. Went home didn't think anything about it. Then cops knocked on my door asked if I saw this homeless lady in the family fare parking lot. I said I did see her when I was leaving Family Fare. Well I guess she stole items from store and gave it to the get away Van that I parked next to. Then when I was leaving the Van left at the exact same time. Once I showed them my Family Fare receipt they knew I wasn't part of this criminal group. But it was interested they got my plate from the parking lot cameras. And also got a close up pic of the homeless lady in the parking lot zoom in. Be careful any place that has cameras since these new surveillance cameras can zoom in right into your vehicle.[/QUOTE]That's what I'm saying! And to put a shade across the windshield is fine, but it does nothing for the side windows, and also limits you from seeing potential issues of passers by or patrols.
It's starting to look like I need one of the old full size vans from the 70's! Far out man!
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It's starting to look like I need one of the old full size vans from the 70's! Far out man![/QUOTE]One of these with shag carpet inside and out, ought to really seal the deal with the ladies!
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Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.
[QUOTE=Dean27;6454680]Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.[/QUOTE]They not in the biz to fall in love, well ya they are with your wallet, there has been 1 on here lately that creeped them out bad enuff they left biz, after draining his cash, do a search then you can pm him and ask personally.
He probley will deny it but worth a shot at saving your cash lmao.
[QUOTE=DjBiker;6456791]They not in the biz to fall in love, well ya they are with your wallet, there has been 1 on here lately that creeped them out bad enuff they left biz, after draining his cash, do a search then you can pm him and ask personally.
He probley will deny it but worth a shot at saving your cash lmao.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dean27;6454680]Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.[/QUOTE]The list of guys who have been taken to the cleaners by providers is long. Many were experienced hobbyists that should have known better. The level of deceptiveness that someone has to be able to pull off to survive in the hobby makes participation in it an automatic disqualifier for relationships for me. I know I am being a hypocrite but there is a reason the saying "It takes one to know one" was coined.
[QUOTE=Dean27;6454680]Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.[/QUOTE]This ain't Pretty Woman, hun. I appreciate the sentiment and it's always flattering to have a client look at you in that light, however most of us have a pretty hard line about mixing business with pleasure. One. Its awkward. There will always be this thing hanging over your relationship that it started in a transactional form. And two. We're not going to stop. We aren't. Just being honest. I mean unless you make Insane money and are going to float our extravagant lifestyle we've come accustomed to and are able to provide, LOL. Then you will always wonder. We really do make shitty girlfriends in real life, unless of course you are very open to sharing and not necessarily being included, LOL. And that works for some. It works for my personal relationship, but we're weird, LOL.
[QUOTE=WaltK;6457278]The list of guys who have been taken to the cleaners by providers is long. Many were experienced hobbyists that should have known better. The level of deceptiveness that someone has to be able to pull off to survive in the hobby makes participation in it an automatic disqualifier for relationships for me. I know I am being a hypocrite but there is a reason the saying "It takes one to know one" was coined.[/QUOTE]I got involved with a much younger stripper and ended up with a baby. She went from being crazy in bed to basically a catholic nun. Religion hit her hard. I have to say she didn't really take me (other than 18 years of child support). She finally demanded I marry her or she was out of there. She wound up outa there. Now she is living in Chicago and going to Seminary school.
[QUOTE=Dean27;6454680]Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.[/QUOTE]In my experience the good ones will make you think about them almost like there is more than just a transaction. Heather was like that for me but years ago when I first started in the hobby. It's an art form and some have it down. I now appreciate the ones who care and treat me well but talk regularly so you know your not the only one.
[QUOTE=Dean27;6454680]Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.[/QUOTE]I thought the same thing when I first got into this hobby. Had multiple visits to one specific provider and I thought that I was being treated differently, or I getting something others were not getting. In my mind she was only getting naked and sitting on my face because I was the fucking man! Then I did a search and found that others posted how she made then feel special and how she liked sitting on their faces too.
Maybe, just maybe, you could pull it off?? But you also said that you want to help them get back on their feet. I would hate for you to fall in love with someone, invest time, money, and emotions just to have her bounce when you helped her pull her shit back together. Some of these woman have unbelievable street smarts.
My advice. Don't be a mark. There are too many options out there for you!
Have fun and be safe.
[QUOTE=Dean27;6454680]Has anyone ever had the hots for one of the providers that if given the chance you would be with them as in a long term relationship or marriage? I have had 2 that I absolutely thought were pretty and would of loved to help them get back on their feet whether it would of been having them as a gf or?? Ivy was one of them lmao. I met sexy Sammy before she went down hill she was actually really hot but not so much anymore.[/QUOTE]I took one in for a while, they honestly weren't that bad, but I laid ground rules. I looked at it as in house fun, not trying to get too attached. It lasted about 3 months though. They couldn't break their "habit" as we had discussed, even with a trip to rehab. I mean aside from that there was a lot of fun, but they couldn't stick to the agreement, so I dropped them off and haven't looked back. Just be sure to be in control of the situation. Then again I wasn't looking to fall in love or anything and had little emotional investment, just a good time.
[QUOTE=Cassidy69;6457378]This ain't Pretty Woman, hun. I appreciate the sentiment and it's always flattering to have a client look at you in that light, however most of us have a pretty hard line about mixing business with pleasure. One. Its awkward. There will always be this thing hanging over your relationship that it started in a transactional form. And two. We're not going to stop. We aren't. Just being honest. I mean unless you make Insane money and are going to float our extravagant lifestyle we've come accustomed to and are able to provide, LOL. Then you will always wonder. We really do make shitty girlfriends in real life, unless of course you are very open to sharing and not necessarily being included, LOL. And that works for some. It works for my personal relationship, but we're weird, LOL.[/QUOTE]Well said CJ. Your honesty is as refreshing as your numerous other talents. My advice to any and all mongers: if you're looking for a relationship, look somewhere else. This hobby is about having fun and meeting needs. Keep it simple and don't get tangled in the nets when you go out for a swim.