DJ Hunter Broke the Chains
this is an event worht posting about.
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We sailed the same boat for quiet sometime, seeking the same thrill, dipped into same holes, so I will give you my advice. We spent time and money, and drove miles chasing an urge, which was nothing different than the first snort of heroin. To some, it is the hunt, to others, it is the companionship, in truth .... it is an illusion.
Mongering is no different than the salmon fish migration upstream. It is a costly hobby filled with risks and humiliating moments -- satisfaction is short lived, with a report on USASG and an occasional photo. Personally, I discovered I was not after the adrenalin rush, or the release, I was after a satisfying companionship which I never found.
When a monger tells you how much he is nice to the girls, or how nice they are to him, how he trusts them and how they reciprocate, it is all an illusion. Cum buckets are not darlings; crack wh0res are not GF material. I do not find joy and satisfaction within their misery, nor would I contribute to it.
Not many can walk out of this habit without scars of all types. It is an expensive habit, consumes time and resources. One night I looped the 3 strolls, and ended up with a bone, to learn she was HIV+ the next day. I dont do anything for less than $30 she said. That is when I asked myself if I was just a monger, and it was just a hobby.
If we ever thought of attending Sexaholics Annonymous just to pick up horney women, then you know what I mean. Support groups and SSRI drugs are effective, but we are still searching for companionship with all the side benifits ... it is the cure.
If you are waiting to hit bottom before you change habits, then it remains your decision. Force yourself to take a week off the habit, and start doing what you neglected. Look around you, you will find value.