The Roommate. Lesson Learned. Again
So just another example of being too soft and falling for the sob stories combined with the flakiness of younger babies.
Roommate and Athlete were about to get evicted. I gave $225 to avoid that scenario. This was a Monday. We had a Tiggabounced scheduled for that Thursday.
She failed a test in school that Tuesday and was in danger of not graduating. She then went almost complete radio silence since that time. I have gotten some updates via the Athlete, but the roommate has been very weird and non responsive. She did mention that Thursday would have been the last date for 2 weeks until she finished school. What she failed to mention is that she would not even say "good morning", during that time.
As of now, I'm counting that money as a loss and shaking my head at myself once again. I thought it was a scam, but emailing with theAthlete, she assured me it wasn't. Seems that this young lady can just be flaky in life and not the best communicator. I have monitored her login activity and she's not logged in to the site in over 2 weeks. So although it's not a scam, it was still a waste of money on my part. I will check in with her on occasion. My goal would be to get the goodies at least twice. Or get my money back (since she offerred). Both of which seem like a very very slim possibility.
It was very tricky, having two dates with a young hottie, who is about to get evicted because her roommate didn't cover her portion. Trying to get her to the Tiggabounce when she's completely stressed out about the money, her upcoming test, some drama her roommate was causing, etc. If I did not give the money, I pretty much needed to walk away from getting the booty. She didn't say that, but the situation dictated that. So I took the chance and at this point I'm wishing I would have walked away. But she was stacked and the little head just won over the big head.
Other Important Lesson
MsSlilmCheerleader was the backup. Met with her on that Thursday, did the shopping thing for my TiggaPad and she sucked my dry since she was on her period.
BigTigg.
Daydream. Need a raise Sir
So I've had this funny day dream that I thought you gentlemen would get a good laugh from. Many of you out there are company owners or senior management. I'm personally in middle management for small privately owned Company. Co owned by multiple partners, but one main managing guy (Mr Big Boss man). He is older guy but good locking for 60, with trophy wife, and tons of money. In fact, company owns condo in downtown used for customers and big vendors, right in heart of young tight pussy metropolis. I'm 99% sure, other than his trophy wife, he has at least 2-10 HYG he supports and takes to condo often.
So my day dream...I walk into Mr Big Boss man office and sit down. I explain to him I need a raise of at least $1000-2000 a month. He responds, Nug why? You make good money as is. Well sir, I have me, my wife, and of course the 2.5 kids, the dog, and right now 2 sugar babies. But sir, if you gave me a raise, I could support at least another 2 or 3 sugar babies in desperate need of my dick and financial support. Please sir, for the HYG, they need me...Mr Boss man responds, NUG I have this problem too, and can sympathetize. Ok, your approved. Go forth and do your part to support these young ladies. NUG-Thank you sir!!
The following was a day dream, but might someday happen if I had enough alcohol and another job lined up. Thought this might get a couple laughs from the guys in my position and the Big Bossmen out there.
I need some advice / help from this vaunted brotherhood
First of all, the diversity of the members on this forum is incredible. Someone did a survey not too long ago asking where everyone was located. Seems like every section of the good old US of A was represented. Amazing.
I don't post much in this forum, though have been dabbling in the bowl for about a year and half. Had two great twenty-something SBs for my first experiences. Both had skills that blew (pun intended) my mind. Both were students and as that situation often presents itself with terminal circumstances (graduate and move away, etc) they have left the fold. Last summer I made the acquaintance through SA of a 46 year old MILF. This woman is amazing. She's had kids but through the magic of cesarean, she is as tight as a 26 year old. She's in the midst of a nasty divorce so sometimes the conversations when we are together (about three times a month) slide into that. But I listen (been through one of those myself!) and it helps with the bonding we all seek as opposed to a pro provider. She has a manic sex drive that I find hard (pun intended again) to keep up with. But I please her and she pleases me. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING, is off limits to her sexually speaking.
So here's my problem. She has told me that she is very, very bi-curious and wants to explore this with me in a FMF threesome. Yes. There is a God, right!! I've told her that this is every man's fantasy of course. So she is wanting this as much for me as for herself. But where do we find this elusive third party. CL is full of crazies and wackos, the only lesbian night spot in this part of the world is Babe's (those of you who know this area of VA know what that is) but you can only find butch dykes there. I know. Had Sunday brunch there one time years ago with my SO at the time and there was not a fem / girly-girly in sight (which is obviously what we are both looking for).
I am jealous of the SDs out there whose SBs are already bi-experienced and can dig up the occasional third party. But what is a desperate SD to do in this situation.
HELP! Comments, suggestions, advice.
ASL.