Seriously Guys, Don't Fuck a Good Thing Up
I reached out to Jay today to see what was going on, and she said that one of the limited referrals I sent her way started getting nasty / personal when they couldn't quite agree on terms for a date. She can't remember who it was and deleted the info, and I'm sure there's another side to the story, but I'm going to lay out my personal philosophy on dealing with a referral.
1) Approach each girl with respect. Understand that for every decent, serious Monger she sees, there's probably 10 flakes or assholes. Don't be one of them.
2) None of the girls are under any obligation to see you. Even if you agree to terms, if you show up and she doesn't feel safe, or simply doesn't like something about you, it's ok for her to turn down the date if she doesn't take the money. Even if a girl is completely wrong about you, they have to do whatever they feel is necessary to remain safe.
3) Feel free to ask for what you want and the price you're looking for. Understand that they are entitled to ask for however much they feel their services are worth. That may vary by day, mood, or if you're a lousy fuck. There's a fine line between legit negotiation and being an asshole. If the girl doesn't agree, don't badger her and call her names. Just move onto the next pussy for hire.
I've gotten a lot of requests for her info. Based on her feedback, very few others will be receiving it. So congrats to whoever you are. You've fucked over a few dozen people here on the board. If another SM does something to fuck up a good thing, I will strictly go to back channelling with a very small circle of mongers here I trust without exception. I've put in my time and brought a lot of good providers to the board, I'm not interested in continuing to do so if people here are going to make it tougher for me to enjoy the hobby. End Rant.
Stay Safe. Happy Hunting. Don't be an Asshole.
JDBoy.
[QUOTE=Jdboy;3288509]Found Jay recently. Haven't seen any posts about her yet, so while she definitely plays like a pro, I'm guessing she may either be new, or just a real freaky UTR. Anyway, she's 23, not a spinner, a little soft, but young and in pretty nice shape regardless. She is also a true freak. Likes to talk dirty leading up to the main event, during, and has even sent me pics and dirty talk after. She's pretty firm on her asking price of 1. 4 or more, but I'm going to repeat. SM's can hit me up for her info.
Stay Safe and Happy Hunting.
JDBoy.[/QUOTE]