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[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;5127548]Not sure if anyone wants to get involved and report, anonymous tips nowadays are not as anonymous. Those days are well gone.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I did look into it. The things you can report on are pretty worthless, and I'm sure they'd be quick to categorize it as "sex crime", which you cannot report on. I think vigilance is the key, hence the forum.
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Video Chat
[QUOTE=Lobsid;5127497]You can still do video chat. They get you by trying to get you to strip or jerk off on video. So just be smart about what you do on video.[/QUOTE]Dude,
If you're comfortable being recorded talking to a girl about this sort of thing, knock yourself out. I'm definitely not going to be choking my chicken on video, that goes without saying. But I'm also not going to discuss dating, arrangements, preferences, etc. With someone who could be recording it. I'm not so interested in having a video of me doing anything related to dating, let alone sugar dating floating around the www.
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[QUOTE=JamesBlond007;5128764]Yeah, I did look into it. The things you can report on are pretty worthless, and I'm sure they'd be quick to categorize it as "sex crime", which you cannot report on. I think vigilance is the key, hence the forum.[/QUOTE]That's true. I reported my first cash & dash (which, after the sting of loss subsided, felt like completing a rite of passage, BTW) to seemingly no concern on SA's part whatsoever. The girl's profile stayed open for months afterwards. They only care about their business. Reporting an underage profile, for example, results in a rather swift response.
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[QUOTE=Lobsid;5128657]Wish they would region lock your main area. So you can't put DC when your IP comes back as LA. I know you can use a VPN to work around it, but it should help reduce the amount of scammers on the site. I'm fine with increase fees, but they need to provide us with better service and support. AS letting online only has just piss off most of us.[/QUOTE]Sadly, SA is basically a monopoly; they can charge what they please and not do jack shit for us.
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How to
[QUOTE=CarloRogue;5128843]That's true. I reported my first cash & dash (which, after the sting of loss subsided, felt like completing a rite of passage, BTW) to seemingly no concern on SA's part whatsoever. The girl's profile stayed open for months afterwards. They only care about their business. [B]Reporting an underage profile, for example, results in a rather swift response.[/b][/QUOTE]I think you have found how to get the scammers ad taken down. Instead of reporting it as a theft, report the girl as underage. Tell them it wasn't the same girl in the pictures and it appeared she was being trafficked.
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Video Chat
[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5128830]Dude,
If you're comfortable being recorded talking to a girl about this sort of thing, knock yourself out. I'm definitely not going to be choking my chicken on video, that goes without saying. But I'm also not going to discuss dating, arrangements, preferences, etc. With someone who could be recording it. I'm not so interested in having a video of me doing anything related to dating, let alone sugar dating floating around the www.[/QUOTE]I totally agree w foghorn here. I don't like to discuss anything over video chat. I had a feeling what I was getting into which is why I set up a new Skype account and didn't link my contacts. Also, she made some excuse about not being able to "talk" because hubby was in the other room, so I didn't hear her voice. She stripped down played with a toy and encouraged me to do the same. I'm just fortunate to have seen the video prior to the scam. It was surreal and a little entertaining to see the same model in the video.
This scammer was "located" in the US but any VPN will shown that.
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Funny Profile
[QUOTE=Mike77;5123210]This 35 year old "SB"'s profile takes the cake for the biggest GPS award. She wants you to buy her a house and lists the address of the house she wants. LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/44549863-034e-475e-a262-e3a9d24734f1[/URL][/QUOTE]I was chatting it up with this one and she's clearly delusional. Wanted 1 k ppm and her pictures are not flattering for that rate. LOL.
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Losing some business
Well I would keep my premium account going year round, if it wasn't so bad. Now I plan to just renew my premium account, when I decide to drop one of my current SBs from my rotation. Is there any other app that comes close to SA for SBs?
[QUOTE=Grafenberg;5129757]I think you have found how to get the scammers ad taken down. Instead of reporting it as a theft, report the girl as underage. Tell them it wasn't the same girl in the pictures and it appeared she was being trafficked.[/QUOTE]
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Video
I only use video chat to confirm the girl is real. Never talk anything sexual when I video chat. Mostly just BS on how your doing, and what are your hobbies. I normally iron out the details my text on my burner number. Personally I do better in M&G. Did 2 video chats so far. One ended with FC, but girl had a attitude problem in person. So no 2nd date.
[QUOTE=JeauPapel;5129900]I totally agree w foghorn here. I don't like to discuss anything over video chat. I had a feeling what I was getting into which is why I set up a new Skype account and didn't link my contacts. Also, she made some excuse about not being able to "talk" because hubby was in the other room, so I didn't hear her voice. She stripped down played with a toy and encouraged me to do the same. I'm just fortunate to have seen the video prior to the scam. It was surreal and a little entertaining to see the same model in the video.
This scammer was "located" in the US but any VPN will shown that.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Lobsid;5130173]I only use video chat to confirm the girl is real. Never talk anything sexual when I video chat. Mostly just BS on how your doing, and what are your hobbies. I normally iron out the details my text on my burner number. Personally I do better in M&G. Did 2 video chats so far. One ended with FC, but girl had a attitude problem in person. So no 2nd date.[/QUOTE]I have only done facetime chat a couple times, and very selectively, where it was essential to land a non-local dimepiece. I also treat the entire conversation as if it's being recorded and my mother would eventually see it. That's a tricky balance to be cautious without coming across as boring, but if you think about what attracts real girls to older men on SA, it's not that hard (hint: normal girls aren't into crudity or dick pics anyway, but a subtle and well-placed double entendre can be very effective).
BTW, I exercise the same caution with texting, even with a burner app. I only discuss details in person, which is why I move to meet & greets as quickly as possible. Add unless you're applying the most extreme measures, burner phones / apps are only effective if you're concealing your activities from people you live with.
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Leilanihawaii
Have any come across this one?
If so can you share any details?
Tried chatting her up a few times but still no response back from her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ff50bcb4-52d9-4e6a-b461-00251570b63f[/URL]
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A few I'm chatting with
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c189209-3d4f-4c33-8231-9e0b81415091[/URL]
Was quick to move to text but she wants $$ to meet and isn't sure she wants to be intimate the same day.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/251f0304-1e6b-4f1f-b835-509128362db5[/URL]
Seems fun and is dtf. Looking for 250 but can host. Trying to meet this week. Any intel?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6330bd5a-4640-4572-b666-8d36e3db35e4[/URL]
Hard to get her off site to talk logistics. On site she seems to be game. Any intel?
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Goddess_layla_23
This one lives in Georgetown, wants 150/ hr for BDSM. Not my thing, but YMMV.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/11590dfa-e66e-4f1b-9028-92d59acd5d70[/URL]
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[QUOTE=Mm2219;5132245][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c189209-3d4f-4c33-8231-9e0b81415091[/URL]
Was quick to move to text but she wants $$ to meet and isn't sure she wants to be intimate the same day.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/251f0304-1e6b-4f1f-b835-509128362db5[/URL]
Seems fun and is dtf. Looking for 250 but can host. Trying to meet this week. Any intel?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6330bd5a-4640-4572-b666-8d36e3db35e4[/URL]
Hard to get her off site to talk logistics. On site she seems to be game. Any intel?[/QUOTE]I suspect the second one is going to be a hog. She only has a close up of her face (which is pretty) and describes herself as curvy. Doesn't say she doesn't have kids so it leads me to believe she might be on the bigger side with a bunch of kids. Her rate is pretty low too so be careful. That's been my experience anyway.
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Rilke
[QUOTE=Mm2219;5132245][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6330bd5a-4640-4572-b666-8d36e3db35e4[/URL]
Hard to get her off site to talk logistics. On site she seems to be game. Any intel?[/QUOTE] Seemed easy enough to get her to text; maybe it's the holidays...Chatted with her at Halloween a couple months ago. Asked $500 and wouldn't budge. And, her private pics didn't rock my world.