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So true. Wouldn't be there if I didn't at least enjoy the girl's company. They're fun.
The trick is to keep both her motivation and your motivation in mind at all times.
Happy sugaring.
[QUOTE=Truncated;4538869]Sir, we ALL catch feelings.
So do the SBs.
That is part of being in the sugar bowl.
Once you master that part of the game, you will do well.
Understand that you are going to make a bunch of mistakes in the bowl. Learn from them, and move on.[/QUOTE]
I'm seeing an increment of Rinsers on SA have talked to several babies on the past week they all communicate pretty well but when it comes down to meeting they want to meet on a dinner date or movie date and want to get paid $$ just to sit down and have dinner with you LMAO, this is getting ridiculous BUT the sad part of the story is that they keep doing this cause they are acctually scamming people out there I bet there is people paying ridiculous amount of money to these scammers just to sit down and have dinner without even getting physical, that's NOT an arrangement and I certanly wouldn't paid these girls to just come get paid to eat like I can invite my father or someone more meaningful witch I enjoy their company to eat and they would come for free and not some random brat that thinks that she is entitled to get paid just to go out to eat at a restaurant LOL what kind of millennial shit is this seriously the bowl is getting pretty bad I admit it could be really fun if you find the light at the end of the tunnel or you could step on a mine and get blown quick.
[QUOTE=XxJohnJohnXx;4552797]I'm seeing an increment of Rinsers on SA have talked to several babies on the past week they all communicate pretty well but when it comes down to meeting they want to meet on a dinner date or movie date and want to get paid $$ just to sit down and have dinner with you LMAO, this is getting ridiculous BUT the sad part of the story is that they keep doing this cause they are acctually scamming people out there I bet there is people paying ridiculous amount of money to these scammers just to sit down and have dinner without even getting physical, that's NOT an arrangement and I certanly wouldn't paid these girls to just come get paid to eat like I can invite my father or someone more meaningful witch I enjoy their company to eat and they would come for free and not some random brat that thinks that she is entitled to get paid just to go out to eat at a restaurant LOL what kind of millennial shit is this seriously the bowl is getting pretty bad I admit it could be really fun if you find the light at the end of the tunnel or you could step on a mine and get blown quick.[/QUOTE]This is exactly why I like the MILF types. They generally don't have time for those kind of games. I have had great luck in that category.
[QUOTE=XxJohnJohnXx;4552797]I'm seeing an increment of Rinsers on SA have talked to several babies on the past week they all communicate pretty well but when it comes down to meeting they want to meet on a dinner date or movie date and want to get paid $$ just to sit down and have dinner with you LMAO, this is getting ridiculous BUT the sad part of the story is that they keep doing this cause they are acctually scamming people out there I bet there is people paying ridiculous amount of money to these scammers just to sit down and have dinner without even getting physical, that's NOT an arrangement and I certanly wouldn't paid these girls to just come get paid to eat like I can invite my father or someone more meaningful witch I enjoy their company to eat and they would come for free and not some random brat that thinks that she is entitled to get paid just to go out to eat at a restaurant LOL what kind of millennial shit is this seriously the bowl is getting pretty bad I admit it could be really fun if you find the light at the end of the tunnel or you could step on a mine and get blown quick.[/QUOTE]The point is that if they want your money with a promise of something later than it's never going to happen in the first place. As if paying for someone's meal isn't enough and to be so stupid and or desperate to pay someone beyond that tests the bounds of insanity. Word always gets around on campus about easy money so it doesn't surprise me they are out there trying to get it from suckers.
I'm bored so here are two cents; I am lurking from California, I was in S. Florida for about 5 years and had a hot sugar baby ($100) a "sugar chubby ($50) and a hot UTR ($100) These were all free style or introductions from other females (the best way).
The young females do prefer to meet you first because it's a big step for some of them to fuck a stranger for money.
However, I think dinner is unreasonable and would not agree to it for a meet and greet, and I have not done so.
My success in Florida was related to the rumor being spread by females that I had enough dough to spend to make life fun for any girl who hung around me.
It started with my first date with a wild drunk girl but she talked to her coworkers at Home Depot and she bragged; magically two of them started to text me.
I had a gym trainer female for a while and she also spread the rumor to the Jamaican girl who did facials or something. I got her for nothing.
The trick therefore is to let them know that you have money but do not actually part with it; I guess it is a con.
The girls are running a con on you if they promise pussy later "after I get to know you" and you spend $100 on fuckin sushi or in a steak house or similar.
Snowflakes think they are unique; the truth is there are innumerable females selling pussy for $100-$150 . A pussy is about worth what the female could make working at a McJob for a day or two.
JEEZZZ I had a text out of the blue today this morning around 7 am to be exact and it was Alejandra she is been reviewed here, I had gotten in touch with her before but we never matched our schedules it was cold and raining Perfect weather to be plowing some P, and Ale texted me saying she wanted to meet I got up took a shower headed to Raleigh where I got a room next thing you know. Radio silence idk what happened and I don't know if she did that on purpose but it was kinda messed up to get me all exited room was paid already so I texted every single baby I had on my phone luckily I found a rebound I already got a room might as well use it, don't know what happened with Alejandra we have never met before nor pissed her off in any way my guessing she either texted a regular that gave her more $$ or something came up But I never heard back from her oh well.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2073941a-b2df-446c-b4f9-f25a805bba8a[/URL]
[QUOTE=XxJohnJohnXx;4553738]JEEZZZ I had a text out of the blue today this morning around 7 am to be exact and it was Alejandra she is been reviewed here, I had gotten in touch with her before but we never matched our schedules it was cold and raining Perfect weather to be plowing some P, and Ale texted me saying she wanted to meet I got up took a shower headed to Raleigh where I got a room next thing you know. Radio silence idk what happened and I don't know if she did that on purpose but it was kinda messed up to get me all exited room was paid already so I texted every single baby I had on my phone luckily I found a rebound I already got a room might as well use it, don't know what happened with Alejandra we have never met before nor pissed her off in any way my guessing she either texted a regular that gave her more $$ or something came up But I never heard back from her oh well.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2073941a-b2df-446c-b4f9-f25a805bba8a[/URL][/QUOTE]I have not talked to her lately but I've been to her place near Crabtree. I got the feeling that she's semi pro based on two iPhones and the setup in her place. Nice apartment building with minimal but nice furniture in main room. Her room is a mattress and tv on the floor and her "roomie" had a big air mattress. She claimed she had never met anyone but me but we all know that story.
Anyone have any luck with this one? Messaged her a bit and seems legit, but I'd welcome any feedback.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e9fbfb92-69c3-4d36-8b99-7f7c0cac1a12[/URL]
Yes I know, I'm paranoid. But now anytime a see a mugshot of someone busted for extortion, I start thinking the pic looks familiar.
[QUOTE=Ral613;4560541]Yes I know, I'm paranoid. But now anytime a see a mugshot of someone busted for extortion, I start thinking the pic looks familiar.[/QUOTE]Kind of a shame some stupid college kids would figure it's an easy way to make money without realizing the downfall.
Or knowing beforehand what the penalty for it is. Everything is traceable and all it takes is for someone to turn them in.
When your paid membership ends and suddenly your getting messages returned from someone for the first time that you messaged 2 months earlier. I have 4 since I ended my membership.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ecfa1839-b696-46c9-b15c-aed85f1fbf29[/URL]
Her terms are pretty simple.
"I'd like my two yoga retreats per year (March & Oct) to be taken care of, they are about $4600 per; my personal trainer monthly, my trainer is $685 per month, I'll also send the occasional shopping cart every few months or so, those never exceed $400-$500. ".
[QUOTE=Svt4628;4569507][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ecfa1839-b696-46c9-b15c-aed85f1fbf29[/URL]
Her terms are pretty simple.
"I'd like my two yoga retreats per year (March & Oct) to be taken care of, they are about $4600 per; my personal trainer monthly, my trainer is $685 per month, I'll also send the occasional shopping cart every few months or so, those never exceed $400-$500. ".[/QUOTE]So, she's looking for about $20 k a year.
$1,600/ month isn't terrible if she is reliable.
So, I began chatting with a really cute, hard-bodied Barton College student / athlete a few weeks ago via Instagram. Turns out she lives in the Triangle and is home on break, right now.
She was hesitant to meet b / c she's never sugar dated before, so wants to bring a friend. I said that was OK provided the friend was also interested in the sugar lifestyle. Turns out, the friend she had in mind and I had chatted last Summer before she went away to school in Florida for the semester; she's also home on break and actually transferring to UNCC in January. Gorgeous, model-type, Latina.
Set up a two-fer meeting at $100 per girl today here in Raleigh.
I'll let why'all know how it goes and if they are interested in seeing other SDs in the area over break.
Both mentioned needing money for Christmas gifts for family and general fun while they are home on break with friends; so I don't think they are needing to break the bank.
This sounds like a Hallmark Christmas Special! Congratulations and let us know how it goes! Also, if you wanted to DM their contact info, I'd be alright with that!
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4570321]So, I began chatting with a really cute, hard-bodied Barton College student / athlete a few weeks ago via Instagram. Turns out she lives in the Triangle and is home on break, right now.
She was hesitant to meet b / c she's never sugar dated before, so wants to bring a friend. I said that was OK provided the friend was also interested in the sugar lifestyle. Turns out, the friend she had in mind and I had chatted last Summer before she went away to school in Florida for the semester; she's also home on break and actually transferring to UNCC in January. Gorgeous, model-type, Latina.
Set up a two-fer meeting at $100 per girl today here in Raleigh.
I'll let why'all know how it goes and if they are interested in seeing other SDs in the area over break.
Both mentioned needing money for Christmas gifts for family and general fun while they are home on break with friends; so I don't think they are needing to break the bank.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PhilDeez123;4570485]This sounds like a Hallmark Christmas Special! Congratulations and let us know how it goes! Also, if you wanted to DM their contact info, I'd be alright with that![/QUOTE]Both Latina complete hard-bodies with booty. They were nervous; admittedly I was, too. Not every day you get two college hotties, ya know.
$100 each for a fun, mutual make out / roaming in bra and panties with a standard four-handed AMP-style finish, if you get my drift; NO F / S and it doesn't sound like that's really on the table, to be honest. They were here for about an hour total and it wasn't rushed; they were sweet and accommodating and chatty.
As I told someone via DM, I will ask them if they are interested in seeing other SD's. But I am not going to ask that until after 2nd date b / c I don't want to come off as a PIMP or spook them.
Right now, I'm just their handsome, friendly SD and not some dirty dog. Haha.
I'll keep why'all updated and open up DMs next week, if they are down.
The sun shines on a dog's ass on a rainy Friday, sometimes, I guess.
[QUOTE=Pubb69;4566337]When your paid membership ends and suddenly your getting messages returned from someone for the first time that you messaged 2 months earlier. I have 4 since I ended my membership.[/QUOTE]Yeah I have had the same. Deactivated my account a week ago. I might try secret benefits. I was able to confirm some as real and some with fake Instagram model pics. Some just wanting CashApp money or Venmo.
A downside to SB is that you can't ever get the $50 intro package again. Once you've used your introductory credits, the lowest-priced package available is $89.
Compared to SA though, I've encountered fewer rinsers on SB.
[QUOTE=DP1234;4571486]Yeah I have had the same. Deactivated my account a week ago. I might try secret benefits. I was able to confirm some as real and some with fake Instagram model pics. Some just wanting CashApp money or Venmo.[/QUOTE]
How did you initially meet her? Did she have a listing on SA or did you just happen to come across her on Instagram and then ask her if she was interested in playing?
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4570321]So, I began chatting with a really cute, hard-bodied Barton College student / athlete a few weeks ago via Instagram. Turns out she lives in the Triangle and is home on break, right now.
She was hesitant to meet b / c she's never sugar dated before, so wants to bring a friend. I said that was OK provided the friend was also interested in the sugar lifestyle. Turns out, the friend she had in mind and I had chatted last Summer before she went away to school in Florida for the semester; she's also home on break and actually transferring to UNCC in January. Gorgeous, model-type, Latina.
Set up a two-fer meeting at $100 per girl today here in Raleigh.
I'll let why'all know how it goes and if they are interested in seeing other SDs in the area over break.
Both mentioned needing money for Christmas gifts for family and general fun while they are home on break with friends; so I don't think they are needing to break the bank.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ToySoldier;4571767]How did you initially meet her? Did she have a listing on SA or did you just happen to come across her on Instagram and then ask her if she was interested in playing?[/QUOTE]That's how I've had most of my success lately. Just follow hotties and DM them with a respectful compliment and see if you can get them talking.
My profile says I'm a sugar daddy, so if they respond they've either read the profile or I just flat out tell them to read it and get back to me if they want to chat.
It's a low-percentage play; maybe 10% actually respond in some fashion and most of those end up not really interested.
It's time consuming and a lot of work but the payoff is fantastic if you have the time and patience for it.
[QUOTE=BartonFink;4571541]A downside to SB is that you can't ever get the $50 intro package again. Once you've used your introductory credits, the lowest-priced package available is $89.
Compared to SA though, I've encountered fewer rinsers on SB.[/QUOTE]It's really just a poor imitation of SA usually the same ones on it as well. Not a lot to see on there and hardly worth a subscription.
[QUOTE=Pubb69;4573072]It's really just a poor imitation of SA usually the same ones on it as well. Not a lot to see on there and hardly worth a subscription.[/QUOTE]Don't waste your money on secret benefits. It's really expensive and most of them are scammers.
Anyone know Rosey289.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cd994674-ebce-4311-a802-43449e1c31d5[/URL]
[QUOTE=Raltime;4575377]Anyone know Rosey289.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cd994674-ebce-4311-a802-43449e1c31d5[/URL][/QUOTE]She's been on that site for a while. I never met her myself as her texts were very transactional (semi pro vibe) and I prefer girls fresher to the lifestyle. I did get the impression she would meet straight at your hotel first time if you had the cash. 4 benjamins if I recall. Good luck and let us know how it goes!
93 Skylerx:
Beware of this one. Very bad news. She looks like the picture but Cash and dash.
93 Skylerx:
Scammer, asks for prepaid cards (ebay).
I'd argue above any EROS girl. Absolute sweetheart. Hotter in person (seriously -- photos do not do this girl justice). There's a lot you will never forget but for me. The way she smelled and her eyes. G'damn. Highly recommended.
[QUOTE=Rdudreaming;4512459]Sort of an escort / sugar baby hybrid, the best of both.
You can find some reviews in Charlotte and Atlanta, relocated to this area and open to new friends.
Hot, young, clean, professional, a very rare find.
Worth breaking the piggy bank. On par or above any EROS girl.
Non pro, no posting to reference.
Please PM me for contact info.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;4527353]My long time FWB / SB and I want to try a swinger, group play type scenario. Now to get everything straight, I'm all about women! Ain't touching no dude. But the small group thing can be a super fun dynamic! The women should be into each other though. My girl, medium built, 5'3" girl next door, huge tits, very open minded, fun, likes to be submissive. Into other women. Planning this for tonight. No drugs, no drama, no BS, no illegal BS. I'm.
Very keen on making sure things are kept cool and right.
You? MUST bring your own SB playmate. That's the whole point. We each bring our girl!
Will respond to Established members only. Where / when? Nice hotel in Raleigh. I'll cover the room.
If interested and you have SB into type of fun, hit me up.[/QUOTE]Hello. I tried to PM you on this but your mailbox is full.
Anyone have any success using a prepaid card for membership after Ashley Madison hack I'm reluctant to use any of my personal cards.
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4583825]Anyone have any success using a prepaid card for membership after Ashley Madison hack I'm reluctant to use any of my personal cards.[/QUOTE]This has been answered several times before on this thread. You can also search the Richmond forum. Good luck!
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4583825]Anyone have any success using a prepaid card for membership after Ashley Madison hack I'm reluctant to use any of my personal cards.[/QUOTE]As YayaGogo wrote, there are plenty of posts on this subject. I know I've written a couple of detailed ones in the Richmond sugar forum.
For sure, I would not use my CC or any real personal information to register on SA. Read the suggested posts to understand how to use fake info to register and pay.
Get a burner phone, too.
Was curious if anyone has made IRL contact with this one:
[URL]https://www.sugardaddyforme.com/sugar-babies/n.c./raleigh/Geminibaby222[/URL]
She and I have chatted on and off via Instagram and, originally, she didn't want to do IRL (pics, vids, chat / facetime only) so I passed. Kept at it and thought I had her convinced to do a small donation meet and greet but then she came back and said she has multiple offers for high-dollar monthly allowance.
Was just curious if any of you successfully met this beauty.
Her face is a 7/8 but her body is an 11. She's a personal trainer and fitness model, legitimately.
Tag line says if your tryna fuck don't hit me up. WTF do these girls think we want for our hard earned money? The privilege of giving it to them? I don't get the whole SB, SD scene. Crazy to me.
[QUOTE=VincentCor74;4594449]Was curious if anyone has made IRL contact with this one:
[URL]https://www.sugardaddyforme.com/sugar-babies/n.c./raleigh/Geminibaby222[/URL]
She and I have chatted on and off via Instagram and, originally, she didn't want to do IRL (pics, vids, chat / facetime only) so I passed. Kept at it and thought I had her convinced to do a small donation meet and greet but then she came back and said she has multiple offers for high-dollar monthly allowance.
Was just curious if any of you successfully met this beauty.
Her face is a 7/8 but her body is an 11. She's a personal trainer and fitness model, legitimately.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BallAllDay;4594772]Tag line says if your tryna fuck don't hit me up. WTF do these girls think we want for our hard earned money? The privilege of giving it to them? I don't get the whole SB, SD scene. Crazy to me.[/QUOTE]Two possibilities:
1) She put that in her profile so LE and friends / family who might run across the profile don't think she is a hooker.
2) She has GPS and wants to give guys the impression that her P is unattainable. Unless you have a LOT of cash.
Either way, take a good look at her pics. She's on that site for one rea $on.
[QUOTE=Truncated;4595752]Two possibilities:
1) She put that in her profile so LE and friends / family who might run across the profile don't think she is a hooker.
2) She has GPS and wants to give guys the impression that her P is unattainable. Unless you have a LOT of cash.
Either way, take a good look at her pics. She's on that site for one rea $on.[/QUOTE]I've found that's always a defense mechanism kind of thing. "Nothing physical", "won't have sex with you", "no in person meets", etc.
I'm in sales; so that's like a "no soliciting" sign to me. Blow right on past it and pretend you didn't see it or have something to offer them that makes sense for you to ignore it. LOL.
Now, it doesn't mean it might not take more work than just offering cash for something physical, but I'm willing to make the time investment if the pay off is right.
I haven't been able to make this work. I have spent several hundred on cards to no avail. Have you had any luck? Anyone use a Please feel free to pm me if you rather.
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4583825]Anyone have any success using a prepaid card for membership after Ashley Madison hack I'm reluctant to use any of my personal cards.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4607508]I haven't been able to make this work. I have spent several hundred on cards to no avail. Have you had any luck? Anyone use a Please feel free to pm me if you rather.[/QUOTE]Used a Vanilla Visa purchased from WM three days ago.
Worked with no problems.
Are you registering the card first? Using the same info on Seeking that you used to register the card on Vanilla?
Yes I'm finally in. Amex prepaid card worked like a charm.
[QUOTE=IlmSurf51;4607508]I haven't been able to make this work. I have spent several hundred on cards to no avail. Have you had any luck? Anyone use a Please feel free to pm me if you rather.[/QUOTE]
So new to SA! Is weird being a newbie somewhere at my age! I have gotten an overwhelming amount of responses is that normal. I was not expecting that many especially with no pics posted. I don't have the funds or time meet everyone. Any scam to watch out for other from the normal pre-pay ones? The one below is pushing to meet this week anyone have info on her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfad09ad-2312-4cfc-b74b-008947428d4f[/URL]
Always works. Register it with a fake name a zip code. Use the name and zip when you pay them.
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4608719]Yes I'm finally in. Amex prepaid card worked like a charm.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sobe69;4608726]So new to SA! Is weird being a newbie somewhere at my age! I have gotten an overwhelming amount of responses is that normal. I was not expecting that many especially with no pics posted. I don't have the funds or time meet everyone. Any scam to watch out for other from the normal pre-pay ones? The one below is pushing to meet this week anyone have info on her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfad09ad-2312-4cfc-b74b-008947428d4f[/URL][/QUOTE]She's real and DTF. Not nearly as cute close up. There's better on the site.