Not a purely simple answer
[QUOTE=Deb4512;2117482][URL]http://massachusetts.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/bukkake-party-32/26626432[/URL] If I were a guy and saw this ad I would think it was a LEO plant. Imagine how many men they could arrest all in one shot, one by one walking the plank. It's so blatantly not discreet! But it does sound like fun if it's real and much more fun that those glory holes you guys like to talk about LOL. At least you'd be able to see who's sucking off your dicks!
A question. I've had this discussion with some women and we were wondering. Well I'm wondering too, because I don't understand it. Let's say there are two escorts:
Escort number 1: 28 years old, five foot tall, 220 lbs, she has a dimpled, cellulite ass and fat legs, saggy big tits and stretch marks all over. She does have a pretty face though.
Escort number 2: Let' say she's 45 years old, hot body, perfect shape, nice large boobs that don't sag, no cellulite or stretch marks. And her face is obviously not of a youngin, but she's very pretty.
Question is, which one is more desirable? Age or body type?[/QUOTE]Not an easy answer since a few intangibles that are important to me were left out. If I was going strictly on your question as asked then I'd go for age. The main reason would be that the other intangibles that I would look for are usually more prevalent as a woman matures.
How to define a 10 or even a 5
[QUOTE=SmokeScreen;2119116]I'm not trying to be rude, but what do you consider yourself now. If you would rather not say that's fine, just curious.[/QUOTE]The whole 'rating' of a providers looks can be so subjective. At least when putting a rating on performance you can have some sort of guidelines to go by. For a massage / bodyrub girl it can be quality of massage (therapeutic of not), tease, state of undress and what type and how good was the ending. When it comes to looks it certainly has many attributes some of which are important to some and some aren't. Are we talking beauty as in facial features, hair (color, length, curly ect) , teeth (LOL), body type (tall, short, spinner, normal (chubby). And do we include personality it our ratings? Is the fact that she is under 30 add points to her rating and conversely if she is over 30 does it take away points?
I've gone to see providers that I was told were a 7 or higher and found that they weren't that at least in my attributes. Years ago I was given a tip that a girl that was in the area was a 10 and I had to go see her. Well I did. Was she pretty yes. Did she have a decent body yes. But she was a Russian girl who spoke no English, understood no English and showed no enthusiasm for what she was doing. I wouldn't have given her a 10 and recommended her but I could see how someone would. When asked how I would rate someone I usually give examples rather than a number.
It also depends on what you like. For instance I enjoy more mature ladies as opposed to younger 'spinners'. While that has a lot to do with my age. Which just went up again this week. There are other traits that I look for many of which several of you have mentioned. As HH said he likes them under 25, over a 7 and under a certain weight. That's the wonderful part of life. Everyone has their own picture of 'nirvana'.
Re: So would you see her?
[QUOTE=StressedOut;2119244]Ah my good friend. Let me try and poke a hole in your statement! Would you go see this lady if she was available? Guessing she is over 25! I'm guessing I would! Stay safe friend!
[ATTACH=CONFIG]325787[/ATTACH][ATTACH=CONFIG]325788[/ATTACH].[/QUOTE]I'd do her! Why not! She's cute, attractive and other than the sagging breast has a nice body. Most important, she looks like fun. She's bold enough to let them hang and I'm bold enough to grope them.
After all, it's all about the fun, isn't it?
JMHO.
CookyJar.
What do you all think of this?
[URL]http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/wua2.shtml[/URL]
I had to blow off some steam today.
another article supporting cutting down the demand and arresting the guys. ugg. and she had the nerve to state that all sex workers who advertise on backpage have pimps who keep the money they make and are forced into prostitution. ugg. i hate that. i'm not a victim. (i've been taking a break of my own free will too) lol so i googled her personal email and this is what i wrote. it'll probably go over her head even though she's probably highly educated. lol. but i thought it was worth a try. lol.
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human trafficking is a horrible crime, forcing **** girls and women to prostitute themselves. what is interesting is that prostitution is legal in some counties on nevada. do you know anything about the statistics relating to human trafficking there? i loved your article by the way. what i do not agree with is your statement that all escorts / sex workers are trafficked. many do so of their own free will, because they like to do so. it's kind of like swinging for a fee. or seeking casual sexual partners for a fee. swinging or casual hookups may not be your thing and you may find it repulsive, but here in our free country fortunately most of the time people can live whatever lifestyle they choose without government interference. i believe that is part of the constitution: life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. i understand that you find prostitution morally reprehensible, but that is your opinion. sex workers have another opinion. you might not agree with their lifestyles, but they still have the right to live the way they choose. heck i would not want to be an it person. that would bore me to death and i think anyone who likes math and science must be a bore too. i do not want to pursue that sort of work, but i don't support it being illegal. you probably feel that stripping and porn should be illegal too, because in your eyes it involves the sexual exploitation of women. some woman want to be seen as sex objects. that's their choice. you don't have to agree with it, but neither you nor anyone else has the right to force your opinions on someone else. their lifestyles shouldn't be considered a crime just because you don't agree with it and wouldn't choose it for yourself. that's what being an adult is all about. we listen to our parents and follow their rules, because we are children and have no choice, but when we are grown ups our parents don't have the legal right to dictate how we should live our lives. do you understand where i'm coming from? it's very simple. everyone has the right to choose how they want to live. if there's not victim there's no crime. i find it ironic that having casual sex is legal, but putting a price tag on it is. it's actually empowering for some women to charge a fee for their sexual companionship. i personally don't care for casual hookups, but i like being a sex worker because i'm getting something from the exchange. i enjoy sex, i enjoy making a good living doing what i love and i also i don't have to go through the head aches of dating or casual hook ups. what you could do is compare it to abortion. isn't it true that women should have the right to decide what to do with their own bodies (abortions) without government interference. you're a feminist right? same thing should apply to sex work. no one is saying that human traffickers who force women or **** girls to have sex should be legally allowed to do so. what we in the sex worker's rights community are saying is this. prosecute the human traffickers and let everyone else who chooses to do or to pay for sex alone for gosh sakes. i advertise on backpage and no one is forcing me. i also know lots of sex workers who advertise on backpage who do so of their own free will. some sex workers make a good living. i happen to charge $200 an hour. some ladies charge $300 to $1000 an hour. does this sound like exploitation to you? i know i'm not going to change your mind, which is too bad, because we both are feminists. i'm only assuming you are. i just happen to be a sex positive feminist and you are from the old school. but i did want to let you know how it is in the sex working world. not every sex worker is forced to do so, some are, but not all of us.
debbie.
