My eyes must have been fooling me...
Either that, or I saw the hottest damn street ladies I've ever seen anywhere in your fair town on Saturday night out near the Comfort Inn and Suites at around exit 38 on 285 near Spaghetti Junction. It was near midnight. I would have invited all four of them to my room for a "round up" session, but I had family with me.
Please tell me these fine young black and white ladies are normal in your fair town. If they are, I will be in town on business a hell of a lot more.
Screening information.. A Must Read!!
I just read this in another forum, found it interesting and thought i'd post it here..
[quote]Screening, Verification and meeting New Friends for the first time.
Recently we have seen several threads discussing the issue of screening, verification and bust by LE of providers or hobbyist. It seems to me that we may have too many people who are misinformed about the law and how they should conduct themselves to avoid breaking the law. I am not a lawyer, trained in the law or have any formal legal training by any Law Enforcement agency but there are some very basic common sense ways to approach some of the things we do in life and not break the law or at least get caught.
The best way to arrange for quality BCD activities is to be recommended by a common acquaintance. Someone you know and trust is the best way but that is not always possible so you have to conduct yourself cautiously and not let your need for money or sex get the best of you. Just because they claim to be someone does not make them ok. Just because they say they are not LE does not mean they are not. Just because they are a member of this board does not mean they are not LE. There is always tomorrow.
In the hobbyist/provider arena there are three main crimes or issues that you should be concerned about. They are Public Lewdness, Prostitution and Procuring or Solicitation for the purpose of engaging in Prostitution. Public lewdness is something most of us shouldn't have to worry about unless you are playing in a public place or your car. Prostitution will require you to be engaging in a sex act and LE wont let the crime go that far because an officer who engages in the act just pretty much ruined the DA's unbiased witness. The main thing providers, massage techs, escorts, street girls and the clients get busted for is for Solicitation.
It is very simple not to break the solicitation law. Don't talk about exchanging sex for money at the same time or in the same context. Don't pay any money or give any gifts for sex. Don't accept money or gifts for the prospect of sex. And by talking I mean not only verbal but whispering, hand jesters, in writing, eye rolls, smoke signals or any other form of direct communication that could be interpreted as meaning you have a deal. Obviously the verbal means is the best evidence but the others can get you into just as much trouble. See its simple but I can tell your still confused.
The key is do not discuss an exchange directly. Don't discuss it in the same context or the same sentence. Don't directly negotiate a price or ask about an exchange of service for money. What you don't say wont get you into trouble but what you do say can get you into trouble. It's all about what you say and how you say it. Now remember it is perfectly legal for two consenting adults to talk about sex. Its also legal to talk about money or the cost of certain living expenses. So if during a conversation I tell some one I like certain sex acts and don't like other sex acts and then later in the conversation we talk about what it cost to buy a full or partial outfit then we haven't talked about exchanging or soliciting anything. We simply had a conversation about clothes and before that about sex. Once I know the price of certain outfits, I may offer then to help buy that outfit or suggest another outfit. Now two consenting adults may know exactly what we are talking about but as far as the law is concerned we have done nothing wrong. Just a suggestion, find a method that works best for you, just dont break the law.
As far as when to hand over the money it is best to wait till after any behind closed door activities. Of course providers worry about getting ripped off but if you take the money before and then begin sexual contact you can get busted. Wait till after and you are much safer off legally. The same goes for the client. Of course you always risk getting ripped off but there are other ways to discourage that but being ripped off or cheated is better than a felony and a large fine. [/quote]
