The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

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Not necessarily my type as I like spinners, but been chatting with her and she seems sweet. Anyone with experience? One of the pics looks familar (like I may have seen on BP over the last few years), but she doesn't come off as a pro in communication.

Kaifla (sp?) Update from my prior post. No more than 2 exchanges after switching to text, she is asking for money to be sent. Save your time.

I don't see as much activity on this blog as others, but know many are involved. Maybe not as much sharing as we all want a UTR (Unicorn)?

Stay safe,

Gibbs.

Got about the same results from Kaifla as you except she wanted a 100 Amazon Gift card and I did get her email address but after I received an email from a David xxbdd. I'm like who's that she says it's a glitch, well it was a glitch when I stopped corresponding too. Arabvixen I've talked with her she a bit strange one there, told me she's going to moracco last Friday but had to work today her story is all over the place, I'm playing along. Another SB from your fine city Paki_Princess she came here to Fayetteville nice girl does it all, likes a finger in her ass, screamed at the top of her lungs as she busted a nut. There another from Raleigh Native Princess she has two profiles, she also visited me here in Fayetteville another one with no limits loves it all she doesn't post that often claims she works a lot but.

[QUOTE=Gibbs70;3641727][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/78f15677-ea12-4f90-93b3-87825cabe66c[/URL]

Not necessarily my type as I like spinners, but been chatting with her and she seems sweet. Anyone with experience? One of the pics looks familar (like I may have seen on BP over the last few years), but she doesn't come off as a pro in communication
Kaifla (sp?) Update from my prior post. No more than 2 exchanges after switching to text, she is asking for money to be sent. Save your time.

I don't see as much activity on this blog as others, but know many are involved. Maybe not as much sharing as we all want a UTR (Unicorn)?

Stay safe,

Gibbs.[/QUOTE]

Agree on arabvixen: story seems sketchy. Claims to have never done this before. She has invited me to meet for coffee and then hang out, I have held off.

I see Elizrdu is on right now. Anyone seen her?

[QUOTE=Joerdu;3642726]Agree on arabvixen: story seems sketchy. Claims to have never done this before. She has invited me to meet for coffee and then hang out, I have held off.
[/QUOTE]I've seen her several times. She is pretty smart and a nice girl but a bit off sometimes, but is legit and down for pretty much anything. I got the impression she's temporarily down on her luck and needs funds to help pay rent etc. Good luck!

Yaya.

[QUOTE=YayaGogo;3642949]I've seen her several times. She is pretty smart and a nice girl but a bit off sometimes, but is legit and down for pretty much anything. I got the impression she's temporarily down on her luck and needs funds to help pay rent etc. Good luck!

Yaya.[/QUOTE]Glad it is good with her. I got the sense she was not being straight when saying she had not seen anyone else.

[QUOTE=YayaGogo;3642949]I've seen her several times. She is pretty smart and a nice girl but a bit off sometimes, but is legit and down for pretty much anything. I got the impression she's temporarily down on her luck and needs funds to help pay rent etc. Good luck!

Yaya.[/QUOTE]Arabvixen is real. I have only seen here once so far. But pics are real and as YayaGogo said, she is pretty much down for anything. She is a lot of fun!

[QUOTE=Joerdu;3642726]Agree on arabvixen: story seems sketchy. Claims to have never done this before. She has invited me to meet for coffee and then hang out, I have held off.

I see Elizrdu is on right now. Anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]Every single one of these girls, no matter how naive, how innocent what story they have is seeing more than one of you. 100% every single last one. If you are not capable of dealing with that, then do not sugar date. Not trying to be harsh, just factual. All these girls lie and act naive and such and that is fine. It's part of the game. The really good ones will make you feel special and like you're the one. The less intelligent ones will act like back page girls. And many might just as well be.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3644076]Every single one of these girls, no matter how naive, how innocent what story they have is seeing more than one of you. 100% every single last one. If you are not capable of dealing with that, then do not sugar date. Not trying to be harsh, just factual. All these girls lie and act naive and such and that is fine. It's part of the game. The really good ones will make you feel special and like you're the one. The less intelligent ones will act like back page girls. And many might just as well be.[/QUOTE]Oh I completely agree. Was just making a comment on how the conversation had gone.

I agree with this for the most part and always assume there are other SD's involved, which does not bother me in the least as I don't demand (or want to pay for) exclusivity. We aren't looking for girlfriends or monogamous relationships on here, so expect that mentality to go both ways with regards to the SB's. Girls will of course say that for obvious reasons, though.

That said, if a younger girl has just created her account and says she's new I would be more inclined to believe her. I've also been with a handful over the years that had genuine curiosity, were not fixated on the money, were extremely inexperienced, and immediately closed / deactivated their accounts after starting things with me (confirmed with my alternate account). In fact I'm pursuing one such student athlete (track and field) right now that closed her account after only 3 days because guys were so disrespectful in their messages it turned her off.

Yaya.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;3644076]Every single one of these girls, no matter how naive, how innocent what story they have is seeing more than one of you. 100% every single last one. If you are not capable of dealing with that, then do not sugar date. Not trying to be harsh, just factual. All these girls lie and act naive and such and that is fine. It's part of the game. The really good ones will make you feel special and like you're the one. The less intelligent ones will act like back page girls. And many might just as well be.[/QUOTE]

Been playing in the bowl for a year, but twice this past week I've been working a "local" girl only to find out later she is over an hour away. I understand discretion but be in the ball park.

Wineandfine says Raleigh, but is in High Point. Says "she likes the drive", I'd bet she has ripped off enough locals and needs to expand her pool.

XoxAubrey says Cary, but is in Southern Pines.

Sharing Intel for those that don't mind travel, as xoxAubrey seems really nice.

Stay safe my friends.

Gibbs.

Hazzeb. Very nice looking young lady. We chatted made arrangements for her to come to me in Faye it was all going well until she mentioned she gets. 2 just for going out to dinner that's not including the price of the meal. I'm like did I mention I accidentally messaged you?

[QUOTE=Gibbs70;3645131]Been playing in the bowl for a year, but twice this past week I've been working a "local" girl only to find out later she is over an hour away. I understand discretion but be in the ball park.

Wineandfine says Raleigh, but is in High Point. Says "she likes the drive", I'd bet she has ripped off enough locals and needs to expand her pool.

XoxAubrey says Cary, but is in Southern Pines.

Sharing Intel for those that don't mind travel, as xoxAubrey seems really nice.

Stay safe my friends.

Gibbs.[/QUOTE]

On the flipside, I put a different Triangle town in my location and tend to look more in the neighboring towns anyway. Lowers the potential to run into one another in the wild. Plenty of the POTs have legit reasons to play out of town too. I just make that part of the early conversation. I figure if she says she's in Raleigh, them I don't need to factor in her traveling to me, you know?

[QUOTE=Gibbs70;3645131]Been playing in the bowl for a year, but twice this past week I've been working a "local" girl only to find out later she is over an hour away. I understand discretion but be in the ball park.

Wineandfine says Raleigh, but is in High Point. Says "she likes the drive", I'd bet she has ripped off enough locals and needs to expand her pool.

XoxAubrey says Cary, but is in Southern Pines.

Sharing Intel for those that don't mind travel, as xoxAubrey seems really nice.

Stay safe my friends.

Gibbs.[/QUOTE]

Pretty sure I was in the normal range offering $$, but in the last two weeks have a number of SBs walking away saying they generally get more. Am I a cheap bastard? I figured by the time I buy dinner, get a room, and give the allowance, it's a pricey date, but at least 5 in two weeks saying they might "lower" to $$$ to see me, but that is their lowest.

Would love feedback / discussion with group on current expectations.

Gibbs.

[QUOTE=Gibbs70;3650635]Pretty sure I was in the normal range offering $$, but in the last two weeks have a number of SBs walking away saying they generally get more. Am I a cheap bastard? I figured by the time I buy dinner, get a room, and give the allowance, it's a pricey date, but at least 5 in two weeks saying they might "lower" to $$$ to see me, but that is their lowest.

Would love feedback / discussion with group on current expectations.

Gibbs.[/QUOTE]Some thoughts on this.

- Remember SA is a marketplace, sometimes the market goes higher and sometimes it goes lower. You might just be in a rising market.

- Most times it depends on the SB's you are approaching. Desirable traits such as youth, looks, experience, body type, ethnicity, etc generate a lot more interest from SD's = higher meet prices.

- This is a negotiation. I've met plenty of SB's that open at a range higher than what I'm willing to pay then lower it afterward, allowing the arrangement to happen. If you have any game then use it and close the deal.

- Are you offering a one time meet or an ongoing arrangement. Many girls will go lower per meet if you are meeting weekly, something I like to do.

- When girls start on the site they have an idea of what a SD SHOULD be in their mind (think Christian Grey) and they are flooded with offers (some real and some bs) so their sense of worth is at its highest. Once some time has passed reality hits them and many lower their asking price. Some will not.

- There are a lot more factors imo, but mostly remember that this is a numbers game! There are MANY more SB's in this area than there are SD's, so if one or ten or twenty don't like your budget simply go to the next one or lower your expectations.

- For the record, that is within the range of what I donate per meet. Good luck!

Yaya.

Be careful out there. This one took off with half the $ while I was getting room.

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