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[QUOTE=AaronHamlet;3575864]Evil women out there would love to have 25% of your gross income for the next 18 years.[/QUOTE]A risk I guess. Fortunately, GA did finally adopt child support reform a number of years ago. It's not a straight percentage anymore, it's based on both parents income. Referred to as income shares model.
[QUOTE=Harley32;3576064]A risk I guess. Fortunately, GA did finally adopt child support reform a number of years ago. It's not a straight percentage anymore, it's based on both parents income. Referred to as income shares model.[/QUOTE]So, do guys get an equal fight? Never heard of this.
[QUOTE=Niteluvr;3576075]So, do guys get an equal fight? Never heard of this.[/QUOTE]If you want joint custody you'll get an equal fight. If you don't, you won't.
[QUOTE=Harley32;3576064]A risk I guess. Fortunately, GA did finally adopt child support reform a number of years ago. It's not a straight percentage anymore, it's based on both parents income. Referred to as income shares model.[/QUOTE]My bad for making it appear asa hard percentage. But if don't want custody, 25% is in the ballpark. I'm not preaching but damn sure trying to practice. Dodged that bullet once. I'm afraid the next one will get me.
[QUOTE=Niteluvr;3576075]So, do guys get an equal fight? Never heard of this.[/QUOTE]GA presumes primary custody for the mother. You can ask for equal but if she doesn't agree then she has primary. And whoever gets primary custody wins the child support lottery.
[QUOTE=AaronHamlet;3576174]My bad for making it appear asa hard percentage. But if don't want custody, 25% is in the ballpark. I'm not preaching but damn sure trying to practice. Dodged that bullet once. I'm afraid the next one will get me.[/QUOTE]GA used to use 20% as an average before adopting the income shares model. Now it's lower in most cases and is especially helpful if you have a higher income. Also, you can fight for custody, but barring something extraordinary, you're unlikely to get it. And joint custody requires joint agreement. If she doesn't agree, she's primary. As far as risk, you can always get snipped and save the worry.
I know a dude that got popped for twins that way from a provider. These girls are crafty at finding out who you no matter how careful you are especially if that's their intent from the start and you are completely unaware.
[QUOTE=KingSlayer22;3576350]I know a dude that got popped for twins that way from a provider. These girls are crafty at finding out who you no matter how careful you are especially if that's their intent from the start and you are completely unaware.[/QUOTE]Thats my worry about doing this, somehow girl has a child, she proceeds to go to the state and get 18-20 years of child support for a child I did not want. My dad and I had a conversation when I was younger, asked me what I wanted out of life. He told me do not have children if you want those things. He was very correct.
That child support for 18-20 years. It is my retirement.
Different subject, what's up with the SB wanting 2 k a visit? There was some georgia ex-cheerleader wanting that. My only reply was "no thank you. Good luck. ".
I like to find just one girl. My ATF and regular was lily (she is on TER) for over 8 months. She was an european spinner, became friends. She finally cleaned up, was off drugs. Unfortunately, she has went dark. I still have her contact number but no fun time. I like to find another spinner, perhaps a bit younger. Lily is now approaching the big 30. I was going to move on to Tara, but she isn't exactly fully mentally there.
[QUOTE=Harley32;3576276]GA used to use 20% as an average before adopting the income shares model. Now it's lower in most cases and is especially helpful if you have a higher income. Also, you can fight for custody, but barring something extraordinary, you're unlikely to get it. And joint custody requires joint agreement. If she doesn't agree, she's primary. As far as risk, you can always get snipped and save the worry.[/QUOTE]Not sure how you would prove her income as a hooker. Any way you slice it, men are screwed when it comes to kids and women know this. My wife of 20+ years got a boyfriend on facebook, left me and got custody of my 10 year old (at the time). My 16 year old stayed with me (14 year olds can make a choice). She paid nothing for the 16 year old and I had to pay $1200 per month (net after taxes) for child support (plus the whole spousal support; pretax). I am in the low six figures and it hurt. I spent $32 k to get custody of my 10 year old and only did so when she tried to leave the state with my son. My sons are now well adjusted young men and their mother visits a couple times a year, so it was a good investment in their sanity. The courts side with women everytime in a child custody situation. Its a fact.
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[QUOTE=KingSlayer22;3576350]I know a dude that got popped for twins that way from a provider. These girls are crafty at finding out who you no matter how careful you are especially if that's their intent from the start and you are completely unaware.[/QUOTE]Them skeezers are out there. Trap your ass. Tell you they're on birth control, can't have kids, whatever. A pregnant hooker has the same rights to your wallet as your girlfriend, spouse, ex. Maybe I'm in the minority, but I wouldn't want any type of custody, visitation in that situation. Court would grant that, but for the next 18 years I'd be working approx. one week out of each month for baby's momma
[QUOTE=AaronHamlet;3576637]Them skeezers are out there. Trap your ass. Tell you they're on birth control, can't have kids, whatever. A pregnant hooker has the same rights to your wallet as your girlfriend, spouse, ex. Maybe I'm in the minority, but I wouldn't want any type of custody, visitation in that situation. Court would grant that, but for the next 18 years I'd be working approx. one week out of each month for baby's momma[/QUOTE]To me this problem is really easy to avoid, if you don't trust your SB to be on birth control, then do not come inside or wear a rubber, on top of that if you are in the game whether is with BP girls or strippers or streetwalkers or sugar babies there some basic rules of mongering that you should follow such as: use a burner, cash only, never your real identity, no personal details, no pictures, away from your area, hide your car, gift card for SB website.
If a girl comes at you with a baby you're literally toss the burner out the window midway through the conversation LOL.
If she tells you in person, you tell her that's fine, that you'll take care of the situation, invite her for lunch then excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and walk out the back door and then toss your burner out the window.
And, additionally, if you are hard-core like me you can go and get a vasectomy and then you know 100% they're lying if they come to you with a baby.
It might seem like a lot of work but it's worth it (for me at least) I just met a new SB that took me days of courting, paying the membership at the website, paying for a hotel, but as I am writing this I'm driving back home from being balls deep, french kissing, hugging, beast licking, DATYing, BBBJ, with a beautiful young hot blonde MILF. And all she really requested besides her minimal allowance is that I visit her over and over again, to which I replied "don't mind if I do".
I think this one just took me out of the hunt.
I've been through it with a non-pro but it's the same, she wanted to collect money and have leverage against being dumped. After the baby is born she goes to the local child support enforcement and applies. Then you get a letter from the state to provide DNA and they test it. If you win (lose) then they decide how much you're going to pay. Nowadays, with this Me-23 testing, they are building a database that they can use to find you if one of your relatives gives a sample and it's in the database. It's called a Familial Match. When they get one they just test everyone that person is related to. So you dudes popping these chicks raw may think you are home free, but you aren't. And if they call you and tell you that you are a daddy throwing the burner out the window may not help. They will find you one way or the other. It may take some time but they will. Getting custody is a 5 k to 7 k headache, and in my case the mother had to go to jail for the 3rd time for me to be awarded primary custody. Getting visitation is 2 k to 3 k, and you're at the mother's mercy still. Georgia is pro-mother's rights so don't think because you are a better parent that it matters. You have to prove she is unfit. And if she half cleans up her act she'll get custody and be back on the gravy train in short order.
If this advice makes you change your attitude about fathering illegitimate kids then donate to a charity of your choosing in your local area that helps children in need. Even if you're not risking it, donate.
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[QUOTE=NewGuyFromCobb;3577083]Then you get a letter from the state to provide DNA and they test it. If you win (lose) then they decide how much you're going to pay. Nowadays, with this Me-23 testing, they are building a database that they can use to find you if one of your relatives gives a sample and it's in the database. It's called a Familial Match [/QUOTE]"They send you a letter to provide DNA?" Where the fuck they send the letter to? The fake address on SA or the fake name and address at the hotel registration? Or the Walmart in Baton Rouge where I registered my burner?
She had your personal info and that's why you have to stick to the rules, one of them being 'no personal info' ever.
I don't even take my car, I take one of the company cars and there's no log on who took it unless there's an accident and there's dozens of employees with locations from here to Texas.
And I follow all these precautions even though I have a vasectomy. I just do it to avoid drama.
I have had a great run of BBFS with my sb's. Actually the condom question has only come up once to my surprise. However I am snipped so no concern on the baby side. It's not an issue for me now but I would struggle to bust in a woman not knowing she was protected from getting pregnant. Not sure I want to consider having my bastards running around out there.
[QUOTE=LogJammin18;3574517]Survey: How many of you have busted a nut in your SB?
If you are not snipped. Did you verify birth control?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PeteAppleSeed;3577290]"They send you a letter to provide DNA?" Where the fuck they send the letter to? The fake address on SA or the fake name and address at the hotel registration? Or the Walmart in Baton Rouge where I registered my burner?
She had your personal info and that's why you have to stick to the rules, one of them being 'no personal info' ever.
I don't even take my car, I take one of the company cars and there's no log on who took it unless there's an accident and there's dozens of employees with locations from here to Texas.
And I follow all these precautions even though I have a vasectomy. I just do it to avoid drama.[/QUOTE]Re-read slowly what he just posted. All it takes is a DNA match from one of your relatives and it shouldn't be too difficult to track you down.