What do you do with your former SB's things?
So, crazy hypothetical situation here:
I've got a friend who had a college aged SB -- well, as summer starts to get here, she asked if he could keep some things at his place for the summer instead of sending them back home to her family, about 4-5 hours away.
He finds out today that she passed away suddenly from a news article.
One of the things that he has of hers is a picture wall -- pictures of her teenage / college years and her activities / trips / etc, some of which including him, but, mainly of her family and friends.
It's my understanding that their relationship was fairly UTR -- her friends might have met him a few times, but, her family didn't know about him (and probably thought she was still dating her high school crush, who went to a different college in a different state), and he's still married, so, it's not like popping out to go to a funeral would happen in a vacuum.
He's torn apart between going to the services to say goodbye and potentially running into her family, and keeping her things.
My advice was to send her things back anonymously: I'd even go so far as wiping her laptop before sending it back to them because he knows that they've made their own porno on it once.
I'm open to other ideas / thoughts here.
Best to destroy the hard drive
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;5364477]So, crazy hypothetical situation here:
I've got a friend who had a college aged SB -- well, as summer starts to get here, she asked if he could keep some things at his place for the summer instead of sending them back home to her family, about 4-5 hours away.
He finds out today that she passed away suddenly from a news article.
My advice was to send her things back anonymously: I'd even go so far as wiping her laptop before sending it back to them because he knows that they've made their own porno on it once.
I'm open to other ideas / thoughts here.[/QUOTE]D Nut is right, don't underestimate the motivation of grieving loved ones to try to recover the hard drive data. There's different levels of 'wiping,' and unless that happens to be your area of professional expertise I wouldn't risk that yourself. And the family may hold on to it for years, maybe no one tries to do a recovery on it now. But then someone like a tech savvy nephew learns about the laptop and starts looking into getting the data back. You never know what advances will come along in forensic data recovery down the road that will enable someone to get around even the most stringent wiping techniques known today.
I'd destroy the hard drive. You should be able to get to it pretty easily, just a few mini screws on the underside in most models. Go to a Home depot or something and show one of the guys the screw holes to help you find the right head kit. Or take it into a place like microcenter and have a tech pop it out for you while you wait there at the desk. Then take a hammer to the hard drive before throwing it in the trash. Donate the rest of the laptop, or just throw that away separately too.
Completely Trash The Laptop
[QUOTE=PearishBA;5365146]D Nut is right, don't underestimate the motivation of grieving loved ones to try to recover the hard drive data. There's different levels of 'wiping,' and unless that happens to be your area of professional expertise I wouldn't risk that yourself. And the family may hold on to it for years, maybe no one tries to do a recovery on it now. But then someone like a tech savvy nephew learns about the laptop and starts looking into getting the data back. You never know what advances will come along in forensic data recovery down the road that will enable someone to get around even the most stringent wiping techniques known today.
I'd destroy the hard drive. You should be able to get to it pretty easily, just a few mini screws on the underside in most models. Go to a Home depot or something and show one of the guys the screw holes to help you find the right head kit. Or take it into a place like microcenter and have a tech pop it out for you while you wait there at the desk. Then take a hammer to the hard drive before throwing it in the trash. Donate the rest of the laptop, or just throw that away separately too.[/QUOTE]I would also disassemble most of the laptop & destroy as many components as you can. Lots of newer models also have SSD memory chips that offer quick storage in addition to the standard hard drive. If you are not a total IT guy, trash the entire thing. Burn it & dispose of parts at different times to make it impossible for anyone to reconstruct it.
Modern marriage with a provider. Who are these guys?
[QUOTE=Branman;5372708]For everyone who's been trying to get in touch with kaylove / Kelsie she is out of the hobby and is engaged and pregnant.[/QUOTE]Other than the desperate and deranged that spend half their time in jail, I don't see how a guy can go into it with their eyes open. The hobby severely damages their long term bonding capacity, women didn't evolve to handle promiscuous fucking as well as men. And despite all the gender equality BS everyone gives lip service to, men still get the shaft in divorce court like a motherfucker.
Pretty Woman 2 starring Richard Lenny Gere?
[QUOTE=Lenny6746;5373124]You really need to move to China. Dog is on the menu. You heartless piece of shit. Chime off on Kaylove. Do you know her or any other provider on here? You shoot off your mouth in all Forums saying nothing your a piece of work. I wrote bad reviews on her but I also knew her well. Even at that I hope she will do well in her life with a new start. And to top it off I have a 1 year old fur baby. Hes a 80 lb pitbull that would love to have a piece of your ass just saying a fantastic pet. Why don't you just shut the fuck up.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5373428]Lenny wants to marry a hooker. Or a tranny hooker. Same thing to him.
Lenny, are you smearing peanut butter on your non-existent ballsack to get your mutt to lick it? Since you're saying he likes ass and all.[/QUOTE]No need to get all worked up like a woman. Or is Lenny short for Lennisha? I'm not saying there's no chance for you finding Mr Right, just that it probably won't last. Will you be offering incall tonight or should we check with LF29 over in street reports? LOL.
I fucked her a 100 times. And loved every minute of it
[QUOTE=Branman;5372708]For everyone who's been trying to get in touch with kaylove / Kelsie she is out of the hobby and is engaged and pregnant.[/QUOTE]I enjoyed hitting that young pussy.
Getting to know hookers? Don't.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5373436]Once a chick is a hooker, she's always ready to take dick for cash. Never seen anything that contradicts that. I'm glad they're hookers. That's why I pay for them to leave. People always think there's something beyond a financial transaction to be had.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HillbillyBob;5373573]One of the best Lady J is very happy being out of the business. Busty. Britney also hasn't come back.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Crism080;5373905]Lady J came out of retirement 2 different times in the past.[/QUOTE]Thought I remember reading Brittney having an abusive BF watching her phone like a hawk, threatening guys to stay away. Sounds more like forced retirement.
Anyway, retirements, grand re-openings, taking these girls at their word is crazy. LOL I'd only believe long term 24/7 surveillance as proof. You can't know them with occasional hourly visits. And if you're spending more time than that with them you're asking for trouble. Drugs, ex BFs, friends that have criminal records in theft, assault, worse. Telling you what you want to hear and trying to keep their lies straight spinning stories to tease out more of your money.
To any new guys reading this, don't be letting any woman that sells her pussy by the hour into your personal life, or be trying to get into theirs. Keep it physical and respectful as possible, and always watch your ass. If you want more than that get a GF or wife.