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[QUOTE=John Wise; 1864224]TDB, I'm not going to give you a fish and feed you for a day, but teach you to fish and feed you for a lifetime.

[b]The phone # and original pics came up with nothing when I searched. So is nothing good or bad? [/b]

This could go either way (good or bad) IMHO stick with providers that have good reviews until you get your feet wet.

[b]Some pics real and some fake? [/b]

Obviously the few fake pic's are whats attracting you to her (BrAzIlian Style BUBBle Butt) so odds are she just has a flat wide ass, that's why she uses fake pic's.[/QUOTE]Actually I was more comfortable and considering booking her BEFORE the fake pics were added. They did not attract me. (She looks like someone I've had a thing for but is off limits to me. LOL)

When I found the fake images it actually slowed my roll. If they are using fake pics can they truly be trusted? Got to remember to think w the big head and as you said stick with reviewed girls till I'm more comfortable (hoping someone will post on Trinity soon).

In my recent reading I did find some posts regarding donations but I was looking for a little more insight.

The debate I was reading about (I think its in the Homework thread) was whether to pay in advance or after service were rendered. I always thought that it was cash up front and this is how I conducted business in my very limited experience. So is paying after a new trend. Is this something SP's are OK with?

My other question is how to handle the initial discussion with a new SP. When you first come into the room who makes the first move or brings up business first. Is it customary for me to just pull out the cash and set it down or do I wait for a cue from the SP?

How / when do we discuss services / menu / rules? I have also seen posts saying get the details before and after money is laid out. This kind of ties in with the question above. Who blinks first? If I don't lay out the money I would think SP is going to be reluctant to discuss services and if she is not willing to talk menu first then do I want to lay out money?

I acknowledge that if its a sting LE will likely "take me down" regardless but I still want to be cautious and develop my routine and stick with it until I become comfortable with the donation process. Or is it just always an anxious moment no matter what when you're with a new acquaintance?

Any input appreciated.

[QUOTE=John Wise; 1865169]Does anyone like the old style of scrolling thru BP ads?

[url]http://detroit.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/?layout=detailed[/url][/QUOTE]I'm start using this.

[QUOTE=Mr Odessa; 1865065]You know, for a while, I've honestly thought of not coming back to this site to mention any other endeavors because of the semi-drama and BS caused and thrown my way (some of which is probably my own fault) and some things I will keep to myself from hereonout. But I will say this.

I am damned happy to say that I've met Gee and we got it in! This woman put my ass to work and we both had so much fun. Fantastic woman! Lots of sweaty sex, conversation and an understanding of why I was shown the door last time (first time) I pursued her. I told her that not only will I review her beautiful ass, but she WILL be a repeat and one of the two females on BP who I will repeat and put on my list of the best women in the world who I choose to deal with (the second BP Chick I will keep to myself and she'll be a 4x repeat before the end of the season). She felt delighted and she said it was okay for me to review her, but she did say this: "Don't get graphic!" So, I won't be graphic, but someone was on the verge of a serious tapout and I was very lucky to be one of the few guys who pushed some boundaries (Again, no graphic details out of respect, but hey, let's just say not everyone has the luxury to do everything with everyone)!

* (5 Star Beauty) [/QUOTE]I 'm in her fan club great catch a little hard to catch up with but its worth it as Mr Odessa stated.

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I have been looking on BP for a while and it appears the number is bad?

[QUOTE=Jooop;1865438]I 'm in her fan club great catch a little hard to catch up with but its worth it as Mr Odessa stated.[/QUOTE]That woman is the fucking bomb! Even on a personal level (based on the things we've conversed about) , which is a plus. Too many sexy airheads out there and she's not one of them. I wasn't giving up on that one (as I did the likes of Jade).

Well, she is using a few fake pics, so I assume there rest are her, her body isn't brazilian by any means though.

[QUOTE=MGMguy; 1863837][url]http://detroit.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brazilian-style-bubble-butt-trinity-incall-special-avalible-brand-new-810-728-30four5-37/11550365[/url]

Has anyone taken this plunge? Rates? Menu?

She looks new.

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=The Dough Boy; 1865296]Actually I was more comfortable and considering booking her BEFORE the fake pics were added. They did not attract me. (She looks like someone I've had a thing for but is off limits to me. LOL)

When I found the fake images it actually slowed my roll. If they are using fake pics can they truly be trusted? Got to remember to think w the big head and as you said stick with reviewed girls till I'm more comfortable (hoping someone will post on Trinity soon).[/QUOTE]Under no circumstances can this (or any other) provider 'truly be trusted'. Think about what you are asking yourself there. I know it's probably just a figure of speech, but if you are wondering how you can judge trustworthiness of someone you've never met, using only their ad on BackPage, you are asking the wrong questions.

The successful senior mongers here, the guys with all the great stories and the phonebook full of providers, are the guys who accept this simple fact: these women will suck dick for a dollar (or 10, 50, 100, whatever). If they are ok with this arrangement, chances are good they are ok with a whole lotta shit you never want to know about.

Cover your ass as much as possible, anticipate and decide ahead of time what you will do when you encounter shady behavior (because you will) , and listen to that tingly feeling in the back of your neck. Far better to miss a score than score an appointment with the judge (or a dirt nap, for that matter).

[QUOTE=The Dough Boy; 1865296]Actually I was more comfortable and considering booking her BEFORE the fake pics were added. They did not attract me. (She looks like someone I've had a thing for but is off limits to me. LOL)

When I found the fake images it actually slowed my roll. If they are using fake pics can they truly be trusted? Got to remember to think w the big head and as you said stick with reviewed girls till I'm more comfortable (hoping someone will post on Trinity soon).[/QUOTE]As someone who has used CL when it was popular, then moved onto BP, maybe I can give you a few tips. I do not think alot of people do this, but it is something that has kept me out of trouble. If I see a girl, for example Trinity, no reviews, fake pics, well in most cases that is a red flag that is going to make me pass her by. But she looks like someone I know, been there done that, so she is someone I would like to meet. Personally, I would give her a call, talk to her, tell her you know I need to know you are for real, and I want you to know I am for real. How about we meet for breakfast, or lunch I will buy for. 50. I am very rarely turned down, but I would go as high as a 1/2 hour rate. It is a chance to meet someone, see what they really look like, see what their personality is like. You get to discuss details, if she rushes me now, then probably she is going to rush me through our meeting. How open and up front is she, they all have bfs or handlers, so how up front is she about that, are we going to be alone in the room is a question to ask, and I have had many be very open which makes me feel good, like yeah I have a guy that lives with me but he will take a walk or he will be at work. Many have bad habits, is she sick and unable to eat at breakfast, is she wearing long sleeves and it is 90 degrees outside well she just answered a question and you did not even have to ask. Maybe it is just me, but I have had them telling me their life story and showing me pictures of their kids on their phone before our meeting is over. Walk out of the restaurant with them, did she drive herself or is Charley Manson sitting in the car waiting for her. I had one bring a provider friend with her, that was also someone I wanted to meet, which felt comfortable enough to share other providers she knew on BP and that 1 breakfast gave me references to not only the 2 girls that I met, but to other providers that were on BP. I now feel comfortable with you, and in my opinion it has made our first date better.

This a dicey game we play, NOTHING is 100 per cent safe, these girls lives change like the wind, but once a girl trusts you and you have become a steady source of income for them then they want to keep you safe for their own benefit. Make it clear the first thing we do when I walk in that room is do an LE check. On a first meet, I carry my monger wallet which contains expired credit cards. Never flash cash and just have what we have agreed upon, maybe enough for a tip if you are so inclined. Watches, rings, jewelry, cell phone, leave them in the car or at home. In my opinion, a short stay can be had for cheap, and if she trusts you enough is a better investment than using her incall. I usually tip, and sometimes I have left it in my pants pocket and went into the bathroom for a short, just so I know what type of girl I am dealing with. It is not a bad idea to have extra clothes in the car, I used to work at a restaurant that was next door to a known hooker motel hangout, and it was not uncommon for someone to come there in their underwear, looking to use the phone (this was before cell phone days). When I look at a BP ad, I look for certain things. Red flags to me are, are there a number of different girls ads linked to this one, how long has she posted, did she take those pictures in a mirror or do they look TGTBT or too posed, are they sexy or are they all street clothes, the sexier the better in my opinion. Is it an out of state or out of area phone number, is she posting in alot of different areas, how can she be in 2 places at once. Who answers the phone when I call, is it her or another girl, or some dude. Most have bfs or handlers like I said, but there are good ones and bad ones, and for the most part they are there for the girls protection, and they are interested in their girl making money because these girls seem to find someone that is worthless, and lives off them for whatever reason.

Best of luck to you, hope some of this helps. I have been doing this for a number of years, and trust me I have made mistakes, but you learn from those mistakes. In the time that I have been here, I have learned alot from others, especially the old time seniors, and their words are like gold. Like I said, it is a dangerous game we play, and no one can be 100 per cent safe, but in my opinion the benefits are worth it, as in doing girls that look the ones on the front of a magazine, or girls that do what they do because they love it, and it shows in their work.

Be Safe DF

[QUOTE=Moriarty1875; 1865714]Under no circumstances can this (or any other) provider 'truly be trusted'. Think about what you are asking yourself there. I know it's probably just a figure of speech, but if you are wondering how you can judge trustworthiness of someone you've never met, using only their ad on BackPage, you are asking the wrong questions.

The successful senior mongers here, the guys with all the great stories and the phonebook full of providers, are the guys who accept this simple fact: these women will suck dick for a dollar (or 10, 50, 100, whatever). If they are ok with this arrangement, chances are good they are ok with a whole lotta shit you never want to know about.

Cover your ass as much as possible, anticipate and decide ahead of time what you will do when you encounter shady behavior (because you will) , and listen to that tingly feeling in the back of your neck. Far better to miss a score than score an appointment with the judge (or a dirt nap, for that matter).[/QUOTE]Very true. I've been set up by girls who I've treated extremely well, who could have counted on lot's of future benefit. They can turn on you for minimal quick benefits even though that seems against their own interests. Hey, a lot of these girls do three things that hurt their own interests before breakfast everyday. It's like the fable of the frog and the scorpion, it's just their nature (not so much as people but as addicts).

[QUOTE=Mister Slate;1866022]Very true. I've been set up by girls who I've treated extremely well, who could have counted on lot's of future benefit. They can turn on you for minimal quick benefits even though that seems against their own interests. Hey, a lot of these girls do three things that hurt their own interests before breakfast everyday. It's like the fable of the frog and the scorpion, it's just their nature (not so much as people but as addicts).[/QUOTE]Good point MS, and also keep in mind that you are not only dealing with that provider, but the people she lives with and her SO. We both became friends with a case in point. On her own, in my opinion she was honest and she always tried to protect me from the people she lived with. But get her around them and she turned into someone else. Alot have bfs, think about it, the girls can make $ selling themselves, but how do their bfs make money, stealing and scamming people for money. The girls themselves reach a desperation point that makes them do things not in their best interest. I had a girl tell me one time that when she is sick, she would be willing to line up 20 guys behind her and charge each one a buck a piece just to not feel that way. Actually sounds like a pretty good deal, but I would want to be first in line. Now I have got to check on line and read the fable of the frog and the scorpion. LOL DF

[QUOTE=DogFood; 1866019]It is a chance to meet someone, see what they really look like, see what their personality is like.

I have had many be very open which makes me feel good, like yeah I have a guy that lives with me but he will take a walk or he will be at work.

Maybe it is just me, but I have had them telling me their life story and showing me pictures of their kids on their phone before our meeting is over.[/QUOTE]No offense DF, I appreciate the reply BUT:

I kind of subscribe to the "you pay them to go away" philosophy.

I have no intention of getting to know them better or know their children or bf's.

I don't want another relationship. And I DO want variety. I just want to be selfish and enjoy myself and have my ego stroked for a bit till I have to go back to reality.

[QUOTE=DogFood;1866019]Make it clear the first thing we do when I walk in that room is do an LE check.[/QUOTE]What exactly does your LE check consist of?

[QUOTE=DogFood;1866019]On a first meet, I carry my monger wallet which contains expired credit cards.[/QUOTE]What is the reason for fake CC?