I find it hard to believe
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak; 1346573]Variety. Life is full of variety. Everyones mileage may vary depending on who they are and who they meet. BF you make a great point below.
Providers have lives and they live it the way they want, good or bad or ugly or a combination. It's a choice but sometimes desperation makes them choose. Sometimes the circumstances are sad sometimes they are erotic. What difference does it make, it happens and thats the way it is. Luchi trys to save them. BF Deal wants the fantasy without any connection except for the time he has paid for. Chelli4me doesn't believe they can be friends without money involved. All of them are right because that is what they believe. Again their mileage varies, nothing more and definately nothing wrong. It's life.
I guess I will have to resolve myself to a lot of masterbation and psychoanalysis. Maybe I am the Don Quixiote of self service in this hobby. I have relationships with providers, past and current. I go to dinner, have drinks, talk about personal issues (both sides) and genuinely care. Not to all of them, to the ones I feel are actually wonderful human beings and I have developed a connection with. To many of you this is wrong. I don't do it for the free sex. It's been offered, but I have turned it down because of the feelings that are sometimes involved. It would be a sad world if people didn't connect because others saw it as wrong. We develop friendships in any business, hell it's mandatory in most businesses. Show me a good salesmen and tell me his best clients are not truely his friends. It's sad that some feel seeing a provider is like going to the dentist who uses laughing gas. Feels great during the filling and the nitrous oxide is flowing, but once it wears off and you have to pay the bill, reality sets in and it's time to get the hell out of dodge.
We all have ways in which our mileage varies. I like freckles. I like to watch. I think watching a woman in pleasure is hot, even if I am not the one providing the pleasure. I think being a swinger at times would be fun. I can distinguish sex from love and even if I don't love them, still love the sex. Sorry that this may bother many of you, but I think golden showers are strange. I once watched a guy pay $500 to a stripper to crap in a cup so he could eat it, and he did. To me that is strange. Not necessarily wrong, it just doesn't do it for me. That guy's mileage varies.
So I will, when possible, develop a relationship with a provider. Maybe I will live with one, marry one, die in the arms of one. Maybe I will love them or they will love me. We are hobbyists and they are providers, right? Wrong! They are people with feelings, cares, concerns, bad habits, sexuality, sadness and all the other things we are. We pay them so what. I pay my dentist for a service and never get a laugh, only bad gas.
FF.
PS. Some freckled women like me. Believe it or not.[/QUOTE]But I know it to be true, and even more strange is that there are a number of them. You know I kid because I love. That was a really good post, I sometimes forget you are more than just a trick.
P. S. I am really pissed at you, you told me that was a cup of strippers chocolate.
I know the feeling IL the holidays are a PITA for those of us who are on the road
I was going to Cincy / NKY this weekend to see family and texted, emailed, and tried reaching three ladies who I had talked with before. One did get back but she was outcall only and this man does not like to leave paper trails so I asked her to give me a heads up, <no pun intended at this time smile when she got an incall, and she said she would. The other two wouldn't respond but both had reviews on them on the Cincy boards. Guess business is good so my hat's off to them both, I wish. With family in an area I'm not going to get a room, which TN and IL should consider with all this nicey nice stuff and "I love you bro" LMAO. Having the SO and RRTs with me on this trip couldn't get free to see Melissa who I really wanted to hook up with before I go as she gives great french lessons and being overly stressed and needing my pipes cleaned even more stressful knew she could do the job excellently. Holidays are great except when you have to wait for school to resume and the thought of leaving the Indy area and going a weekend without is like a chocoholic in Hersheys factory and the operative word being NO. I did have a lady email me out of the blue but have heard as hot as she is she has some other problems that could easily effect her skills so that was a no no. Hope all are doing well and it's going to be a VERY LONG weekend so maybe the Maxwell House lady can help me to the last drop or a good plumber can be found. HNYear to the clients and ladies. If my favorite masseuse would like to take care of my large muscle stiffness would love to "get in" before leaving Enjoy