Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Kenal1;5272068]Here's a question for everyone: Of all the girls you've seen through mongering, how many would you actually trust in a "what if" situation? My idea of "trust" in this context would be someone I would invite to my home for an outcall. I realize some mongers do outcalls regularly but, for me, I would NEVER invite an escort to my home (except for two) nor would I ever give them my last name. There are some girls I've seen numerous times and I've never said my last name in front of them, used a credit card while they were with me, etc. Occasionally, I drive someone to pick up groceries or whatever and I always make sure there's nothing in my car that shows my name.

I keep a list of the girls I've met through the hobby and I'm up to 120. Out of those 120 girls there's only two that I would be OK if they knew where I lived and / or knew my last name--Lady J and SincyCinnamon. I'm curious what you guys have to say on the subject if you're willing to share.[/QUOTE]I think there's a few girls I'd trust if that was the only thing to consider. The problem is most girls either have a handler pimping them out, or a wastoid bf that is somehow in the picture. I'm never surprised by how quickly these girls can turn on you if the pimping bf decides he wants to cause trouble.

[QUOTE=BengalMan;5274150]One I would absolutely trust completely would be Molly. She is the picture of class, discretion, and integrity.[/QUOTE]I totally agree on Molly. She is one I would trust. Seen her sever times an posted a review for her. She never has A handler of BF hanging around. She will also tell you like it is nothing fake about her. She is also a big sports Fan. FC an I have seen her at the Reds game several times.

[QUOTE=Jayson7825;5272635]10 years with the same gal, is she seeing new folks? Cause that's the provider type I'm seeking.[/QUOTE]Sara tt takes a while to get screened but I think she does see new people.

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[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;5293832]This may run a little long. Here we go.

I have been out of the game for a while now. My relationship status has changed with a very bad and heartbreaking break up. I am really having a hard time dealing with this break up. Well the best thing I can do for myself is this. I am looking for a dream in the Cincinnati area. The provider I am looking for will be a very GFE provider. Mature and professional. They will be daty friendly and light to heavy kissing and cuddling. They will have patience. I am currently on some meds that can make things difficult some times. The more GFE the better to overcome this. I'm looking for a full figure woman not real heavy but at least a C-cup, nice ass, and hips. I prefer long hair but not against short hair either. I would prefer someone between the ages of 27/28- mid 40's if taken care of. I'm not afraid of a little over weight but not to much, I think it's referenced as a MILF body type. I'm willing to travel within the Cincinnati region. If I find the right woman I am definitely interested in setting up something regular such as overnights at my house and date nights. Full menu not mandatory but would be nice. The GFE is a must. I would like to set something up for incall either this weekend or early next week. I work third shift and mornings / early afternoon is my playtime. Preferably Caucasian, but who knows. I am most definitely not looking for a spinner. Sorry Just not my thing.

A little about me, I am a white male in my 50's. 5'7" about 210 lbs. I'm not a Brad Pitt or even close. I have no misgivings about my looks. But also understand I am paying for this. I am willing to exchange photos if you contact me DM on this site. I have seen a couple of providers here in the Cincinnati area in the past couple of weeks that I can try to get as references if you would like. Being reviewed on this site is definitely a plus. I do have a few more desires as far as menu but can be discussed after our first visit.

I would like to extend an invitation to a couple of local girls that I have tried to see but I think are not sure if I am for real.

1. Marley [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60459580/5134600396[/URL] Honey I really wish you would contact me back. I have tried multiple times to contact you. You are exactly what I am looking for.

2. This young lady. [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60561946/5132688900[/URL] I have tried several time to contact you and set something up. I think your very capable and the body type I like to make me very happy.

3. [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60613052/5136966748[/URL] this young lady has peaked my interest.

When anyone interested to know more please DM me here on usasexguide. I will exchange phone numbers and photos and see where it goes from there. I know that this a very different type of ISO thread. I am looking for something more. I am done with relationships and just would like a FWB NSA type relationship. Much simpler.

Earlier I mentioned having seen a couple providers. I started back doing this about three weeks ago. I have learned a lot very quickly about how the game works now since the backpage days. I have been ripped off twice and ghosted multiple times. More times than I care to admit. LOL. But I have learned my lesson well. I would like to take a minute to thank a couple of providers for being real and not ripping me off.

1. [URL]https://cincinnati.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/wet-and-waiting-wednesday/043608777296[/URL] honey you were very kind to me and a sweetheart. I really appreciate our time together. Just wish you had a little bit more of a menu. If you ever change it (you know what I am talking about) I would love round 2.

2. [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60613967/5137563942[/URL] I appreciate you seeing me but your phots are a little off and the description of your incall was off. But I still appreciate your time. As far as the rip offs and the ghostings I will post in the escort review section later. I am still trying to nail down a couple of interesting ones and will update when I have all the facts.

Happy Hunting, Bedtime Story.[/QUOTE]Dude, overnights at your place and date nights with Listcrawler and STG girls is asking for more trouble than you want to imagine.

And you basically put a target on your back for any of them reading this forum. From their perspective this game is about feeding their bad habits and decisions. They'd be selling that pussy (marriage) instead of renting it by the hour if they were worth a damn.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5293982]Dude, overnights at your place and date nights with Listcrawler and STG girls is asking for more trouble than you want to imagine.

And you basically put a target on your back for any of them reading this forum. From their perspective this game is about feeding their bad habits and decisions. They'd be selling that pussy (marriage) instead of renting it by the hour if they were worth a damn.[/QUOTE]LOL. Obviously sir you think I am a man of high standards. They have to get through the first couple of visits and screening before we ever discuss the second part. LOL. Appreciate the concern though. Sincerely. I'll update the posts as the story plays out.

[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;5293832]This may run a little long. Here we go.

I have been out of the game for a while now. My relationship status has changed with a very bad and heartbreaking break up. I am really having a hard time dealing with this break up. Well the best thing I can do for myself is this. I am looking for a dream in the Cincinnati area. The provider I am looking for will be a very GFE provider. Mature and professional. They will be daty friendly and light to heavy kissing and cuddling. They will have patience. I am currently on some meds that can make things difficult some times. The more GFE the better to overcome this. I'm looking for a full figure woman not real heavy but at least a C-cup, nice ass, and hips. I prefer long hair but not against short hair either. I would prefer someone between the ages of 27/28- mid 40's if taken care of. I'm not afraid of a little over weight but not to much, I think it's referenced as a MILF body type. I'm willing to travel within the Cincinnati region. If I find the right woman I am definitely interested in setting up something regular such as overnights at my house and date nights. Full menu not mandatory but would be nice. The GFE is a must. I would like to set something up for incall either this weekend or early next week. I work third shift and mornings / early afternoon is my playtime. Preferably Caucasian, but who knows. I am most definitely not looking for a spinner. Sorry Just not my thing.

A little about me, I am a white male in my 50's. 5'7" about 210 lbs. I'm not a Brad Pitt or even close. I have no misgivings about my looks. But also understand I am paying for this. I am willing to exchange photos if you contact me DM on this site. I have seen a couple of providers here in the Cincinnati area in the past couple of weeks that I can try to get as references if you would like. Being reviewed on this site is definitely a plus. I do have a few more desires as far as menu but can be discussed after our first visit.

I would like to extend an invitation to a couple of local girls that I have tried to see but I think are not sure if I am for real.

1. Marley [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60459580/5134600396[/URL] Honey I really wish you would contact me back. I have tried multiple times to contact you. You are exactly what I am looking for.

2. This young lady. [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60561946/5132688900[/URL] I have tried several time to contact you and set something up. I think your very capable and the body type I like to make me very happy.

3. [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60613052/5136966748[/URL] this young lady has peaked my interest.

When anyone interested to know more please DM me here on usasexguide. I will exchange phone numbers and photos and see where it goes from there. I know that this a very different type of ISO thread. I am looking for something more. I am done with relationships and just would like a FWB NSA type relationship. Much simpler.

Earlier I mentioned having seen a couple providers. I started back doing this about three weeks ago. I have learned a lot very quickly about how the game works now since the backpage days. I have been ripped off twice and ghosted multiple times. More times than I care to admit. LOL. But I have learned my lesson well. I would like to take a minute to thank a couple of providers for being real and not ripping me off.

1. [URL]https://cincinnati.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/wet-and-waiting-wednesday/043608777296[/URL] honey you were very kind to me and a sweetheart. I really appreciate our time together. Just wish you had a little bit more of a menu. If you ever change it (you know what I am talking about) I would love round 2.

2. [URL]https://www.escortbabylon.net/posts_view/60613967/5137563942[/URL] I appreciate you seeing me but your phots are a little off and the description of your incall was off. But I still appreciate your time. As far as the rip offs and the ghostings I will post in the escort review section later. I am still trying to nail down a couple of interesting ones and will update when I have all the facts.

Happy Hunting, Bedtime Story.[/QUOTE]Since you are willing to pay overnights I am assuming money isn't an issue. My friend you need to be on eros. What your looking for is most likely on there. Good luck and report back.

[QUOTE=BigJay69;5294109]Since you are willing to pay overnights I am assuming money isn't an issue. My friend you need to be on eros. What your looking for is most likely on there. Good luck and report back.[/QUOTE]I know but before I started to come back to the game I read through a lot of the posts here. This used to be a a decent area as far as number of available providers. Now it seems not so much. I'm guessing that at least 80% or more of the ads on STG, listcrawler, EB, etc are scams. Out of the 20% left, half of those are rip off artist. Figure why not throw a little gas on the fire and see what turns up. I am sincere about my request and why the request. I am willing to toftt to shake it all up and see what lands. I really do appreciate the concern and advice. May regret all this later but think it will be a little fun in the process. I will post updates in the escort review section as it goes. Get some popcorn and enjoy the show. Any or all will have to get through the first stage and some screening to even get considered for phase 2 of home visits and all nighters. Bedtime story.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5293982]Dude, overnights at your place and date nights with Listcrawler and STG girls is asking for more trouble than you want to imagine.

And you basically put a target on your back for any of them reading this forum. From their perspective this game is about feeding their bad habits and decisions. They'd be selling that pussy (marriage) instead of renting it by the hour if they were worth a damn.[/QUOTE]Most of these girls that are left don't have the attention span to read anything that long. He'll be safe.

I was looking through my posts, and I don't think I've seen someone besides Thalia since last September. I just got to a point where no one could ever live up to the way she makes me feel. So, I think I'm "settling down," so to speak. I don't really get out much recently, but when I do, it's only to see her.

I guess I was just curious if any other guys have had "relationships" like that. Where you just can't find anyone else as amazing, so you just kind of settle in to one girl. LOL.

[QUOTE=BengalMan;5274150]One I would absolutely trust completely would be Molly. She is the picture of class, discretion, and integrity.[/QUOTE]I would agree totally on Molly. It's been a while but my friend has seen her at his place numerous times. Class, discretion, integrity, genuinely nice personality and always fun. Just an all-around good person to spend time with and never any drama.

CFG.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5293982]Dude, overnights at your place and date nights with Listcrawler and STG girls is asking for more trouble than you want to imagine.

And you basically put a target on your back for any of them reading this forum. From their perspective this game is about feeding their bad habits and decisions. They'd be selling that pussy (marriage) instead of renting it by the hour if they were worth a damn.[/QUOTE]There used to be a thread on here called the octagon. Admin, where did the octagon go? I will post this one time here good sir, then to the octagon. Admin I'm trying here.

First off,

[QUOTE]From their perspective this game is about feeding their bad habits and decisions. They'd be selling that pussy (marriage) instead of renting it by the hour if they were worth a damn.[/QUOTE]Wow, looked in a mirror lately dude. The cold hard truth is that we all are feeding our habits and decisions. The difference is being man enough to stand and admit our faults before we pass judgement on others. I have met many of these girls that are real. Most have very bad habits that they are trying to deal with but have failures. No one decides that one day they will wake up and become a drug addict or sex addict or any kind of addict. Sure this wasn't a career decision taught in school. If you would have been through a lot of the things that happened to them where would you be right now. I've seen a lot of strong men in bad situations fail under the pressure of life. You are part of the problem with all this. So quick to judge, but it's all good as long as they will suck your dick or let you bust a nut, then their dirty little thieving ******. It's all good, I appreciate these girls. If it wasn't for them I would be in prison or worse. Most are really scared little girls that are doing the best they can on their own not all, but most. You put them down, call them names, and get mad when they rip you off, or ghost you. I've been through a lot of shit in my life. But some of the shit that has happened to some of these girls I don't know that I could handle as well as they have. Their survivor's. I can wake up and look in the mirror every morning and deal with the judgements that I have passed, but only when looking through the lens of my mistakes in this life. How do you do it? The things they do that takes advantage of you, who is really letting who take advantage here. Big boy pants dude big boy pants.

There the gauntlet is thrown down, Are you not entertained? To the octagon. Admin please. I don't want to fill this thread with all this when others are trying to use it for its intended purpose. Open the octagon and let the games begin. Bedtime Story. Mic drop.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;5295341]I was looking through my posts, and I don't think I've seen someone besides Thalia since last September. I just got to a point where no one could ever live up to the way she makes me feel. So, I think I'm "settling down," so to speak. I don't really get out much recently, but when I do, it's only to see her.

I guess I was just curious if any other guys have had "relationships" like that. Where you just can't find anyone else as amazing, so you just kind of settle in to one girl. LOL.[/QUOTE]Well yes my good Sir, I have. Been there done that. Yet here I am. LOL.

Bedtime Story.

Have a feeling that I am going to spending sometime here soon. Don't mind me, just stretching my legs (actually creating a post so I can find my way back here easily).

Bedtime Story.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;5295341]I was looking through my posts, and I don't think I've seen someone besides Thalia since last September. I just got to a point where no one could ever live up to the way she makes me feel. So, I think I'm "settling down," so to speak. I don't really get out much recently, but when I do, it's only to see her.

I guess I was just curious if any other guys have had "relationships" like that. Where you just can't find anyone else as amazing, so you just kind of settle in to one girl. LOL.[/QUOTE]There really ain't much out ther that's worth a shit, at least in my price range. Try to get yourself a repressed housewife or 2! I feel like I've somewhat "settled" (evolved may be better word) on cheating housewives and Tinder girls doing poly or just wanting NSA FWB. They're out there. Generally much better experience than hookers anyway, always very GFE and more often than not PSE. Hot, safe, sane, clean, put together. Not sure if I'll ever go back, but probably will here and there because I'm a ****. Have had my eyes on that Green eye Hannah girl. She's bangin, but my needs are being fulfilled for now and she only does outcall and no BBBJ, boo. And I seriously doubt she'd let me do half of what these horny housewives are letting me do. Tons of kissin, sloppy gagging deepthroatn' and cream pies galore (I'm fixed). Go get ya some!

[QUOTE=PaiMei;5296571]. . . Try to get yourself a repressed housewife or 2! . . .[/QUOTE]Find a hot, sex-crazed married woman wanting to have an affair and fuck my brains out for free? Egad! Now why hadn't I thought of that before?

[QUOTE=Gonz199;5296832]Find a hot, sex-crazed married woman wanting to have an affair and fuck my brains out for free? Egad! Now why hadn't I thought of that before?[/QUOTE]Exactly. Why haven't you. Go get them cowboy.

WTF With all these girls who have been around for a while asking for booking fees.

[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;5296351]There used to be a thread on here called the octagon. Admin, where did the octagon go? I will post this one time here good sir, then to the octagon. Admin I'm trying here.

First off,

Wow, looked in a mirror lately dude. The cold hard truth is that we all are feeding our habits and decisions. The difference is being man enough to stand and admit our faults before we pass judgement on others. I have met many of these girls that are real. Most have very bad habits that they are trying to deal with but have failures. No one decides that one day they will wake up and become a drug addict or sex addict or any kind of addict. Sure this wasn't a career decision taught in school. If you would have been through a lot of the things that happened to them where would you be right now. I've seen a lot of strong men in bad situations fail under the pressure of life. You are part of the problem with all this. So quick to judge, but it's all good as long as they will suck your dick or let you bust a nut, then their dirty little thieving ******. It's all good, I appreciate these girls. If it wasn't for them I would be in prison or worse. Most are really scared little girls that are doing the best they can on their own not all, but most. You put them down, call them names, and get mad when they rip you off, or ghost you. I've been through a lot of shit in my life. But some of the shit that has happened to some of these girls I don't know that I could handle as well as they have. Their survivor's. I can wake up and look in the mirror every morning and deal with the judgements that I have passed, but only when looking through the lens of my mistakes in this life. How do you do it? The things they do that takes advantage of you, who is really letting who take advantage here. Big boy pants dude big boy pants.

There the gauntlet is thrown down, Are you not entertained? To the octagon. Admin please. I don't want to fill this thread with all this when others are trying to use it for its intended purpose. Open the octagon and let the games begin. Bedtime Story. Mic drop.[/QUOTE]Don't you need to go hit a closet or booth to change into Capt'and Save-A-Ho? Jesus. I can see why your relationships don't work out. You appear to be a stepping stone to something better.

[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;5296351]There used to be a thread on here called the octagon. Admin, where did the octagon go? I will post this one time here good sir, then to the octagon. Admin I'm trying here.

First off,

Wow, looked in a mirror lately dude. The cold hard truth is that we all are feeding our habits and decisions. The difference is being man enough to stand and admit our faults before we pass judgement on others. I have met many of these girls that are real. Most have very bad habits that they are trying to deal with but have failures. No one decides that one day they will wake up and become a drug addict or sex addict or any kind of addict. Sure this wasn't a career decision taught in school. If you would have been through a lot of the things that happened to them where would you be right now. I've seen a lot of strong men in bad situations fail under the pressure of life. You are part of the problem with all this. So quick to judge, but it's all good as long as they will suck your dick or let you bust a nut, then their dirty little thieving ******. It's all good, I appreciate these girls. If it wasn't for them I would be in prison or worse. Most are really scared little girls that are doing the best they can on their own not all, but most. You put them down, call them names, and get mad when they rip you off, or ghost you. I've been through a lot of shit in my life. But some of the shit that has happened to some of these girls I don't know that I could handle as well as they have. Their survivor's. I can wake up and look in the mirror every morning and deal with the judgements that I have passed, but only when looking through the lens of my mistakes in this life. How do you do it? The things they do that takes advantage of you, who is really letting who take advantage here. Big boy pants dude big boy pants.

There the gauntlet is thrown down, Are you not entertained? To the octagon. Admin please. I don't want to fill this thread with all this when others are trying to use it for its intended purpose. Open the octagon and let the games begin. Bedtime Story. Mic drop.[/QUOTE]When you were bearing your soul and heartache over in the "Monger ISO" section, the focus of my reply was getting you to put your guard back up. So your life doesn't go from bad to worse. All these assumptions you're making about how I treat these girls based on how I described them are wrong. Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not going to return the favor and sling unfounded accusations back at you.

My parting advice is to try not to jerk off too much here in the 'octagon. ' You'd be better off working on yourself so you attract a better caliber of woman for your next LTR. Sounds like you're one of those guys that needs to be in one of those or you get lost.

Even worse is so many golf courses wanting a credit card to make a tee time.

[QUOTE=Absinthed;5296887]WTF With all these girls who have been around for a while asking for booking fees.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5297301]When you were bearing your soul and heartache over in the "Monger ISO" section, the focus of my reply was getting you to put your guard back up. So your life doesn't go from bad to worse. All these assumptions you're making about how I treat these girls based on how I described them are wrong. Sorry to disappoint, but I'm not going to return the favor and sling unfounded accusations back at you.

My parting advice is to try not to jerk off too much here in the 'octagon. ' You'd be better off working on yourself so you attract a better caliber of woman for your next LTR. Sounds like you're one of those guys that needs to be in one of those or you get lost.[/QUOTE]Well I don't know you, all I have to go on is what you say. If I have truly misjudged you then I am wrong and man enough to say it. Bearing my soul is a lit strong, maybe. Understand that I am opinionated. What we do can only be determined by what we say and our actions. I know that there are girls that read our stuff anonymously on here. (I have asked), Most of them don't want to deal with us by how critical our opinions are of them. With out them our hobby dies. Without us their lively hood ends. We need each other for either to exist. Hard to have a good give and take without at least a little kindness going both ways. There will always be some bad apples on both sides, but we truly are coexistent. We need to be able to at least communicate better if it will evr get better. They need to separate themselves from the rip-offs and bad actors before they lose all their business because of it. We need to communicate our findings honestly but with regard to the fact that they are human beings also. I don't care who you are if you startout being offensive in your communication the issue right or wrong is dead before it ever gets started.

So if I was to harsh and judgmental I apologize Sir. But we need to turn this stuff around on both sides before there is no more hobby left for any of us. We can review honestly, just with a little tact. I relly do appreciate everybody on this forum for their concern for my vulnerability in what I'm trying to do. I have learned some lessons the hard way. But sometimes that is the best way because they are remembered the longest. I have had some girls reach out to me from my post so yes they are on here watching. I have had many members here pm me with guidance and direction on my path. Even had some interesting offers come from it that I didn't ask for but find very interesting. Awaiting more details from the pm about he potential offer (you know who you are) and eagerly await in anticipation of more details. There are some very good people on here and a few bad. If we can be a little more tactful even with our bad reviews it could help turn this around for all of us. We are all human and respond to each other's opinions good and bad.

So summary, Mr PearishBA, I apologize if I was to rash or quick to judgement. But please look at your / our comments from both sides if we want to maintain our hobby.

Girls same goes for you, it takes both of us to make it work.

My pm potential offer, your killing me with anticipation, LOL. But Daddy like so far.

I have seen a couple of participants to take up the challenge and need to report my findings so far. This is actually getting more response than what I have anticipated. Happy with the progress so far. Catch a lot more bees with honey than bitterness. Happy Hunting.

Bedtime Story.

Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.

[QUOTE=Gonz199;5298918]Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.[/QUOTE]Not had any problems getting on the forum here.

I feel ya brother! Josie ruined me for most others. I know there were a lot of reports of her being difficult to schedule with, but I never had any issues with it. She responded the 1st time I ever texted her and our 1st experience was the next day right on time. After that, never had a problem getting a date (with a couple of exceptions when her medical condition interfered), but that wasn't that often.

Man she was hot, always fresh and had a FULL menu, and we had a good chemistry. Unless I had time constraints that caused me to need to leave by a certain time, our sessions ALWAYS lasted pretty much as long as I was willing to stay. Many times, she went for a 2nd pop in the 2nd hour without my even asking. And for the donation she asked for, I actually felt guilty about it. I tried tipping her generously a couple of times and she refused, so I just started leaving it on the dresser without her seeing it. She was a bargain at twice the price. REALLY miss that one!

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;5295341]I was looking through my posts, and I don't think I've seen someone besides Thalia since last September. I just got to a point where no one could ever live up to the way she makes me feel. So, I think I'm "settling down," so to speak. I don't really get out much recently, but when I do, it's only to see her.

I guess I was just curious if any other guys have had "relationships" like that. Where you just can't find anyone else as amazing, so you just kind of settle in to one girl. LOL.[/QUOTE]

Talking about his 1st experience with a Black chick. It was hilarious, but one of the funnier lines was about the 1st time he went down on her and saw the promised land. He said he made a bit of a surprised noise, and she asked him what was wrong. He said, "NOTHING!, Nothing is wrong, it's just that. It looks like a perfectly cooked steak. " Which he said made him want to taste it even more. I had never thought of it in those terms, but it's actually true now that I do. LOL.

[QUOTE=Gonz199;5298918]Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.[/QUOTE]Yes, but it is when they do the automated serer back ups. When they start one usually can't log back in for a few hours.

[QUOTE=VinnieKramer;5297520]Even worse is so many golf courses wanting a credit card to make a tee time.[/QUOTE]The big difference is the golf course won't NCNS you. Also the reviews on sites like Golf Now are actually true.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5297301]You'd be better off working on yourself so you attract a better caliber of woman for your next LTR. Sounds like you're one of those guys that needs to be in one of those or you get lost.[/QUOTE]To be honest, this made me slow down and perform a reality check. Nope, definitely not interested in another LTR. This has made several for me. On the other hand it's not going to suck itself. I'm looking for more than knock, knock, see ya. Not wired that way. But absolutely do not want another LTR. Seems like everything changes when the commitment starts. Yep, that's the way I see it. I really do think about what people say even if I don't agree with them, but I'm a jarhead and opinionated. I guess I owe you one for getting me to stop for a second and reality check.

Bedtime Story.

[QUOTE=Gonz199;5298918]Anyone else been having trouble logging into the forums? Over the last few weeks, my success rate has been about 50/50, on both phone and PC. The forum will kick back with a claim that I'm not connected to the internet, even though I clearly am. Either that, or it just hangs up and nothing happens. I also often encounter the pages not loading properly on the phone, and everything looking like squares or incomplete loads. I know. . . It's free, so why complain? Just saying, is all.[/QUOTE]When I tried the last several days, I have had 2 different responses. First was that I was not connected to the internet, but when I went to another tab it worked fine, try again and still " not connected. ". Second was server not responding at different times of day not just when the typical updates are done around midnight our time. Thought sadly for a minute it was done like BP.

Law change to soliciting charges in ohio; now it reads something to the effect that now you don't have to ask for a specific and name a price to be guilty. It reads implicit or explicit blah blah blah. I wonder how far the implied part is going to be exaggerated by uncle LEO?

[QUOTE=Twisted69;5300758]When I tried the last several days, I have had 2 different responses. First was that I was not connected to the internet, but when I went to another tab it worked fine, try again and still " not connected. ". Second was server not responding at different times of day not just when the typical updates are done around midnight our time. Thought sadly for a minute it was done like BP.[/QUOTE]After I responded that I wasn't having any trouble. I have had a hard time connecting to the site. Karma.

[QUOTE=DaddioDoc;5299225]I feel ya brother! Josie ruined me for most others. I know there were a lot of reports of her being difficult to schedule with, but I never had any issues with it. She responded the 1st time I ever texted her and our 1st experience was the next day right on time. After that, never had a problem getting a date (with a couple of exceptions when her medical condition interfered), but that wasn't that often.

Man she was hot, always fresh and had a FULL menu, and we had a good chemistry. Unless I had time constraints that caused me to need to leave by a certain time, our sessions ALWAYS lasted pretty much as long as I was willing to stay. Many times, she went for a 2nd pop in the 2nd hour without my even asking. And for the donation she asked for, I actually felt guilty about it. I tried tipping her generously a couple of times and she refused, so I just started leaving it on the dresser without her seeing it. She was a bargain at twice the price. REALLY miss that one![/QUOTE]I agree. I knew her when her name was Madelynn. She was hard to contact and I learned the hard way to not make appts early in the AM. I spent a lot of time with her and as you said "The menu was full. " I like to play soft BDSM games and she was always good-to-go. She will be missed.

I thought I'd get some opinions from you guys, but are any of you having trouble getting providers to respond to your texts when you text them about their ad?

I can't even count the number of providers I've texted in the past month that never responded to me. Some with multiple attempts to reach them. It's not like I ask stupid questions either. I just mention that I saw her ad and want to know her availability. But no response, nada. I can't think of any reason they'd think I was LEO or something.

I don't get it. Why do they even bother to post an ad if they won't respond to mongers who reach out to them?

Hopefully, most of you guys are having better luck than me.

Take care.

[QUOTE=MrNiceGuyCincy;5304583]I thought I'd get some opinions from you guys, but are any of you having trouble getting providers to respond to your texts when you text them about their ad?

I can't even count the number of providers I've texted in the past month that never responded to me. Some with multiple attempts to reach them. It's not like I ask stupid questions either. I just mention that I saw her ad and want to know her availability. But no response, nada. I can't think of any reason they'd think I was LEO or something.

I don't get it. Why do they even bother to post an ad if they won't respond to mongers who reach out to them?

Hopefully, most of you guys are having better luck than me.

Take care.[/QUOTE]We are all dealing with that, things are pretty bad right now.

[QUOTE=MrNiceGuyCincy;5304583]I thought I'd get some opinions from you guys, but are any of you having trouble getting providers to respond to your texts when you text them about their ad?

I can't even count the number of providers I've texted in the past month that never responded to me. Some with multiple attempts to reach them. It's not like I ask stupid questions either. I just mention that I saw her ad and want to know her availability. But no response, nada. I can't think of any reason they'd think I was LEO or something.

I don't get it. Why do they even bother to post an ad if they won't respond to mongers who reach out to them?

Hopefully, most of you guys are having better luck than me.

Take care.[/QUOTE]In my texts and calls I don't mention the ad. Or the time, activities, pricing. Just some friendly vague version of wanting to get together until she starts offering the details and questions.

[QUOTE=PearishBA;5304667]In my texts and calls I don't mention the ad. Or the time, activities, pricing. Just some friendly vague version of wanting to get together until she starts offering the details and questions.[/QUOTE]I usually just mention that I found them attractive and I'd like to see about getting together. If I haven't been in touch with them before I'd guess the reply rate is about 10%. For ladies I have spoken with before it is maybe 70%.

[QUOTE=MrNiceGuyCincy;5304583]I thought I'd get some opinions from you guys, but are any of you having trouble getting providers to respond to your texts when you text them about their ad?

I can't even count the number of providers I've texted in the past month that never responded to me. Some with multiple attempts to reach them. It's not like I ask stupid questions either. I just mention that I saw her ad and want to know her availability. But no response, nada. I can't think of any reason they'd think I was LEO or something.

I don't get it. Why do they even bother to post an ad if they won't respond to mongers who reach out to them?

Hopefully, most of you guys are having better luck than me.

Take care.[/QUOTE]Since many of these girls get dozens of texts I find adding specifics makes your text stand out a bit. Along the lines of, hi so and so, are you available today around 3:00 for an hour? I'm a little flexible on exact time. Thanks!

Girls will always take an hour date over 30 minutes. Giving them a specific time rather asking when are you free pins them down a bit. Girls don't want to say "I have openings at 2, 3:30,6, 9. " They don't want you to know they have 5 others already lined up for the day, and you probably don't want to know that either! With as many texts as they get if you can get them to reply first with a yes or no I stead of 2 paragraphs about their availability you'll get more replies. Send that first message out to a dozen hollers and you're bound to get a couple replies. Good luck!

Golfguy, playing through.

[QUOTE=TheDaytimer;5303501]I agree. I knew her when her name was Madelynn. She was hard to contact and I learned the hard way to not make appts early in the AM. I spent a lot of time with her and as you said "The menu was full. " I like to play soft BDSM games and she was always good-to-go. She will be missed.[/QUOTE]Anyone in contact with her? How is she doing? Heard she may have lost part if her leg. She was on other best I saw her for years, dozen s if times. As Josie and Madelynn. Miss that little nymphs!

Golfguy, playing through.

[QUOTE=MrNiceGuyCincy;5304583]I thought I'd get some opinions from you guys, but are any of you having trouble getting providers to respond to your texts when you text them about their ad?

I can't even count the number of providers I've texted in the past month that never responded to me. Some with multiple attempts to reach them. It's not like I ask stupid questions either. I just mention that I saw her ad and want to know her availability. But no response, nada. I can't think of any reason they'd think I was LEO or something.

I don't get it. Why do they even bother to post an ad if they won't respond to mongers who reach out to them?

Hopefully, most of you guys are having better luck than me.

Take care.[/QUOTE]OR they text back 2 days later. Come on ladies, this is an impulse or timed buy.