"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Referencing REVVO_POT2 below. Not long after I filed my official report to the brothers of the bowl. I received this frantic text from her profusely apologizing over and over and telling me all about her phone issues. Her daughter had knocked the phone over in the sink and ruined it. If there is one thing I have learned about women and their phones. First it is their entire life, two they don't take care of them, and three when they fail shit hits the fan. And this goes double for the babies.

So anyway I tend to believe her since she was not trying to bullshit me and rush me to another meeting. In fact she said if I have time on some other day let her know. And she will try to schedule it. Now I was annoyed when this happened but I took the high road and told her its OK. And things happen and I am sorry about her phone. But I was really disappointed because I did not get to see her cute face in person. She giggled and then I rescheduled for another date. This one now will be a M&G coupled with a trip to FC. She told me it has been about 11 months and she really needs it and she may attack me like a wild animal. Her words.

Even better she is OK with hosting just not at first. And she texted me little later asking about what I think is reasonable for the sugar. I gave her my spiel that I have gone over on this site before. And she readily accepted it. So now I am meeting up with what I suspect to be a really hot blond MILF, possibly a 10, but more like and 8 or 9 and she will host and she is a good communicator and she is horny. Wow how things can change. Of course you all know this could go up in smoke at any time. LOL.

Ahh the bowl.

On another note REVVO_SB6 my little girl next door called me today all chipper and talking about how she is ready for me and needs the big one bad since it has been over three weeks. She feels much more secure since we settled on an allowance and she told me she is taking her profile down.

All is good for now. I have three trips to the FC lined up for next week. And may have more coming.

Revvo.

Hi and thanks to all the many sorta new people that are contributing. I love reading about guys getting amazing scores with hot amateur babes. Without replying to specific posts I have a few comments / observations.

First of all I never lie about my age and actually can't wait to say I am 60 in a few months. There is something very sexy about having a 35 to 42 year age difference. The girls I see really get off on this as much as I do. I really like the daddy role and so do most of the girls, some to an extreme.

And yes there is a certain amount of training, but not always in the 18 to 20 age range. I just get off on the perceived freshness of these girls, although some are fresher than others. Sometimes it is a little frustrating in the skills dept, but overall its still my preference.

For some time now I have been settled into my 3 regulars and have sort of chilled out on meeting new girls. This is mostly due to financial constraints. Also it seems sd4 me is having some technical difficulties with inbox messages being deleted automatically after I read them. Also I can't see if anyone has read my messages. Hopefully they fix this soon.

Anyway about 4 years ago I had a very sweet 21 year old that I was paying $$ a visit about 10 times a month. I eventually let her go due to my inability to keep her on the payroll along with my ATF at the time.

During all this time we have stayed in touch but never met. Suddenly she tells me she needs my help. I relayed to her the current state of my economy and let her know that now it would have to be $ a visit. She agreed and I saw her yesterday for a long awaited reuniting of body and soul. She was just as sexy as I remembered her and we had an awesome time.

I plan on seeing her as often as I can afford to for the time being. 9/9/9/9

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1911807]October Update.

For some time now I have been settled into my 3 regulars and have sort of chilled out on meeting new girls. This is mostly due to financial constraints. Also it seems sd4 me is having some technical difficulties with inbox messages being deleted automatically after I read them. Also I can't see if anyone has read my messages. Hopefully they fix this soon.

[/QUOTE]Actually, I noticed that SD4 M made some changes to their site where the messages, once read (both received / sent) do not appear by default, but you must change the "View:" option to "All Messages" in the drop down menu.

Then you'll see all the messages both read and unread like the way it used to be.

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1911168]Hard working single mother's are the best. Job; Car; Kids; They are busy: so they don't waste your time with non naked time activities. They are reasonable on the wallet: Never ask for more than $ to $.5[/QUOTE]Seriously? $50 a meetup? Wow.

[QUOTE=Dolato;1911812]Actually, I noticed that SD4 M made some changes to their site where the messages, once read (both received / sent) do not appear by default, but you must change the "View:" option to "All Messages" in the drop down menu.

Then you'll see all the messages both read and unread like the way it used to be.[/QUOTE]Thanks. Duh. Back to work.

[QUOTE=Wnde8;1911869]Seriously? $50 a meetup? Wow.[/QUOTE]$ seems to be the ideal amount with $.5 at the max.

Not including any hotel / taxi / babysitting costs you might add on.

I have a question for the brotherhood.

Due to my recent scare with my wife's cootchie last week. And I have been told by a friend that got caught having an affair. Where he fucked his mistress bareback and then fucked his wife later. And the wife caught a bad itch. It was not an STD it was bad PH or bacterial.

I have been told some women just are susceptible to catching stuff.

So my question is. Is there a way to clean up after being with you baby real good to make sure you do not transfer anything? Alcohol or peroxide maybe?

Maybe there is some kind of medical soap that would do the trick?

Revvo.

[QUOTE=Revvo;1912237]I have a question for the brotherhood.

Due to my recent scare with my wife's cootchie last week. And I have been told by a friend that got caught having an affair. Where he fucked his mistress bareback and then fucked his wife later. And the wife caught a bad itch. It was not an STD it was bad PH or bacterial.

I have been told some women just are susceptible to catching stuff.

So my question is. Is there a way to clean up after being with you baby real good to make sure you do not transfer anything? Alcohol or peroxide maybe?

Maybe there is some kind of medical soap that would do the trick?

Revvo.[/QUOTE]Lotrimin AF. Miconazol nitrate. Powder spray. Grey and yellow can. I use it as a preventative measure. Works great.

I am very sensitive myself and this prevents the spread of yeast infections to men (jock itch) or to another partner/ SO/ SB

[QUOTE=Revvo;1912237]I have a question for the brotherhood.

Due to my recent scare with my wife's cootchie last week. And I have been told by a friend that got caught having an affair. Where he fucked his mistress bareback and then fucked his wife later. And the wife caught a bad itch. It was not an STD it was bad PH or bacterial.

I have been told some women just are susceptible to catching stuff.

So my question is. Is there a way to clean up after being with you baby real good to make sure you do not transfer anything? Alcohol or peroxide maybe?

Maybe there is some kind of medical soap that would do the trick?

Revvo.[/QUOTE]An easier treatment is to just jack-off in the shower with soap. You have to clean when hard to ensure best coverage. Give Revvo junior a good scrub in the shower, and you should be fine for BV.

BV and yeast aren't the only concerns. If you wife goes for annual pap smears (and she should), you also need worry about HPV giving things away. If her pap comes back pos from one of the cancer causing HPV variants, then you might have some explaining to do.

[QUOTE=BikeRider;1912259]BV and yeast aren't the only concerns. If you wife goes for annual pap smears (and she should), you also need worry about HPV giving things away. If her pap comes back pos from one of the cancer causing HPV variants, then you might have some explaining to do.[/QUOTE]Is this is a situation that you can actually explain away?

Admit nothing!

Deny everything!

And make counter accusations!

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;1912374]Is this is a situation that you can actually explain away?

Admit nothing!

Deny everything!

And make counter accusations![/QUOTE]Actually yes. Almost every place you see HPV discussed, they mention the fact that HPV can take a really long time to show up on a screening test. Years and years. So they always stress that an HPV-positive test it's not a sign of infidelity. About the only case where you'd be exposed is if both you and your wife had no prior sex partners when you were married. Otherwise, either one of you could have picked it up before marriage, and it only showed up until much later.

It's been a pretty good week for me. My little wasp ice queen has turned out to be a find. When we met she had just broken off an engagement with her college sweetheart, so I thought there might be some drama with her. After a week she decided the wedding was back on, so I assumed that might be a problem, but she assured me it won't affect our arrangement. At the beginning I took a chance and gave her 500 for the month, and so far I've seen her three times. She has a flexible schedule and appears willing to come over whenever I want. I will continue to see her about twice a week for a drama free good time.

The bohemian new age girl continues to be flaky and unpredictable. I spent time with her today for a morning romp and breakfast, and then she had to go to work. She is hard to schedule because she's so flighty. I had advanced her 300 with the agreement it would be against future allowance (yeah, I know what I said about advances, but sometimes you make exceptions) and today got me even on that, and I think I will see her once more for no allowance. After that we'll go back to pnp. She is a lot of fun but just not dependable, so I will not count on her, but will see her once in a while when opportunity knocks.

The tall college girl SB virgin flaked on me. I had texted her a few times over the weekend with no response so I expected that she was gone. On Monday I got a text saying she had thought about it and she just couldn't do it. I sent her a nice note asking her to keep me in mind if she ever changed her mind. I saw that she had been active on SA a few times during the week, so I sent her one more note just asking how she is; but had all but written her off. This afternoon I received a response, before I opened it I was betting on some version of "stop bothering me", but instead it was a nice note saying that she is still toying with the idea but is unsure, and has also realized her free time is limited by school. When I dropped her off near her dorm after our M&G I gave her a good kiss; in my last note I had mentioned the idea that maybe that was too soon or too public for her; she also agreed that maybe it was a factor. I will definitely have to bring this baby along slowly and gently. I've responded with an understanding note and a few suggestions to help ease her mind. For now I'll try to keep her engaged and see if I can ease her into the fold.

I've sent out quite a few intro letters this week. The most promising is a 29 year old Cuban spice (7/8/8/ who's new to the bowl. We had a nice M&G and maybe I could have closed the deal right then, but I was pressed for time. A friend introduced her to the idea of a SD; and she has already said she is open to the FC, but we haven't talked sugar yet. She showed me a picture of her and her friend, who is an absolute knockout. The friend has a married SD, and I suspect she's commanding a significant allowance. If so that may have created some expectation in my little Cubana's mind that I'm not going to meet, so we'll see how it plays out. I plan on taking her to dinner this week and hopefully bringing her back to the house.

I have had a few other responses to my into letter that my turn into Pot's, but I won't report on them until we are at M&G stage. Work is slow for me right now so I have a lot of time on my hands, and I have been spending surprisingly little, so I plan on adding one more and then seeing how often I am able to see them all. I'm having a lot of fun, even when I don't get laid, what a country!

[QUOTE=Walruscl;1912431]Actually yes. Almost every place you see HPV discussed, they mention the fact that HPV can take a really long time to show up on a screening test. Years and years. So they always stress that an HPV-positive test it's not a sign of infidelity. About the only case where you'd be exposed is if both you and your wife had no prior sex partners when you were married. Otherwise, either one of you could have picked it up before marriage, and it only showed up until much later.[/QUOTE]Agreed...although I had a buddy who this happened to and his wife's GYN was telling her the opposite. The GYN's argument was that they had been married for 10+ years and she had clean paps. Ergo. Someone cheated. In the end, his wife divorced him (probably for the best. But never fun).

Even when the science says you have plausible deniability. Doesn't mean that your SO will buy it.

Couple of years ago when I first started in this hobby I met SB4. 30 YO AA with a real hard body. Although she was a single Mom she was flaky. Must have had another gig. First night we are waiting for round 2 and she tells me she likes to have her ass hole licked. More than licking...you bet! Boned her BB a couple of times all night, mostly in her ass. Lo and behold SA comes down with vaginal infection. Believe it or not no suspicion cast on me! But I learned my lesson. Only a rain coat in that hole. Actually every hole except SB13. Just can't quit the feel of that one bare.

[QUOTE=Graham111;1913188]Couple of years ago when I first started in this hobby I met SB4. 30 YO AA with a real hard body. Although she was a single Mom she was flaky. Must have had another gig. First night we are waiting for round 2 and she tells me she likes to have her ass hole licked. More than licking...you bet! Boned her BB a couple of times all night, mostly in her ass. Lo and behold SA comes down with vaginal infection. Believe it or not no suspicion cast on me! But I learned my lesson. Only a rain coat in that hole. Actually every hole except SB13. Just can't quit the feel of that one bare.[/QUOTE]Yeah. Never go ass to puss without a good washing off. LOL.