Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=Grasshopping;6165825]I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.

Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.[/QUOTE]So I weed msgs out by the ones not in CLT, 18/19 yr olds, and if word description of themselves do not reflect picture. A big one I look for, is when I receive a msg, I check to see if at least they visited my profile before hand. If not, it's a bot or scam msg, in my opinion.

[QUOTE=Fireball25;6168730]So I weed msgs out by the ones not in CLT, 18/19 yr olds, and if word description of themselves do not reflect picture. A big one I look for, is when I receive a msg, I check to see if at least they visited my profile before hand. If not, it's a bot or scam msg, in my opinion.[/QUOTE]Yes that's a good tip, I do the same. I also don't open their private pics until we have traded a few messages. That will save you 10 credits. I like SB and have had a good amount of success.

For all the WHITE Knights that think messaging me craziness is a good look I am going to post here and not waste my time replying to each DM.

I met Camila on Seeking we had an arrangement for a little over 2 years. I took this girl to several different countries and cost for my arrangement with her was not traditional and far exceeds what anyone should consider when beginning an initial agreement with someone.

That said I still travel globally I am in Colombia atm. I found out through a few mutual connections we established over the year that she would see others when not traveling with me. NO PROBLEM I never claim to own pussy any pussy.

The problem is that she lied to me way too many times about various things like fucking with a rubber when she was not. FOR ME, that is something I could not overlook. I have been in this lifestyle for going on 15 years and TBH I am open too almost anything but lies. I cannot have anyone around and in my personal space that I cannot trust. That said I stopped seeing her and she played the victim card and thought her starting a new account would make me jealous.

I told her not only did it not make me jealous I would help her with new clientele and arrangements. Hence the post here: READ THIS AND UNDERSTAND. If you are looking to have fun their are few other experiences I have had that compare but KNOW she plays victim and lies constantly. Most of these women are the same. The faster you learn this the safer you will be in cutting things off before investing more than you should.

Never try and turn a hoe into a housewife. You white knights so far have all been regular members. You will soon learn victim is the mentality of the working woman PERIOD. That said if you have problems with me sharing her info keep that to yourself I don't care she asked for the assistance no matter what she says she asked for the assist. I am sure it sounds better to be a damsel in distress LOL.

Her page is up and active and she is still screening so if she responds good luck and have fun just don't lose sight of what reality is!

IG: lacamilachica.

Snap: camila_chic* hint its not an asterisk.

[QUOTE=TruHobby31;6167559]Her IG is back up. IF and when she accepts your request then message me and I will fill in blanks. Black shirt blue jeans holding a purse standing in front of a pool.

Can't make it any easier.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Grasshopping;6165825]I have been tempted to try Secret Benefits for quite some time but never took the plunge due to its pricing model. Plus, I have always had pretty good success with SB so I didn't feel the need to switch.

Well lately my SBs are dropping like flies so I thought maybe it's now a good time to try the site SB out. If anyone has any tips on how to maximize the use of credits and weed out junks as much as possible, please do share either on the forum or PM. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Check out my Post #4080 in this Sugar Baby thread. You might find it helpful.

[QUOTE=TjtjtJall;6136136]Secret benefits is a loser from the start. The model is incentivized to get you to message girls, pay a premium to see their "secret" pics, move your message to the front of the line, or get a read receipt. They target the most vulnerable of the simps. Of course I signed up to try my hand and here is the deal. 1 in 20 girls might be a real person. The rest are photos from girls in other geographies that have submitted their pics and "verification" video at some point in the last few years. One prior I read of a girl in Monroe said she was really looking forward to exploring the Bay Area. Those profiles will be the ones that message you. They will request access to your pics. They will be online every other day for 12 hours straight. Every time you reply to those bots it costs you $12 based on the 50 credits /$60 math. If you are a real cuck you pay $12 to respond, another $12 to get your message "boosted", another $12 for a read receipt and a final $12 to see her naughty private photos. They clear $50 on a bot. The one thing I'll give seeking is every girl I've messaged and moved to text is at least a person. Now many are frauds or girls looking for online only, platonic, etc. BS. But, it's at least human. Secret benefits is the biggest fraud I've ever participated in. Please avoid.[/QUOTE]You get a few things right, but you are mostly flat-out wrong. Saying that "1 in 20 girls might be a real person" is nonsense. I have spent considerable time on both SA and SB and I have found SB to have far fewer fakes or scammers. Once you understand that there are far fewer fakes and scammers and have learned how to have success on SB, when you then renew look for the half-price offer they give when you get down to having only 10 tokens left. You can then buy 2000 tokens at less than $0. 15 per token. It does not cost anything to scroll through the profiles. If you decide to send a message to a girl, it costs 10 tokens which is about $1. 50. You need to avoid having to look at everyone's secret photos, get your messages boosted, or get read receipts; just ignore that stuff. Just spend wisely and your 2000 tokens can last for 3 months or longer. Once you hit it off with a girl, move to texting with your cellphone and ask her to send you pics there.

I had another extremely hot date with a regular a few days ago. If you searched through the profiles of 18-22 year-old blondes with average figure in Charlotte, she will appear in your search. I think she is one of the most beautiful young women on the site in the Charlotte area. Her photos appear to be photo-shopped -- and perhaps they are a bit -- but she actually looks just like her photos. Her breasts are natural, 36 C, and perfectly shaped. She does a great BBBJ and allows DFK and BBFSCIP but I suspect YMMV on the latter. She hosts too so I save on the cost of a hotel. Honestly, I would expect to have to pay $800 or so with girl of her caliber, and I would pass because that's too high for me. But she is extremely reasonable (at least to me). It's around $300.

No lie, I have at least 15 girls from SB that I have "dated" this year and have had only one bad experience (and that girl has fortunately left SB). I rarely find girls that chat for a few minutes and then ask for money up-front via cash app. Of course, there are some, but just write in your profile that you will not pay via cash app in advance and that will eliminate most of that stuff.

I hope you can understand and appreciate that I won't reveal any of her details. I won't do that for any of the SB girls I date privately like this. If they wanted that kind of publicity, I guess they would go on STG or something. I do just want to refute what others are writing about SB that I feel is wrong, misleading and unfair. And you can go ahead and discuss sexual things right on SB and they won't ban you like SA will.

I would far prefer to see reviews of women that help members in their search. And, have no intention to disparage one service or another. I will just point out that on this site, I have seen posts and links about women on Seeking. I don't recall ever seeing a useful review or link for anyone on Secret Benefits. I have used the information found here to help on Seeking. Those who have success on SB should help the members with useful reviews that include links. Let's remember our goals.

Now, get out there, and report back!

[QUOTE=JohnMarigold;6171458]You get a few things right, but you are mostly flat-out wrong. Saying that "1 in 20 girls might be a real person" is nonsense. I have spent considerable time on both SA and SB and I have found SB to have far fewer fakes or scammers. Once you understand that there are far fewer fakes and scammers and have learned how to have success on SB, when you then renew look for the half-price offer they give when you get down to having only 10 tokens left. You can then buy 2000 tokens at less than $0. 15 per token. It does not cost anything to scroll through the profiles. If you decide to send a message to a girl, it costs 10 tokens which is about $1. 50. You need to avoid having to look at everyone's secret photos, get your messages boosted, or get read receipts; just ignore that stuff. Just spend wisely and your 2000 tokens can last for 3 months or longer. Once you hit it off with a girl, move to texting with your cellphone and ask her to send you pics there.

I had another extremely hot date with a regular a few days ago. If you searched through the profiles of 18-22 year-old blondes with average figure in Charlotte, she will appear in your search. I think she is one of the most beautiful young women on the site in the Charlotte area. Her photos appear to be photo-shopped -- and perhaps they are a bit -- but she actually looks just like her photos. Her breasts are natural, 36 C, and perfectly shaped. She does a great BBBJ and allows DFK and BBFSCIP but I suspect YMMV on the latter. She hosts too so I save on the cost of a hotel. Honestly, I would expect to have to pay $800 or so with girl of her caliber, and I would pass because that's too high for me. But she is extremely reasonable (at least to me). It's around $300.

No lie, I have at least 15 girls from SB that I have "dated" this year and have had only one bad experience (and that girl has fortunately left SB). I rarely find girls that chat for a few minutes and then ask for money up-front via cash app. Of course, there are some, but just write in your profile that you will not pay via cash app in advance and that will eliminate most of that stuff.

I hope you can understand and appreciate that I won't reveal any of her details. I won't do that for any of the SB girls I date privately like this. If they wanted that kind of publicity, I guess they would go on STG or something. I do just want to refute what others are writing about SB that I feel is wrong, misleading and unfair. And you can go ahead and discuss sexual things right on SB and they won't ban you like SA will.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CinMiner;6172085]I would far prefer to see reviews of women that help members in their search. And, have no intention to disparage one service or another. I will just point out that on this site, I have seen posts and links about women on Seeking. I don't recall ever seeing a useful review or link for anyone on Secret Benefits. I have used the information found here to help on Seeking. Those who have success on SB should help the members with useful reviews that include links. Let's remember our goals. Now, get out there, and report back![/QUOTE]You miss my point. Secret Benefits is a very legitimate site and, IN MY OPINION, has fewer fakes, scammers, and BOTs than Seeking. Quoting from one of YOUR previous posts: "SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits. " The PURPOSE of my posts is to argue that you're dead wrong about SB being a waste of time and full of BOTs. Maybe you and some others here just don't know how to "work it" on SB, so I have been trying to inform readers here about how to work it and also point out how hot some of the girls are there.

Now, get out there, and stop misrepresenting a valuable site that you just didn't know how to work.

[QUOTE=Tensandaces;6130231]Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.[/QUOTE]If they immediately ask for your number most of them are escorts. As isn't the same as it was a few years ago. They girls that are real want $500-800. Many are also scammers but if they ask for your number immediately usually escort.

[QUOTE=RyanBB;6172580]If they immediately ask for your number most of them are escorts. As isn't the same as it was a few years ago. They girls that are real want $500-800. Many are also scammers but if they ask for your number immediately usually escort.[/QUOTE]Yep it's 500 and up now. Even the unattractive ones are asking that. I'm sticking with my regulars more often. I'm not gifting 500 unless she's a 10 face, body, and agreed services.

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[QUOTE=JohnMarigold;6172195]You miss my point. Secret Benefits is a very legitimate site and, IN MY OPINION, has fewer fakes, scammers, and BOTs than Seeking. Quoting from one of YOUR previous posts: "SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits. " The PURPOSE of my posts is to argue that you're dead wrong about SB being a waste of time and full of BOTs. Maybe you and some others here just don't know how to "work it" on SB, so I have been trying to inform readers here about how to work it and also point out how hot some of the girls are there.

Now, get out there, and stop misrepresenting a valuable site that you just didn't know how to work.[/QUOTE]Thanks for everyone's passionate feedback. I didn't mean to stir up such heated debates but won't apologize for asking either as I think seeing different perspectives is good for the community. I have heard some raving about SB and some swear by SA. I think everyone's experience could be different just like everything else.

One of my buddies who also sugar dates or at least used to had slightly better luck with SA than SB. With the credit-based scheme, I think I'll have to approach SB very differently than I was with SA. I will have to discipline and limit myself not to open every message whose originator has a hit profile pic. I will have to pick the ones that are verified and / or have been on the site for a while. Even though that means I could miss out on some real babies. I'll experient with it and will send / read messages sparingly to conserve credit. I'm not looking for tons of SBs anyway. Will be happy with 2 good and consistent ones.

Question about the creit discount: can I buy 100 credits now ($59). Then when my credit runs low and get the discount offer, I buy the 500 or 1,000 credits with the discount? Or will I will limited to applying the discount to the purchase of 100 credits only?

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;6167732]She's freaky. Pm me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/420d46af-7d39-43fb-a3e9-574ee61ef4d5[/URL][/QUOTE]Her profile is gone now. She must have freaked out from all the new attention.

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Gave SB a shot. Idk how yall make it worth it. I pored through profiles for about 2 weeks. Very selective on messages. I stayed in the 4-7 range on looks hoping to increase my odds. Bought the lowest amount of credits so I think I could send 16 messages total. I'm up to 14 with one response. She replied once and haven't heard from her since. I'll stick to SA. I can send 16 messages in an hour. LOL.

One of yall that have had success mind throwing me a bone with a sure thing to burn my last 2 messages on.

Thanks.

-CCK.

I have been mongering for a while in Orlando and have had so so! Success (I have met some very good ladies on SB) but it has cost a pretty penny.

II came up to the Carolinas and have found 0 luck.

Sent several msgs with no responses.

Will keep trying to see if any luck.

Say safe.

Ee.