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My Experience Sugar Dating
[QUOTE=TopGun9;6477409]Another time waster!
Started out with good communications, agreed to ppm terms pretty quickly, easy to setup FC date, send nice pics leading up to the FC date.
Then boom, the morning of FC date she hit you with the 'my phone got shut down' and she doesn't feel comfortable going to meet you with her phone off. How convenient that it get shuts off on this EXACT day, but she's still able to text you with her phone off. LMFAO.
Of course you know what's next, she ask if you can help her pay her phone to get it back on so she can go ahead and meet at the FC later. Well, if you were thinking with the small head, you might go ahead and cashapp her the money for her phone and look like an f* moron afterward.
These scams are getting more complex and time consuming to identify. There's really no great ways to weed out these scammers until the very end; but then hours and days have been wasted talking to them and setting up FC date, etc.
If you have better ways to weed these f*kers out, I love to hear them.[/QUOTE]I commented briefly on the National board, so forgive me a more lengthy response here.
I found several things in my years of mongering. First I was the only dude really watching out for me so I needed to do my own DD. Oh sure one can use "reviews" from this site and other sites, but many times I see glowing reviews of girls who I have dated that are mediocre at best. Not sure if it is a case of the blind leading the blind or YMMV? So I do my own research and come to my own conclusions.
As a monger IMHO my job is to weed out the posers, rinsers, professional girls and scammers. It use to drive me crazy as doing this takes a lot of time, often lots of time. I mean I was born deficient a patience gene, but eventually got tired of winding myself up, so I bought an industrial strength can of patience. Now I spend whatever time I need to find the right girl.
SA is not immune to pros posting on the site. Oh and many girls have learned that there are numerous simps out there falling all over them self looking for a girl to give their money away to for free. So any girl with a couple of brains might use any of the scams like money upfront, OF, sell content, scams etc. So nothing on SA prevents that, so I take a sip from the patience can and settle in to do my search.
As far as doing DD goes, first pic posted Jazz1 Google results come up with a tiktok page with the title "Jordan racist nia". No idea what's up with that, but jeez, for me that's a red flag. Also, I find it useful to google her number. Not looking to play Jr Detective, just figure out if she is real. When I do find a FB page or other SM, I'll tuck away a few facts and then ask questions, at the M&G, about those facts (thinks I already know) just to test her veracity and gauge her reaction. Not playing "gotcha" just measuring a girl. In fact, I never let them know I found anything else about them, other than what they tell me.
Next, I always insist on doing a Meet & Greet (M&G) with a girl. I hear all the time from girls who think it is strange that a guy wants to do a first meeting at his hotel room. From a woman's perspective that is about as unsafe a practice as possible. Guy could be there with his 10 buddies and she gets gang raped, dude could be a trafficker and send her into servitude or dude could be LE and arrest her. Point is that most girls wanting to be sugar babies don't want to feel like they are just prostitutes (well we know they are, but they want an illusion). So we play a dance that keeps the girl happy.
So in my experience, only pro girls are willing to do a first meeting in a hotel room. I found offering that up while online chatting is a good way to weed out the pros. So I offer to do a M&G for coffee or drinks. I have found that most pro girls and scammers will refuse to meet "for free". Oh sure, the site WhatsYourPrice gives girls the impression they should get paid to eat your food & drinks at a fancy restaurant and then walk away. Sometimes I have to be part of the educational process when I decline that and walk away.
Something else mentioned caught my eye. Many girls (Like guys should) use text apps to communicate. As such anywhere they can get a wifi signal they can communicate, regardless if their regular phone service is down or not. So a girl saying her phone is off, but still communicating could be true. But what was correctly analyzed here was the scam request for money.
Bottom line: do your own DD, draw own conclusions, open a can of patience and above all [B]no sugar, until the panties hit the floor![/B].
Hope this helps? Good luck hunting!
