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[QUOTE=Rome400;5303033]Saw her last Saturday, 100 bucks for a quick BJ, was decent, messy hotel, decent enough for the price but had her finish with her hand. Are you sure she's a crackhead she like marijuana edibles and had a few empty bags in her room.[/QUOTE]Yes 100 percent sure and even without me telling you, how many " normal " or as you stated potheads live or work out of the same hotel every night. Answer nobody just crackheads. I've texted with her literally a year ago was our first contact and she was at a hotel then just a different one in Warwick. She actually is from Randolph that's where she actually lives with family but for the past year is doing the tour around hotels in RI and if your wondering to yourself why RI and not MA since she lives in MA ok simple answer its because her bf lives in RI and he was there with her then but now since she's at this hotel in providence she's with her so called cousin who is from what I heard can't verify for myself is a major drug addict. So yeah I know when we all see her pics she's very attractive but once you get by the pics this girl got her own issues.

[QUOTE=TheList00;5303235]Yes 100 percent sure and even without me telling you, how many " normal " or as you stated potheads live or work out of the same hotel every night. Answer nobody just crackheads. I've texted with her literally a year ago was our first contact and she was at a hotel then just a different one in Warwick. She actually is from Randolph that's where she actually lives with family but for the past year is doing the tour around hotels in RI and if your wondering to yourself why RI and not MA since she lives in MA ok simple answer its because her bf lives in RI and he was there with her then but now since she's at this hotel in providence she's with her so called cousin who is from what I heard can't verify for myself is a major drug addict. So yeah I know when we all see her pics she's very attractive but once you get by the pics this girl got her own issues.[/QUOTE]You can get a QV BJ for 60. She's good looking, cum on tits.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8984e46b-9c6b-4d51-bcfe-68799007b3e8[/URL]

3rd message she was trying to scam me for her brother that overdosed funeral.

[QUOTE=Rome400;5303975][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8984e46b-9c6b-4d51-bcfe-68799007b3e8[/URL]

3rd message she was trying to scam me for her brother that overdosed funeral.[/QUOTE]She does not look bad? Has anyone on here tried her yet? What's on the menu?

[QUOTE=MajorVX;5303712]You can get a QV BJ for 60. She's good looking, cum on tits.[/QUOTE]200 gets you BJ with 2 pops. One on the ass one on tits.

Been talking online to around 30 girls. 3 or 4 seem like legit possibilities. Of the rest probably an even split of drug addicts, hookers, GPS, and scammers.

Some highlights.

Uhhh MTF wants to meet before and after: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd77539d-28ea-4954-b7ff-47e47698fa3b[/URL].

Amber. Seems willing to meet and do whatever for 2-3: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40439171-a109-48b9-81b1-ad6dfc78e2e1[/URL].

Ruby. Wants 8-1000 per meet (seriously?) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c9f0a577-bedc-4732-b758-219a290cca64[/URL].

JoyAndEase. Wants 1000+ won't do PPM: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cfe12840-7ef6-4098-a1ff-4a6c5b3f7b48[/URL].

Enjoyable. Has been reviewed on here, supposedly will host and do all three holes without any barriers. Wants 4-5: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fd19e620-6097-4671-a5a9-b2dd172022af[/URL].

I continue to plug along on Secret Benefits but have noticed a trend. At least a few have seemed legit, exchanged a few texts but when it comes to the date, balk at meeting in a public place first and want to "cut to the chase. " The obvious issue is they want to get paid but is there something more? It seems reasonable for both to want to get a feel and especially so for the women's safety. These girls aren't straight ho's so I've been surprised. Any respectful insights are welcome, I'm not naive and have seen many escorts, but finding the sugar scene tough to navigate.

They may justify it to themselves as not being straight hoes, but they know they're straight hoes. Any of these girls that's seen a few guys has come to realize there's a lot of salt daddies and pump and dumpers.

[blue]Thank you for being the voice of reason, most of these guys forgot that we don't call them hookers because if they thought of themselves like that they might not sell pussy but somewhere along the line some of these "sugar daddies" bought into the story as well.

I'll never understand it

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[QUOTE=Dano7;5307034]I continue to plug along on Secret Benefits but have noticed a trend. At least a few have seemed legit, exchanged a few texts but when it comes to the date, balk at meeting in a public place first and want to "cut to the chase. " The obvious issue is they want to get paid but is there something more? It seems reasonable for both to want to get a feel and especially so for the women's safety. These girls aren't straight ho's so I've been surprised. Any respectful insights are welcome, I'm not naive and have seen many escorts, but finding the sugar scene tough to navigate.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NastySD;5307127]They may justify it to themselves as not being straight hoes, but they know they're straight hoes. Any of these girls that's seen a few guys has come to realize there's a lot of salt daddies and pump and dumpers.

[blue]Thank you for being the voice of reason, most of these guys forgot that we don't call them hookers because if they thought of themselves like that they might not sell pussy but somewhere along the line some of these "sugar daddies" bought into the story as well.

I'll never understand it

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Thanks for the input but a "penny-wise and pound foolish" approach if so and on their part. I'm only asking for one short meeting and of course might bail, but they get nothing without it. I suspect this works with others but if there is no advantage to an SB beyond possibly lower volume what's the hook? Also, if they're so bad in a meet and greet they shouldn't be doing this.

[QUOTE=Dano7;5307624]Thanks for the input but a "penny-wise and pound foolish" approach if so and on their part. I'm only asking for one short meeting and of course might bail, but they get nothing without it. I suspect this works with others but if there is no advantage to an SB beyond possibly lower volume what's the hook? Also, if they're so bad in a meet and greet they shouldn't be doing this.[/QUOTE]If they got guys saying yes to meeting, paying and fucking on the first meet, why waste their time with you? You got to follow the woman's lead here. If she wants a Meet and Greet and you want to, meet her. If she doesn't want one, then bring the allowance and be prepared to fuck. The latter is a way better meet and greet anyway.

[QUOTE=Dano7;5307624]Thanks for the input but a "penny-wise and pound foolish" approach if so and on their part. I'm only asking for one short meeting and of course might bail, but they get nothing without it. I suspect this works with others but if there is no advantage to an SB beyond possibly lower volume what's the hook? Also, if they're so bad in a meet and greet they shouldn't be doing this.[/QUOTE]If you are just looking for a one time sure thing, just stick to escort sites which are free to browse and communicate. Right now it seems you are just wasting your time and money on subscriptions, tokens etc., when you can find what you are looking for on Eros, Skip the Games, etc. Sugar Daddy sites were designed for people looking for ongoing arrangements. Yes, you can find some pros on there but why bother paying an expensive subscription when you can go to a free escort site? I prefer sites like SA because I just want to have an ongoing arrangement with a hot college / young professional who doesn't have time or desire to take 8 different cocks a day as you would a pro. It can be work to find them but worth it in the end when you finally find somebody.

[QUOTE=Dano7;5307624]Thanks for the input but a "penny-wise and pound foolish" approach if so and on their part. I'm only asking for one short meeting and of course might bail, but they get nothing without it. I suspect this works with others but if there is no advantage to an SB beyond possibly lower volume what's the hook? Also, if they're so bad in a meet and greet they shouldn't be doing this.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I thought you meant doing the deed when you said "one short meeting. " In my experience, any girl that wants to skip the meet and greet and get right to the deed is typically a seasoned pro. They aren't very selective and could care less who they see. If you are Ok with that, it's fine. The ones that I go for typically have never done this before or have had little experience. For these girls you need a bit of patience as they are very selective and also concerned about their safety. They want to get to know you first. The thought of meeting a strange guy for the first time makes them nervous of course. I have been ghosted a bunch of times on a meet and greet. Their intentions are good but when it comes down to the day of the meet, they get the jitters and bail. I don't necessarily blame them. It's just part of the game. But when you get past the meet and greet and it finally happens it is well worth it for me. I should also mention any girl that demands an allowance for a meet and greet is a hard pass for me. The payment starts after the deed is done.

[QUOTE=Spike77;5308234]If you are just looking for a one time sure thing, just stick to escort sites which are free to browse and communicate. Right now it seems you are just wasting your time and money on subscriptions, tokens etc., when you can find what you are looking for on Eros, Skip the Games, etc. Sugar Daddy sites were designed for people looking for ongoing arrangements. Yes, you can find some pros on there but why bother paying an expensive subscription when you can go to a free escort site? I prefer sites like SA because I just want to have an ongoing arrangement with a hot college / young professional who doesn't have time or desire to take 8 different cocks a day as you would a pro. It can be work to find them but worth it in the end when you finally find somebody.[/QUOTE]I agree entirely. The girls those of us who invest time into SA sleep with are NOT found on Eros, STG, etc.

Look, if you want to take the view that 'a fuck is a fuck' I'm not going to argue with you. Because it's obviously true at the anatomical level. But we ARE finding something different on SA, and enjoying it.

The thing is that with CL gone, BP gone, a lot of those girls went to SA and so now SA is this mix of (seasoned) pro's and bona fide college students, grad students and young professionals with real college degrees and real day jobs. If you spend time on SA and are interested in only the latter class of girls, you learn how to separate them out pretty quickly. Yes, they typically want 300 min. PPM. And I don't go much higher than that.

Finally broke through and saw a chick from SB. This after two months of hiccups. Thin, tatted, smoking babe named Krysta, lives with her "girlfriend," who is also on the site and a pretty hot Latina. Def a pro and said she is also a dancer that does house parties, probably more. Never seen her on the escort sites but just moved from Manchester. DATY, BBBJ, bls (on request) and cfs. Kind of a rush and pricey at 2 bills but can't complain or says SB is a total waste. However, I realize after seeing her that most if not all I've been communicating with are pros and not the traditional baby I've been seeking. Happy Sunday!

[QUOTE=BR1201;5306143]Been talking online to around 30 girls. 3 or 4 seem like legit possibilities. Of the rest probably an even split of drug addicts, hookers, GPS, and scammers.

Some highlights.

Uhhh MTF wants to meet before and after: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd77539d-28ea-4954-b7ff-47e47698fa3b[/URL].

Amber. Seems willing to meet and do whatever for 2-3: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40439171-a109-48b9-81b1-ad6dfc78e2e1[/URL].

Ruby. Wants 8-1000 per meet (seriously?) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c9f0a577-bedc-4732-b758-219a290cca64[/URL].

JoyAndEase. Wants 1000+ won't do PPM: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cfe12840-7ef6-4098-a1ff-4a6c5b3f7b48[/URL].

Enjoyable. Has been reviewed on here, supposedly will host and do all three holes without any barriers. Wants 4-5: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fd19e620-6097-4671-a5a9-b2dd172022af[/URL].[/QUOTE]Ruby wants 600-800. Can host eventually if everything goes well.