The Rat Trap

[QUOTE=Jmoedb;2247200]Your not going?? :[/QUOTE]Everyone would need to pass thru a metal detector. Just kiddin', she should go.

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2247454]What would I possibly need or benifit from going? I already share company with the finest on the board!

Swaganna.[/QUOTE]There will be a class on when to use an "I" and when to use an "e".

Come on, you should go.

Swag in and. Y. D and. J. Always meant "Stolen without a gun" such as " Tommy Scumbagarone has a truck load of 60" flat screens for $200 each, you want one?"Lay a Deuce on me and I'll get you one before their gone.

I think in the current context it means "to have a demeanor that indicates swagger" in other words a person that in his or her speech and body language they have extreme confidence.

Swaganna would be a good example, right or wrong she has SWAG.

VS.

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2246362]I'm sure my very tall, very handsome, very not gay or saggy pants son and his AXA Fraternity will get a laugh over your profiling on what Swag means.

Swaganna.[/QUOTE]Damn. Must be one smart kid to get into Dartmouth. Alpha Chi Alpha is exclusive to that school, which is an Ivy League School. Even with a porn career, I can't afford that type of education.

[QUOTE=RC0028;2248592]PAIGE is one of A kind she is one of the best providers hands down, be extra kind to her gentleman you can't go wrong.[/QUOTE]Sometime, some senior members over play their hand and are distrusting of new members. It is understandable that you want to keep your privacy and do not want to share your personal experience. I hope it does not exceed that to block the on boarding of new members. Once a guy is verified by as legitimate he should be judged by his behavior and not by his membership status. I am greatfull for Paige because she will take the time to qualify you but once that is done you are in her trust circle and a full recipient of her guidance. I say she is a model sitizen and we should all follow her lead.

Both of you are two of my favorite clients, but I also consider friends as well. I treat others as I want to be treat, kind, sincere, and with respect. Thank you both for the kind words.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[QUOTE=FloridaSun;2248894]Sometime, some senior members over play their hand and are distrusting of new members. It is understandable that you want to keep your privacy and do not want to share your personal experience. I hope it does not exceed that to block the on boarding of new members. Once a guy is verified by as legitimate he should be judged by his behavior and not by his membership status. I am greatfull for Paige because she will take the time to qualify you but once that is done you are in her trust circle and a full recipient of her guidance. I say she is a model sitizen and we should all follow her lead.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AshleyMonroe;2246875]I'd be down for a meet and greet party. I've been to one in Lauderdale where they set it up as a pool party and the only request was that men see at least 3 girls at $ per girl. There was food games and tins of fun. They also hold bigger group parties just so people whom have not met get to merry face to face and chat for comfortability. Actually brought providers together to meet as well. This larger gathering was are ally at a club or convention center type of deal. My first one I went to was a bit scarey for me but I met tons of cool people and became relaxed very quickly. Idk definitely be down if we can figure out how to do this. Maybe even get a room at west gate with the Jacuzzi in the room. Keep it simple set time and date. Let well trusted people know and hell just have tons of fun. I know we have more takers than just me ladies.[/QUOTE]So you pay 1 at the door then 3 for 3 girls?

Hi all, greetings from the about to be snowy state of Ohio. I read the Rat Trap for the entertainment value from time to time, and I just noticed you guys talking about a meet and greet. With money involved. I hope you are aware that you should be a bit more circumspect about these discussions, as you just set up a massive sting operation without thinking about it. You might mention a get together, but do not discuss money, time, location, or anything like who will be there except in private message with well, and I mean well trusted long term members. I would be happy to discuss why I say this via PM with any well trusted member who would like to chat about it.

Best regards,
Cheech.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;2249209]Hi all, greetings from the about to be snowy state of Ohio. I read the Rat Trap for the entertainment value from time to time, and I just noticed you guys talking about a meet and greet. With money involved. I hope you are aware that you should be a bit more circumspect about these discussions, as you just set up a massive sting operation without thinking about it. You might mention a get together, but do not discuss money, time, location, or anything like who will be there except in private message with well, and I mean well trusted long term members. I would be happy to discuss why I say this via PM with any well trusted member who would like to chat about it.

Best regards,
Cheech.[/QUOTE]I am working to set this up with no door fee. And then if anything occurs after that it's between the invited parties. We will meet in a public discreet place and go from there.

[QUOTE=Intrigued;2249188]So you pay 1 at the door then 3 for 3 girls?[/QUOTE]This is now. I am simply setting up the meeting (no door fee) and then you guys figure it out from there. BTW what do you guys think of the Relax grill?

I wouldn't say crazy, we been friends for over a year now. Your just misunderstood and people feel threatened you have confidence in yourself.

I am glad your honest and upfront with your age. Some providers have to lie. If they lie about simple as an age, what else can they lie about??

Trp out!

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2249938]You can't tell anyone that already knows everything. I'm with ya but it's a lost cause. But what do I know, I'm bat shit crazy.
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Some providers may not put all their personal info out there for all to see for that simple reason, it is personal. I go to great lengths ro keep discretion at the paramount of my business. Once I am confortable with someone I most likely let them in on the what I feel they need to know. If the pics are real and current and hobbyist can make a decision on whether the provider is what they are into. There's a line between discretion and deception. Deception is fake pics, old pics that one states is current, lying about your measurements, your living arrangement, management, drivers, rates, etc.

Someone stated not long ago how the providers are just out there, all our info, unlike the mongers who can hide behind a handle. That is very true. So I do not see anything wrong with a provider not putting all there exact or personal info in an ad. Especially if no one I complaining about the provider or their services. Some providers don't care about ALL their business and info out there for all to see. Some of us go to great lengths to protect it.

Just shedding some light.

Have a nice day everyone and stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2250306]Some providers may not put all their personal info out there for all to see for that simple reason, it is personal. I go to great lengths ro keep discretion at the paramount of my business. Once I am confortable with someone I most likely let them in on the what I feel they need to know. If the pics are real and current and hobbyist can make a decision on whether the provider is what they are into. There's a line between discretion and deception. Deception is fake pics, old pics that one states is current, lying about your measurements, your living arrangement, management, drivers, rates, etc.

Someone stated not long ago how the providers are just out there, all our info, unlike the mongers who can hide behind a handle. That is very true. So I do not see anything wrong with a provider not putting all there exact or personal info in an ad. Especially if no one I complaining about the provider or their services. Some providers don't care about ALL their business and info out there for all to see. Some of us go to great lengths to protect it.

Just shedding some light.

Have a nice day everyone and stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.[/QUOTE]When people in this forum need to remind others that we are all concerned about protecting our identity. All of us. Maybe not amuses, but confuses.

[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2250306]Some providers may not put all their personal info out there for all to see for that simple reason, it is personal. I go to great lengths ro keep discretion at the paramount of my business. Once I am confortable with someone I most likely let them in on the what I feel they need to know. If the pics are real and current and hobbyist can make a decision on whether the provider is what they are into. There's a line between discretion and deception. Deception is fake pics, old pics that one states is current, lying about your measurements, your living arrangement, management, drivers, rates, etc.

Someone stated not long ago how the providers are just out there, all our info, unlike the mongers who can hide behind a handle. That is very true. So I do not see anything wrong with a provider not putting all there exact or personal info in an ad. Especially if no one I complaining about the provider or their services. Some providers don't care about ALL their business and info out there for all to see. Some of us go to great lengths to protect it.

Just shedding some light.

Have a nice day everyone and stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.[/QUOTE]It takes all kinds to make the world go round. Sometimes it's best to just sit back and be amused. Although we're all in the same boat, some of us might have more to lose than others if the ship goes down. One of the reasons I've remained in the shadows for more than a year now.

Paige, I've always enjoyed your posts, and that one is no exception, obvious or not to some.

(Yeah, I know, crappy first post, but I decided to get a little closer to dropping the "spectator only" tag. I'll probably regret the handle choice in a year or two, but for now it fits.).

[QUOTE=TRowePrice;2250128]I wouldn't say crazy, we been friends for over a year now. Your just misunderstood and people feel threatened you have confidence in yourself.

I am glad your honest and upfront with your age. Some providers have to lie. If they lie about simple as an age, what else can they lie about??

Trp out![/QUOTE]Keeping it pimping.

Quick question for the ladies, and SM if you want to chime in.

For the same reason as most of us, I have a very vested interest in staying safe and doing a little screening.

I'm attached and somewhat public in the social media.

I'm a biz owner that legitimately hires models to wear a tshirt or two for sale on occasion.

Modeling agency = $400/ hr.

BP escort = $150-200/ hr.

Wallet says, no brainer, right?

Seems like a win-win. I get to meet and greet for a few bills of legitimate work, provider makes their hourly rate for just standing there, wearing a tshirt, and chatting, and I'm thinking I get to pre-screen for a possible dream on the future next meeting.

I figure aunt LEO ain't going to waste her time modeling tshirts for an hour on the first date with no hope of success when there's so many OBT fish in the sea.

So what went wrong?

I called a half-dozen BP ads, and I get the brush-off / hang-up as soon as I say "modeling job".

WTF?

Half of these providers have their face pics on their BP ads, so why the runaway from a legitimate, safe and legal job offer?

Please enlighten me, so I can finally schedule a short nap.

I've been tired for too long.

On a sidenote: Why do my posts get separated into double-spaced lines? None of the other posts I see here get broken up this way. This post looks stupid. A2, when you get the chance, point me in the right posting grammar direction, will ya?

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2250895]Initially it sounds great. However, when a lady puts herself in a setting that initially has no adult activities a chance to let her guard down is now in effect. During the meeting she may get comfortable with the gentleman and questions like this may come up " I am interested in taking the next step, what are your do's and don't's". Then you may ask " The donation is same or what is the donation for a multiple hour dream". Something that would connect sexual acts with money. Now the girl is facing legal issues and possible other things. But The provider you chimed in on is great with newbs and may be willing to help you. Good luck.[/QUOTE]Thanks Swaganna.

As much as the OTT batcrap jokes go on here, you have always been both a solid provider with solid reviews, and a very valuable forum contributor.

If anyone deserves a gold star and participation ribbon around here, it's you.

Thanks again for taking the time to answer my noob post, and maybe someday I'll get to thank you personally in my dreams.

You might want to consider making that an "under the table" modeling job. Most working girls are under the radar as far as taxes and so on goes, and the smart ones won't want to create a W-2 or 1099 situation which could bring them to the attention of Auntie IRS, or Uncle Welfare, or the fugitive task force or something like that. As well as what Swaganna said. Also, with all due respect to everyone concerned, some girls may have certain marks on their arms that wouldn't look good in a brightly lit situation. Some girls don't look all that good in bright lights anyway.

The other side of the situation is that you have to be careful about the girl who says OK, then comes and hangs out in a tight tee and shorts, then sues you for sexual harassment because she's got a friend who's an ambulance chaser lawyer. You have a business and therefore, true or not, deep pockets, and the path you are attempting to tread is fraught with pitfalls.

Best regards,

Cheech1 of the North.

The whole idea about sharing resources is for safety and fun is a very close second and we should keep it that way. When we meet we agree that our meeting is between consenting adults and I take that to heart as it is paramount to how enjoyable the time will be.

I never liked the experience when my compensation for time is shared by management, independents rock my world. I also do not want to walk into a situation where illegal activities are taking place that include trafficking, drugs or any irresponsible behavior such as theift or harassment.

We should redefine safety for men and women as non violent, not associated with interapment activities and discrete. I would also add clean, polite and enjoyable company.

The rest of the story is personal preference and that bring us back full circle to this being dreams of consenting adults. Some dream of variety, physical or mental preferences and many of temparary girl friend exprience with all the benefits and non of the shortfall and of course a true sign of being a gentleman is generosity.

We should encourage good behavior because it contribute to our collective success and refrain from personal issues that put us all at risk.

Finally Senior vs. Newbie debate should be more on behavior rather than seniority. I have stayed away from posting details for personal reasons. I do not think anyone should be coerced or intimidated for their choice and that goes both ways. If you want to share do it freely and if you do that is not a license to redecule others.

We do not know each other an till we do we only see our ananoumous opinion. With regard and respect.

My $. 02 worth.

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2249253]If a provider is constantly gloating and WK themselves on how honest and respectful they are, wouldn't it be deceitful and untrustworthy to continue to have the members of the board think that they are much younger then they say. I think to be thirtysomething on the closer to fourties is not even near saying your 28 and is extremely misleading and deceitful to the gentleman on the board.

Swaganna.[/QUOTE]This is a perfect example of a hypocrite. Believe me 42 is pushing it!

Pimp Buff keeping it real!

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2251340]I was born in 1972, why don't you check back when you actually know something. But hey, all the months of your spying for your team you should of known that azzhole. Move along PimpBuffship. Feelings still hurt I didn't give ya any? Do we need to post the text on how I need to move by you so you can keep a good watch on me or how hard I make you, shiot you relentlessly text me every night unil 4 am. I have one ad only and its on BP with my correct age unless you made one for me since 3 am because your green light has been on which means it must have taken you this long to come up with a reply lmao. Move along Bruh.

Swaganna.[/QUOTE]I have every message and all pics as well but I'd rather beat you by using your own words to prove you're not as smooth as you think. You use to lie about your age until August. So raise up off Paige and any other lady of this board that you're insanely jealous of because you know the clock is ticking on your survival in this lifestyle. Then what will you do? Get a job? Well as long as you don't have to talk that may work. But those who have spoken to you in person know you talk like a 3 yr old special needs kid with ADD. Your whole life is waiting for someone like me to make you relevant and to give you something to talk about in the trap. I don't even know why I'm entertaining this from you. Stop being a hater. Say Hello, to Lobo5. I'll leave you be until I see you lying again or being a hypocrite. Then the pimp hand will emerge again. .

Buff bishop out!

What, are we in junior high again? I know you both and like you both but can't believe the shit you are both putting us through.

Cut it out already.

Just sayin'.

C3.

All escorts fudge a little about age, weight, relationship status, and measurements. It's part of the illusion and we are intutive to how men see women.

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2252017]My exhusband had poor credit because he shafted everyone but we always managed to lease 250,000. 00 and up homes. The key was honesty about credit, no evictions or judgements, cash and charm. He is self employed but had the ability to charm anyone and doing custom tile work to the house while we occupied was a added plus when applying. Honesty and charm if its privately owned goes a long way.

Swaganna.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the info. I'll pass it along to her.

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2251595]Everyone knew my age jackass I never lie about that and I certainly didn't make it so ridiculous And the only reason why I did was because the fact I get questioned on if I'm being honest I can't possibly be 42 so now I'm back to convincing I'm not a liar. As far as pics I've never sent you pics of myself I however have sent in confidence a pic of my children which now can show the board the true asshole you really are. Remember I have the balls to post everything how would jersey like to know how you talk her begging you for reviews and that's why you stopped seeing her. Please let me show everyone the POS you truly are. Should of moved on PimpBuffship.

Swaganna.[/QUOTE]I would love to see that message, please pm it to me. For the record, there is no need for me to beg anyone for reviews. The majority of the People on this forum, know what I'm all about.