The Prickyard

[QUOTE=NellsMAll;2884102]If she forgot you were coming. Then wouldn't it have been possible that she could have not been there or been busy. And you could have been greeted by cousins. With bats?[/QUOTE]Nells, I'm not picking on you, your post was handy, so I apologize in advance.

Sasha doesn't have cousins, SO's, BF's, thugs, drug addicts or anyone else waiting around with Bats ready to beat some unsuspecting monger. She had some roommate issues that are taken care of. They battered the place before they left. No hobbyists were present. This is a young woman who works VERY hard to get a very good education and be an extremely productive part of society. If she was my daughter I would be very proud of what she has accomplished with very little support. She is safe and not a drug user, hell she doesn't have time to use drugs even if she wanted to. So that being said, she has a life, can only text at certain times and that's based on her variable work schedule. So no she doesn't have specific hours to meet or even to communicate.

If you didn't like her services then say why, if you did like her service then say why, but cut out the assumptions on things you know nothing about! If you want to respond then please take it to the Prickyard.

[QUOTE=NellsMAll;2884102]If she forgot you were coming. Then wouldn't it have been possible that she could have not been there or been busy. And you could have been greeted by cousins. With bats?[/QUOTE]Two separate issues / thoughts. One she said she forgot and spaced out. Not sure what that was all about since we had good communication all afternoon. No issues at all so I was confused by that "spaced out" comment she made. Two, during the dream she made comments about her roommates / friends (I thought she said cousins but I could be wrong) that knocked holes in the walls, etc. I thought afterwards that could possibly be an extra risk to us hobbyist but I suppose any incall has its risks.

Again I will likely see her again. She is super hot, cool chick. I need to see if I can bottom out in that tiny girl.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2885062]Biology. Most men are not sexually attracted to obese women. I'm sure the opposite is true as well. I did not see this gal but if she was that big I know I would not be interested in seeing her. Whatever it is that any one person finds sexually attractive about another person it is based on pre-programmed wiring when born. You may not have liked the way the post was worded but that doesn't change the science of sexual attractiveness.[/QUOTE]In one level I can agree with you. There are certain body types which don't appeal to me.

However, the hardwired at birth remark is just nonsense. My preferences have changed many times during my life. My tastes have run the spectrum.

Just because someone doesn't appeal to me, even if I consider them disgusting, it's no reason to rip them apart based on my likes. There's no need to be insulting about the woman.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2885169]In one level I can agree with you. There are certain body types which don't appeal to me.

However, the hardwired at birth remark is just nonsense. My preferences have changed many times during my life. My tastes have run the spectrum.

Just because someone doesn't appeal to me, even if I consider them disgusting, it's no reason to rip them apart based on my likes. There's no need to be insulting about the woman.[/QUOTE]Exactly! I believe that's all Sara was trying to point out. No matter how many "excuses"or "reasons" he wants to give its still rude and not understanding how it's not? I believe we all have common sense? Maybe? I agree everyone has their own type. And that's ok. That is what makes the world go around. NO ONE is hard wired at birth of whom they are attracted to. I certainly wasn't attracted to bald men or find salt and gray hair sexy at the age of 18 . LOL. Point is. Everyone is going to criticize but there is a thing called being tactful regardless of what area of the forum you visit.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2885281]Exactly! I believe that's all Sara was trying to point out. No matter how many "excuses"or "reasons" he wants to give its still rude and not understanding how it's not? I believe we all have common sense? Maybe? I agree everyone has their own type. And that's ok. That is what makes the world go around. NO ONE is hard wired at birth of whom they are attracted to. I certainly wasn't attracted to bald men or find salt and gray hair sexy at the age of 18 . LOL. Point is. Everyone is going to criticize but there is a thing called being tactful regardless of what area of the forum you visit.[/QUOTE]There's tons of men that prefer women to have actual curves and not resemble a prepubescent boy. I also like my men with salt and pepper hair and at least 40 years old LOL.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2885169]In one level I can agree with you. There are certain body types which don't appeal to me.

However, the hardwired at birth remark is just nonsense. My preferences have changed many times during my life. My tastes have run the spectrum.

Just because someone doesn't appeal to me, even if I consider them disgusting, it's no reason to rip them apart based on my likes. There's no need to be insulting about the woman.[/QUOTE]Excellent post, Jjbee. In the hobby, there are a lot of likes and dislikes and it'd really behoove everyone to just live and let live and not get so insulting about tastes. I'd take Ashley Graham over any woman alive, and don't understand the fascination with 85 lb prepubescent looking drug addicts advertising on BP, but I don't spend all day ripping on guys for wanting their little spinners.

Different strokes for different folks, and hopefully lots of strokes. And let's save the insults for the guys and gals that do the stupid stuff like rip people off or beat up providers. They're the scumbags.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2885491]Excellent post, Jjbee. In the hobby, there are a lot of likes and dislikes and it'd really behoove everyone to just live and let live and not get so insulting about tastes. I'd take Ashley Graham over any woman alive, and don't understand the fascination with 85 lb prepubescent looking drug addicts advertising on BP, but I don't spend all day ripping on guys for wanting their little spinners.

Different strokes for different folks, and hopefully lots of strokes. And let's save the insults for the guys and gals that do the stupid stuff like rip people off or beat up providers. They're the scumbags.[/QUOTE]Mwdude, you are suggesting something of value be reported. Silly you. When impd was posting on their wall I was shocked about how many looked like their mug shots had been pulled from the "faces of meth" page. Many were SW but I guess if the chick's head is buried in your crotch in a back alley you don't notice as much and I'm sure the meth itch at least keeps it lively.

[QUOTE=Gogetter32;2885019]I saw that same person, dirty lookin with a tattoo on the forearm. Just Gross. However not a bad looking older blonde curly hair making it obvious she was working and probably jacked up also the way she was swinging her arms and shaking her ass down close to the bank, I turned around at Kroger for a better look and someone had swooped her up![/QUOTE]To call someone nasty is mean. Perhaps in this case if she indeed was dirty looking and drugged out then nasty may have been appropriate. Nasty due strictly to size is really just a personal opinion and not a useful fact. In fact, most larger women in this business take extra effort to ensure they are exceptionally clean.

If someone isn't of your taste, simply look away. The great thing about the hobby for the client is you have a choice of who you see. For the provider, we don't know if we are going to be pleasantly surprised or utterly disgusted the first and maybe only time you come to your door.

It's not necessarily about the size hon but how the person carries themselves. If you read through the reviews of larger women, they are usually pretty good reviews and rarely a complaint regarding service. Hell, they're big so they probably won't cash and dash you. So hon, next time Miss meth head of the week and her skinny little ass are giving that mechanical unenthusiastic rush handjob, just realize that some other dude is getting his best BBBJ from a chick with a little meat on her bones.

Just saying.

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2885558]It's not necessarily about the size hon but how the person carries themselves. If you read through the reviews of larger women, they are usually pretty good reviews and rarely a complaint regarding service. Hell, they're big so they probably won't cash and dash you. So hon, next time Miss meth head of the week and her skinny little ass are giving that mechanical unenthusiastic rush handjob, just realize that some other dude is getting his best BBBJ from a chick with a little meat on her bones.

Just saying.[/QUOTE]Amen sister! I have meat on my bones and I'm the top provider in South Bend because I provide the best service and guys know they'll leave smiling ear to ear and barely able to walk! If you think you need a spinner to have a kick ass service you're dead wrong. Ask IndyGuy and Noobie. This thick ass girl left them unable to walk and sweating bullets.

[QUOTE=XNatalieX;2885339]There's tons of men that prefer women to have actual curves and not resemble a prepubescent boy. I also like my men with salt and pepper hair and at least 40 years old LOL.[/QUOTE]Is this reverse body shaming? I have heard, let's just call them better endowed women compare thin (aka spinners in this world) to prepubescent boys or simply calling them sticks. It's no better than the former being referred to as fat in a disparaging manner. But I doubt any progressives are going to take up this cause as it seems to be ok to bash those perceived as advantaged in society.

P.S. Natalie you are the cat's meow! Judging only by your gorgeous picture as I have yet to have the pleasure in person. This needs to change soon!

I love ice cream. All different flavors from vanilla, chocolate, Asian style, and that Latin fried kind. It is all good. I do like some better than others, but overall I enjoy them all. I have a friend and he likes nuts on his ice cream, I have never found that appealing but he does. I like the low fat, regular and even the extra rich ones that have added fat in them. I have always wanted to try a double scoop, and hopefully Mmgeg will help me out with that. Speaking of which, she loves popsicles, which I definitely don't have a taste for. Everyone has a taste they enjoy. One thing I don't like is hearing how some people think different flavors or types sound disgusting. Unless you have tasted it I don't really value your opinion. So I keep hearing about different flavors and people saying that you would have to pay them to try that flavor. Why? Try it, you just might enjoy it.

If that was too vague for you, then try this. It is not open mic night on here, if you want to be a heckler then go to a comedy club. I enjoy seeing honest reviews, but insults don't help. I can see you not finding someone attractive, but to belittle them does no good. That provider may be on here or have friends on here that are going to remember how much you ranted about that person. I am not just talking about making fun of unattractive women, bigger women, or older women. Even saying the thin spinners look like drug addicts does not help either. By no means am I a sensitive person that wants this to be a "safe space", but you don't need to Richard Cranium all the time.

Discretion- the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information.

Synonyms: Circumspection, carefulness, caution, wariness, chariness, guardedness; TACT, tactfulness, diplomacy, delicacy, sensitivity, prudence, judiciousness.

Tact-Adroitness and sensitivity in dealing with others or with difficult issues.

This post will likely get its handful of responses and many people will not like this but I quite frankly don't care. Several of our members need to read the definitions above and go back to school on how to apply this in their dealings with other people. By the way, note the double meaning of discretion. In the last month or so, we have had two instances of mongers basically causing a raucous on the board because they said or did something that one or more of us did not agree with. In both of those instances, no one was being insulted when it started. Well that is exactly what you are doing when some of the completely unnecessary comments or poorly chosen words are used on this forum. Although this forum has a purpose that is directed towards mongers, we all know there are providers that read it. A handful of them are actively involved in our communications but there are more that lurk in the shadows and do not post. Some members think that the mongers are always right and can say anything. Well I do not see any of you complaining for the ladies that are on here that will use this forum as a screening device. Here is a clue guys. I know more than one lady that reads this forum and has put you on their personal blacklist based on your comments that are rude even when the comments did not apply to them. These same providers have black listed clients that they previously have seen and liked as your comments have changed their opinion of you. Why? Because they want to see clients who know how to treat providers. It is only those providers that are feeding habits that truly do not care. If that is what you want, be my guest. The rest of the quality providers normally do not have problems filling up their schedule and many times can be selective of who they choose to see.

Several local providers including KitKat, Janelle, and Sara all fall under this category and follow this forum but I remember nothing but good reviews by anyone who has seen them. If a provider advertises somewhere and is not honest about herself, by all means report on it so fellow members know the honest description of a provider they may be considering. "She advertises as an athletic build but the pictures are a few years old and is she is 30-40 lbs heavier than advertised. " That is what is needed. It is factual and objective. I do not see any of you complaining when one of those ladies is providing information to the forum to help keep guys safe.

Blondes? Brunettes? Redheads? Tall? Short? Younger? Older? Thin? Curvy? We all have our preferences of our types of desired partners whether you are a male or a female. We all know I like redheads but it is far from a requirement. Other than that, I do not really care. I don't care if she is a spinner or a bbw. Would it make me any less of a man or a monger if I said I liked older redheads or young brunettes? It is all preference. See those that you like and report back here so others with similar tastes can benefit. However, cut out the editorial comments that do not benefit anyone. It did not take very long in this hobby to learn that attitude by a provider goes further than anything. Would you prefer a thinner provider with GPS and a bad attitude or a larger woman with a great attitude that truly makes you feel like you are the center of their universe? If you answer the prior, I suggest you explore other options in your own choices even if it is just for a single provider and appointment to see if you agree. Need I remind you that most (not all) of those little spinners in this hobby are that way because of pharmaceutical issues?

This all sums up to one thing that most of us learned as a young child. If you do not have anything nice (or productive) to say, don't say anything at all.

Sincerely Signed,

Gladly The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;2885735]Is this reverse body shaming? I have heard, let's just call them better endowed women compare thin (aka spinners in this world) to prepubescent boys or simply calling them sticks. It's no better than the former being referred to as fat in a disparaging manner. But I doubt any progressives are going to take up this cause as it seems to be ok to bash those perceived as advantaged in society.

P.S. Natalie you are the cat's meow! Judging only by your gorgeous picture as I have yet to have the pleasure in person. This needs to change soon![/QUOTE]I like girls with curves and spinners like Sabrina from Cali, so I guess that makes me a pedophile?

And weakness from good "service" makes me glad I no longer need my "meds" to get wood Gosh ladies my first POA was right The biggest sex organ is on your shoulders Thanks for a "blow by blow" description of things to cum: P).

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2886116]
This all sums up to one thing that most of us learned as a young child. If you do not have anything nice (or productive) to say, don't say anything at all.

Sincerely Signed,

Gladly The Biggest Prick in the Yard.[/QUOTE]Let me know where to buy you a beer.

[QUOTE=XNatalieX;2885689]Amen sister! I have meat on my bones and I'm the top provider in South Bend because I provide the best service and guys know they'll leave smiling ear to ear and barely able to walk! If you think you need a spinner to have a kick ass service you're dead wrong. Ask IndyGuy and Noobie. This thick ass girl left them unable to walk and sweating bullets.[/QUOTE]I plead the 5th. These are all dreams so none of it really ever happened and I can deny all I want. The only thing I will admit to is my appreciation for the invention of cruise control and electrolyte enfused beverages.

Sincerely Signed,

Oh what was it? Somehow I can even remember.