Rants, Raves, and Opinions

[QUOTE=Terry7168;3218533]Do I put her fb page link on here or no.
or I can send it to you and you can verify it[/QUOTE]I was like one of the first to see her before releasing her info to people on here. I'm still very surprised at what had occurred but I wish people wouldn't jump to conclusions specially when it's this type of situation. I'm sure most have been able to figure out her real name by now but I don't think it's the place or time to post information like that even on the thread. Don't really know what occurred everyone just automatically guess "H" I'm not sure how someone would know for a fact if that's the real cause unless you were there and watched it or if your the dick that supplied it. Either way there is no reason to drag there name through the mud. I'm not sure what the whole family situation was but for some weird way her family member finds this thread and see some of the comments it's not necessary. I'm still a little shocked that whatever happened happened. Just keep it clean and move on.

[QUOTE=Sonic69;3220423]I was like one of the first to see her before releasing her info to people on here. I'm still very surprised at what had occurred but I wish people wouldn't jump to conclusions specially when it's this type of situation. I'm sure most have been able to figure out her real name by now but I don't think it's the place or time to post information like that even on the thread. Don't really know what occurred everyone just automatically guess "H" I'm not sure how someone would know for a fact if that's the real cause unless you were there and watched it or if your the dick that supplied it. Either way there is no reason to drag there name through the mud. I'm not sure what the whole family situation was but for some weird way her family member finds this thread and see some of the comments it's not necessary. I'm still a little shocked that whatever happened happened. Just keep it clean and move on.[/QUOTE]I think its prob best not to put it here, after a few comments and thinking about the fam.

As far as the H, one of her close friends put that on her fb page and the demon could no longer.

Get her. In a way, it may make others think twice about getting on it. I am not the dick that supplied it.

Just to be clear. I never met her in person but we talked a lot on fb, texts, but it just wasn't meant for us to meet I guess.

Which is conflicting a bit, as I never got to be with that beauty of hers, at the same time, I didn't contribute to.

The demon either, and I know it was her $ and her choice to spend it, so I am not putting any of you down for seeing her.

I wanted to see her, just never happened. Most girls in this profession have some kind of addiction. She never told me about.

Drug addiction, but looking back at what she did tell me, I should have figured it out. Maybe I thought too much of her to see it. Sad she gone!

[QUOTE=Phoenix5;3220400]If any of you know some nice women who are willing to have relations for free, feel free to PM her digits. She just has to be decent looking and clean (Serious).[/QUOTE]Are you serious. Where do you guys come up with this stuff? Whatever you are smoking, you should share.

[QUOTE=Milwpussyhound;3220671]Are you serious. Where do you guys come up with this stuff? Whatever you are smoking, you should share.[/QUOTE]I knowright? Lmao.

I don't know what the exact rule is on here and I'm not going to spend my time trying to look it up. Would be nice if the admin chimed in on this.

Now this is my opinion.

My opinion is that you should never publicly post anyone's FB page on here. If you want to PM the FB page to someone that's fine. But by publicly posting someone's FB page you are shaming them / outing them or whatever you want to call it. To me it's the same as when cops post pictures in newspapers or on line of people who where busted in prostitution stings and the like. There's no reason for it. Someone on here did it recently and I posted something against it (post #13250 on backpack forum). Most people on here know how to find these gals FB page so let them find it. It's not that hard.

[QUOTE=Phoenix5;3220400]If any of you know some nice women who are willing to have relations for free, feel free to PM her digits. She just has to be decent looking and clean (Serious).[/QUOTE]Have you considered chatting up some of the women who work in your industry, or who have similar interests as you, outside of this hobby? Wear your favorite confidence boosting coat and tie, then strike up a conversation with the attractive women selling men's fragrance at Macy's or Boston Store. Hit up a few East Side coffee shops and try chatting with the nicest barista. Make her your weekly coffee visit and earn her trust.

Beyond that, no woman is going to play for free, unless she gets something in return. Online, I once met an attractive college girl living in the Wicker Park area of Chicago who wanted somebody to give her a sensual massage. No drugs or money involved. This was one of my few freebie success stories, after years of trolling online personal ads. Carpet bomb the Craigslist personals. Make yourself sound professional and very involved in life. You might score some free action that way, but you'll have to put in the effort to make it happen.

[QUOTE=Phoenix5;3220400]If any of you know some nice women who are willing to have relations for free, feel free to PM her digits. She just has to be decent looking and clean (Serious).[/QUOTE]Pussy is never free! You meet a girl, take her out, buy a few drinks, spend time with her, etc. Add up all of the expenses and you have paid for the pussy. Plus, a lot of crap go along with it. Unless you are an alpha male (celebrity, sports figure, etc) there is no free pussy. I prefer to pay for the pussy up front and then move on.

[QUOTE=DrManhattan;3220786]Have you considered chatting up some of the women who work in your industry, or who have similar interests as you, outside of this hobby? Wear your favorite confidence boosting coat and tie, then strike up a conversation with the attractive women selling men's fragrance at Macy's or Boston Store. Hit up a few East Side coffee shops and try chatting with the nicest barista. Make her your weekly coffee visit and earn her trust.

Beyond that, no woman is going to play for free, unless she gets something in return. Online, I once met an attractive college girl living in the Wicker Park area of Chicago who wanted somebody to give her a sensual massage. No drugs or money involved. This was one of my few freebie success stories, after years of trolling online personal ads. Carpet bomb the Craigslist personals. Make yourself sound professional and very involved in life. You might score some free action that way, but you'll have to put in the effort to make it happen.[/QUOTE]Is he serious, wars he smoking, this site's getting hilarious, I met an awesome 25 year old new years eve, been out twice after we both left are friends after 1:00 am Awesome time until we retired at my house til the next day. Were having our third date again Wednesday. Go out mingle, socialize, put one foot in front of the other & just be urself, hot young girls are more lonely than you think, they just hate wen a guys a bragger, cocky & she has more going for herself than he does, your dream girls not jumping out of a Chinese fortune cookie, hit the town & like Blondie the singer says (hit me with your best shot).

[QUOTE=Milwpussyhound;3220704]I don't know what the exact rule is on here and I'm not going to spend my time trying to look it up. Would be nice if the admin chimed in on this.

Now this is my opinion.

My opinion is that you should never publicly post anyone's FB page on here. If you want to PM the FB page to someone that's fine. But by publicly posting someone's FB page you are shaming them / outing them or whatever you want to call it. To me it's the same as when cops post pictures in newspapers or on line of people who where busted in prostitution stings and the like. There's no reason for it. Someone on here did it recently and I posted something against it (post #13250 on backpack forum). Most people on here know how to find these gals FB page so let them find it. It's not that hard.[/QUOTE]I totally agree.

The best thing to do is to report that post. I actually did this once (include an FB link in a post) by accident. By the time someone pointed it out, it was too late for me to edit it myself.

[QUOTE=Howard5354;3220796]Pussy is never free! You meet a girl, take her out, buy a few drinks, spend time with her, etc. Add up all of the expenses and you have paid for the pussy. Plus, a lot of crap go along with it. Unless you are an alpha male (celebrity, sports figure, etc) there is no free pussy. I prefer to pay for the pussy up front and then move on.[/QUOTE]Freeist I ever got was a married gal, she came to my house, brought her own drinks.

Got naked, spent 2 to 3 hrs in bed with me, got up dressed went home.

[QUOTE=Milwpussyhound;3220704]I don't know what the exact rule is on here and I'm not going to spend my time trying to look it up. Would be nice if the admin chimed in on this.

Now this is my opinion.

My opinion is that you should never publicly post anyone's FB page on here. If you want to PM the FB page to someone that's fine. But by publicly posting someone's FB page you are shaming them / outing them or whatever you want to call it. To me it's the same as when cops post pictures in newspapers or on line of people who where busted in prostitution stings and the like. There's no reason for it. Someone on here did it recently and I posted something against it (post #13250 on backpack forum). Most people on here know how to find these gals FB page so let them find it. It's not that hard.[/QUOTE]I asked admin about it, never got an answer, but a couple of you made your opinion not too and I am happy I did not post it! Especially under the circumstances.

[QUOTE=Terry7168;3221242]I asked admin about it, never got an answer, but a couple of you made your opinion not too and I am happy I did not post it! Especially under the circumstances.[/QUOTE]You didn't do anything wrong. You did the right thing by asking the Admin. I just was making a point / post because of others that did actually post FB links and because you were thinking about posting a link. I was just expressing my view point whether it is correct or not. My point was basically put yourself in these ladies shoes. The ladies more than likely wouldn't want their FB page posted anywhere near where they advertise or on a website where mongers talk about them. We want these ladies to stay in this business and not to frighten them off. I would only think that by posting the ladies FB that it would more often than not frighten them off. They would get creeps that now know there real name. Maybe a relative might be on here and see it. Somehow maybe a Google search might link the FB to our website. Who knows. All I know is it seems it would be more detrimental to this website and to keeping the ladies doing what we like them to do.

I also posted it to get other mongers aware of how bad it would be to post a FB link before they do it. And to get us talking about it. Maybe there is a view point for posting FB links that I haven't thought of, that would be helpful. I doubt it but you never know.

The drug epidemic is nothing to sneeze at. I don't have magic answers and nobody else apparently does, either.

I am disappointed that the chemically assisted or controlled ladies were once confined to the street corner but now seem to have moved online. Used to be that online quality was significantly better. The distinction gets more blurry, especially in this market.

I chuckled but am not sure what to make of the "freebie" posts below except to say that once in a blue moon it an and does happen. For a clunker like me one time was in my much younger days. I was in Chicago's Old Town and met a young lady in a coffee and ice cream shop. She was joking about buying ice cream so I got us ice cream. She was from Pennsylvania and after we finished I walked her back to her apartment. Along the way I asked what she did and she told me worked at "The Candy Store" which I thought was, indeed, a candy store -- not knowing it was a strip club. She volunteered her number and said I should call her on her day off and we could go do something. I did and we went to dinner and a show at the Aerie Crown Theater. Then off for ice cream and back to her place where we talked some more and then she thanked me for treating her so well. I was kind of confused and replied that I was just doing what any normal guy would and I was even more confused when she said she doesn't meet normal guys at her work who treat her as a person. Even more confused I said I was surprised because I would think only nice guys would be coming into a candy store and then it must have clicked that I thought she actually worked at a candy shop. She said she was a dancer and The Candy Store was a strip club!

[QUOTE=Terry7168;3221238]Freeist I ever got was a married gal, she came to my house, brought her own drinks.

Got naked, spent 2 to 3 hrs in bed with me, got up dressed went home.[/QUOTE]Yes, that does happen from time to time. Enjoy it because it does not happen often.

I have been on the site for some time now and have never had a issue with anyone when exchanging info for providers. Either for SA girls (which I always ask them first) or UTR to Backpage contacts. I recently sent out a PM to someone on the site and simply asked them if they would be willing to exchange contact info on some SA girls (keep in mind this individual comments on SA issues on the forum). The reply I got back was "I am not on SA, do you have any HOT girls numbers to give me?" In return I replied with " Sure, I do if you do". His next message was "What are you in 5th grade, don't PM me again", My reply was not so nice as I called him a Dick for acting in such a way. This went on back and forth for a bit. My asking of the opinion on it is this. Isn't this site used for us Mongers to exchange info and provide feedback on such. I felt as if this individual just wanted numbers W / O willing to give any back. If I am wrong on this please let me know and I will accept it.

Thanks in advance!

[blue]The internet is full of trolls, you will run into more of them here. Add him to your ignore list and don't read any more of his PM's.

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