I posted this late Sunday / early Monday morning but requested it be removed based on the detail of info. Still, I wanted to get word out to you guys!
I emailed a CL girl who was posting looking for help. We had been chatting back and forth, and seemed to be an absolute head case! Extremely insecure, paranoid, jumping to insane conclusions and would make absurd accusations.
I had put so much time into interacting with her that I did not follow basic common sense signs that she was a MEGA time waster.
She stood me up, then tells me it was because she was sad. Said she didn't know if I would like her. I am a pretty cool with the ladies, wouldn't think to be disrespectful to her even if she did turn me off. Not my style. My pride and wanting to show I was actually on the up-and-up made me foolishly continue on.
Get her to meet me after all the signs telling me to bail. And she turns out to be way heavier than pics suggested. Pretty much a short, fat Mexican ball. Looked ridiculous climbing out of her behemoth SUV. Shoulda bailed on her stupid ass right then and there!
Throughout the whole experience she was insanely nosey, jumped to ridiculous conclusions and accusations, pretty much insecure to levels I don't think I have ever seen in a person. Didn't want to go to a restaurant as was planned, kept going around in circles in her head. Made the FATAL mistake of bringing her back to my place! And she turns even more annoying, nosey and imposing like no one I've ever met before. At the end of the whole experience she left unhappy when I declined to give her a massage. I had pretty much reached my limit with her. But I was never disrespectful, just told her I was tired and preferred not to. As she is walking out I lay back to relax, the best feeling in the whole 3hrs of dealing with this psycho.
After all that she has the balls to text me the next morning threatening to cause me problems, and that I would pay for everything, that karma was a *****. WTF? I never lied to this psycho, she just went nuts. I am too busy for silliness of this kind, so didn't want to point out to her that I could easily get just as crazy given the info I had on her. But not even an option for me, not time for that kind of stupidity. Basically, she's the type of person that seeks out conflict. A very unhappy person looking to maintain rejection, a self-fulfilling psycho bee.
So, learn from my mistakes, my hobby bros. Looks like she posts on CL and answers to posts. She mentioned she was offended when some guy offered. 75 for her cause. Shit- that wouldve been like paying a benjamin for something off the McDee's dollar menu! To think of the caliber of chicks I've been seeing, to then have that kind of experience with this loser!
She uses a fake 201 area number off her iPhone ap, she can easily change numbers. You'll get a weird message that the person at that extension is not available. Her real number is 630. She used a gmail account with name initials D. R. This is an alias, of course. She'll show signs to be very self-conscious of her FAT build, with good reason. She is also self conscious about having a kid.
All in all I am an idiot. I had plenty of chances to walk away from this one. Emailing and texting with her alone was enough of a sign! When I actually met her I was so turned off, I wouldn't even buy her the Snapple she wanted form the gas station! I wouldn't even give this girl the time of day if I were drunk at a bar and getting it for free. I think she realized the idea that a guy would actually help or P4P was pretty absurd.
I am a true idiot indeed. Please take this and learn from it! So much wrong here. I deserve a punch in the nut sack for this one. Not looking for advice on how to hobby, I got a pretty good system that works for me. Just wanted to put word out to avoid this piece of sh-t loser. LOL