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After corresponding with her via email for a short time I scheduled an appt with her around lunch, she texted back she can do that. So, on the way to her place, she texted me asking to push it back 30 mins because she was running behind, no problem I responded. She wanted me to call at the new time when I was arriving and I did so, and she said she's running another 10 mins late.

Starting to get irritated and had a feeling this was going to be a stand up situation I told her OK because she said she was coming from the other end of the county and was paying bills. So I wait, no call or text so I call her. Another 5 mins please. Ok I wait, nothing. I call her again, oh I'm just getting on such and such street (about 20 minutes away) so I knew this was a stand up.

So, I leave and call a reputable provider of whom I a regular and schedule with no problem.

About 15 minutes after I leave and about 1 hour from the time she first agreed to meet, she texts me "can't make it". No other explanation or anything.

So, I wait a few minutes and call and she said well something came up blah blah blah.

Time lost - 1 hour
Gas - lots
Frustration - lots

[QUOTE=Clubking01]I just think we need some parameters as to the definition of GFE. I agree with you, BBT and Amber, but I know that there are others who have an entirely different interpretation of "GFE".

What is your interpretation? [/QUOTE]I think GFE is the time spent with a client. The cuddling, conversation, and karma.

I mean, just becuase a provider gives BBBJ, doesn't mean the whole experience is going to be better. I guess it just depends on what you, as a client, is looking for. But, I know that since most providers seem to provide a BBBJ as a part of their service, it has made it harder for a provider's like myself, who just won't provide that service. If your gonna do. At least charge extra. LOL

I personally don't understand the attraction. Wether the provider only does it with certain clients or every client. You are still french kissing and being barebacked by someone who has had lots of bare dicks in their mouths. And vice versa. Providers you don't know where their dicks have been.

Anyway. Better safe than sorry.

[QUOTE=David469]After corresponding with her via email for a short time I scheduled an appt with her around lunch, she texted back she can do that. So, on the way to her place, she texted me asking to push it back 30 mins because she was running behind, no problem I responded. She wanted me to call at the new time when I was arriving and I did so, and she said she's running another 10 mins late.

Starting to get irritated and had a feeling this was going to be a stand up situation I told her OK because she said she was coming from the other end of the county and was paying bills. So I wait, no call or text so I call her. Another 5 mins please. Ok I wait, nothing. I call her again, oh I'm just getting on such and such street (about 20 minutes away) so I knew this was a stand up.

So, I leave and call a reputable provider of whom I a regular and schedule with no problem.

About 15 minutes after I leave and about 1 hour from the time she first agreed to meet, she texts me "can't make it". No other explanation or anything.

So, I wait a few minutes and call and she said well something came up blah blah blah.

Time lost - 1 hour
Gas - lots
Frustration - lots[/QUOTE]

She sounds young and irresponsible. I would write her off in a heartbeat and wait until she matures. I say that if you're in business then act like it. Thanks for the head's up. (no pun intended.)

Nucks

[QUOTE=Sweet Melissa]Gfe-(noun) Girl Friend Experience. Long deep tongue kisses, no clocks, no limits, BBBJ but cfs, as many pops as you can handle in the time YOU have because I have all the time in the world when it comes to you. I only schedule one boyfriend a day and I'll give you hours of my time. Every position your body is capable of and my body can do them all. Cuddles and pillow talk if that is what you are into. A nice nap if you have the time (my personal favorite). Can't walk straight when it is all said and done. Call me or text me 5 minutes after you leave me to let me know you already can't wait to see me again. I feel the same. That is MY version of GFE.

Kisses,

Melissa[/QUOTE]Now that is a GFE deal I can live with. Melissa we gota get together. Your version sounds like a real and rare treat if your dates really go this way and from what I have seen posted on the board and heard about you they do.

Keep up the good work, have fun and always enjoy what you do.

Ok, not that I feel I need to explain myself or anything, here's what happened this morning. As I was on my way to the T-mobile store to handle some things, I hear a loud clank under my car. As we all know it's not the best idea to pull over on I-40 so in going to the nearest exit to see what the problem is, another loud clank and smoke starts to barrell out from under my hood. I call my brother and am stuck. During this time is when I said I would be late, not knowing how bad it was. When my bro arrived and told me I had busted my radiator I then called and said I couldn't make it. Maybe I should have told you what was going on at the moment, but in the confusion I made a mistake. You failed to mention that after the fact, I called and left you a voicemail explaining, apollogizing about, and offering you a half off discount for your inconveinances. No immaturity or irresponsibility was my intent hope you can understand.

[QUOTE=SweetSarah]I think GFE is the time spent with a client. The cuddling, conversation, and karma.

I mean, just becuase a provider gives BBBJ, doesn't mean the whole experience is going to be better. I guess it just depends on what you, as a client, is looking for. But, I know that since most providers seem to provide a BBBJ as a part of their service, it has made it harder for a provider's like myself, who just won't provide that service. If your gonna do. At least charge extra. LOL

I personally don't understand the attraction. Wether the provider only does it with certain clients or every client. You are still french kissing and being barebacked by someone who has had lots of bare dicks in their mouths. And vice versa. Providers you don't know where their dicks have been.

Anyway. Better safe than sorry.[/QUOTE]In these days, AIDS should stop anyone doing BBJs. Think about it, any body fluid exchange is not good in terms of getting AIDS. There are more AIDS virus in a person's mouth than in the any other hole. That's a fact.

I would advise not doing it for the safety of both parties.

[QUOTE=Wise Guy 868]In these days, AIDS should stop anyone doing BBJs. Think about it, any body fluid exchange is not good in terms of getting AIDS. There are more AIDS virus in a person's mouth than in the any other hole. That's a fact.

I would advise not doing it for the safety of both parties.[/QUOTE]

You are entirely wrong, and your 'facts' are urban legends and nonsense that you have pulled out of thin air. Do some reading and you will find that it is almost impossible to transmit hiv from saliva alone and there has NEVER been a documented case of hiv transmission through saliva. Also your statement that there is more hiv virus in saliva than in other areas of the body is ignorant and false. In fact saliva has been shown to inhibit and protect against hiv. Many groups now define oral sex as a 'low risk' behavior. And your chances of getting hiv from oral sex are less than your chances of getting hiv from a condom slip. Condoms slip and can come off all the time, and your chances of transmitting hiv that way are much higher than hiv transmission from oral sex.

[url]www.gaylib.com/aids/aids22.htm[/url]

You also have a much greater chance of dieing in a car accident on the freeway today than you do of getting hiv from even unprotected intercourse with an hiv infected partner. Read some of the studies about married couples where one of them got infected from a blood transfusion and the other partner remained hiv negative. It is also extremely difficult for a man, especially a man who has been circumcised, to contract hiv from even unprotected intercourse with an hiv infected woman. Just due to biology the virus is much harder to transmit from woman to man.

You can also read the studies done on working girls working in Tijuana at places like Adelitas and the Chicago Club. All of the girls there offer bbbj, but of course they use condoms for intercourse and their hiv infection rates are statistically lower than that of the general population.

If anyone is interested. I have had dreams with about 15 providers in Memphis and only 3 of those I considered to be GFE. Melissa, babee and the erotic Princess Heaven. GFE has everything to do with the attitude of the provider and nothing to do with BBBJ. It is rubbing, kissing, conversation. And for me I could have a great GFE experience and never even have intercourse.

But remember, This is just my opinion.

[QUOTE=Memphis Pimp50]I have found 3 new escorts for reasonable rates in Memphis. Kim 901-849-9171, Denise 901-238-1804, and Doris 901-219-5943. Exceptional rates. Ages of them respectfully Kim 21, Denise 31, Doris, 38. They have incall and outcall.[/QUOTE]Doesn't this fall under the escort ad section? Correct me if I am wrong. New guy.1 post. New girls. Any photos? Any descriptions? Escorts have their own area of posting. Should there be an area for PIMPS as well? Curious minds want to know.

Kisses,

Melissa

Do you know that it is actually a CRIME to spit on someone? Misdemeanor assault. If HIV is so strong in saliva. Who the HELL will ever kiss again? A world without kissing sounds like poop to me! Plane crashes, random pissed off employees with guns, choking on a hot dog. You can be as safe and carefull as possible and you still end up kicking the bucket. Enjoy what you have while you have it!

Kisses, wet, slobbery and etc.

Melissa

[QUOTE=Memphis Pimp50]I have found 3 new escorts for reasonable rates in Memphis. Kim 901-849-9171, Denise 901-238-1804, and Doris 901-219-5943. Exceptional rates. Ages of them respectfully Kim 21, Denise 31, Doris, 38. They have incall and outcall.[/QUOTE]
Lets see some pics of these escorts.

I never received a voice mail from you.

In fact, I just checked my phone again right now and no text, no voice mail nor email from you.

Funny, if you really had that problem or any problem, what's the harm in just telling the other person?

Why lie about it?

[QUOTE=Pole Dancer]Ok, not that I feel I need to explain myself or anything, here's what happened this morning. As I was on my way to the T-mobile store to handle some things, I hear a loud clank under my car. As we all know it's not the best idea to pull over on I-40 so in going to the nearest exit to see what the problem is, another loud clank and smoke starts to barrell out from under my hood. I call my brother and am stuck. During this time is when I said I would be late, not knowing how bad it was. When my bro arrived and told me I had busted my radiator I then called and said I couldn't make it. Maybe I should have told you what was going on at the moment, but in the confusion I made a mistake. You failed to mention that after the fact, I called and left you a voicemail explaining, apollogizing about, and offering you a half off discount for your inconveinances. No immaturity or irresponsibility was my intent hope you can understand.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Wyldhorses]You are entirely wrong, and your 'facts' are urban legends and nonsense that you have pulled out of thin air.[/QUOTE]What he said (most of that excellent response snipped).

I think this thread is degenerating because some people err (IMHO) on the side of caution to the point of overkill because they're overly fearful.

Enough already. We're all adults and perfectly capable of performing our own cost-benefit analyses, and deciding what we are going to do or not going to do and what our level of acceptable risk is.

I've done enough research on my own, and concluded that the risk of my acquiring anything nasty through FK and BBBJ isn't great enough to worry about. So when I'm looking for a provider to spend time with, that's what I'm going to want to see on the menu. If a lady doesn't want to provide that level of service because she feels it's too risky, that's her call, and that's fine, but don't try to tell me that it's my loss because I won't see her. I've been there and done that already, and it IS my loss when I DO see a provider that doesn't FK and provide BBBJ, because I'm not getting what I want and feel I "need". In large part I'm in the hobby because I don't have a girlfriend, and for whatever reasons can't seem to get one. I want that illusion of connection, of passion, of caring, and I'm not going to get that from a woman who won't kiss me and who throws a cover on before going down on me. Come on (being realistic here), it's bad enough that I have to pay for companionship and somehow push that fact to the back of my mind in order to maintain the illusion that I'm not a complete and utter loser when it comes to women, let's not add insult to injury. ;)

What I do appreciate, from you guys who provide such details, is letting me know which ladies do provide such services, and which ones don't, so I don't get let down (and conversely, I'm not making the lady uncomfortable by insisting on a service she's not comfortable providing).

Just my €0.0140602 (at today's exchange rate).

Cheers,

BCG

[QUOTE=Memphis Pimp50]I have found 3 new escorts for reasonable rates in Memphis. Kim 901-849-9171, Denise 901-238-1804, and Doris 901-219-5943. Exceptional rates. Ages of them respectfully Kim 21, Denise 31, Doris, 38. They have incall and outcall.[/QUOTE]Apropos your handle, are these "your" girls?

Leaving aside my general preference for independents over girls with a manager, at least a little more description (and preferably pictures) might be in order. What do these ladies look like, and what's on the menu for the "reasonable"/"exceptional rates? For that matter, what are you considering "reasonable"/"exceptional"?

Inquiring minds want to know.

Cheers,

BCG

[QUOTE=David469]After corresponding with her via email for a short time I scheduled an appt with her around lunch, she texted back she can do that. So, on the way to her place, she texted me asking to push it back 30 mins because she was running behind, no problem I responded. She wanted me to call at the new time when I was arriving and I did so, and she said she's running another 10 mins late.

Starting to get irritated and had a feeling this was going to be a stand up situation I told her OK because she said she was coming from the other end of the county and was paying bills. So I wait, no call or text so I call her. Another 5 mins please. Ok I wait, nothing. I call her again, oh I'm just getting on such and such street (about 20 minutes away) so I knew this was a stand up.

So, I leave and call a reputable provider of whom I a regular and schedule with no problem.

About 15 minutes after I leave and about 1 hour from the time she first agreed to meet, she texts me "can't make it". No other explanation or anything.

So, I wait a few minutes and call and she said well something came up blah blah blah.

Time lost - 1 hour
Gas - lots
Frustration - lots[/QUOTE]


WOW, And she was on my to do list next week.