Regarding Selfie Requirement
The moment they request identity verification from me will be the moment I delete my account for good. Honestly it'll likely also be when I leave the sugaring scene for good, because frankly it's just becoming less and less worth it. At least in the Raleigh and eastern NC areas.
A few years ago I couldn't go more than 1-2 messages on Seeking without a twenty-something year-old college girl throwing herself at me. Felt like a buffet where the food was begging you to eat it LOL.
Now it's just scammers and blackmailers mixed with paid platonic texting buddies. Maybe the occasional desperate single mom who will "do anything" but also doesn't have an ounce of free time due to said parenthood; and even if you do manage to set something up, it's just sad. The few remaining real gems are obviously inundated with messages and hard to get in touch with.
Ugh. Anyone got a spare Delorean that can hit 88 miles-per-hour?