My Opinion, For What It's Worth
[QUOTE=Bachelor584;1754108]I don't remember if her name was Cindy, but I went a few weeks back and got a good massage from a new girl there who was very cute. When it came time for the ending she wouldn't do HE. After a few tries and offers she still declined so I kindly asked if the other girl there (who was siting on the couch when I came in) could finish the massage. She opened the door, they yelled back and forth in Chinese for a few min, then the other girl came in (sorry I don't remember her name but I had seen her before). She went right to work and got the job done. As I was getting dressed I was trying to decide how I would tip. I ended up giving them each .2 to which the second girl looked disappointed when I first handed it to her but then it was almost like she realized "hey I was only in here for 10 min and just got. 2" and then she saw I gave girl #1 the other. 2 and they both seemed happy with it. My apologies for not remembering names.[/QUOTE]Sounds like a perfectly legit (not our Legit) massage, except not for the full hour. I would have tipped 10 for her. Girl #2 gave you what you wanted. I would have tipped her 30. On 2nd thought, maybe 15 & 25. Either way, you did ok.
Formerly China Pearl Danvers
Recently tried the place formerly known as China Pearl in Danvers. Had not been there in couple years and not since Lilly reopened. CL ads are easy to find, its still up the rickety wood stairs on "Hi" St. Across from Mickey Dees.
Drew Coco, only one there. Small gal, not ugly, shaped like a block. Not much engrish. Lousy massage. I always ask for hard, she didn't come close and obviously didn't seem to have the basic Massage 101 technique that most AMPs have down pat. Flipped early with no tease prior and went to HE immediately with no tease. Shorted on time too. 70+40, won't repeat.
New place W Broadway & E St, South Boston
Anyone try the new place W Broadway & E St, South Boston?
I'll try this week and report back unless someone has any info?
Thanks.
Moto
Waltham Bear Hill Recon Yields Not Korean
Did a weekend walk in, walk thru at the new Bear Hill Spa, and politely requested a tour of their new place during their "grand opening," and for Mama to introduce each lady, answer a couple of simple questions, request card etc. I mentioned their CL and BP ad, and referenced the ten dollar off special. A standard recon that others have done out here before at various places. Well, they don't yet have a card. And here's what occured.
Mamasan, named Coco, (thirties, tallish, pretty but looked Chinese and not Korean,) seemed puzzled and perhaps a little spooked that I didn't just hand over house money and pick a girl. They wouldn't get within one foot of me the whole time. I didn't follow their routine so to speak, and they responded negatively. Anyone coming in and deviating from this routine at this place, totally confuses them and puts them at unease it seemed. I could tell they just wanted me to leave by their behavior; unfriendly and a bit rude and uninterested, perhaps a bit scared too, not that any of this was my intention, but they just took it the wrong way. Now, I was friendly enough and talked slowly and clearly, but just didn't get back that friendly or inviting reception, especially after they asked "do you want massage", and I again repeated why I was there and asked if it was it okay? No response. Confusion. Nobody grabbed the ball and wanted to do anything for me.
They were even more baffled with me not leaving just then, so I had to basically give myself a tour of the place, asked about the bathroom, and told it was a community one in hallway. They watched me from where they were standing and none got too close to me or tried to use any salesmanship to get me to want a massage. Their personalities were non-existant, unlike other places that I've encountered who were very eager, friendly and inviting, (luring almost) ladies, who wanted you to stay and wanted you to feel comfortable enough, and would try different tactics to achieve that. These three, whose names I had to ask several times to get right, (and they made it out like an imposition to tell me,) were Cici, shorter. 20's and a plump ass, and Wendy, a forties Chinese looking, petite lady, with a cute (in a average type way face,) and Mama; all dropped the ball as had they tried even a little of anything, I might have stayed. Had plenty of dough on me, but just wanted to feel them out first, per se.
I do know a few Chinese words too, so I tested this whole "we're Korean" bit and asked for "Schway" which is water, without using any hand signals or body language, or saying a "cup of schway" or doing anything that might clue them in to what I wanted unless they knew Chinese themselves, which was the case. I trapped them basically. And when they pointed immediately to the water bubble and said "there", I knew this Korean bit was all fake, plus none looked Korean and I have been to K Spas in Providence to know the difference. Back to the water bubbler, now. When I couldn't figure out the dispenser, finally Cici came over to help, (the first time any of the three got within one foot of me.) Also, just then as I'm drinking the water, I overheard Mama talking to the other girl and she used the Chinese word "Seen geen bean", which translates to "odd", or "weird", or "Crazy" depending on circumstances and context. It had to be in reference to me, and what had just transpired, so hearing this, I walked closer to the other two who were inside their draped off breakroom, pulled the drape open slowly a bit more than it already was and said "Just wanted to say I know some Chinese too." "That was Chinese you were speaking." And then I said "Xie Xie", which is thank you and walked slowly out with a big grin on my face. Bottom line, these ladies are fakers and cold as ice, unless you just walk in and show them the money, and shut up. It's all about the money here. They don't even try to act. Unless you show them the dough early on.
Otherwise they have no personalities, and could care less whether you want the massage or not, but they're not going to do anything to try to make youl feel comfortable or wanted and are not going to change their routine. If this is your cup of tea, then go for it, but I know I won't be back. The other two may not know too much English, and that was evident and fine and of itself, and they are excused from not un derstanding me, but Mama spoke very good English in the first 30 seconds of the reception, but then adapted later when I wouldn't just hand over money and went back to a playing stupid role, a I don't understand you scheme. Which is where the rudeness kicked in, in my mind. She failed to retain a prospective customer, which she will probably do again and again, unless she learns to adapt to different customer's tactics, and not be so spooked by something that was not the case. Had she been a smarter, more "think on your feet" type Mama, she could have gotten me to stay and her staff and her would have made money. They're all not the brightest in this hobby I guess, but these three really stood out. Complete air.
No Hustle Yields Low Profits During Grand Opening's Primary Weekend
[QUOTE=BaconBits; 1755045]Buffet. Really? I just read your pm (zero help, honoring the AMP silence promise) and now this post. I appreciate the effort on both. But what's your deal? You won't give out names or locations to fellow mongers and you act like LE doing an investigation at the AMP. It seems like your intentions are good but you need a little monger etiquette.
Your post wasn't all bad. But these ladies can be spooked easily. I think you need to loosen up a little bit all around.
BB[/QUOTE]Had this place been an already established veteran spa with lines out the door, a strong repeating clientele, multiple rotations of masseuses, banking large sums, then I would have understood their care less attitude. Wouldn't even write about a visit if those were the facts. Places like that exist and the ladies are jaded and sometimes don't want to help a newbie or make any effort unless money is presented quickly, and I get that, but this wasn't the case, in fact it was the opposite.
These ladies should have been hungry and should have responded like someone who was hungry, hustle to some degree anyway. They needed the etiquette, not me. Any sort of luring behavior, smile, or a question by them about me, might have made me change my mind. They didn't need to roll out a red carpet for me, I know not to expect something silly like that, and I almost certainly didn't expect concierge treatment there or any spa, never have or will, but when this was their "Grand Opening," in fact it was the first weekend of the first full month that they would be in business, during this grand opening, (so essentially a huge weekend expectation one would feel from their point of view to make money,) it is a reasonable expectation I believe, that they should hustle a little or even a lot depending on the case, and put on some sort of act to each and every person who enters the spa daily until they are established. And I bet that number is few too. They can't afford to lose a customer at this stage of their development from the few who even do show up. It is their loss, as I can now spend my money elsewhere, or even not at all.
They had placed ads on CL and BP for a few days prior, modified them a bit, then again changed and lowered the price ten dollars, all tactics, I would assume that were done to draw a customer, any customer. So, you know that they wanted many people to show. Any schmuck with some dough in his pocket, whether they like him or not, whether he was nice or not, or neutral was what they should have after. Attendance, shear numbers was key at this stage, not the personalities of attendees. So, when they got a prospective one (me) , they blew it by being passive, by being unfriendly and standoffish, by not acting or hustling. I look nothing like LE, you will just have to give me that, and even though I annnounced that I would not stay this time, somewhere in there I said I would come back at night time because that was my preferred time for a massage.
I was not unfriendly or scary in any way or an a hole I do not feel, and you are just going to have to accept that without knowing the facts firsthand, but it was just this lack of any degree of effort that the three of them showed that prompted me to write a bad review, or to not go back despite saying I would. I was a wiseass at the end when I caught them understanding Chinese and trapped them on it. They are not Korean!
They're the one's that needed to "loosen up", not me. I saw their multiple- varied ads, referenced them and came. I had over two hundred on me. I was ready to be conned, swindled and manipilated, separated from my money, (if the deal was good and that I guage by the reception,) yet they wanted to be lazy, and overly cautious. I don't doubt others' stories of a warm reception despite the fact that they too declined to stay, in fact that was all I was looking and hoping for, so since I can believe you, it's only fair I contend, you believe my result. I am open minded so maybe some others will do a recon and provide their story and get to the bottom of this "we're Korean" assertion when I argue it is just a marketing ploy that won't work and they are in fact just another run of the mill group of fake Chinese ladies, without much personality seeking easy cash.
BA in America's Home town
Been here off and on with mix result. When it first opened up I had success, but it is a different staff now. Called ahead and was greeted by 2 women, one this and the other just a little chunky. The thin took my money and both showed me where the shower was. I had just taken one but wanted to see if they would help me in the shower. Didn't happen.
The thin one told me her name was Alice and was my masseuse. I laid down with out draping and she covered me, but soon removed the towel completely when she worked my legs. She gave a good massage and was friendly, and I would lightly rub her legs when I could. On the flip her kept me covered but would smile often, but it never went beyond that. I also didn't want to push it as it was my first time again. Will try again with her and see what happens.
Did they speak ancient greek?
In the words of Swiftus sounds like you're NVTS.
QUOTE=BuffettFan68; 1754948]Did a weekend walk in, walk thru at the new Bear Hill Spa, and politely requested a tour of their new place during their "grand opening," and for Mama to introduce each lady, answer a couple of simple questions, request card etc. I mentioned their CL and BP ad, and referenced the ten dollar off special. A standard recon that others have done out here before at various places. Well, they don't yet have a card. And here's what occured.
Mamasan, named Coco, (thirties, tallish, pretty but looked Chinese and not Korean,) seemed puzzled and perhaps a little spooked that I didn't just hand over house money and pick a girl. They wouldn't get within one foot of me the whole time. I didn't follow their routine so to speak, and they responded negatively. Anyone coming in and deviating from this routine at this place, totally confuses them and puts them at unease it seemed. I could tell they just wanted me to leave by their behavior; unfriendly and a bit rude and uninterested, perhaps a bit scared too, not that any of this was my intention, but they just took it the wrong way. Now, I was friendly enough and talked slowly and clearly, but just didn't get back that friendly or inviting reception, especially after they asked "do you want massage", and I again repeated why I was there and asked if it was it okay? No response. Confusion. Nobody grabbed the ball and wanted to do anything for me.
They were even more baffled with me not leaving just then, so I had to basically give myself a tour of the place, asked about the bathroom, and told it was a community one in hallway. They watched me from where they were standing and none got too close to me or tried to use any salesmanship to get me to want a massage. Their personalities were non-existant, unlike other places that I've encountered who were very eager, friendly and inviting, (luring almost) ladies, who wanted you to stay and wanted you to feel comfortable enough, and would try different tactics to achieve that. These three, whose names I had to ask several times to get right, (and they made it out like an imposition to tell me,) were Cici, shorter. 20's and a plump ass, and Wendy, a forties Chinese looking, petite lady, with a cute (in a average type way face,) and Mama; all dropped the ball as had they tried even a little of anything, I might have stayed. Had plenty of dough on me, but just wanted to feel them out first, per se.
I do know a few Chinese words too, so I tested this whole "we're Korean" bit and asked for "Schway" which is water, without using any hand signals or body language, or saying a "cup of schway" or doing anything that might clue them in to what I wanted unless they knew Chinese themselves, which was the case. I trapped them basically. And when they pointed immediately to the water bubble and said "there", I knew this Korean bit was all fake, plus none looked Korean and I have been to K Spas in Providence to know the difference. Back to the water bubbler, now. When I couldn't figure out the dispenser, finally Cici came over to help, (the first time any of the three got within one foot of me.) Also, just then as I'm drinking the water, I overheard Mama talking to the other girl and she used the Chinese word "Seen geen bean", which translates to "odd", or "weird", or "Crazy" depending on circumstances and context. It had to be in reference to me, and what had just transpired, so hearing this, I walked closer to the other two who were inside their draped off breakroom, pulled the drape open slowly a bit more than it already was and said "Just wanted to say I know some Chinese too." "That was Chinese you were speaking." And then I said "Xie Xie", which is thank you and walked slowly out with a big grin on my face. Bottom line, these ladies are fakers and cold as ice, unless you just walk in and show them the money, and shut up. It's all about the money here. They don't even try to act. Unless you show them the dough early on.
Otherwise they have no personalities, and could care less whether you want the massage or not, but they're not going to do anything to try to make youl feel comfortable or wanted and are not going to change their routine. If this is your cup of tea, then go for it, but I know I won't be back. The other two may not know too much English, and that was evident and fine and of itself, and they are excused from not un derstanding me, but Mama spoke very good English in the first 30 seconds of the reception, but then adapted later when I wouldn't just hand over money and went back to a playing stupid role, a I don't understand you scheme. Which is where the rudeness kicked in, in my mind. She failed to retain a prospective customer, which she will probably do again and again, unless she learns to adapt to different customer's tactics, and not be so spooked by something that was not the case. Had she been a smarter, more "think on your feet" type Mama, she could have gotten me to stay and her staff and her would have made money. They're all not the brightest in this hobby I guess, but these three really stood out. Complete air.[/QUOTE]
Today's Mandarin Slang Lesson
Bill, my visit may have seemed longer to me (because they ignored me, making me take the initiative,) but it was only a mere five or perhaps six minutes. Perhaps a few minutes more than normal, but again, I was waiting for something to happen. I didn't just want to bail. I had hope that they might warm up and gently tested them, which was my main purpose anyway. I did have moneyy on me and was prepared to be talked into something, but was mostly there for a recon, but in no way did I feel like I was being antagonizing or a jerk etc.
I didn't purposely want to just go in, hand over some dough, be led into a room by a random girl. That can be done anytime, anyplace. This was their grand opening and I wanted to wing it or have them wing it. Thanks for your understanding.
As for the Mandarin transliteration, I was slightly off and have checked it out today with Amy from Balance and Healing and "crazy" or the "stupid- type of crazy" not psychotic crazy, or mental hospital type crazy, more of a "weird or odd" "crazy" is: "Tzen-Gene, Bean."
She is a friend and wouldn't lead me astray. I often listen to her talk on the phone when we hang out and she has taught me a lot. This is how I know Chinese when I hear it and thouse ladies were speaking only Chinese to eachother in that make shift breakroom.
The first two words are said together quickly and in succession and goes like this: The "Tz" sound (tounge pressed in back of middle of front two upper teeth, with an exhale of breath,) combined immediately with the "en" sound of the word "send", immediately flowing right into "Gene", pronounced like the man's name. Then a slight pause, and the word "Bean", pretty much pronounced similar to the english word "bean" except the "eann" part is held 2 seconds longer, drawn out to the final "and" sound. So it goes like this,"TTTTzzzzen-Gene, (pause half second), Beeeeaaaan."
Todays Mandarin lesson braught to you courtesy of Amy, formerly of WW, Jasmine, and now Balance and Healing, who by the way had an interest in this new place, and doubted they were Korean too. And asshole BTW is "Yuan Bah Dett." Yuan like the spanish man's name, Baaah as in what a sheep does, and dett as like a debt, money you owe. So, again "Yuan Bah Dett," all you a holes. Not you Bill, or Pilrgim and a few others. You guys get it.