[QUOTE=Dmsr69;6087006]I'm sad to report that Kyra, my regular for a few years, has turned to the dark side. She hit me up for a room, something I've done for her over 10 times over the years. I pay for the room and we usually square up later on that day but a few times it took a couple of days to settle up but we always did settle up. She always came through. A few weeks ago after she'd been tossed from the hotel she was living with her daughter trying to do outcalls but apparently they weren't working so she reached out to me again for an advance. Like I said I've done this 10 times but this time was different. When I met her to give her the money she was with that black guy she's always with AND her daughter and her boyfriend. I had a bad feeling with them in the backseat because the boyfriend looks sketchy as hell. But hey it's Kyra, she always comes through. I even gave her extra to grab a bite to eat because she was hungry and doing bad. Welp, she went dark and I never heard from her again. I see today that she's posting again so I'm hoping maybe she was sick for a little bit or something. Nope, she still won't answer me. I told her if she wouldn't respond to me I'd have to report back to the board that she ripped me off. Well boys I did the thing we should never, ever do and I learned my lesson again. No matter who they are don't give them money in advance.[/QUOTE]Well she did have a pretty good track record of squaring up with you except for this one time. Sounds like she's in a really rough spot now and it may be harder for her to come through. Hopefully she makes things right with you soon. I've seen her several times over the years and have always left satisfied and I saw her again recently at her daughter's place which is not her preference but times are tough. Locale wasn't the best but dream was good as usual with unrushed bbj and cfs. But I agree we shouldn't loan out money unless we are ok with the possibility of not getting it back. I know what you're feeling I've been there before. The worst part is when they don't respond. If she would just tell you something anything is better than being kept in the dark.