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[QUOTE=Pete3854;6023886]Bring her to the game my friend.[/QUOTE]As we saw in the past (Lexiluv and Sbjsister) they can be frightened off by mean Mongers with daddy dominant fetishes. Takes kids gloves to real them in and nice monger gentlemen to keep them.
Screening assholes from getting to them is important.
[QUOTE=Blackfire;6016319]So it appears some have concerns with this approach as the feeling is the handler would be able to specifically pinpoint who saw his UTR provider by screen name, and depending on the closeness the handler has with the UTR could even be able to match a face or vehicle with a screen name (I. E. I guess the Bodyworks cameras might have some people here a little more aware of the security camera concerns with their confidentiality). I hadn't really thought too much about that, I guess I assumed there was already a probability that some of the handlers already give unique passwords to each person.
But this then makes me have another question for those that wish to opine. Do you tell the ladies your screen name on this board, either just in discussion or as part of the verification process? Does it really matter if they know your screen name for any reason?
I suppose I should be the first to answer since it's my general question. As to the first, I do not tell anyone my screen name or mention this board. I also do not like and won't do verification that I feel would in any way expose my personal information, including my real screen name here. As to the 2nd question, I don't really know if there is a security issue with sharing my real screen name with an escort or massage parlor, that's why I'm looking for input from other members if they do or don't provide that info, and if they don't what do they see as the concerns? I suppose anyone seeing an UTR does because you call and say you were given the "password" from someone on this board so it would be natural to say "I'm john1234 from USA and Joesixpack gave me this password to see you". I suppose you could use another member name, how would she know?
Thanks to Benz for bring this discussion up and moving it to General Discussion. I hope we get some good feedback and robust discussion on the topic. I think many members probably have interest or opinions to share in a positive way. Let's try to keep it informative and civil and not get things moved to the fight thread please.[/QUOTE]Hey blackfire- are you as surprised as I am that there has been so few responses to a thought provoking subject as this? It kind of boggles my mind. Especially if we compare it to the dozens of harsh responses when I opined that most mongers aren't good looking! Remember that firestorm? I sure do!
I would have thought there would be more responses to this far more important topic. But, I guess we are all focused on the fantasy of what we do, not the harsh realities of the hobby.
G2.
[QUOTE=PrivateParts;6020585]I have told providers my user name because I'm not ashamed of any of my posts. Those are my words, my opinions, and my depictions of escort encounters, so I stand by them. In the end it's a personal choice if and when you want to divulge your USA name. Does it really matter? I'm sure it matters a lot to the guys that post needless drama, make derogatory statements and outright lies. Because that's accountability for your words and actions, something that is severely lacking on the internet.
IMO, if you are asking another guy to trust YOU to be given a UTR's contact info then you better not have concerns about your user name anonymity. If you do, then you probably shouldn't be trusted to see the UTR. However, as I've told many before, just because I gave a password doesn't mean you have to use it. If the UTR agrees to see you without a password that's between you and her. Just don't share her info with others unless you have her permission. Unfortunately though, there are many on this board who will mistreat women, so a password system may serve as a deterrent to those A-holes from crossing the line.
Right on G2. I prefer to stick in the Sugaring world and and it's shocking to hear how many nice SBs are being approached and treated like $20 crack ****** from A-hole mongers. Not that SW deserve to be mistreated but you get my point.[/QUOTE]I've been out of the game in action since COVID settled in (except once), but here are my thoughts:
I don't provide my user name. However, I would be willing to for "verification" (ie mainly their comfort zone) and that's the only verification level I'd be willing to use. But only for providers who are known as rock-solid for a long time, picky and I knew that was guaranteed to get a visit, and I knew they didn't record their clients.
I would use a password -- I don't see how that'd really have any play in threatening privacy. It would reveal that I was actually on here at least + not a newbie or something. Which by default I would not want, but in reality that alone isn't going to be worth it for anyone or any agency to go on a wild goose chase for a random individual client.
I travel a bit and have always appreciated the introduction and assistance provided when it comes to new talent / UTR. When reaching out I generally share that I received the referral from a poker fiend and that seems to go over well.
I have met a few sugar lady's that either I can't get out their way with any frequency or my interest has dwindled. Some are very reluctant to have there contact info shared, yet will remain on the Sugar sites looking for assistance. In some cases, I've shared this info with those that are also on the sites for pursuit.
As always YMMV and it only takes one to "F" it up for the rest of us.
Side note: anyone try the Calumet 15 Yr?
[QUOTE=Gene2;6017897]Well. Thank you for a thought provoking subject that does more than illicit drama. I wish I could start over in this hobby with all I've learned in the time period I've partaken. I would not share my screen name as I have to this point. I know you and other posters tend to mock my alliterations and long winded diatribes. But I also receive accolades from many PMs that state the reviews are both wildly entertaining and vividly Informative. Positive to negative responses run about 4:1. Not a bad success rate. But I do face some backlash from unexpected sources. Apparently my specifics shared posts results in what one provider called "Gene wannabes". "They show up looking or smelling like what you say they should, bringing the same favorite treats you do, and they expect to be treated like a long-term client. " I had no idea that could be a bad thing. I honestly thought if a provider loathes the smell of cigarettes, it was a kindness on my part to share that tidbit. But it wasn't appreciated and I still don't completely understand why. But that explains my track record with the fairer sex, always guessing wrong.
So if my screen name was more anonymous I could operate in a more stealthy mode, especially if I made mistakes. Currently I do not have any plausible deniability. And I've paid dearly for that tactical error. That being said, I also have been handsomely rewarded by those providers who appreciate my glowing reports. So it's not a total defeat in the Genoverse. I continue to be a work in progress, learning from so many of you willing to share tidbits and suggestions. I've been painfully open and honest on this board with my failings and misgivings. And for the most part, that honesty has been appreciated by so many of you. Some of the same men that I vehemently disagree with from time to time have provided me a priceless nugget to help me chart a different course (BoatGuy, Benz, Tommey, Arish, Monger1, JMaul, Purpman, and even Blackfire to name a few). So it's an interesting journey, isn't it?
As to the point of UTRs I will offer this opinion: not all mongers should see UTRs. If absolute anonymity is your line in the sand, then don't get a password (or whatever method is used) to see a UTR. Be content with escorts and massage parlors where you can use whatever name your feeble mind invents. But a UTR is a special woman. She is one with either a short term need, or one who isn't sure about entry into a dangerous career choice, or one who has community connections that CANNOT ever know her secrets. If one of us wants to see this special woman, we need to be willing to step out of the shadows. Think of the high end traveling escorts that visit here. Most of them require something in the way of screening that links us not just to our screen name, but our legal name. That's a step not a few on here willing take to see the high end product.
Also, dudes that have fetishes and weird expectations should not see a UTR. There are plenty of providers that advertise willingness to accommodate those fetishes and deviations. Use them. Stay away from the young single mother just looking to get a new apartment or her car repaired. Simple. Go to a pro for your needs.
Ok. My rant is over as my bourbon is empty. Hopefully this is taken in the spirit it was intended.
G2.[/QUOTE]
Rumor has it that ALIX (in Jackson) going to be in Jackson next week before she leave for Georgia. LOL she just said she doesn't do well on a leash. I have her cell number, for those who remember. Apparently the guy she left turned to be a real winner. Anyway pm me for the cell.
[QUOTE=DPurr;6035060]Rumor has it that ALIX (in Jackson) going to be in Jackson next week before she leave for Georgia. LOL she just said she doesn't do well on a leash. I have her cell number, for those who remember. Apparently the guy she left turned to be a real winner. Anyway pm me for the cell.[/QUOTE]Alixx is definitely worth the drive to Jackson.
Wish I had the time to reminisce and get lost in her love.
[QUOTE=Benz1;6035595]Alixx is definitely worth the drive to Jackson.
Wish I had the time to reminisce and get lost in her love.[/QUOTE]I heard she was going to be in grand rapids next week.
Any decent motels around that rent by the hour?
[QUOTE=Monger01;4799601]That's not even a complete list there but kudos to Wolverine and his amazing archive.
The not a complete list comment is to add to my point:
When you see me posting "she's not worth 175/ hh sorry" its partly because the quality of the talent I remember from Scorps compared to today on STG is miles wide.
And other cities there still is good looking good servicing providers charging the same or barely more than our pile of strung out, overweight, and at times not very pretty talent. Exceptions noted but they are few and far between. I saw Luscious Aaliyah and Jade Sexkitten from Wolverine's list. Wow what hot girls they were![/QUOTE]Why thank you.
[QUOTE=LusciousAaliya;6063084]Why thank you.[/QUOTE]You back in game? Been yrs.
[QUOTE=DjBiker;6064122]You back in game? Been yrs.[/QUOTE]How do you know this is really the same person who was hooking on scorps 10-15 years ago? With all the people that have multiple accounts and the growing fake account problem that seems to be running rampant in the Grand Rapids forum, I can easily imagine somebody creating a spoof account for their own amusement. Not to say the new luscious account is fake, but just musing that one needs to be careful until an account is actually verified that someone has recently met the person who is supposedly behind an account, or has had a conversation with that person that contained information that was personal between those two parties. Easy to catfish someone, especially some of the eager beavers looking for love.
[QUOTE=Blackfire;6064531]How do you know this is really the same person who was hooking on scorps 10-15 years ago? With all the people that have multiple accounts and the growing fake account problem that seems to be running rampant in the Grand Rapids forum, I can easily imagine somebody creating a spoof account for their own amusement. Not to say the new luscious account is fake, but just musing that one needs to be careful until an account is actually verified that someone has recently met the person who is supposedly behind an account, or has had a conversation with that person that contained information that was personal between those two parties. Easy to catfish someone, especially some of the eager beavers looking for love.[/QUOTE]I was asking cause KIA1 wants people to believe out of blue she "contacted" him, new followers believe him. That's all for now.
[QUOTE=Blackfire;6064531]How do you know this is really the same person who was hooking on scorps 10-15 years ago? With all the people that have multiple accounts and the growing fake account problem that seems to be running rampant in the Grand Rapids forum, I can easily imagine somebody creating a spoof account for their own amusement. Not to say the new luscious account is fake, but just musing that one needs to be careful until an account is actually verified that someone has recently met the person who is supposedly behind an account, or has had a conversation with that person that contained information that was personal between those two parties. Easy to catfish someone, especially some of the eager beavers looking for love.[/QUOTE]It's not a fake account. Anyone who's seen me in the past, already knows I'm legit. I definitely understand the caution because your right anyone can be anyone now days but for those who know me, know I'm real.
LA.
[QUOTE=Blackfire;6064531]How do you know this is really the same person who was hooking on scorps 10-15 years ago? With all the people that have multiple accounts and the growing fake account problem that seems to be running rampant in the Grand Rapids forum, I can easily imagine somebody creating a spoof account for their own amusement. Not to say the new luscious account is fake, but just musing that one needs to be careful until an account is actually verified that someone has recently met the person who is supposedly behind an account, or has had a conversation with that person that contained information that was personal between those two parties. Easy to catfish someone, especially some of the eager beavers looking for love.[/QUOTE]Well I seen the post too, so I reached out to her as I was a regular of hers in the old days.
We chatted a bit, exchanged numbers and pics. I will say it is 100% her from talking about past experiences. Also the pics she sent were even better than I remember.
I am meeting her next week when our schedules align. But all early indications are that it is 100% her and she is 1000% smoking hot.
[QUOTE=Sbff1;6066242]Well I seen the post too, so I reached out to her as I was a regular of hers in the old days.
We chatted a bit, exchanged numbers and pics. I will say it is 100% her from talking about past experiences. Also the pics she sent were even better than I remember.
I am HOPING to meet her next week when our schedules align and if she decides she wants to see an old regular. But all early indications are that it is 100% her and she is 1000% smoking hot.[/QUOTE]I am HOPING to meet her next week when our schedules align and if she decides she wants to see an old regular. But all early indications are that it is 100% her and she is 1000% smoking hot.