Painful post. How to respond to an incall gone bad
[QUOTE=Pat2019;4712880]I went to her place and saw this chick named Cherry, mixed Black / White girl, she is small bbw, --- things turned physical and ugly ads below:
[URL]https://cityxguide.photo/ads/sexxy-bbw-wit-tight-pussi-39526291[/URL][/QUOTE]Kudos to Pat2019-man for avoiding violence and tossing down an andie to get by her and tf out of the joint, bc keep in mind that if you are in her apt for an incall she can pretty much do anything and claim self defense against an intruder, esp if a "witness" is also in the apt or even not in the apt, and for sure, if ya throw a punch _or even if ya do nothin_ they can claim in the courtroom that you "forced entry" into her place and assaulted them, and they can escalate it to "defense with deadly force" in 2 seconds if they want to, a knife or even a gun, bc they in they own place and you not, that pretty much is the beginning and end of the law on that, and with "witness" testimony when the police arrive, you as good as in jail, and at a minimum gon lose everything ya brought with ya like ya wallet, I'd card, credit card, anything else ya got, so de-escalate for sure even at the price of tossing out a few andies or even the whole gift she askin for bc ya gon hate life if she escalates on ya and makes ya regret the day ya was born.
_but one more question for Pat2019-man is.
_why tf ya lookin for bbj anyway ya tryin ta catch something or tryin ta give something or both, not even possible to understand mongers who look for bbj is like stickin ya dong in a dumpster fire and hoping not to get burned and dirty, so think before ya catch something that stay with ya the rest a ya life or worse, anyways, cheers mrgj.
Never trust them like that
[QUOTE=Pat2019;4713836]Hello MrGreenJeans8, I understand your comments and thanks for your advice and insightful info regarding the law and self-defense rules. The point is that I'm not a violent person and I enjoy spending time with these sex girls bc they help me a lot releasing my stress, especially that I don't currently have any girlfriend. I always plan to go and see them in peace and come back home in peace as well bc I don't like fighting for sex or money, anyway, with these girls, I always treat them as friends and never with any animosity or whatsoever. That is why I know which girl to select before seeing her and I always communicate well with the girl and make sure that everything is confirmed before I actually go to her in order to clear and avoid any confusion or misunderstanding. But, unfortunately, it turns out that some sex girls are just be violent and they will create trouble and violence even though there is no need for violence, and regardless of how nice and peaceful you are toward them. I was very nice to Cherry (the girl who tricked me) during my first two visits, and when she tricked me after the second visit about the bbj thing, I was very mad but I left in peace and I even said in my mind that she is not worth seeing her again. So, I texted her to express my disappointment to her about how she refused to give me bbj during the 2nd visit, and she said don't worry she will give me bbj next time. Few days later, she texted me that I can come to see her again for bbj, so at that point, I thought everything was fine between her and me, so I trusted her, but unfortunately she tricked me again during the 3rd visit, that was why things turned ugly and physical between her and me. But it is ok, we all learn from experience, and in this sex business there is always some level of risk, whether you are nice or not and whether you have bbj or CBJ, raw sex or covered sex with the girl. The main lesson is that life always has inherent risk even during normal circumstances, so life is not perfect.
Fellow mongers, I wish you happy mongering and stay safe amid this Coronavirus pandemic.[/QUOTE]Some of these females are heartless and will play games with you just cause they can. The first time she played you should have been the last. Since you came back she saw you as a sucker. Can't be nice to all of them. If she gets away with not giving you what you paid for once, its going to be like that every time. I'm glad you got out safe and you learned something from this.
Blast from the past. - Cherry
[QUOTE=Pat2019;4712880]I went to her place and saw this chick named Cherry, mixed Black / White girl, she is small bbw, her pictures are accurate as portrayed in her ads, but she is not that physically attractive and hot because she has fat on the bottom of her belly which she hides in ads, and she has a very bad attitude and sometime violent behavior, and keep in mind that she also smokes 420, weed and other shits. I don't really mind if a provider smokes, but this chick is very tricky. I saw her 3 times.
The first time, I gave her 60 ss for CBJ / FS (FS means full service), and everything went fine between her and me during the first visit.
The second visit, I asked for bbj and she said yes and quoted me 80 ss (bbj / FS) and everything was confirmed between her and me before getting to her place, but she tricked me because after I gave her 80, she immediately reached for glove (condom), and she said she does not like bbj and that the deed is the same feeling whether we use glove or not, and she gave me CBJ and covered FS, even though she got 80 instead of 60 as it was for the first visit. I was upset, but I didn't say anything, and I left.
Then after some few days, she sent me a solicitation text message saying that I can come to see her again but she promised to give me bbj. I asked her are you sure that you will provide bbj and she said yes and confirmed in text message. So, I said ok, then I asked her if possible I would like everything uncovered (bbj / bare FS) and she said yes no problem and she confirmed 3 times in text messages that she will give me everything bareback but I had to pay 100 ss, and I said no problem. So, when I got to the front of her building I saw a Black guy in the lobby, and I sent her a text message saying that I'm in front of the building and she said "oh no I had to wait for a couple of minutes" and I said ok, then I saw the Black guy went upstairs straight to her apartment because I came inside the building and I was watching everything and the Black guy came out quickly just after 5 min, so she texted me back saying to come upstairs to her, and I went and she opened her apartment door for me. So, since she tricked me during the 2nd visit about bbj thing, I was cautious not to give her the donation quickly upfront and I engaged a small talk with her asking her if she really agreed with bareback and she said yes of course and that I could do anything I want with her because she is open-minded. So she was undressed and completely naked, and she asked me to undress too and when I was taking off my clothes she immediately reached for the glove and I asked why she has the glove on her hand, and she said "it is for her protection and that I'm talking too much". So, I told her to put the glove aside because I don't want the glove but she refused and I told her I will give you my donation after our session to see if you actually wanted to do raw with me and she got mad on me. So, I told her we have to do our deed raw before I give the donation, otherwise I have to quit. Suddenly, she put her pant and dress on, and she wanted to fight with me and I told her I didn't come here for a fight, and she said I had to give her some money because I cannot leave her apartment without giving her anything but if I refused she will call her boyfriend / pimp downstairs (I think she was referring to the Black guy I previously saw in the lobby). So, I said why do I have to give you some money because you didn't give me bbj or bare FS, or anything, so why do you want some money? So, I was leaving the apartment peacefully but she quickly run to the door and blocked my way that I cannot get out without giving her any money and she started to push me back while I wanted to leave the apartment, and at this point things turned physical and ugly and I realized she really wanted to fight and attacked me but I could also punch her very bad, but to avoid any trouble and injury I then threw $20 on the floor for her and she then opened the door and let me go. My general principle is that I don't fight with any girl or provider and I will never fight with people at their home or apartment because you don't know what it is inside the home or apartment. So, to avoid any trouble and brawl I gave her $20 and I left. I won't see her again in my life because she is kind of violent and I do not recommend her. The only thing good about her is that she is light skin and she has tight pussy but with very bad and violent attitude, and I don't care because there are many other girls with tight pussy too. Another caveat with her is that she can waste your time when you get to her place because she will tell you to wait 15 or 30 minutes or more before you actually see her, even though you gave her plenty of advance notice that you are 30 or 15 minutes away coming to her and she will say yes she is ready, but she is not actually ready, and she wasted my time during all the 3 visits that I had with her. So, fellows, if you like all covered services and tight pussy you can see her but if you like bbj and other uncovered services she will trick you and lie to you, so you are warned. She will also initiate a fight with you or call her boyfriend / pimp if something goes wrong between you and her.
I'm sorry to be too long but it is noteworthy to share my experience and information. This is her ads below:
[URL]https://cityxguide.photo/ads/sexxy-bbw-wit-tight-pussi-39526291[/URL][/QUOTE]Damn, she's a blast from the past. I have seen her like 3 - 4 times back in the day like 5, 6 years ago maybe even longer. And she was definitely taking a down hill slope last time I saw her. She was bad af at first, and then I noticed, she was definitely "smokin'" more than just weed, even though she was still thick. First, she used to see me at a motel on Boston Road, nice sessions. I know she had a kid, or two, so there was an hiatus. Then I saw her at some crib, decent, no big deal, saw male clothing but didn't give a shit. Last time she had me meet her at a straight up crack head's dump. I go there, and tell her "Nah, I'm good", she tried to do me like your man's and get aggressive, and tell me "I ain't shit, I wasted her time, and I should give her something because of that", my reply was "B*H, you sitting around waiting for calls from BP, getting high, and waiting to suck dick and get fucked, you ain't got nothing but time". She tried to get in my face, but she saw the look on my face, and thought better of it, and said "I'm blocking your number" as I left. I've said in previous post, my total disposition out here is that of a straight up Ninja born and raised in Harlem, reside in BX, NYC lifer OG, who came of age in crack era (mid-late 80's). And, I will never preach violence, especially towards a woman, but it is what it is. Reading this shows that she's taken a turn towards the worst. Sad. She was actually a BAD chic at one time.
Coronavirus has made them drop them high rates
So I saw a girl today who normally quotes ss100 drop to 60 ss and even with that it was more of a 60 hh cause she made me do some positions she would refuse before ansd I was there for like 20-25 minslol. They are struggling guys because now they have no choice but to drop them rates since clients ain't seeing them like before. Stay safe out there.