General Reports

[QUOTE=VerySlowly; 1721606]There are some that think you did the right thing and some that disagree. So be it. The more you try to defend yourself the worse it gets. You did what you think was right, I don't understand how or why providers get a pass on the rules of society, if you have a bad session you write it off, if you get robbed or beaten you don't, fairly clear no matter who does it.

In any case you made the decision, you live with it, if it feels right to you thats it. You don't owe anybody an explanation, just report the situation, let others make their own decisions.

We report our encounters, others may have a completely different encounter that does not make your encounter any less real or your decision any less powerful.

We have many bright men on here and some not so bright and many poser's pretending to be someone the exact opposite of who they really are.

It's up to the individual members to decide for themselves who is who and who to believe and how to use all the information on the board to their own best benefit.

Ask yourself what your role in the situation was did she screw you over or did you set yourself up to be a victim, scammers have a sense of who they think is weak or not worldly, which is why you hear one guy who got his donation stolen and another gut brags about having a great time. There is a time to be helpful and a super nice guy but unfortunately this business attracts far to many untrustworthy people and you cannot be a boy scout and expect people to respond to your generosity in a proper manner. Learn from it and go forward a wiser man.

VS[/QUOTE]This is the type of drama I tend to never get involved with at all.

But I must totally concur with you VS, because after reading the news reports and reading the many PM's of what went on.

I will take no sides because I do not have a dog in this fight, but I have fucked this gal a couple times then went about my way after the dream was over.

She was very nice and a really good fuck and I knew she really enjoyed herself from her moans and screams during our fucking sessions.

But I'm far from being a fool over young escort pussy or falling head over heels for escorts period, and I'm sure she moaned and screamed for every one of us who had the pleasure of fucking her.

There are a few mongers in this city that seem to forget the rules of this game (NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH OR CATCH FEELINGS FOR A WORKING GIRL)!

Some of you mongers out there help these gals out so much, till most of us could consider you PIMPS for as much time your investing in these gals.

The way I stay out of these type of situations is:

I never hang out with providers outside of a session.

I never loan providers money ever, I repeat ever! I pay for time of my session that it.

I never do personal favors for providers period.

I pay for my time enjoy myself and tip if she's really good then I'm on may way.

One monger even bragged about loaning a couple providers money an not getting it back.

Remember these gals are in a position to turn enough dates to generate hundreds of dollars a day, so why would you really need to loan cash to them.

Some mongers end up getting fucked over in a major way because he may be trying to have a girlfriend type relationship with a working girl and that's always going to turn out bad no matter who you are.

You can't give and escort young or old keys to your home and vehicle, access to your bank accounts and expect her to never end up fucking you over at some point.

The trick to success in this hobby without bringing drama to your life is to follow these three steps: Pay, fuck, then be on your way.

Anything more would surely end up causing you more trouble then it's worth in the end. Remember you can never save these gals so stop wasting your time out there.

OP

Okay here's the deal. I recieve a text asking me if I was available. I asked who the person was, he stated he had seen me over a year ago in another city. He couldn't tell me anything that would make me remember him, so I asked if he was a member of DC, P411, another site, NR or USA. He replied NO. After me asking where he obtained my number he said he got it from USA and has no handle. Then he said he has a handle and has posted, stated he FORGOT he had a handle! (Yea Right!) I had him send me a PM so I could see for myself. Yes he has 9 posts but from NO ONE that can be verified. I told him if he can get one of the well known ladies from this board to see him them review them so I can verify with them then I would see him when ever he wants. He told me he proved that he had a handle, I told him the sergeant with Orange County can have a "Handle". I don't think I was asking for too much with all the shit that has been going on here as of late.

So can I hear what some of you "Trusted" members think about this one? Ladies if you want to know any more details call me or send me a PM.

ALWAYS Play Safe,

XO Ashley

[QUOTE=OldPumper; 1726052]This is the type of drama I tend to never get involved with at all.

But I must totally concur with you VS, because after reading the news reports and reading the many PM's of what went on.

I will take no sides because I do not have a dog in this fight, but I have fucked this gal a couple times then went about my way after the dream was over.

She was very nice and a really good fuck and I knew she really enjoyed herself from her moans and screams during our fucking sessions.

But I'm far from being a fool over young escort pussy or falling head over heels for escorts period, and I'm sure she moaned and screamed for every one of us who had the pleasure of fucking her.

There are a few mongers in this city that seem to forget the rules of this game (NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH OR CATCH FEELINGS FOR A WORKING GIRL)!

Some of you mongers out there help these gals out so much, till most of us could consider you PIMPS for as much time your investing in these gals.

The way I stay out of these type of situations is:

I never hang out with providers outside of a session.

I never loan providers money ever, I repeat ever! I pay for time of my session that it.

I never do personal favors for providers period.

I pay for my time enjoy myself and tip if she's really good then I'm on may way.

One monger even bragged about loaning a couple providers money an not getting it back.

Remember these gals are in a position to turn enough dates to generate hundreds of dollars a day, so why would you really need to loan cash to them.

Some mongers end up getting fucked over in a major way because he may be trying to have a girlfriend type relationship with a working girl and that's always going to turn out bad no matter who you are.

You can't give and escort young or old keys to your home and vehicle, access to your bank accounts and expect her to never end up fucking you over at some point.

The trick to success in this hobby without bringing drama to your life is to follow these three steps: Pay, fuck, then be on your way.

Anything more would surely end up causing you more trouble then it's worth in the end. Remember you can never save these gals so stop wasting your time out there.

OP[/QUOTE]OP you are a good mentor. I have to add to this don't get entangle you self with their sad stories and how difficult is for them to pay the bills. Never get involved in their personal lifes you are not Jesus to save them. Is ok if you want to drop some extra 20 but don't let it pass from 50 and don't expect anything in return. You will be their hero until you say I'm not giving you any money then they will turn on you and will fuck your life. You don't need all this drama in your life because this drama is normal to them and for you is a nightmare. There are places for this girls and their kids to get help. Is not your job to help them they have to help them self. Do not feel bad if you stop helping a provider and shit stats falling from the sky on her head because she will drag you to hell with those gator tears. What comes around goes around. Some of this girls are good at acting so don't believe their stories. When you know a provider is lying? When her mouth is moving! (Some) Fallow a good example of a good monger (OP) and the girls should go to JG or Nana providers schools. They are the best sample of a good provider. They will listen to you to a point and they will give a good advice to a point. If you start feeling sorry for her she won't feel sorry for you. 100% put your self first and be very careful with who you trust. If you have to drop the money and runaway do it, don't look back and stay away from the doors of hell.

Thank you OP and all others who gave me good advice.

Hello OldPumper. I remember her. Her tits were so lovely and it's a shame that she rushed me. She could have been my ATF. So sad.

[QUOTE=Jiat2001;1727017]Hello OldPumper. I remember her. Her tits were so lovely and it's a shame that she rushed me. She could have been my ATF. So sad.[/QUOTE]Never rushed me at all,

In fact after we were done she wanted to sit and chat, to bad for her though because after I nut I just feel the urge to hall ass LOL.

If I remember correctly there was only a couch in the living room of the apartment off of Conroy Road she invited me over for the dream back then.

Took my time and really fucked her hard and deep in every position all over that tan couch.

She really loved the way I was hitting her spot in DOGGIE so she said, but she really was into it ramming her ass up against my cock as I pounded her deep and hard.

I could give two shits if she was faking it or not, but she sure as hell won and Oscar in that show down those few times I saw her because she made it good.

Those titties are amazing on her little frame.

When it was finally done she was dick drunk and could hardly pull herself together to walk me back down stairs to my car.

Sweet gal, shame how she turn out though Glad I never fuck around with them long enough to see their true colors.

OP

Who is the lovely big breasted lady you posted pics of? She looks amazing!

[QUOTE=Mystical0945; 1726965]Okay here's the deal. I recieve a text asking me if I was available. I asked who the person was, he stated he had seen me over a year ago in another city. He couldn't tell me anything that would make me remember him, so I asked if he was a member of DC, P411, another site, NR or USA. He replied NO. After me asking where he obtained my number he said he got it from USA and has no handle. Then he said he has a handle and has posted, stated he FORGOT he had a handle! (Yea Right!) I had him send me a PM so I could see for myself. Yes he has 9 posts but from NO ONE that can be verified. I told him if he can get one of the well known ladies from this board to see him them review them so I can verify with them then I would see him when ever he wants. He told me he proved that he had a handle, I told him the sergeant with Orange County can have a "Handle". I don't think I was asking for too much with all the shit that has been going on here as of late.

So can I hear what some of you "Trusted" members think about this one? Ladies if you want to know any more details call me or send me a PM.

ALWAYS Play Safe,

XO Ashley[/QUOTE]Clearly, this is no game. As a provider / professional You make the rules and Pay the consequences. WHO is going to bail you out OR pay your hospital bills? You! Remember that, there are psychopaths out there, Protect yourself, if your 6th sense kicks in, go with it. There will be other calls. Screw whether he was a "member", there's a time put yourself First. IMHO, you Did the right thing hon, good for you. Be Safe Always, ' Beam Me Up'.

Sincerely,

Dave

You handled the situation totally correctly. Why even take a chance? If this guy was Legit, which I doubt he is, he needs to learn better etiquette, for his own benefit.

[QUOTE=Mystical0945; 1726965]Okay here's the deal. I recieve a text asking me if I was available. I asked who the person was, he stated he had seen me over a year ago in another city. He couldn't tell me anything that would make me remember him, so I asked if he was a member of DC, P411, another site, NR or USA. He replied NO. After me asking where he obtained my number he said he got it from USA and has no handle. Then he said he has a handle and has posted, stated he FORGOT he had a handle! (Yea Right!) I had him send me a PM so I could see for myself. Yes he has 9 posts but from NO ONE that can be verified. I told him if he can get one of the well known ladies from this board to see him them review them so I can verify with them then I would see him when ever he wants. He told me he proved that he had a handle, I told him the sergeant with Orange County can have a "Handle". I don't think I was asking for too much with all the shit that has been going on here as of late.

So can I hear what some of you "Trusted" members think about this one? Ladies if you want to know any more details call me or send me a PM.

ALWAYS Play Safe,

XO Ashley[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mystical0945; 1726965]Okay here's the deal. I recieve a text asking me if I was available. I asked who the person was, he stated he had seen me over a year ago in another city. He couldn't tell me anything that would make me remember him, so I asked if he was a member of DC, P411, another site, NR or USA. He replied NO. After me asking where he obtained my number he said he got it from USA and has no handle. Then he said he has a handle and has posted, stated he FORGOT he had a handle! (Yea Right!) I had him send me a PM so I could see for myself. Yes he has 9 posts but from NO ONE that can be verified. I told him if he can get one of the well known ladies from this board to see him them review them so I can verify with them then I would see him when ever he wants. He told me he proved that he had a handle, I told him the sergeant with Orange County can have a "Handle". I don't think I was asking for too much with all the shit that has been going on here as of late.

So can I hear what some of you "Trusted" members think about this one? Ladies if you want to know any more details call me or send me a PM.

ALWAYS Play Safe,

XO Ashley[/QUOTE]You did right tell him take a walk.

m-45

I agree you need to know who is contacting you. I have no problem in ladies verifing who I have seen when I want to meet them for the first time. And just because they are on a site means verry little I feel unless there is a way to verifiy with other providers. As far as meeting you a year ago I can still remember details about all I have visited. Some are easier to remember.

[QUOTE=Mystical0945; 1726965]Okay here's the deal. I recieve a text asking me if I was available. I asked who the person was, he stated he had seen me over a year ago in another city. He couldn't tell me anything that would make me remember him, so I asked if he was a member of DC, P411, another site, NR or USA. He replied NO. After me asking where he obtained my number he said he got it from USA and has no handle. Then he said he has a handle and has posted, stated he FORGOT he had a handle! (Yea Right!) I had him send me a PM so I could see for myself. Yes he has 9 posts but from NO ONE that can be verified. I told him if he can get one of the well known ladies from this board to see him them review them so I can verify with them then I would see him when ever he wants. He told me he proved that he had a handle, I told him the sergeant with Orange County can have a "Handle". I don't think I was asking for too much with all the shit that has been going on here as of late.

So can I hear what some of you "Trusted" members think about this one? Ladies if you want to know any more details call me or send me a PM.

ALWAYS Play Safe,

XO Ashley[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hobby407;1727552]I agree you need to know who is contacting you. I have no problem in ladies verifing who I have seen when I want to meet them for the first time. And just because they are on a site means verry little I feel unless there is a way to verifiy with other providers. As far as meeting you a year ago I can still remember details about all I have visited. Some are easier to remember.[/QUOTE]Honey I can remember something about every one of my "Friends" that come over to play. BUUUUUUUT there are some that just stand out in the front of my mind if you get my drift.

XOXOXOOXOX,

Ashely

[QUOTE=Dvfldv; 1727191]Clearly, this is no game. As a provider / professional You make the rules and Pay the consequences. WHO is going to bail you out OR pay your hospital bills? You! Remember that, there are psychopaths out there, Protect yourself, if your 6th sense kicks in, go with it. There will be other calls. Screw whether he was a "member", there's a time put yourself First. IMHO, you Did the right thing hon, good for you. Be Safe Always, ' Beam Me Up'.

Sincerely,

Dave[/QUOTE]I agree. This isn't a game and I will not treat it as such. This is my business, one in which I enjoy Oh So Very Much. I know there are LEO not only on this board but every single one that is on the internet. I am not willing to take the chance, I do not need nor do I want a free pair of silver plated bracelets. As far as the "Psychopaths" go They are another worry of mine and should be a worry from both provider and hobbist alike. If the person wanting to see me doen't like giving references to me then he can go on to the next one.

Play Safe To All,

XO Ashley

[QUOTE=Mystical0945; 1726965]Okay here's the deal. I recieve a text asking me if I was available. I asked who the person was, he stated he had seen me over a year ago in another city. He couldn't tell me anything that would make me remember him, so I asked if he was a member of DC, P411, another site, NR or USA. He replied NO. After me asking where he obtained my number he said he got it from USA and has no handle. Then he said he has a handle and has posted, stated he FORGOT he had a handle! (Yea Right!) I had him send me a PM so I could see for myself. Yes he has 9 posts but from NO ONE that can be verified. I told him if he can get one of the well known ladies from this board to see him them review them so I can verify with them then I would see him when ever he wants. He told me he proved that he had a handle, I told him the sergeant with Orange County can have a "Handle". I don't think I was asking for too much with all the shit that has been going on here as of late.

So can I hear what some of you "Trusted" members think about this one? Ladies if you want to know any more details call me or send me a PM.

ALWAYS Play Safe,

XO Ashley[/QUOTE]You are obviously smart to avoid him / her / leo. Havng a handle on this board means nothing anymore. Personaly I think the ladies should be more stringent than ever when it comes to screening. Hobbyists should pay extra attention to the post history of each person who is posting and question to themselves if the poster is legit.

The person that tried to see you, saying he forgot that he had a handle sounds so suspect. There are a lot of phony posters who read the forum or have a LEO file on a BP add and write posts knowing that the validity won't be challened if the provider doesn't post here. If a trusted provider hasn't verified them, I am skeptical of their posts.

[QUOTE=Mystical0945; 1727562]I agree. This isn't a game and I will not treat it as such. This is my business, one in which I enjoy Oh So Very Much. I know there are LEO not only on this board but every single one that is on the internet. I am not willing to take the chance, I do not need nor do I want a free pair of silver plated bracelets. As far as the "Psychopaths" go They are another worry of mine and should be a worry from both provider and hobbist alike. If the person wanting to see me doen't like giving references to me then he can go on to the next one.

Play Safe To All,

XO Ashley[/QUOTE]Hey Babe; it was so good to talk to you the other night as you god only knows where the time goes. Hope everything is getting better for you and when we do "Finally" get to see each other I was wondering if I could bring my special pair of silver plated bracelets to play with LOL. Call me sometime when you can. In the meantime stay safe and be well.

BobJones2011

[QUOTE=OldPumper; 1726052]This is the type of drama I tend to never get involved with at all.

But I must totally concur with you VS, because after reading the news reports and reading the many PM's of what went on.

I will take no sides because I do not have a dog in this fight, but I have fucked this gal a couple times then went about my way after the dream was over.

She was very nice and a really good fuck and I knew she really enjoyed herself from her moans and screams during our fucking sessions.

But I'm far from being a fool over young escort pussy or falling head over heels for escorts period, and I'm sure she moaned and screamed for every one of us who had the pleasure of fucking her.

There are a few mongers in this city that seem to forget the rules of this game (NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH OR CATCH FEELINGS FOR A WORKING GIRL)!

Some of you mongers out there help these gals out so much, till most of us could consider you PIMPS for as much time your investing in these gals.

The way I stay out of these type of situations is:

I never hang out with providers outside of a session.

I never loan providers money ever, I repeat ever! I pay for time of my session that it.

I never do personal favors for providers period.

I pay for my time enjoy myself and tip if she's really good then I'm on may way.

One monger even bragged about loaning a couple providers money an not getting it back.

Remember these gals are in a position to turn enough dates to generate hundreds of dollars a day, so why would you really need to loan cash to them.

Some mongers end up getting fucked over in a major way because he may be trying to have a girlfriend type relationship with a working girl and that's always going to turn out bad no matter who you are.

You can't give and escort young or old keys to your home and vehicle, access to your bank accounts and expect her to never end up fucking you over at some point.

The trick to success in this hobby without bringing drama to your life is to follow these three steps: Pay, fuck, then be on your way.

Anything more would surely end up causing you more trouble then it's worth in the end. Remember you can never save these gals so stop wasting your time out there.

OP[/QUOTE]I consider it lesson learned. But you are right OP and VS. I wasnt strong enough to see the light, but for now on, no more mr. Niceguy, instead, Mr. Asshole I don't give a damn whats wrong with your life, now get on your knees and blow me.