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[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;2278783]The thing that will ultimately drive me away from the hobby is the fear of getting caught in some fashion, whether it's LE, someone spotting my car, or not being able to explain a black eye because I encountered a providers crazy boyfriend. I've gone a long time undetected, but no winning streak lasts forever.[/QUOTE]I am with you. My first few times I was ultra cautious. Now being more well versed, I seem to take things for granted and worry I might slip up. I don't think LE risk is the biggest risk, it is the little things that tend to slip our minds. Two weeks ago I had an appt and remember doing some LK with the SP. Afterwards I head home, greet the wife and kiss her. As I pull away from the kiss, I think "oh shit what if there's some lipstick residue from earlier? Fortunately, there was none. I was at a well known SP apt today with street parking and there's was an occupied car in front of me. It was gone when I was done. Now this SP had an email issue before with someone asking for money. Now I am thinking this SP might have someone running my plates to try to blackmail. I am sure I am just being paranoid.

My other concerns are the crazy boyfriend thing or some random act (car accident, car broken into) and having to explain being in that part of town at that time of day, also my car or me being spotted at an incall location. I think I should quit going out batting 1000.

One other risk is bringing home some creepy crawlies and having to explain that. Anyone here gone thru that?

[QUOTE=Ynotrutony;2279317]Del. Dawn (who moved away) is posting on Backpage. I always wanted to visit before her departure but could never arrange. Is she truly back, or is this someone attempting to lure with photos. Wouldn't be the first time someone tried that.[/QUOTE]Yes she is back. I had my first visit with her two weeks ago. Super hot but does have a lot of tats and piercings.

[QUOTE=Tuffy12;2279117]Ultimately, the question is whether you will be driven away by the fear before you get caught.[/QUOTE]So are you saying it is not if you get caught but when as in it will eventually happen?

[QUOTE=Mbgbe696;2279857]Talking to several providers, it's been really slow. I think mostly it's just a slow time and they are trying to pay bills.[/QUOTE]I have also been contacted and it was from someone I have never seen. I guess she got my info from the ISO thread. It was also for an east side of location which seems to LE infested right now.

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[QUOTE=DavidNgrk;2280692]So are you saying it is not if you get caught but when as in it will eventually happen?[/QUOTE]Maybe we ought to have a way to clean every trace. A guide to wipe everything.

[QUOTE=DavidNgrk;2280689]I am with you. My first few times I was ultra cautious. Now being more well versed, I seem to take things for granted and worry I might slip up. I don't think LE risk is the biggest risk, it is the little things that tend to slip our minds. Two weeks ago I had an appt and remember doing some LK with the SP. Afterwards I head home, greet the wife and kiss her. As I pull away from the kiss, I think "oh shit what if there's some lipstick residue from earlier? Fortunately, there was none. I was at a well known SP apt today with street parking and there's was an occupied car in front of me. It was gone when I was done. Now this SP had an email issue before with someone asking for money. Now I am thinking this SP might have someone running my plates to try to blackmail. I am sure I am just being paranoid.

My other concerns are the crazy boyfriend thing or some random act (car accident, car broken into) and having to explain being in that part of town at that time of day, also my car or me being spotted at an incall location. I think I should quit going out batting 1000.

One other risk is bringing home some creepy crawlies and having to explain that. Anyone here gone thru that?[/QUOTE]I have to think if you have any kind of relationship at all with a significant other, it's hard not to arouse suspicion eventually. As far as being caught by LEO, as paranoid as I am, and probably rightly so, it's still a relatively low probability for guys.

Having an accident or breakdown in the wrong part of town is a bigger and more likely fear. I did recently lose my keys, which was a bit of a panic attack, but were just lost deep in a pocket. My closest call was a provider who I somehow allowed to lead me to a spot where I got stuck in the mud on the way out. Or another case where I got stuck in the mud because the entrance to the apartment was blocked. Did manage to escape each time and get a quick car wash.

Then there was getting robbed at knife point. Fortunately, I hadn't brought my wallet in, because I was wary. Strangely, that wasn't as frightening as getting stuck in the mud.

I have thought of concealed carry, but, honestly I don't want to be explaining to the cops why I had to shoot someone, and I've never quite thought through exactly how I'm supposed to safely stash the gun while doing the deed.

It is all enough to make a prudent man think of quitting.

[QUOTE=Lugnutz;2280878]I have to think if you have any kind of relationship at all with a significant other, it's hard not to arouse suspicion eventually. As far as being caught by LEO, as paranoid as I am, and probably rightly so, it's still a relatively low probability for guys.

Having an accident or breakdown in the wrong part of town is a bigger and more likely fear. I did recently lose my keys, which was a bit of a panic attack, but were just lost deep in a pocket. My closest call was a provider who I somehow allowed to lead me to a spot where I got stuck in the mud on the way out. Or another case where I got stuck in the mud because the entrance to the apartment was blocked. Did manage to escape each time and get a quick car wash.

Then there was getting robbed at knife point. Fortunately, I hadn't brought my wallet in, because I was wary. Strangely, that wasn't as frightening as getting stuck in the mud.
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I have thought of concealed carry, but, honestly I don't want to be explaining to the cops why I had to shoot someone, and I've never quite thought through exactly how I'm supposed to safely stash the gun while doing the deed.

It is all enough to make a prudent man think of quitting.[/QUOTE]I've walked in packing on more than one occasion. I simply tell the girl your neighborhood looks like hell or I didn't like the look of the people hanging outside and I have my gun. If that bothers you I will leave. No one ever kicked me out and I just set it by the bed or in a position where some one coming through the door won't get to it before I can. Hell, did you ever go see Susan? Park at Kroger and then walk your ass a couple blocks down the street Ina shit part of town? I'd rather explain why some asshole has several holes in them than try to make it to the hospital with holes in me. I've never shot anyone that didn't deserve it & I don't plan on it. If you try to rob me, well you kinda deserve it.

Like lice and bedbugs?

Yes an yes.

Also known others whov had to deal with same. These notels girls use are hardly sanitary. The sheets an pillow cases (cumcovers) don't get changed like they should an like we would like them to.

[QUOTE=DavidNgrk;2280689]I am with you. My first few times I was ultra cautious. Now being more well versed, I seem to take things for granted and worry I might slip up. I don't think LE risk is the biggest risk, it is the little things that tend to slip our minds. Two weeks ago I had an appt and remember doing some LK with the SP. Afterwards I head home, greet the wife and kiss her. As I pull away from the kiss, I think "oh shit what if there's some lipstick residue from earlier? Fortunately, there was none. I was at a well known SP apt today with street parking and there's was an occupied car in front of me. It was gone when I was done. Now this SP had an email issue before with someone asking for money. Now I am thinking this SP might have someone running my plates to try to blackmail. I am sure I am just being paranoid.

My other concerns are the crazy boyfriend thing or some random act (car accident, car broken into) and having to explain being in that part of town at that time of day, also my car or me being spotted at an incall location. I think I should quit going out batting 1000.

One other risk is bringing home some creepy crawlies and having to explain that. Anyone here gone thru that?[/QUOTE]

Happy Thanksgiving ladies and gentlemen! I am off enjoying my holiday and I hope everyone else is doing the same. I am thankful for so many things this year! One of the biggest is loving myself and who I am today. Anyone else thankful? See you all on Monday morning! Have a great Thanksgiving! Go Cowboys!

Xoxo,

Stormy.

[QUOTE=Caligulaxxx;2281235]Like lice and bedbugs?

Yes an yes.

Also known others whov had to deal with same. These notels girls use are hardly sanitary. The sheets an pillow cases (cumcovers) don't get changed like they should an like we would like them to.[/QUOTE]I think all of us should carry a garbage bag (or some plastic bag) to put our clothes in and don't leave it on the floor. Hang it on a hook or something. A Cleveland area monger mentioned he does this whenever he goes to see any provider.

I also think we should start being very open about women who are unsanitary. I know people's perception of cleanliness and hygiene differ, and A2 will probably not allow for rating girls based on their cleanliness.

[blue]Why wouldn't I allow that? If a chick doesn't have proper hygiene I sure as hell would want to know that before I went and made boom boom with her. It's a legitimate part of a review.

Of course, as always, there will be a few douchebags that will abuse it, but overall it's important info.

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[QUOTE=Stormyoneonly;2281604]Happy Thanksgiving ladies and gentlemen! I am off enjoying my holiday and I hope everyone else is doing the same. I am thankful for so many things this year! One of the biggest is loving myself and who I am today. Anyone else thankful? See you all on Monday morning! Have a great Thanksgiving! Go Cowboys!

Xoxo,

Stormy.[/QUOTE]Happy thanksgiving to all to and I to am thankful for everything I have today too.

I am right with you stormy, Go Cowboys. Big Game today. Excited!

I would like to wish all the providers & mongers a very happy Thanksgiving. I am blessed for my wonderful wife children and grandchildren who all love and put up with this sometimes grumpy old man. My life personally has had a lot of ups and downs thankfully its been on an up and again I'm thankful for that. So girls guys keep on keeping on and have a happy Thanksgiving. HL29.

And to Jackson and A2 who do their best to keep the piece / peace LOL and to Steve and even Buddah who do their best to provide good psy for the board. Eat well all and enjoy the day For those who have little on this day may some gents help you and yours set a table for those you love. PT.

Chele could use help as a single mom and a son who suffers from seizures. We are all lucky to have family and food. Not sure what she has this Thanksgiving but do know any act of kindness would not go unappreciated. Have a happy holiday again everyone Tonbug knows also how to get a hold of her as do others. Thanks for reading and God Bless PT.