"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=CuriousInquir;4449267]Knowsomeone is a scammer in my opinion. Her English is a little off, and she wanted no part of me sending an Uber for her after saying all she needed for us to meet for drinks was transportation expenses. She instead wants $200 in advance by PayPal. When I told her we could try to find a date and time to meet late next week, she asked for the money now.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/529b612c-a0c9-4be8-a308-fac2865a51bf[/URL][/QUOTE]With all due respect, read your paragraph again. The writing is on the wall. She is a scammer.

Anyone have any idea what this means? As best I can tell, it's either for women who don't want you to know where they are or it's for the SA bots. I'm getting some unsolicited email from someone in Georgia, Georgia. I've refined my search over and over and it keeps coming up somewhere around Eastman, Ga. She's a new user, Premium Member and College Verified. Her profile has a couple of misspelled words but is mostly intelligent.

My 2 cents worth, as a new SA member you can send out 10 emails. The girls can respond, but you can only read the responses if you pay. After the first 10 you send, you must pay. The first 10 messages are just bait to get you interested.

Don't try hide to an email or social media account in your email, SA will find it and edit your email to something very generic before it goes through to the girl.

My advice is to chum the water first by searching a location and group of girls that interest you. Then view their profiles. The ones who are hungry will either view your profile in return, send you a message or make you a Favorite. Do that for a week or two before you use the Android app to sign up for a 10 day membership, it's only $25 instead of $90 on the web site. Then message the girls who have shown an interest and move them quickly to some other form of messaging away from SA. As soon as your temporary SA membership runs out, you won't be able to contact them on SA, but you will have them on some other form of messaging.

Never discuss any arrangement details on the SA messenger. If the girl won't move over to another message system, drop her.

I have NEVER had a meeting through AFF. NEVER. To me, it's a total waste of time and money.

[QUOTE=YeOldHornDawg;4450454]Ok, bear with me, my first time trying these sugar baby sites and I have a couple (probably blindingly obvious) questions:

On Seeking Arrangements, do you have to upgrade to a premium membership to have your emails read and responded to? I didn't see that explicitly stated only implied. I've sent multiple messages with no problem but lack of response now makes me wonder. Also, do you have to pay by credit card or will they accept prepaid cards or gift cards?

Trying adult friend finder as well but so far I get the impression that it's a sausage fest and the women on there are already getting buried by messages.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4450504]My 2 cents worth, as a new SA member you can send out 10 emails. The girls can respond, but you can only read the responses if you pay. After the first 10 you send, you must pay. The first 10 messages are just bait to get you interested.

Don't try hide to an email or social media account in your email, SA will find it and edit your email to something very generic before it goes through to the girl.

My advice is to chum the water first by searching a location and group of girls that interest you. Then view their profiles. The ones who are hungry will either view your profile in return, send you a message or make you a Favorite. Do that for a week or two before you use the Android app to sign up for a 10 day membership, it's only $25 instead of $90 on the web site. Then message the girls who have shown an interest and move them quickly to some other form of messaging away from SA. As soon as your temporary SA membership runs out, you won't be able to contact them on SA, but you will have them on some other form of messaging.

Never discuss any arrangement details on the SA messenger. If the girl won't move over to another message system, drop her.

I have NEVER had a meeting through AFF. NEVER. To me, it's a total waste of time and money.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately, I think you're right about AFF, wasted a $50 Home Depot gift card for a two month membership. There's one possibility with a lady in Acworth that I'm trying to develop but otherwise it's been only women trying to get me to pay for camming on their personal websites and one gay dude that kept IMing me after I told him I wasn't interested. A definite don't recommend.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4450493]Anyone have any idea what this means? As best I can tell, it's either for women who don't want you to know where they are or it's for the SA bots. I'm getting some unsolicited email from someone in Georgia, Georgia. I've refined my search over and over and it keeps coming up somewhere around Eastman, Ga. She's a new user, Premium Member and College Verified. Her profile has a couple of misspelled words but is mostly intelligent.[/QUOTE]I've seen those and just ignored them. Even if they are real who knows where they are. Also I ignore profiles that say "I'm attending university" as that person isn't from the USA.

[QUOTE=Lono73;4447594]Has anyone seen her? I need to update my SA subscription so I can get contact info but until then I'd TOFT if anyone has her contact info. I'm pretty sure she is a pro.



[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/124c7fb4-188b-4e3c-8279-006c514cd664[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her a couple of weeks ago. Just a meet and greet so to speak. Picked her up from near her apartment and went for a ride. Nice conversation, pretty straight forward, possible pro or, at least very experienced in this area. I texted her the next day and twice more after that on different days but she never responded.

Moving on.

[QUOTE=StayActive;4450487]With all due respect, read your paragraph again. The writing is on the wall. She is a scammer.[/QUOTE]Um, read my first sentence again. I said that I believe she's a scammer. The rest of the paragraph explains why for the benefit of those who may want to know why I think so.

[QUOTE=SouthsideStan;4450748]I met her a couple of weeks ago. Just a meet and greet so to speak. Picked her up from near her apartment and went for a ride. Nice conversation, pretty straight forward, possible pro or, at least very experienced in this area. I texted her the next day and twice more after that on different days but she never responded.

Moving on.[/QUOTE]I contacted her on the site and she immediately went to text. She had a quote of $150 per meet and $250 for her and her friend. We set up a time for a little threesome fun and when I texted back, crickets! Never responded again.

[QUOTE=CuriousInquir;4450980]Um, read my first sentence again. I said that I believe she's a scammer. The rest of the paragraph explains why for the benefit of those who may want to know why I think so.[/QUOTE]Cool. Sorry,thought you were asking.

[QUOTE=Oily123;4443466]Anyone tried the Secret Benefits website?

It pops up occasionally when I sign in to this site.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have both acounts, Seeking is much better, Secret Benefits is full of scam.

Any info is appreciated -.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dc43b5d7-dedf-42b1-9293-ed41685a63e8[/URL]

She messaged me and I responded. Her next text was can I come see her so she could ride my d!ck at 3 pm. LOL.

I was busy. . . So no. I text her later with the number she left and she said 3 pm was the only time I could come. Haha.

Just a weird vibe. Idk. Oh and this was today. LOL.

[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;4452088]Any info is appreciated -.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dc43b5d7-dedf-42b1-9293-ed41685a63e8[/URL][/QUOTE]

Recently saw Candaxxx from SA great tight body perfect and pretty nipples and up for anything. She is probably late 40's but she is very tight and fun behind closed doors. Senior members message me for digits. Regular members can message me with information on a fun lady and I will consider sharing digits with you.

[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;4452088]Any info is appreciated -.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dc43b5d7-dedf-42b1-9293-ed41685a63e8[/URL][/QUOTE]Avoid money hustler, she will say to you there is no rules but once there she will cut you time with any excuses and she has rules since she has a bf ,she turn off the lights, she is bigger and she has some gut!

[QUOTE=ElPerron;4452262]Avoid money hustler, she will say to you there is no rules but once there she will cut you time with any excuses and she has rules since she has a bf ,she turn off the lights, she is bigger and she has some gut![/QUOTE]Ah, I think I found the post:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=4344286&viewfull=1#post4344286[/URL]

Thanks for the heads up ElPerron and Roddee. Will definitely avoid.